Chapter 288 A mediocre person has no blame and no reputation
Mrs. Chen originally just wanted to blame Lin Jinhui. After all, this stinky girl is very annoying all day long. She also gave Chu Nanzhi some insinuations, but she never thought that this woman would actually hit her on the face.
Disobey your own words by blaming your children.
She slowly frowned and said in a low tone: "Girl Nanzhi, you don't educate your children like this. The two girls are still young and don't have a complete understanding of the world. As a mother, you should set an example and teach them
Three obediences and four virtues, only when you grow up can you find a good husband."
"That's right, girl Nan Zhi."
The second uncle, Tan, also complained with some dissatisfaction: "Your mother is here today, and there are no outsiders in this room. As an elder, and a person who has been here before, I am kind enough to say a few words to you. We women are born with this destiny.
You should stay at home to take care of your husband and raise your children, and you shouldn't show your face around all day long and make people gossip."
Chu Nanzhi looked around the room. Except for Mrs. Chen and Mrs. Tan, everyone else was silently listening to their lectures. The two daughters-in-law beside them were docile and considerate, carefully picking up the dishes and serving them. It was true that
Very much like those ancient good wives and mothers in story books.
I don't know how much bitterness is hidden behind serving these two tricky women.
Putting the chopsticks on the table unhurriedly, Chu Nanzhi smiled gently, and first faced the big Chen family and replied slowly:
"What the two uncles said is absolutely true. I just feel that the children are still young, so I set an example in everything and strive to make them understand the truth. They should not do good deeds if they are small, and do evil if they are small."
At this point, when no one spoke, her eyes flashed slightly and she continued:
"That kind of sneaking around has nothing to do with relatives, old or young. It's quite disgraceful to say. It's all evil and evil. I naturally don't want to see the little treasures being taught such words and deeds by their elders;
But I am a person who believes in the principle that no one can make mistakes without being a sage. I love to keep a line with others in everything, do not push others to a dead end, and leave room for repentance. I don’t know if the third uncle thinks this junior’s words are fair.
Fair?”
Mrs. Chen was speechless and buried her head in a dull tone.
After all, her niece was indeed unreasonable in this matter. She was a little angry because Xiao Chen was completely disgraced by the couple's scheme at the county government today and lost the chance to be granted a royal title.
After thinking about it, I can only place the blame on this ignorant granddaughter-in-law.
If only she could be more tolerant like her daughter-in-law, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would not be in the situation it is today.
It was really irritating, but after some competition, I found that this woman had good arguments but could not beat her, which made me feel even more confused.
Seeing that she had nothing to say, Chu Nanzhi turned to look at the solemn-looking Tan, and couldn't help but sneer:
"As for the three obediences and four virtues mentioned by the second uncle, one should not show up in public. The younger generation does have some shallow knowledge. Lin Dalang and I are not as good as all the uncles. My aunt's family is so well-off, with a shop and land for rent. Even if we don't work all year round, we can still make a living.
Earn money and have enough food and clothing,
I am a woman in the village. Every day when I open my eyes, I face the food and clothing rations of my family. If I don’t show up, I can’t just watch the family starve to death at home.
Furthermore, the Dahe Empire has not stipulated that women can only stay at home to care for their husbands and raise children since the founding of the dynasty. From the royal family to the common people, there are many capable women. The so-called gossip has said that there is no distinction between men and women from ancient times to the present, and the world is mediocre.
No one has blame or honor."
"Only mediocre people in the world have no blame or honor."
The second uncle, Mrs. Tan, nodded in thought, and suddenly became speechless with a look of shame on her face:
The women around them all educate their children according to the dogmatic theory of three obediences and four virtues, but as long as they mention the heroic Princess Jinshu in Jingling City, even the dying old woman can cheer up.
I want to live my life again.
And Chu Nanzhi's inspiring words directly overturned Liu Yun's understanding of her daughter.
The knowledge of Mr. Wei in the village cannot teach her to say such insightful words. After careful consideration, I am afraid that it is my son-in-law who has such knowledge.
"Ahem, my five hundred taels of silver were really well spent."
Liu Yun's heart was filled with passion and she couldn't help but sigh silently.
"Only mediocre people in the world have no blame or honor."
The Zhous and their daughters are also people who have read some books, and they all say that there is a golden house in the book, and there is a beauty like jade in the book, but they have never heard such refreshing and soul-cleansing words.
Repeatedly murmuring these words and thinking about what she had experienced over the years, Zhou couldn't help but secretly shed tears.
Fourth uncle Wang also nodded happily.
Although she couldn't understand these sophisticated words, she saw the changes in the expressions of the second sister-in-law and the third sister-in-law, from the aggressive aura just now to the very depressed look now, so she guessed that these two people had never competed with each other about their grandson's wife, and she was very happy.
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Before coming here, Lin Fen specifically told him not to embarrass his grandson's wife with the people from his second and third son's family. Now it seems that the old guy is really worrying too much.
Lifting up her chopsticks happily, Wang's wrinkled cheeks trembled with energy. She personally picked up dishes for Chu Nanzhi, mother and daughter, and kept saying hello: "Girl Nanzhi, eat more dishes quickly. We'll have you there another day."
When you have free time, you must go and sit at my fourth uncle’s house.”
As she said that, she looked at her daughter-in-law sitting beside her with warm eyes, and said with a warm smile: "Your cousin-in-law, among other things, is good at cooking."
"I will definitely go and visit you someday."
Chu Nanzhi replied politely, stopped paying attention to the old women, and began to take care of the two little guys for dinner seriously.
Lin Sanniang looked a little angry. She didn't expect that this sister-in-law from the countryside had just moved into the Lin family's territory, and she had gathered her fourth uncle's family with just a few words.
When I think about the woman who just left me and ran away with Lin Jinhui, I feel even more disgusted.
She could not tolerate this sister-in-law colluding with Lin Jinhui to suppress her in the future.
After roughly calculating it in her mind, Lin Sanniang pursed her lips and sneered coldly: "Everyone will say that if you speak arrogantly, if my sister-in-law is really a person who understands righteousness, she will not even take the two servants sent by her father.
The girls were all sent back."
"Eating won't stop your mouth."
Lin Jinhui's eyes widened and she glared at him.
Liu Yun was also angry when she heard that. She really didn't know how the Zhou family managed the family, and called such a lowly girl who had no place on the stage to come to the family banquet and stir up trouble again and again.
Comparing these two concubines, although the concubine Lin Jinhui has a more impatient temper, she wears quite well and is nothing more than an outspoken talker; while this concubine is dressed in the same manner as those women in the hook-up house, and is so enchanting that people can't stand it.
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In front of the group of old people in the Lin family, she didn't want to get angry, but she just said tactfully: "Sanniang's body is delicate and her life is precious. Your sister-in-law can't compare with you. We are used to the hard life of the villagers. It's okay if we don't serve others."
That’s all, there’s no need to be waited on.”
"Aunt Liu, you praise her too much."
Lin Jinhui snorted disdainfully: "It's true that she is delicate and frail, but I'm afraid she's just pretending to be so. If life is precious, her blessings in ten more lifetimes may not be worth the blessings of my sister-in-law in this life."
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Lin Sanniang was so angry that she could not speak, and her whole face turned red.
Seeing the aggressive looks in Mrs. Zhou's and her daughter's eyes was even more frightening. In the end, she had no choice but to throw herself pitifully into Mrs. Chen's arms and cry softly. She choked sadly and said, "Third uncle, second sister, she bullied me again."