Once they dislike others, it is difficult for them to change their views.
Not only Ji Ruxue wanted to learn something, they also wanted to learn.
Bai Yunzhu knows that there is a saying that if you don't like others, it's because you don't have enough cultivation.
But this is bullshit.
Although it makes sense, it doesn't work at all.
Lin Feng continued: "We often encounter people or things that we don't like.
Especially people. When we meet such people, we may feel irritated, disgusted, or even angry.
But let’s think about it carefully, why do we dislike someone?”
"Maybe the other party's behavior or language is different from our own standards and requirements.
So we will set a limit for others. If you don't show up according to my limit, you will be displeasing to me."
"We think about this problem deeply. In fact, any person we see is not the real person, but a projection of our inner heart!"
"Therefore, when we meet someone we don't like, we should think about the problem from his perspective, so that we can get the real answer!"
When Lin Feng said this, he stopped.
Everyone nodded, thoughtfully.
This is indeed the case, why do they get angry and angry when they dislike people they dislike?
Because they are all standing in their own perspective.
If you look at it from another angle, it might be much better.
Lin Feng's few simple words reminded Ji Ruxue, but they were very important.
This really benefited her a lot.
Ji Qianjiu raised his glass and said with a smile: "Come on, little brother, you are right, I will toast you again!"
Lin Feng nodded, lifted a corner of the veil, and drank a glass of wine.
The two started drinking again.
Ji Qianjiu found that Lin Feng was no longer an ordinary person.
From his speech and behavior, it can be seen that Lin Feng is not that superficial.
No wonder Lin Feng was able to make the Chief Pavilion Master of the Golden Pavilion so angry that he spurted blood several times. Not to mention the Chief Pavilion Master of the Golden Pavilion, I was afraid that he himself would not be able to defeat Lin Feng if he faced Lin Feng.
This young man is very scary! Everyone continues to eat, drink and chat.
However, no one mentioned Lin Feng's master.
Lin Feng's master is not here, and Lin Feng doesn't take the initiative to be his master, so it's hard for them to mention it.
If Lin Feng is really a dandy, self-righteous, proud and indulgent.
There was no need for them to mention it at all, Lin Feng would proudly say it, thinking how great he was! If Lin Feng didn't mention it, if they mentioned it, Lin Feng would be wary.
On the contrary, it will cause bad effects.
It may seem as simple as eating, chatting, and drinking, but in fact there is a lot of knowledge involved.
Not long after, Ji Qianjiu looked at Ji Bingxue again.
Before Ji Qianjiu spoke, Ji Bingxue raised her glass and stood up.
Ji Bingxue said to Lin Feng sincerely: "Master Feng, I didn't handle many things properly before, which caused a lot of harm to you.
I'm here to apologize to you. I punished myself with three cups of wine and asked Mr. Feng to forgive me!"
She knew that her grandfather would definitely want her to apologize to Lin Feng.
Then ask Lin Feng some questions and learn from Lin Feng.
It's better to let her stand up on her own.
How embarrassing would it be after her grandfather talked about it?
"It's okay, it's okay. Don't take this matter to heart. In fact, I did something wrong at the time!"
Lin Feng quickly said a few words.
This kind of occasion doesn't mean much to him.
But there's nothing I can do, I'm afraid there are still many people watching outside.
He had to continue here, eating and drinking and spending some time.
Then, it's better to stay here.
In fact, many people want to kill people and seize treasures, which is just three minutes of heat.
In addition, there is the threat of the hunchbacked old man he pretends to be.
As long as it takes a little longer, those people will no longer want to take action and will do whatever they have to do.
By then, the crisis will naturally resolve.
After punishing herself with three drinks, Ji Bingxue said directly: "Master Feng, I also want to ask you for advice and learn from it.
The world is dangerous. Basically, many people are plotting against others. I want to know how to avoid being plotted against by others."
This auction was full of calculations.
You plot against me, and I plot against you.
Only those who are truly cheating can scheme against others.
Lin Feng is the kind of person who is very powerful. He can scheme against anyone he wants.
It would also be good to learn from Lin Feng.
Lin Feng said with a smile: "This problem is difficult to answer. No matter how smart a person is, others will figure him out!"
"I'll just briefly talk about a few points. I hope it can provide you with some inspiration!"
“First, only by being careful can you check the details and see through but not tell.
If you can’t see clearly, you can’t be sincere, and if you can’t understand, you can pretend to be confused!”
"Second, when you get along with others, you must have a sense of scale. Don't get too close and reveal your privacy to avoid being hurt by villains!"
“Third, pay more attention to the people and things around you, try to take precautions before they happen, and nip the danger in the bud!”
"Fourth, don't take the initiative to interact with villains, but don't refuse to interact with them!"
“Fifth, don’t owe favors and don’t easily accept small favors from others.
What falls from the sky is never a pie, but a trap!"
"Sixth, the most important point is to have the courage to say no. When the other party makes particularly unreasonable requests, you have to be brave enough to say no!"
"I believe that as long as you master these six points, it will be difficult for others to plot against you!"
"good!!"
Ji Bingxue couldn't help but say something and clapped her hands.
At this moment, she really felt as if she had been conquered by Lin Feng.
This guy is really not superficial.
It's really different from what they imagined.
And Lin Feng is indeed more than just talking on paper.
Looking at what Lin Feng does, you can tell that Lin Feng is really cautious and walking on thin ice.
Until now, Lin Feng and others must have used pseudonyms. They don't know their real names.
And they didn't know the appearance of Lin Feng and others.
Although we talked for so long, we also talked about a lot of things and content.
But if you want to know the true identity and background of Lin Feng and others, you don't have the slightest clue.
Just like Lin Feng said, if you can't see clearly, you can't communicate with each other, and if you can't understand, you can pretend to be confused.
When dealing with others, you must have a sense of scale.
Ji Ruxue was even more shocked.
She finally understood why she was plotted by Lin Feng.
The main reason is that she dare not say no.
When Lin Feng made his first request, to hug her, she should have said no.
When it came to the second request, Lin Feng asked to hug and kiss her for a minute. She should have said no, but she didn't.
This means that her principles are not strong enough.
No matter how powerful you are as a person, even if you are sure of winning, you can never put aside the issue of principle easily.
If she couldn't say it at that time, she would never regret it for the rest of her life.
It's all because Lin Feng let her go, otherwise she wouldn't dare to imagine what the situation would be like now!