Han Qing actually has another advantage that neither Wang Qinruo nor Ding Wei noticed. That is, he is willing to listen to others' advice.
Since Ding Wei will not be able to go to Hebei to help in the war, he breaks it down and tells him. He will definitely not be able to live up to Ding Wei's good intentions. Therefore, he has to forget about the war between Song and Liao for the time being and put all his thoughts on it.
At my own wedding.
You wouldn't know if you weren't busy, but when you were busy, Han Qing realized that the fact that she was going to get married was too simple.
As a gold medal divorce counselor in his previous life, he had at least ended hundreds of bad relationships with his own hands, and was familiar with every detail of divorce battles between men and women. However, he had no experience in getting married.
And compared with the wedding process in the 21st century that can exhaust couples, marriages in the Song Dynasty were more than ten times more complicated?!
Unfortunately, his wedding also involved the royal decree given to the two brides by the officials of the Song Dynasty, and it was not even half-hearted. Even if he, Dou Rong, and Xu Ziling were already familiar with each other, they could only subtract Na.
If you take this step, you will have to go through the remaining four or three procedures of accepting gifts, accepting taxes, and welcoming people in person. (Note: The wedding ceremony in the Song Dynasty was slightly smaller than that in the Tang Dynasty, from six steps to four steps. See Zhu Zi's Family Ceremony.
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Fortunately, Han's family in Bianliang now pays great attention to Han Qing, a branch prince. Knowing that he lacks manpower around him, he sent a clan uncle, a steward, four bridesmaids and several maids and servants in advance.
The Dou family and the Li family also quickly sent "elites" from the Yongxing Military Road, so that he would not make any mistakes while busy.
Despite this, Han Qing still felt more tired than directing a battle. He finally understood why there was a word "faint" in the word "marriage".
It turns out that since the Han Dynasty, couples who get married have been extremely busy. After an ordinary person has experienced a wedding, they will not easily want to experience it a second time. The probability of the couple growing old together will naturally increase significantly.
Tired of being tired, being scolded is being scolded. In his previous life, he was single until he was 36-7, but now he has finally found a wife that he likes and agrees with. Han Qing is still very happy.
The one who was even happier than him was his grandfather Han Chonggui. As an elder of this branch, he saw his grandson leading his two granddaughter-in-laws to bow to him at the same time. Then he looked at Han Qing's founding marquis robe and Dou's.
Rong and Xu Ziling were so happy that they could hardly close their mouths as they wore the imperial concubine Xia Phi.
Whenever someone made a toast, everyone would drink until the glass was dry. Han Qing was so frightened that she had to secretly ask Wu You and Zhang Fan to block most of the drinks in front of the old man, thus preventing the old man from being too happy.
Excessive use can harm the body.
As happy as Han Chonggui was Dou Shang.
From being dragged down by his daughter, worrying all day about the family's destruction, and often waking up in the middle of the night with fright. To becoming the envy of the neighborhood, seeing his daughter wearing imperial robes, being praised by a group of officials and wives, Dou Shang's mood was ups and downs.
Generally large.
As a result, after drinking a few glasses of wine, he couldn't help but brag to others about how he had a keen eye for things in the past. When he saw Han Qing in distress, he also insisted on letting his daughter risk his life to accompany him. He completely forgot who was the one who tried every means in the first place.
, drove Han Qing away from Doujiabao, and also prohibited his daughter from continuing to associate with him.
Dou Sha blushed after hearing this. However, seeing that Han Qing did not clarify anything, as a son, of course he had no need to make his father unable to step down. He just tried to stay away from his father and pretended to be okay.
did not hear it.
Since Han Qing took office, although he has been very murderous, he uprooted the two major local wealthy families, Yan and Yang, and taught Chunyang to sweep holes in Liting. However, in the battle to stabilize grain prices at the beginning of spring, Zhu secretly surrendered.
, Zheng, benefited a lot from the three wealthy families.
Through the battle to stabilize food prices, government offices at all levels on Jingdong East Road also made a lot of money. When Wang Qinruo was in office, he did not bother to ask officials to hand over this money. After Ding Wei took over, he would not cause any trouble for nothing.
.As a result, it has become a legal extra income for officials, and everyone can take it with confidence.
When the gentry and officials received benefits, of course they would not forget where the benefits came from. In addition, they heard that the officials gave Han Qing's two wives each a royal life, and they felt more and more that there was someone close to Han Qing Xingduoduo.
necessary.
Therefore, on the day of Han Qing's wedding, there were constant congratulations.
On Jingdong East Road, basically all the officials whose official positions were no more than three levels below him and whose yamen were no more than a hundred miles away from Qingzhou came here.
Even if someone did not receive the invitation in advance, he took the initiative to send a congratulatory gift to the door. The old steward sent by the Han Mansion's chief room was so mature that he would not drive the guests away. The servants received them with all their heart and every courtesy.
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According to the rules of the Song Dynasty, the bride is welcomed at dawn and the ceremony is completed at dusk. Han Qing's wedding was busy from morning to evening, and then came to an end temporarily. Elders sent by the Han family accompanied the guests and friends to continue drinking. And Han Qing
Qing himself was sent into the bridal chamber amidst laughter and auspicious words.
After a busy day, the two brides were so tired that they almost fell apart. However, they were taken care of by Xiniang. They changed into the auspicious clothes they wore at night, covered their heads, and sat side by side on the bed, waiting for their husband.
You come back and drink Hexin wine.
The wine cup is made of sterling silver and is in the shape of a gourd with a split in the center, each with one petal. The tail of the gourd is connected with a red rope with gold threads, which means that we will always be united.
Although they were used to facing each other day and night, when they saw the four-petal gourd-shaped wine cups, divided into two pairs, placed side by side on the low table in front of the bed, Dou Rong and Xu Ziling were both ashamed.
Looking victorious. Han Qingzi still felt as if he was in a dream for a moment.
He raised his finger and secretly bit it a few times while Xi Niang was not paying attention when she came to lay the tent. Only then did he confirm that he was indeed living in the Song Dynasty and was not drunk and having another erotic dream one night in his previous life!
"Marquis Jianguo is too drunk? Why not drink a cup of tea first, rest for a while, and then drink with the two brides separately." The four wedding brides sent by the Han family were all experienced. They found that Han Qing seemed to suddenly
Some acted nervously, pursed their lips and whispered reminders.
"No need, I didn't drink much outside before!" Han Qing quickly recovered and responded with a smile. Then she walked up to Dou Rong, grabbed her hand first, took half of the "silver ladle", and took her own
They picked up the other half, encouraged each other with their eyes, raised the "silver ladle" to their mouths, and drank it slowly.
"The ceremony is complete!" the four brides cheered in unison. They first combined the two silver scoops into one, tied them with a red rope and threw them under the bed. Then they grabbed red dates, sesame seeds and other objects and threw them in the air. (Note:
Peanuts were introduced to China very late, so in ancient times, sesame seeds were sprinkled on the wedding bed, which means more children and more blessings.)
Even though she was wearing a hijab, Dou Rong was still ashamed and turned her face towards the wall with a red face.
However, Han Qing could not treat one favorably, so she cheered up and repeated the same steps again. She and Xu Ziling also drank Hexin wine together. Then she accepted the blessings from the brides again before sending the four brides away together.
When there were only three couples left in the new house, Han Qing took the silver chopsticks and lifted the bride's hijab one by one. Dou Rong's face was as bright as a spring peach, and Xu Ziling's figure was as elegant as a summer lotus.
Overjoyed.
No matter how happy you are, on the wedding night, you have to give the woman enough respect after all, and you can't let her sleep with her because of her temper. Therefore, Han Qing can only choose one of the two.
He was about to plead guilty and send Xu Ziling to another new house to rest. Suddenly, he heard a string of crisp gongs coming from outside the house door, "Dang-dang-dang, dang-dang-dang, dang-dang..."
Immediately afterwards, there was a series of exclamations, "The water has leaked, the water has leaked, put out the fire, put out the fire quickly!"
In an instant, red light shone through the window, illuminating the entire new house as bright as day!
