Lin Feiwan's words also directly caused discomfort and disgust among the audience in the live broadcast room.
[The Sang family is great? Can the Sang family look down on the poor? Is your current status achieved solely through your efforts? 】
[That is, isn’t it still something that has been passed down for hundreds of years? Aren’t we just ordinary people a hundred years ago? What’s there to be proud of? There was also class discrimination. 】
[What’s wrong with us being poor? No matter how poor we are, our money is earned through our own efforts. Why do you look down on us?]
But what Lin Feiwan said next not only did not make the audience feel bored, but also found it very reasonable.
"It's not that I look down on the poor. Those ordinary people are also working very hard to survive in their own way. I admire them very much. Because they start from different points, they actually have a harder time than us."
Lin Feiwan paused for a moment: "But I have to say that there is indeed a decisive difference between us, and that is vision."
"Ordinary people may have been working hard for a better life since they were born. They have no time to take a look at the outside world, and their cognition and vision are not broad."
"For example, when Awan and Ayan were eight or nine years old, they had already traveled to every country in the world. They had basically visited domestic cities several times, so they knew the customs, characteristics and culture of many countries.
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"Their horizons are naturally broadened, and they can understand everything others say."
"But if we were children from ordinary families or children from poor families, they might not even have visited all the cities in the country. Different perspectives will make people look at things differently, and there will naturally be fewer common topics. There will be no
Emotions based on common topics cannot last long."
"In this case, two people will often quarrel. For example, if we see a watch worth hundreds of thousands or hundreds of thousands, children from ordinary families or poor families can only look at it and leave even if they like it.
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"But we are different. We will buy it without looking at the price. If two people are together and maintain this way, the other party will think that we are extravagant and wasteful, and we will think that they are petty."
"Others may value material aspects more, but our material aspects are already guaranteed, so what we pursue is spiritual compatibility."
"If things go on like this, the other party will have low self-esteem and worry about gains and losses. They will not be happy together, or they are just interested in our family's money and will not have a true partner."
"That's why I think it's really important to be well-matched, but I won't interfere too much in their love lives. If they like it, they won't have to suffer at all until they find the one they feel most comfortable with.
A compatible partner."
"As parents, we just need to bless them. As long as they feel good about it, that's fine. After all, I always think the most important thing is for two people to be happy together."
After all, Jiang is a very good example.
She would only give advice on their lives, and would not interfere too much. After all, they would live their lives from now on, not the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
If he thinks it's appropriate, then it's appropriate.
Even if she doesn't like that daughter-in-law anymore, she will only send her blessings and not interfere or ask too much.
After all, they are already grown up and know how to distinguish right from wrong. It would be ridiculous for her to control them like she did when she was a child.