Chapter Three Hundred and Ninety-ninth: Forgive People Wherever They Are Not Forgiving (Part 2)
This is not just Wang Ai's personal acumen. Relatives, friends, and leaders have reminded him on different occasions. Among them, Yuan Weimin talked to him after the Olympics and reminded him to pay attention to team unity. Yan Shiduo also reminded Wang Ai to pay attention.
interpersonal relationships.
Even if the leaders speak so clearly, if Wang Ai still hasn't woken up, there is still Ai Xiaoqing. When Wang Ai participated in the World Cup in Korea and Japan, he was unruly, and Ai Xiaoqing flew from Beijing in person, dragging Wang Ai's
Er Er apologized to the leaders one by one, leaving a deep impression on Wang Ai.
This is the so-called teaching by words and deeds. Ai Xiaoqing, the boss of a big company, apologized to some Football Association cadres for a trivial matter. How could Wang Ai not be touched? Wang Ai is not good at dealing with interpersonal relationships, and he hates making false promises.
Ba Nao, at least on the surface it can still be made.
The Football Association has also been paying attention to this issue for a long time. It not only reminded Wang Ai to restrain his words, but also paid attention to his actions. Even head coach Ali Hahn paid great attention to trying not to highlight Wang Ai's status in training and management.
In publicity, we also emphasize the overall contribution of the team, and we also pay attention to adjustments in the distribution of bonuses and honors. Only the highest honor of "Top Ten Athletes" cannot be adjusted. If you let others take it, the fans will not be convinced.
In the past, Wang Ai was just an ordinary player. There was no need to consider such important matters of team unity, as long as he played well. But as Wang Ai's status became higher and higher, these problems inevitably became his responsibility and became his responsibility.
It is an obligation to shoulder Chinese football.
The team collectively returned to Beijing and disbanded. After greeting tens of thousands of enthusiastic fans at the airport and signing autographs for half an hour, Wang Ai planned to go home to rest for a day and return to Spain tomorrow on the same plane as Lao Hao and Datou. But this
At that time, the leader arranged a new task: Xinhua News Agency wanted to interview him.
There is no way to avoid this. If the Chinese National News Agency interviews you, you will die if you don’t go! If you are trying to show off your power in front of Xinhua News Agency, do you have someone else who has a big power? They are the ones who deal the cards!
Faced with the news agency representing the country and the media that twice awarded Wang Ai the top ten athletes, Wang Ai quickly changed his schedule after receiving the news. He hurriedly had lunch at home and rushed to No. 57 Xuanwumen West Street early, behaving well.
Waiting in line.
The more beautiful the scenery is and the bright moon is, the more we should hide our strength and bide our time; the more prosperous the spring breeze is, the more we should be sick.
When outsiders think you will be arrogant and dismissive, you should be more honest and low-key to avoid becoming a disgusting object. The changes in emotions such as envy, jealousy, and hatred are very subtle. Maybe you were in the spotlight just a moment ago.
If you worship someone, you will be disliked by others without realizing it. For example, even Wang Ai knows that Liu Xiang, who just won China's first sprint gold medal last year, is disliked by many people. But speaking of it, you don't
What do you like about him? He is just a sprinter with little education, who has been trained since childhood. Liu Xiang has not done anything directly annoying, but there are people who don't like him, even if they can't say it with their mouths, they feel right mentally.
He didn't quite accept it. It would be fine if his competitors didn't like him. The problem is that many ordinary people didn't like him very much either, which would be terrible. Liu Xiang's commercial value shrank significantly in the later period, which had a lot to do with this subtle psychology.
Big relationship.
This question actually involves the laws of communication studies, which have not yet been officially included in university majors, and also involves the content of a more profound interdisciplinary subject starting from philosophy and social psychology: social psychology. It just so happens that Wang Ai is in this regard
He is a professional, so Wang Ai has controlled his image very strictly over the years, which is far from the typical athlete's style of attacking everywhere after becoming famous.
For example, in recent years, apart from "activities" in the field of football, I have rarely been involved in other fields. I have never participated in variety shows, movies and TV shows, parties, book signings, and even the activities of the Philosophical Society.
, thereby maintaining an overall public image of professional players. Media interviews are also strictly controlled within the scope of four media. These four include two of China's largest official media. They are cautious in their words and do not care about the so-called
The star halo will allow Wang Ai to appear in front of the public with a true image of the boy next door and the boy next door. If the star halo is removed, of course the danger will also be removed. The other two are Wang Ai's hometown media, so naturally
I won’t dig a hole for Wang Ai.
People are not as good as a thousand days, and flowers are not as good as a hundred days. Ups and downs are the normal rules. Wang Ai has been popular in China for three years. Instead of letting people push him down, it is better to take a step back and cater to the operation of this law.
The Asian Footballer of 2003 and the top ten Chinese athletes were all Bai Guanghai, not him. This is a normal ups and downs.
This time when he came to Xinhua News Agency, Wang Ai did not come by himself. After communicating with the other party, he roped in Hao Haidong and Li Weifeng, who were also preparing to rest at Wang Ai's house for a day. Although the Xinhua News Agency Sports Department was a little surprised, they did not refuse. After all, they were both
A figure in the limelight.
After waiting for ten minutes, the director of the sports department of Xinhua News Agency came in person. The two sides greeted each other politely and chatted for a while. For Wang Ai, Hao Haidong, and Li Weifeng, the three absolute main players of the national team, and Deportivo, a six-time champion player, especially
The three people showed such a humble attitude. The leader of Xinhua News Agency said nothing, but he was satisfied in his heart. After all, it is not uncommon for football stars to behave recklessly these days. If the three people are uncharacteristic, no one will dislike it. Otherwise, they would not be able to do sports.
The minister personally came out to receive him.
After the pleasantries, we chatted casually for a while, and the atmosphere became lively before the formal interview began.
The original interview questions focused on the prospects of qualifying for this World Cup, but after Hao Haidong and Li Weifeng became the interview subjects, the topic inevitably expanded a bit. The first three people who were brought up were the three, especially the latter two, who were in Deportivo in Spain.
Runha's adaptation problem to this European champion team.
Hao, who has been abroad and personally experienced the intensity and level of training in Deportivo La Coruna, as well as the competition and technical level of La Liga, was more humble this time, but his cannon style did not change. When he came up, he said bluntly: Chinese football is at least as far away from Spanish football as
There is a gap of twenty years. When Wang Ai and Li Weifeng were silent, he added: "This time gap means that we cannot catch up with each other within twenty years. It will require at least the persistent efforts of two generations of football players."
Next, Li Weifeng also expressed a similar view. He said: "In Spain and before in the UK, our training is very detailed. Any minor problems will be discovered and then used for professional reinforcement. I have improved a lot after studying abroad twice.
