After breakfast, Liang Zhenguo went to the yard to wash his bicycle while waiting for Su Shu.
As soon as the three children heard that the two were going to buy groceries, they immediately went to take their children's bicycles.
Liang Zhiqiang rode out on a children's bicycle with his short legs and said to Liang Zhenguo: "Dad, you don't have to go. It's our business to accompany mom to buy groceries. Don't compete with us."
"Yes~Yes~" They nodded one by one.
When Su Shu came out after applying sunscreen, she saw the three children waiting for her.
"Today my father and I are going to a farther place, so the three of you are waiting for us at home. If Grandpa Li arrives soon, can you take good care of Grandpa Li for your parents? When we come back, you can help us wash the vegetables.
OK?"
Su Shu touched the heads of the three children and said, "I will accompany my mother to buy groceries on the rest day next week."
The three children listened to Su Shu's words very much. Even after Su Shu said this, they did not lose their temper.
In addition, Su Shu also arranged other tasks for them, so the three children agreed.
"Dad, you have to ride mommy a little slower, don't ride too fast." Liang Zhiqiang remembered what his mom had said to them before, and added, "You guys have to ride slowly and pay attention to safety."
Liang Zhenguo nodded, and when he drove Su Shu out of Xiaohe Street, he couldn't help but ask, "Isn't this kid Zhiqiang a bit verbose?"
"Liang Zhenguo, Liang Zhenguo, you are right, you are lucky to have met me." Su Shu patted his back, "I finally understand why letting you raise your children by yourself will make them more and more useless.
"
"Why is Zhiqiang so verbose? Do you understand that he cares? When the three of them were riding bicycles to play, we would tell him this. He knew that we cared about him. Now that we are out, he also cares about us.
, this is the emotion we project onto our children and the children respond.”
"This is good. Children know how their parents love them and how they should love them. This is also called teaching by words and deeds. The words and deeds of our adults are the examples for the children. If the adults are good, the children will follow suit. If the adults are bad, the children will follow.
We will follow and not learn well."
Su Shu asked Liang Zhenguo, "Have you not noticed that the two children Zhichao and Zhiqiang are different in their personalities? Although they are twins, if you look closely at their personalities, you will find that they are different."
"Of the three children, Zhichao is the one who makes decisions. He has the responsibility and sense of responsibility of the elder brother. Even though Zhiqiang seems to have been protected by his brother Zhichao, he is very smart and makes suggestions.
That person, but this child is too dependent on his elder brother. He can think and give advice, but he is used to waiting for his elder brother to make the final decision."
"So when they go to elementary school, I plan to separate Zhichao and Zhiqiang and not be in the same class." Su Shu said, "We need to train Zhiqiang so that he can get rid of this dependence and learn to make his own decisions.
Make a decision."
Liang Zhenguo's riding speed gradually slowed down, and his thoughts were brought to the two children.
If you think about it carefully, it is indeed what Su Shu said.
It's just that Su Shu didn't say anything about these things, and he actually ignored them.
"What about Yiyi?" Liang Zhenguo asked.
"——This child used to be timid and loved to cry. After being with Zhichao and the others for so long, she is much bolder now and doesn't like to cry anymore. But there is a big regret in her character. I don't know if it can be changed.
Got her."
"You also know that she came to our house after her parents left. Su Jianxing was very good to her, as if she were his own daughter. But Su Jianxing was very busy at work and was not at home often. Only Zhang Fen and the original Su Shu stayed with her at home.
"
"You also know the characters of Zhang Fen and the original Su Shu. When the three of us are at home, we live a good life. Zhang Fen is not a bad person and can also feel pain. That Su Shu is also a good cousin, because I am grateful to my uncle.
Auntie loved her in the past, so she gave this love to her."
"But when the Zhang family came, neither Zhang Fen nor Su Shu could suppress the Zhang family. Moreover, the Zhang family had no scruples about what they said. They didn't think anything should be said in front of their children. What they said was not nice.
To hurt people, Zhang Fen often asked Zhang Fen not to raise Yiyi in front of Yiyi, saying that Yiyi was just a dragster and was eating for free."
"Yiyi is a sensitive and timid child. He has hidden these words in his heart, so have you noticed that Yiyi is not willful and has a bad temper?"
"When Zhichao and Zhiqiang still had trouble with us, they wanted to eat braised pork. Zhiqiang and Zhichao held my arms and shook me. My mother is long and my mother is short. The braised pork made by my mother is the most fragrant in the world. They saw others buying it.
If they want new toys that are not available, they will also take the initiative to ask me for an application form."
When Su Shu said this, Liang Zhenguo understood, "Yiyi has never taken the initiative to mention what she wants. When she does, she wants it for Zhichao and Zhiqiang."
So it should be said that Yiyi has never taken the initiative to mention what she wants or does for herself.
"Being obedient, not willful, and not making adults unhappy is like it is engraved in her bones. She is framed in these rules that she has figured out by herself. She feels that only in this way can she not be disliked, and not be disliked.
will be given away."
Su Shu sighed, "I hope girls can live more freely, so I don't let Zhichao and Zhiqiang call her aunt. This call and adding an elder status to her will make her more
Give yourself the rule that as she is an elder, she must take good care of Zhichao and Zhiqiang."
"Children, you just have to grow up and become sensible when you reach the age where you should be sensible." Su Shuke never thought about making a five-year-old child as mature and sensible as a fifteen-year-old or a twenty-five-year-old.
Are you still a child?
As long as there are adults in the family who care about their child, who hasn't had a little care when their child was five years old?
"If one day they come to me one by one to ask for something, then I can rest assured." Su Shu said.
"Raising a child is really a worry." Liang Zhenguo felt quite embarrassed, "When I brought Zhichao Zhiqiang with me, I thought that as long as I fed and clothed the child and sent him to school, I was raising a child."
Later, after seeing Su Shu's method of raising children, Liang Zhenguo realized that there was so much knowledge in raising children.
Now I know that raising children requires so much observation and thinking.
Now I realize how easy it is to raise children, but how hard it is to raise children well.
"I don't know how to raise children well, but the detours I have taken and the hardships I have experienced are always right for children to avoid." Su Shu thought, this should be what she thought when she was a child.
All kids will want it.
To satisfy her childhood is to satisfy the childhood of the three children in the family.
Liang Zhenguo suddenly stopped the car, put one foot on the ground, and held the handle of the car with one hand. He turned around, put his other hand around Su Shu's shoulder, and patted her twice gently.