"Is there no way? Isn't it controllable? Judging from my investigation, puppy love will delay studies, distract teenagers' energy, and can also lead to bad phenomena such as fighting and alcoholism." Zhang Erwen of "Liaoyang Daily" tweeted
Glasses, asked seriously and thoughtfully.
"Therefore, our working methods should be more particular. It has been more than 50 years since the founding of the People's Republic of China. Our country has changed rapidly and its economic base has continued to rise rapidly. This has made our superstructure, such as the methods and methods to deal with the problem of puppy love, always
We are faced with the problem of not keeping up with the requirements of the times. This requires our educators to conduct regular summaries and studies to derive new methods to adapt to the times." Wang Ai shook his head and pointed to Jiangshan: "Actually,
It's difficult, after all, it's the combination of internal and external, the outbreak of two contradictions. But it's easy to say. I just told the story of Xiao Xu and I. To be honest, there must be a certain reason why we can become such good friends today.
It's based on feelings. We both like each other and even like each other, but why are we still close friends instead of boyfriend and girlfriend?"
Zhang Erwen squinted his eyes and suddenly said: "Busy!"
Wang Ai slapped his thigh and pointed at Zhang Erwen: "As expected of my senior brother, you can tell the truth as soon as you say it. As I said just now, the problem of puppy love cannot be suppressed, but it will be over if you don't suppress it. Don't you know how to guide it? Why did Dayu succeed in controlling floods?
, why did his father fail? His father just built dams and blocked everywhere, while Dayu dredged the rivers. These are two management methods facing the same problem, and the results are immediate, right?"
The reporter from Xinhua News Agency frowned and recalled: "I have seen reports on the control of puppy love in some European countries..."
Wang Ai shook his head repeatedly: "No, no, no, don't look at Europe for everything. They don't control it well, especially the Nordic countries. It's called a mess. This issue still needs to be viewed in the context of the social background. The population production of European countries
It has been a persistent problem for many years, so they say it is control rather than indulgence. The entire society, from politics to culture to economy, is encouraging population production. For example, if a girl becomes pregnant out of wedlock, how should we deal with it? Abolish it, yes
Wrong? How do they deal with it? After giving birth to others, is it right to hand it over to others for foster care? In fact, this has nothing to do with human rights or women's rights. It is just a shortage of people. Otherwise, West Germany would not have imported workers from Turkey after World War II, right? So
We can see how others do many things, but when we learn from them, we must be more careful. The doctrine is not just used, but mainly to help us broaden our minds and use it. Didn't we learn revolution from the Soviet Union?
Is there a process of Sinicization? In the end, wasn’t it possible that the rural areas led by Mao Zedong defeated the Soviet Union’s idea of attacking big cities in practice? It’s the same today. China is so big and the situation is so special.
Don’t go to the West to get menstruation and just recite it when you come back. It will cost you a lot, and you may even be scolded for decades. For example, medical reform..."
As soon as Wang Ai said this, Xu Qinglian secretly pinched her and she suddenly stopped talking.
The people who were enjoying themselves all noticed the little movements of the two people and smiled, which made Xu Qinglian blush a little.
The Xinhua News Agency reporter smiled and nodded: "Dr. Wang, let's not expand on this, let's talk about puppy love."
"Okay, let's come back to talk about puppy love." Wang Ai nodded: "This issue is actually quite important. Teenagers are the future of the country. This period is also a critical period for learning. Even practicing ball is also a critical period for long ball.
It’s not too late to concentrate on it, so naturally there should be as little interference as possible, especially for puppy love, a phenomenon with a very low success rate. I noticed that some domestic experts also mentioned guidance, but the question is how to guide. Our current guide is the teacher
The principal kept saying on the stage that this is actually not called guidance, but called propaganda. Judging from the actual results, it is actually not very good. It is better to just stick to it and the effect is better."
"Then how to do it specifically? What my senior brother just said is good, busy!" Wang Ai shook his head: "This is very critical. Think about the predecessors in the Revolutionary War era, why didn't this kind of thing happen much? Busy and stressful.
As far as I know, there are very few people who engage in sexual harassment among our 85 National Youth League members. Why? There are also other sports. Are there any women who engage in sexual harassment? Yes, but very few. Why? It’s not all because of strict control.
Or it's because they are too busy. You must know that athletes secrete sex hormones several times more than ordinary people, and their impulses towards the opposite sex are also stronger. These can be controlled, so the characteristic of being busy is the best way to guide them. You don't have the leisure to hook up.
Female classmate? I give you homework and ask you to finish it before nine o'clock every night. Do you still have time to talk about other things? Don't you have the energy to bother others after school? I give you physical education class. You are tired.
You can't even get on your bicycle, do you still have the leisure to do so?"
The reporters nodded silently and lowered their heads to record. Wang Ai continued: "To put it bluntly, some bad phenomena in society, such as pornography, gambling and drug abuse, are essentially caused by people being too busy. When they are busy, there will be no news.
This is nonsense. Think about the hooligan crime in the early 1980s, that is, Chi Zhiqiang and his gang. At that time, who was the most susceptible group? Is it more educated people or workers? Why? It's not because of educated people
The work is easy, and do you have much free time? Workers are so busy all day long, how can they have time and energy to talk about this? I have practiced football at the High School Affiliated to the Renmin University for two years, and I have a certain understanding of their learning situation. I cannot say that there are no partners in the High School Affiliated to the People's Congress.
But very few, why? It’s because you are busy, have high academic pressure, have full schedules, good teachers, students are very interested in class, and have a lot of homework after class, which naturally reduces the mental and physical energy to talk nonsense. Naturally, this phenomenon will
not enough."
"But there is only one attached high school." Zhang Erwen said coldly.
"But education can be stressful. If you have the conditions, you can study in the attached middle school, improve the teaching level of teachers, make the teaching more attractive, and increase the number of homework. If you don't have the conditions, you can also run various interest classes, clubs, sports classes, and calligraphy classes.
, singing class. In short, filling up the time of teenagers and reducing the space for them to empty their minds and ponder will reduce the occurrence of puppy love." Wang Ai retorted two sentences and then said calmly: "But we must admit that we must do it.
It is impossible to fully control it without any incidents, and I do not recommend that schools punish students who fall in love early. Strictly speaking, in most cases, as people with incomplete behavioral capacity, the school has a greater responsibility. You have not taught
Okay, you didn’t arrange it well, you have no level. You can’t nail a student to the pillar of shame because of puppy love. This is killing the chicken to scare the monkey. The problem is that the chicken itself is not wrong, it is just based on physiological instincts, and the breeder only
