People who are in good health, have both parents, are healthy, have a living spouse, and have many children will be selected to make the bed. Such people are considered to be blessed and can pass good luck to the new couple.
Generally, a good day is chosen based on the almanac or by professionals to set up the bed. The bed is usually set up before the wedding, and some will choose the morning before the wedding, which means a new beginning and a bright future.
The position of the new bed should be particular. It should be placed in an auspicious position that is conducive to the couple. It must not be facing doors or windows, nor should it face pillars, nor should it press against beams.
"How is it? Ouch, you run very fast and are said to be very good. Why can't you do such a small thing well?"
"The placement is wrong. Come here, I'll do it. It's really worrying."
This is because Mother Su watched Su Shen make troubles and didn't set up the bed for a long time, so she couldn't help but stop giving instructions.
This is going to end personally.
It seems like this is the case for my parents' generation.
At a time like this, no matter how you give orders, you won’t be at ease.
It's best to do it yourself.
Only then can you feel at ease.
"Mom, is there any difference between what I'm doing and what you're doing?" Su Shen lowered his head and looked down. Anyway, he didn't see much difference.
But there are many tricks in the eyes of the elders.
"Of course there is a difference. Look at what you're doing. It's almost facing the door and window. You opened the window at the beginning and broke the auspicious position. You're getting married tomorrow. How can this be possible?"
"You must be upright to be harmonious and beautiful."
Su Shen smiled bitterly.
Although these aspects are customary.
But actually it’s their generation.
I don't understand it anymore.
You can only do what your parents say.
Of course, you don’t have to do it at all.
But this kind of thing.
I still hope both parents are satisfied.
Since parents like this kind of ritual and feel relieved after doing it, it is equivalent to buying them peace of mind.
"This bed is very particular, just take a look."
Mother Su said: "The process of making bedding should be as follows. When setting up the bed, brand-new bedding will be used. Basically, all red bedding will be used, mainly red, which symbolizes happiness. Four quilts and four mattresses need to be placed on the bed.
Two pairs of pillows, two pairs of cushions and other eighteen items are most auspicious."
"After making the bed, sprinkle red dates, peanuts, longan, lotus seeds and other dried fruits on the bed, which means that you will have a baby early and will be happy."
"This is called Saxiguo."
"After the person with good luck makes the bed, he will find a pair of healthy, lively, smart children to jump on the bed. It is best to choose children who belong to the year of dragon, pig, or tiger to increase the blessing of children for the newlyweds. Some
Some places even let children spend the night in new beds, and there is even a saying that children are allowed to defecate and pee in new beds, which means spreading the branches and leaves."
"This is called Takako Press."
After hearing this, Su Shen wanted to lie down.
There is so much preparation process, and I feel mentally more tired than training.
As a result, he was immediately beaten and said: "After setting up the bed, you cannot sleep on the new bed before the couple gets married. Especially pregnant women, those wearing mourning, widows and women in their menstrual period are not allowed to enter the wedding room to avoid disturbing the happiness of the couple.
."
"Why are you lying down when you come up?"
"You'd better sprinkle some sugar."
"Eh? There are more bedsides!"
"Why do you have so little sprinkles on your child's bedside? You need to sprinkle more in these places so that they can be sweet and sweet. Do you understand? You have to remember this, otherwise your own children will get married in the future and you will not know anything.
Come on."
"It's really worrying."
Su Shen could only smile bitterly: "Mom, there are so many details in just one installation, how can I remember them?"
"Is this still a lot?" Mother Su said, "I thought I had a lot more than this back then, but now it's very simple."
"I know you young people don't believe this, but you only get married once. This time you have to follow my and your father's wishes."
"Otherwise we won't be worried."
"You have to know that we all like A Fang's side. The in-laws, father-in-law, mother-in-law and us are also very polite. We can't neglect them. A Fang's side must do enough etiquette, so that they can be worthy of them, you know
Is it done?"
Su Shen could only nod his head repeatedly.
He felt that Su's mother had never spoken so much in his memory.
He seems really concerned about this matter.
Since your parents care about you, there is nothing to say about being a son, just follow them.
"Look at making this bed. The movements should be gentle and meticulous. Make the sheets, bedding, etc. flat and neat, without wrinkles or skew. For each layer, you can say some auspicious words in your mouth, such as "Make the bed, make the bed, dragon and phoenix"
"Chengxiang", "One pavilion is gold, two pavilions are silver, and three pavilions are a large group of children", etc., to send beautiful blessings to the newlyweds."
"You know?"
Su Shen nodded repeatedly.
"First lay down the mattress, then lay down the sheets, quilts, etc., and finally place the pillows. The pillows should be placed side by side with a certain gap in between, which means that the husband and wife accompany each other but are independent."
"This person spends half of his life in bed, so he must make sure his bed is secure so that the future can be more stable."
Su Shen nodded in agreement and said, "I understand, Mom, but I probably stayed in hotels at night most of my life..."
"It's just you." Su's mother glared, then turned into a smile again and said: "We didn't expect your kid to get married so early. When you were getting better and better, your dad and I were still discussing, no
Do you know when you will get married?"
"I heard that celebrities get married very late, and some even don't get married, which makes us very anxious."
Su Shen laughed and said, "There's no way, Mom, then I've found my true destiny, why not get married?"
"Yes, yes, that's the truth." Mother Su's smile widened even more when she heard this, as if she had become several years younger: "By then we will be able to hold our grandson in our arms and see him get married.
If you get married so early, maybe your grandson’s grandson will be able to see her..."
This chapter is not finished yet, please click on the next page to continue reading the exciting content! "If four generations live under one roof, then my life will be perfect. I will be able to interact with your old Su family."
These were the aspirations of the previous generation of Chinese people.
Since my parents like it.
Then he has no need to object.
Because of what I want to do.
My parents never objected, right?
Compare your heart to your heart.
This is just a kind of filial piety.
"After the bed installation is completed, the new bed cover will be covered with a red bedspread or sheet to prevent dust or other debris from contaminating the new bed. The bed cover will not be officially removed until the couple's wedding day."
"After the bed is installed and before the couple gets married, the new bed should be kept clean and tidy. Except for the children who are pressing the bed, they can play on the bed. Others should try not to touch the new bed, so as not to affect the happiness of the new bed."
"Remember? If we are no longer here in the future, you have to make a good bed with my grandson or my grandson. Otherwise, your dad and I will definitely cause trouble for you when we come down."
Su Shen could only continue to smile bitterly and nod: "Okay, okay, I remember it, but you will live a long life. Maybe you will have to command me about these things by then."
"Haha, I really want to see my grandchildren."
Speaking of this, Mother Su's smile became even brighter. Suddenly, he seemed to remember something and turned back to Su Shen and said, "By the way, you always say that we are superstitious, so now let me tell you something scientific."
"Huh?" Su Shen was stunned.
He never expected that his mother would suddenly say these words, and Wei Wei stayed silent for a while.
"Why, you are the only one who understands science."
"Remember it."
Mother Su made the bed and came down and said: "If the room is temporarily unoccupied after the bed is installed, the doors and windows should be closed to prevent dust, mosquitoes, etc. from entering the room. At the same time, it can also maintain the temperature and humidity in the room to protect the new bed and
Bedding.”
"Be sure to remember to close it."
"Open it before you come in."
"Also." Mother Su said.
"There's more???" Su Shen said, feeling that if there were more, he would really lose his memory.
"You must be kind to Ah Fang."
"This is what your father and I have agreed upon."
"You have grown up together, and everyone knows the basics, but don't stick your tail up just because you are famous now."
"You must be kind to others."
"Our old Su family only recognizes this daughter-in-law."
"No matter how fast you run outside, you will run slower at home."
"If you lose her, we won't let you go without them."
When Su Shen heard this, he also suppressed his bitter smile, nodded seriously and said: "Don't worry, Mom, I will definitely do this."
"I have identified with her since I was a child."
"Since childhood? How young?" Su's mother suddenly asked, and Su Shen followed the words and almost let it slip: "Little..."
"Mom, you can do it, but I can't tell you this."
"In case Ah Fang's parents find out later, I have been thinking about them since I was a child, so they must give me a meal."
"Haha." Mother Su laughed again. It seemed that this incident really made her feel good: "Your kid is also scared sometimes."
"Your dad and I thought you were fearless."
"but."
Mother Su looked at the joyful room and suddenly thought of something, her eyes were slightly blurry.
"Decades have gone by in a flash."
"I remember back then you were still a little baby who needed to be held in my hands."
"In the blink of an eye it was already."
"Mom." Su Shen said, "Thank you for your kindness in raising me. My son has grown up now."
"It's my turn to be filial to you from now on."
"You and dad should prepare to enjoy your happiness."
"Okay." Mother Su looked at Su Shen, a smile appeared on her face again, she nodded gently and said softly:
"Okay."
"We'll wait."
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Ancient town.
The same is true here.
Father Lin and Mother Lin are both busy with their daughter's final wedding eve.
"The new clothes and pants are ready."
"I'll send it to my parents-in-law early then."
"Don't worry about me doing things. After all these years, you still don't know what I'm capable of? I've already done it." Lin's father said, "Our daughter's affairs must be handled seriously."
Mother Lin nodded.
At this time, she also waved, asked Lin Yanfang to sit down in front of the dressing mirror, and said softly: "I'm getting married tomorrow."
"You have to dress up nicely."
"Come on, let mom fuck you."
Above.
Similar to the bed above.
It is also a local custom.
Mainly on the girls side.
The hair-dressing ceremony is usually performed the night before the wedding. The elders comb the couple's hair and say auspicious words while combing it.
"In the past, I would have needed a lucky woman."
"Times have changed now, and I don't trust others. It's better for me to do it myself."
After saying that, he took out a wooden hairpin comb, walked to Lin Yanfang's left side, and said while combing:
"Comb the left side first."
"Comb it all the way to the end."
After speaking, he walked to the right and said:
"Comb the right side again."
"Two combs of white hair reaching eyebrow level."
Now that I’ve finished speaking, I’m here:
"Before combing again."
"Three combs of children and grandchildren fill the earth."
Finally, when he got behind Lin Yanfang, he took off the comb again and said in a softer voice:
"comb it again."
"Four combs and four silver bamboo shoots are all in perfect order."
"Come here and pay homage to your ancestors."
Lin Yanfang came over and looked at the tablet in front of her, knelt on the mat, and tapped a few times.
After finishing, Mother Lin pulled her and sat beside the bed and said, "I'm going to get married soon, and our A Fang will also be a big girl."
"Tell me about it."
"Why does time fly by so fast? I remember you were only a little older at that time, and the bed was much higher than you."
"In a blink of an eye, you are now this tall, much taller than me. Tell me, before we were all looking forward to you getting married and finding a good family, but now you are really going to get married..."
"On the contrary, I couldn't bear to part with it."
"Mom." Lin Yanfang rarely saw her mother like this, and she was also emotionally affected, saying: "We live very close to each other. If you want to come, you can just come to Yangcheng. We also have a place to live, and when A Tian is in college
The house you bought for me is also in Yangcheng, you can live there if you want."
This chapter is not over, please click on the next page to continue reading! "That's different." Mother Lin shook her head and said, "After tomorrow, you will no longer be a simple daughter, it's different."
"Afang, young people have the lives of young people. It's okay for us to go over and see you occasionally. We are not used to living together." Father Lin said: "Your mother and I are used to living in the ancient town, and we have never been together all our lives.
It’s been so many years and I don’t plan to change it. It’s good to get a haircut here and have a small life.”
"Just live your own life."
"But what do you think you should do?" Lin Yanfang suddenly became emotional and almost cried. Maybe every girl who is getting married that night will do this.
"We'll come back if you want."
Father Lin almost burst into tears when he saw it. He could only pretend to be a man and said: "Anyway, that kid also trains and competes outside on weekdays. He flies around and has no home. He is alone and misses us.
Just come back."
"The light at home has always been left for you."
"Yeah." Lin Yanfang nodded quietly.
"You are also kind to others." Mother Lin said: "I can see that they like you very much. Tim is a good boy, but sometimes he is too nice. Alas..."
"Why are you sighing? Are you good or not?" Lin's father said: "What if we find a mediocre one, we will have to worry about it half to death."
"That's right. Ah Tian has been reliable for so many years."
Mother Lin calmed down a little and looked at Lin Yanfang smiling again: "Okay, go to bed early, we will pick up the bride tomorrow."
"Our daughter needs to be pretty."
"Let others know."
"Our daughter."
"You can do it."
"By the way, dad, please drink less." Lin Yanfang said before leaving: "I almost couldn't hold you back last time."
"Okay, Mom and Dad."
"I'm leaving."
"Um."
"Let's go."
Although it was only a short distance to go back to the room, Father Lin and Mother Lin still said, "Be careful."
"Go home if you miss us."
"Um."
…
The two families just turned off the lights quietly.