Chapter 1648 A woman's marriage is defined as a woman's second reincarnation
Qin Zimo didn't listen to her at all. He shook his head and refused several times: "Mom, I know what to do. Yin'er is my wife and I will not divorce her. Don't say she doesn't plan to have children.
, even if she says she wants to give birth, I won’t let her give birth.”
"I can't just watch her be in danger. I can't, so you can't either."
After saying that, he returned to the dinner table.
Qin's mother also sat back, and the family sat together again, without speaking for a long time.
Everyone just immersed themselves in eating without saying a word.
Qin's mother and Qin's father no longer looked happy at the beginning, with suppressed anger on their faces.
Mother Qin, who had been silent for a long time, finally couldn't help but speak: "Yin'er, I know that the relationship between you is very deep, and I can't get involved at all."
If she could intervene, she would definitely let Qin Zimo and Yin Yin'er divorce, but there was no way, she couldn't intervene, Qin Zimo would not listen to her at all.
"So, I want to ask you to give birth to a child for our Qin family! Okay? I know that according to your current age, it is a bit dangerous. But it doesn't matter. We, the Qin family, will definitely use all our connections to find the best solution.
A good doctor will take you to the best hospital, even if it’s abroad!”
"We must ensure your safety, okay? Just give birth to a child for Zimo."
She looked sincerely at Yin Yin'er in front of her, clasping her hands together as if praying.
Yin Yin'er was stunned for a moment, clenched the chopsticks in her hands tightly, and didn't say anything for a long time.
Qin Zimo on the side couldn't stand it anymore, "Mom, why are you still talking about this topic! This topic has been skipped! Stop talking about it, I just made it very clear. Yin'er and I have already planned not to have children, so
, you should put all your hopes on Mu Ya."
Gu Manman, who had been sitting in the chair without speaking for a long time, could no longer hold back her words.
"Auntie, let me ask you, if you were Yin'er at this time, would you choose to risk your life to give birth to a child? Or would you choose yourself and not have a child?"
Qin's mother paused for a moment, looking a little hesitant. She seemed to be very entangled as she hesitated to speak.
She gritted her teeth: "Since you are married and have a husband, it is a woman's obligation to have children. If a woman cannot have children, then why should she get married? Isn't that harmful to people?"
She was almost roundabout in accusing Yin'er of causing harm to others, and her older generation's ideological outlook was that once a woman gets married, she must bear children for the man.
If you cannot give birth to a child for a man, it is a serious crime, and it is a particularly serious crime.
Hearing her remarks, Gu Manman even had a sarcastic smile on her lips: "Auntie, you are wrong. Women marry because they want to pursue their own happiness, because they marry the man they love. Not for
Rush to have children and get married."
"If a woman can't have children, she can't marry? If she can't have children, she's causing harm to others? Who did you listen to? Who said that it's a woman's duty to have children?"
Gu Manman stood up: "After a woman gives birth to a child, she becomes a full-time housewife and takes care of the children at home. You will say that this woman does not work, has no financial resources, is not independent, and can only do housework, which is useless. Since women do everything for their families and children.
If sacrifice is still being discussed, then why should we make this sacrifice?"
"Women should live for themselves, not for men, let alone to satisfy the demands of men's elders!"
Women are a relatively controversial existence in today's social group.
Everyone in this world seems to have an unspeakable misunderstanding of women.
As long as a woman is beautiful, they will say that she must have had plastic surgery to be so beautiful.
If a woman has bought a house and a car at a young age, they will say that she has a godfather behind her buying a house and selling a car at such a young age! I wonder how many men are educating her outside! I don’t know.
How much soy milk did you eat?
Or to put it another way, if a woman takes care of her family, quits her job, takes care of her children, does housework, cooks at home, and serves her husband, she will lose all her financial ability.
They have no financial means and have given up all their favorite things, including bags, cosmetics, beautiful clothes, and high heels, and are even completely incompatible with their previous lives.
Gradually, taking care of the children and doing housework at home took up most of the time, and I didn’t even have time to myself, let alone dress myself up. In the end, I became older and older, very different from before. And I had to do it all the time.
Venting after my husband came back from a job that was not going well for him.
Even if the husband later sees that his wife is becoming less and less beautiful than before, and her figure is out of shape due to having children, he may change his mind.
Women who have no financial ability can only ask their husbands for money when they don’t have enough money. Once a woman asks her husband for money, she is giving up her most important self-esteem, but she often gets complaints and suspicious inquiries from men.
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"Didn't I give you money every month? Why did I spend it all so quickly? Don't you know how hard it is for me to make money outside? How can you be so comfortable? You stay at home every day and don't make any money..."
But what men don't know is that women haven't bought themselves a new piece of clothing throughout the year, and all the money they receive every month is spent on their children.
It seems that raising a child costs nothing as long as it is fed, but the cost of milk powder and baby supplies is not a small amount of money.
Of course, this does not represent all situations, but it is definitely the majority of situations.
There are also women who do not choose the above life. They choose to stick to their jobs, have their own income, be independent, and have the right to speak at home.
But people often complain about not caring about home, because they know they are busy outside.
They don’t even have time to take care of their children, and men even complain that they can’t even get a hot meal when they get home.
Everything seems to indicate that women are controversial. No matter what women do, they will cause controversy. But men are different. They don't have to have children, and they don't have to worry about so much.
There is only one thing they want to do, and that is to make money.
Foreign people once said that they feel that domestic women are like superhuman beings.
They have to take care of the family and work at the same time. Since they earn money to support the family, they also have to take care of the children, and even do housework and cook for their husbands. This is something they cannot imagine.
Precisely because it is very controversial, a woman's marriage is defined as a woman's second reincarnation.