What should I do if my child is not paying attention, doesn't come home from school, and has a tendency to get into fights?
When he entered elementary school, Fuchen was completely a problem student.
She has learned to take the car to and from school by herself. But often the dust disappears only after her classmates have been in class all morning.
Compared with An An, An An has always been white, soft, cute and cute, and is often misunderstood as a girl. She looks like a cute little white rabbit.
Reflecting the floating dust, she is like an aggressive war chicken. If she does not move for a day, it seems that her life has been in vain. Every second counts!
There was often no one around after school, and when Axi looked for him, Fuchen was either playing ball or hitting someone.
The teacher called for a home visit and asked Ashido to pay attention to Fuchen, implicitly hinting that Fuchen might need to see a psychiatrist because she couldn't calm down.
Axi had a headache, and she suppressed her competitive spirit to choose a hobby class, which would definitely deprive her of the energy to be active throughout the day.
After picking and choosing, I chose hip-hop. But in the blink of an eye, Fuchen pointed to the Go class next door, "I still want to learn this."
Axi glanced at the dust that had grown to her chest, and there was a twinkling light in her eyes.
Knowing that Go requires learning to sit still, Axi still would not say "no" to her on her own. Instead, she followed her advice and signed up for a Go class.
Classes are held in the afternoon two days on weekends.
Three hours of street dancing every night from Monday to Friday.
Axi slowly waited for Fuchen's change: at first, Fuchen would skip school and go out to play, but when he became proficient in hip-hop dancing, he would go and learn hip-hop as soon as school was over.
There were a group of lively children there, and the fight quickly became heated.
She attends one to two hours more classes every day than other children, and often dances for three hours, leaving all her energy behind.
Axi used to lead people home, or carry her home.
At this time, Fuchen finally behaved. He lay on his back like a big cat and closed his eyes and took a nap.
"Should we reduce the class hours?" Axi still asked her opinion.
Fuchen muttered and replied, "No. I quite like it."
At night, the warm yellow strong street lights shine on pedestrians, and the shadows on the ground, like a "crouched cat", are drifting.
Axi smiled and didn't object. It's a good thing to persist.
Even if the street lights can never find his figure, he will still silently carry Fuchen home.
Back at home in 404, Fuchen yawned, opened his textbook, and completed his unfinished homework.
After getting some rest, I have a little energy to write my homework.
Lying on the table, grabbing the pen holder and writing her homework. Axi always needs to support her waist to remind her to raise her head and straighten her back.
Day by day, time remains unchanged.
Fuchen grew taller and taller, and her grades improved, but she was still caught bullying the weak.
Axi was not angry and asked Fuchen, "Why are you fighting? Why are you bullying the children?"
Fuchen frowned and thought for a while, "I don't know." He raised his head and asked Axi, "I'm better than them, why can't I? You don't have to be a fool if you have the ability."
Her answer was too natural and showed no introspection at all.
Ashe didn't show his emotions or express his opinions. He was just reflecting on what went wrong.
At night, Axi looked at the little ghosts flying in from the window. They ran back and forth through the wall, and they didn't look like humans at all.
But Fuchen relied on his own IQ to boss around and was not polite to the little ghosts. Even if the little ghosts were unhappy, they would just calm them down by coaxing them casually and bringing them some snacks.
The kid still has the mentality of two or three years old, but his abilities are now very strong.
Fuchen would sometimes take them to beat the older children who bullied her.
And An An.
Fuchen is not polite at all when he gives orders.
An An will not refuse.
There is no need to think about what Fuchen wants.
Axi observed silently.
Mengmeng came over to visit, carrying a bunch of things, with a smile on his face, and shouted, "Brother Big Ghost."
"Yeah." Axi sat on the sofa and responded as usual, showing no intention of getting up.
Suddenly he was stunned.
Axi looked up at Mengmeng. His dirty little devil had washed away his sins the year before and reentered reincarnation.
He felt bored, so he quit the anchor industry, bought a house with the money he saved, and paid the down payment.
The remaining money is invested in business. With an income of 10,000 to 20,000 yuan a month, he can be considered a boss.
When people reach middle age, they still nod and bow to themselves.
Axi looked at Fuchen. In the room, Fuchen ordered An An to hand over all his pocket money and buy chocolates for himself. His attitude was unruly.
Look at yourself again, sitting alone in the main seat, but the person in front of you is still hunched over.
Axi stood up immediately, asked Meng Meng to sit down, and made him tea.
Mengmeng took the tea and was flattered.
Axi then told all the little ghosts, "You are no longer allowed to use ghost abilities in front of Fuchen, such as flying, climbing through windows, walking through walls, becoming invisible... and you are not allowed to help her beat people up."
The little devils are absolutely obedient to Axi.
Fuchen looked at Axi blankly, "Dad, what should I do if I am bullied?"
"Fight it back yourself." Axi said matter-of-factly.
If you have the ability to bully a child, you should be prepared to be beaten back by the child's older siblings or parents.
After that, Axi stopped using his abilities. He entered and exited 604. He no longer floated over directly, but knocked on the door politely.
Axi understands: Fuchen lives in the world of ghosts and monsters, has long understood the power of power, and has himself as the object of imitation, so he will easily bully the weak.
He relearned the ways of the world, and often invited Father Xue, the male host of 604, and Uncle Ming to come over for dinner and cook for himself.
During holidays, I would also take the initiative to visit. Instead of ignoring me like before, I would take the initiative to visit.
He may be aloof, but he has a strong learning ability.
He doesn't care about other people, but he doesn't mind. In order for Fuchen to grow normally, he has to learn to respond to other people's feelings.
Fuchen looked at Axi and followed him to visit familiar homes, and gradually learned to respect others and no longer fight easily (except to protect An An).
As time passed, Axi became more and more like a person, busy welcoming guests and sending them off.
He always insists on taking Fuchen home, day by day, and is never late. At night, he quietly accompanies Fuchen to do her homework, and encourages her to make progress.
The expression on his face became gentler.
The smooth-lined face softened the anger because of the smile, and the warmth in the eyes was like diamonds embedded in it, always shining.
Father Xue saw the changes in Fuchen and admired Axi's educational methods. He patted him on the shoulder and gave him a thumbs up.
Fuchen has been growing well in his hands.
He never scolded her or hit her, he always treated her gently.
If it were other parents, their unruly temperament and disobedience to discipline would only make Fuchen more and more annoying and covered with thorns.
The Fuchen that Xue's father saw was confident and sunny, and capable of protecting his brother An An.
Although she would snatch An An's pocket money, she never let others bully An An.
An An has always liked this sister and obeyed her orders.
Father Xue was very curious as to why Axi could educate Fuchen so well. Apart from his love for Fuchen, what had Axi experienced?
He went to Axi's previous school to check Axi's academic performance and was surprised.
During his lifetime, Axi was a proud man, both in terms of appearance and achievements.
The sunny boy in the photo is the little sun he has never seen before.
The awards listed in the table, piano competitions, English speeches, chemistry competitions... are all his highlights.
Father Xue stared at the young man in the photo. He was smiling and his eyes were like crescent moons.
He was young.
He was once unrivaled in magnificence.
Father Xue looked at the birthday column, recalled the time when the "404 tragedy" occurred, and silently counted the time.
17 years old.
stunned.
Not willing to give in, I calculated again and found that I was indeed 17 years old. To be precise, I was less than 17 years old.
This was his entire time on earth.
After that, he was still in the world, always looking like a 17-year-old. Until he met the dust, the years showed signs of flowing.
The ghost father may be very indifferent to people. But he really keeps reducing the ghost nature in order to give Fuchen a normal growth environment. He is not a prodigal son turning back, but wants to live the life he wants, the normal life he thought about during his lifetime.
: Marry a wife and have children, the wife and children will be on the hot bed, the family will be happy, and the years will be peaceful.
