030: Learn how the Qin family educates their children
"It's okay. Don't interrupt casually when the adults are talking. If Boss Qin asks you something, just answer him openly."
Boss Qin has a son and a daughter. His son was admitted to a prestigious university last year, and his daughter is still in high school. Deng Shangwei has met both children, and they are very generous.
Deng Shangwei was not jealous of Boss Qin’s wealth, but he was envious of Boss Qin’s ability to educate his children.
To this end, Deng Shangwei also asked Boss Qin how he usually teaches his children.
Boss Qin only replied to him with four words: teach by words and deeds.
Boss Qin loves and values both his son and daughter equally. He has never said that he would give some dowry to his daughter and let his son inherit the family business.
Whoever has the ability will take over Boss Qin's business. For those who have no ability, Boss Qin will provide some real estate and cash in the future, so that they can live a life of small wealth without worrying about food and drink.
Boss Qin had told his children these words very early on. He didn't know which one, his son or his daughter, was more talented in business. After the two children entered junior high school, Boss Qin often took them to dinner parties.
How to speak and how to do things, you have to read and learn by yourself. If you don't understand something, you can ask Boss Qin, but you can only ask if you don't understand. You can't rely on Boss Qin to teach you without using your own brain.
This kind of education method is very fruitful. Deng Shangwei recalled that when he was a teenager, he was confused and didn't understand anything, but Boss Qin's children could socialize with adults in a graceful manner, and there was no fault in their words and deeds. Deng Shangwei thought of his family's
The two Demon Stars wanted to steal Boss Qin's two children back directly.
It was also from Boss Qin's children that Deng Shangwei understood that the key high school in Chengdu was Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon. In his opinion, Boss Qin's daughter Qin Jiao was already good enough. She took home a lot of trophies from various competitions.
The school actively participates in cultural activities, and her grades are also very good. Such an outstanding girl actually lost the election for the president of the student union this year!
Qin Jiao lost the election and was depressed for a while. Deng Shangwei noticed it at a dinner party. Deng Shangwei couldn't understand, but Boss Qin was calmer:
"Jiaojiao is outstanding among her peers, but there are still people who are better than her. She has to learn to adjust on her own."
From Boss Qin’s words, Deng Shangwei intuitively felt the cruelty of competition among this generation of students.
This is also the reason why Deng Shangwei was worried about Wen Ying's ability to adapt to the school atmosphere after going to a provincial key point.
Deng Shangwei is not as big as Boss Qin's family. Deng Shangwei cannot completely copy the Qin family's method of raising children. Moreover, Deng Jie and Deng Hao are two naughty eggs now. It is obviously impossible for them to follow Deng Shangwei to dinner parties without making a fuss.
Deng Jie and Deng Hao are not the right age, but Wen Ying is the right one!
Deng Shangwei didn't teach Wen Ying all this. He just briefly introduced the situation at Boss Qin's house before taking Wen Ying to the appointment.
Boss Qin invited Deng Shangwei and several other friends to eat fish at noon today.
The fish was caught by Boss Qin himself yesterday. Boss Qin arranged the meal at a high-end villa on the outskirts of the city. One fish is certainly not enough to eat. Boss Qin himself is the seafood king in Rongcheng, so he paid a lot for the meal.
The fresh seafood and ingredients are all produced by Boss Qin himself, but he only borrowed the chef and place of the villa to treat guests.
The pace of the city in Chengdu is slow, and the people in Chengdu do things slowly. Even a big boss like Boss Qin, who has a big business, likes to have fun and talk business at the same time.
Wen Ying works quickly and efficiently, and is not used to this slow pace.
But the sponsor’s father likes it. How can Wen Ying, a little follower who was brought to the world by Deng Shangwei, be qualified to give advice?
Deng Shangwei drove for more than 40 minutes to arrive at the villa, and he was the last to arrive.
Not only was he late, the Santana was also the lowest-end car in the Villa's parking lot. Deng Shangwei didn't feel anything at all. When he and Wen Ying entered the box together, a middle-aged man teased him:
"Xiao Deng, when will you be willing to replace your crappy car? Every time I ask you to go out for dinner, you rarely arrive early. It must be your car that is dragging you down."
Deng Shangwei repeatedly begged for mercy.
The other guests laughed loudly and called Boss Qin to allocate more quota to Deng Shangwei next year. After Deng Shangwei made money, he would naturally change his car.
It turns out that this middle-aged man is Boss Qin.
After hearing Boss Qin's deeds, Wen Ying thought that Boss Qin would be a powerful and powerful gangster. Unexpectedly, Boss Qin was gentle and gentle, and he also wore a pair of gold-rimmed glasses and looked very kind.
When the amiable Boss Qin opened his mouth, it somewhat undermined his overall gentle temperament.
But there was a smile on Wen Ying's face. Boss Qin really valued his uncle Deng Shangwei. This seemed like a complaint, but in fact he was trying to save Deng Shangwei. Boss Qin took the lead in despising Deng Shangwei's bad Santana, and the whole room followed this topic.
When ridiculing Deng Shangwei, no one will hold Deng Shangwei accountable for being late.
Boss Qin sighed, "I would like to allocate more quota to Xiao Deng. Xiao Deng doesn't want it. He can eat as much as he wants."
Everyone else immediately looked up to Deng Shangwei.
Not everyone has the sobriety of Deng Shangwei. Of course, if you have the support of a noble person, you should seize the opportunity to get as many benefits as possible. Money that falls from the sky should not be wasted. Why should you push it to the outside?
Boss Qin suddenly introduced Deng Shangwei into his social circle. Even if the bosses here are not as rich as Boss Qin, they are still a few steps ahead of Deng Shangwei. They didn’t think much of Deng Shangwei at first, and they didn’t understand why Boss Qin was like this.
Value Deng Shangwei.
Now after listening to Boss Qin's words, the attitude of several bosses towards Deng Shangwei has changed a bit.
Deng Shangwei was very grateful to Boss Qin, and Boss Qin's eyes fell on Wen Ying.
"This is……"
"Brother Qin, this is my niece Wen Ying. She is working in my company during the summer vacation. I brought her to see the world."
Deng Shangwei introduced Wen Ying. Wen Ying could not embarrass Deng Shangwei. She called all the bosses present "uncle" without any stage fright.
Boss Qin laughed. This little girl looked like she was only a teenager. Deng Shangwei brought people to such an occasion, obviously imitating his method of educating his children.
Deng Shangwei is not the kind of cunning person. He does this because he really recognizes his educational philosophy. Such behavior of fanning his younger brother is more effective than directly flattering Boss Qin.
Boss Qin immediately asked someone to add a seat between his and Deng Shangwei's seats.
Boss Qin asked Wen Ying to sit down. Wen Ying said thank you and sat down without any hesitation. Boss Qin nodded secretly.
It's better for a little girl to be generous, even if she's a little reckless, it's better than being petty.
"Uncle Qin also has a daughter about the same age as you. If I have the opportunity to introduce you to her, you young people should make more friends."
"Thank you Uncle Qin, I will learn more from Sister Qin."
At this dinner, the two aquatic product bosses from Qingshiqiao were not present. It seemed that they were not qualified to join this circle. During this meal, Wen Ying was not in a hurry to show off. She ate the fish that was said to be caught by Boss Qin himself, thinking to herself
However, judging from Boss Qin's protective attitude toward her uncle, the relationship between the two was more genuine than she thought.
So here’s the problem. With a big backer like Boss Qin, after his uncle’s divorce in his previous life, not only the aquatic products company couldn’t survive, but he also owed a lot of debt... Boss Qin wouldn’t just watch his uncle in trouble!