"He feels that I will have opportunities in the future, but if the child has no one to take care of him, something could easily happen."
Having said this, Ai Xiaohui actually felt a little regretful that she shouldn't have gotten married so early after graduation.
"Then why isn't he taking care of the children?"
Manshu didn’t understand why it must be her mother who was sacrificed?
In fact, when a mother is pregnant and has a baby, hasn’t she already made a lot of sacrifices, both physically and in work and life?
So to be fair, should the husband spend more energy on taking care of the children?
"Because he is busy with work."
Ai Xiaohui explained, "Xiaoyan may not know that after the age of thirty-five, programmers' careers will generally go downhill."
"If he is not promoted at this stage, he may face unemployment at an older age."
"So, I can understand him."
"It's just that I can't accept that he is working on his own career, but he insists on me stopping to take care of the family."
Ai Xiaohui felt agitated.
She initially suggested letting the parents take care of the children and hiring a nanny.
As long as the parents and nanny are there, the child will be fine.
But the husband doesn't agree either. He thinks the nanny is unreliable and will abuse the children.
Anyway, we had a big fight last night just because she came to attend the award ceremony today.
"Although someone has to sacrifice for the family, you also like to do a job that you like, right?"
Yue Qingwan could understand Ai Xiaohui.
She had discussed this issue with Yan Rushan before. If one of them had to sacrifice for the sake of the child, how should the balance be balanced?
Yan Rushan means that Yue is very busy and her position is very important and no one can replace her.
Therefore, if the child needs someone to accompany him in the future, and there is a parent-teacher meeting in kindergarten, he can go.
Although he is also the boss, he is indeed not as busy as Yue Qingyuan.
Whoever is free will go. If there is no time, then it depends on whose job can be turned down.
If it really doesn't work, the children's grandparents, uncles and aunts are not just decorations.
There is no need to stipulate who must sacrifice for the children.
"We are independent individuals first, and then we are given other roles."
"I think what you need is validation."
Ai Xiaohui did not expect that as the boss, Mr. Yue would have the same troubles.
But obviously, the relationship between husband and wife is very harmonious, and the husband is willing to give in.
Unlike her family, Ai Xiaohui's eyes became a little sad when she thought of this.
"It's okay, senior sister, we have considered this situation before and thought of a plan."
Manshu comforted Ai Xiaohui.
Ai Xiaohui was surprised: "What plan?"
If this plan is good and everyone is happy, it is naturally the best.
"Since you can't go abroad, then your place will be deferred to the second place."
"You can choose to work for our studio and sign a contract."
"Of course, this is because you are unable to go abroad for your own reasons, so your award is cancelled."
"But if it is postponed, the person who gets the quota to go abroad will need to give up his bonus to you."
The top three are five hundred thousand, two hundred thousand and one hundred thousand respectively, which is pretty good.
After all, in addition to money, they can also get job opportunities.
No matter who gets the opportunity to study abroad, they may not be willing to give it up.
Just give up the bonus, there will definitely be someone willing.
As for Ai Xiaohui being able to get a job opportunity, she must have protected her own interests and taken the first step to get out of the current dilemma of being a stay-at-home mother.