Logically speaking, Zhao Mingyang should not do this because it is very risky.
But Zhao Mingyang did this. It seemed risky, but in fact it was not.
Because to participate in the wedding within the scope set by Zhao Mingyang, the list of participants must apply for visas. Zhao Mingyang arranged for someone to go there and directly count everyone's information.
After they get there, Zhao Mingyang can prepare to enter without bringing their mobile phones, and let a group of foreigners pretend to be guests and hand in their mobile phones, so that others will follow suit and avoid some people taking random photos and videos.
The most important thing is time, as well as age. The older ones can't come, and the younger ones are in school. There are probably a few people who come. According to their family's social circle, there are probably not many people who are too busy.
There is a high probability that their family will ask Zhao Mingyang whether it can be held at their place since many people cannot go.
Zhao Mingyang would choose a day when everyone is busy to complete this wedding. Is this a wedding? Obviously not. Gu Man will also be very busy after that, so this thing will never happen.
Zhao Mingyang just wants to give people an attitude and make Gu Man and her parents think that Zhao Mingyang can really marry Gu Man. What will be the final result?
There is a high probability that Zhao Mingyang will go to their hometown, but Zhao Mingyang will never complete the wedding in a hotel. It is too risky.
Zhao Mingyang will rent a luxury cruise ship to complete the wedding. This is something that few people will do. Secondly, the cost is also high. Many people have never been on a luxury cruise ship once in their lives.
Zhao Mingyang would hold a wedding on the cruise ship, and then leave with an excuse after the ceremony. But the cruise ship would drift on the coast for a few days, and there would be various performances every day to keep these relatives and friends entertained.
Zhao Mingyang can prepare in advance and ask Li Yanqing to make a small Trojan or something. Whoever connects to the mobile phone can check it. Any photos of Zhao Mingyang will be deleted directly.
If you don't leave a photo for them, they won't care about it if they are having fun. As for the wedding poster, Zhao Mingyang will not do it at all. Moreover, Zhao Mingyang will speed up the progress of the wedding and remove it after the toast.
Doesn’t the Aegean Sea sound romantic? But it is too far away for ordinary people. Celebrities and wealthy people usually hold such weddings and prepare them a year in advance to give guests enough time to attend the wedding.
However, Zhao Mingyang had to rush to sell the goods, and it was impossible to have enough time. Moreover, many relatives and friends could not delay some things just because they went abroad. Zhao Mingyang's itinerary was set for at least five days.
What if these five days are stuck from Monday to Friday, it is not a holiday, and it is when the child is about to take the final exam?
For those who work, it is not easy to take five days off.
So Zhao Mingyang had no intention of going to the Aegean Sea to get married, but Zhao Mingyang's attitude was very touching.
As expected, within a week at most, they will find that this is not suitable and will still request to hold it locally. Then Zhao Mingyang will have the initiative and they will not need to arrange it because they rejected Zhao Mingyang once.
Zhao Mingyang will arrange a luxury motorcade to pick up the relatives and friends of Gu Man's family, then board the cruise ship and let them take photos. At that time, Zhao Mingyang will explain to the lighting engineer that they should try to put the light on Zhao Mingyang's face. Even if they take the photo, Zhao Mingyang will not be able to be clearly captured.
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The initiative lies with Zhao Mingyang, who is not afraid of trouble at all.
When Zhao Mingyang arranges a May Day holiday, then someone will have time. There is no signal at sea, and the guests' mobile phones cannot connect to the Internet. Zhao Mingyang has the final say when the signal will be provided.
As for the final hurdle, as long as she breaks through and convinces Gu Man, there may be no need for Zhao Mingyang to tell her. Gu Man will just tell her family directly to keep everything simple and not allow guests to take photos.
The above are all Zhao Mingyang's preparation plans. In the end, the one Zhao Mingyang wants to take advantage of is Gu Man.
Gu Man would only start the above plan after Gu Man couldn't figure it out, but in front of Gu Man's parents, Zhao Mingyang had to express his position without hesitation. Whether he did it or not was another matter.
After eating, drinking, and washing up, Gu Man's parents went back to the room to rest, and Zhao Mingyang and Gu Man also went back to the room to rest.
Zhao Mingyang was lying on the bed in his pajamas, and Gu Man went to bed wearing a facial mask and holding a magazine.
The bedside lamp was a bit dazzling, so Zhao Mingyang adjusted it. He smelled it, and it still smelled like alcohol. Gu Man's parents had finished drinking, and because they were done drinking, they stopped talking, otherwise they would have to continue talking.
Zhao Mingyang wanted to make Gu Man's parents drunk quickly. They didn't eat much, and they were busy cooking with Gu Man in the kitchen. They didn't finish their work until Zhao Mingyang came. It was equivalent to drinking on an empty stomach, and they could easily get drunk.
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On the other hand, Zhao Mingyang had enough to eat and drink, and the wine he drank was good and not too drunk, so drinking half a kilo of wine would not be a big problem.
Zhao Mingyang looked at Gu Man and said, "If you want to ask, just ask."
Gu Man pretended not to hear and read the magazine carefully.
"Stop looking, your eyes betray you, your absent-mindedness is written in your eyes, just ask." Zhao Mingyang said again.
Gu Man pursed her lips and said, "Are you really planning to marry me?"
Gu Man had already gathered up the courage to say these words. She was not sure that Zhao Mingyang would really do that. She would just send Gu Man's parents away.
Gu Man is no longer a little girl. In fact, she has seen very clearly. Zhao Mingyang's current achievements, his social circle, he is young, good-looking, capable and rich. If this kind of man is a good gentleman, there will be no chance at all.
That ability rises.
Women will swarm towards her, just like many men who like Gu Man. The reason why Gu Man doesn't dare to be half-hearted is because she knows very well that if she falls in love with Zhao Mingyang, Zhao Mingyang may just abandon her.
We are all adults and know some underlying rules. Moreover, Gu Man also knows that no other man can treat her like Zhao Mingyang, but Gu Man doesn't know Zhao Mingyang's attitude and affection towards her.
, impossible to guess.
Zhao Mingyang hugged Gu Man and said, "Of course it's true, I want to give you a very romantic wedding, but my uncle and aunt are over there, so I really can't say anything more, because they don't believe me and are worried when I say something.
You may not know that I have been hunted down several times and narrowly escaped death several times."
As soon as these words came out, Gu Man became nervous instantly. She did not expect that Zhao Mingyang would be in such a trap.
"Don't be nervous. The reason why I tell you these things is actually to give you a vaccination in advance. If you and I get such huge benefits now, we must get them from other people.
To put it simply, when we gain benefits, someone must lose benefits. What is the fastest way to resolve conflicts of interest? There are no competitors.
Often the simplest method may be the most effective, such as leaving a company without a leader, or using family members to control the head of the company.
Do you know what I am afraid of? I have arranged bodyguards for my parents, even my grandparents. I am afraid that if my relationship with you is known to others, they will probably use you against me. Or even use
Your parents threatened you to deal with me, or they were dealt with by others.
If the other party wants to avoid future troubles, you may also be threatened or even dealt with.
This is why those big guys protect the privacy of their homes very well, fearing that their weaknesses will be caught.
Apart from the fact that there is no way out, I don't want the two of us to be tied together. It's best for us to keep our distance. If something changes, one person can step aside to help the other person.
Your parents, my parents can no longer understand our current situation, because the height we have reached now is beyond the cognitive scope of 99.9% of people.
Would you say that the life safety risk factor of an ordinary person is greater, or that our current life safety factor is greater?
You have to realize clearly that you and I are no longer ordinary people. This is not because I am arrogant or think that I am superior to others, but because we have reached this situation and we can no longer be the same as ordinary people.
Look at some things from the perspective of ordinary people.
I don’t know what my risks will be next time, and you don’t know either. What we can do now is not only give our family the best life, but also give them the greatest protection.
Let’s put it this way, if someone your parents know asks you for help, and you don’t want to help, or I don’t want to, they will hate us, or even your parents. Or, if your employees want to retaliate against you, they can’t help you.
When I get the chance to attack you, I will look for your parents and me. Is this the same logic for the people I offend?
Put yourself in someone else's shoes, if you and someone are fighting to the death, you know how you will deal with your opponent, and you will also directly attack the opponent's weakness, because this is the simplest and most effective method, which no one has ever done before.
At this level, I have concerns about many things.
But now, your network should make it easy for you to deal with personal matters.
Getting married is the easiest thing. You and I are going to get a certificate now, then hold a wedding and invite some people in our circle, but can we not invite the people our parents want to invite?
No, we can raise the requirements for the invitation list. It doesn’t matter if we don’t invite people who used to be just gifts. But what about our parents? They are interested in the money, not to mention the money, because they don’t think they will lose money if they come back, and they want to make friends they knew in the past.
You need to have face in front of relatives.
Let everyone see that we are living a good life, but then we may be directly tied together, and it will be much easier for others to deal with us, but what if the other party cannot discover this relationship?
The other party is not sure what your relationship is with me. If they attack you, you can deal with the other party and I will still have time to act alone to help you. Or if others deal with me, they may not consider you. In this way, even if something happens to me, I
I can rest assured that my parents will be left to you, and you will definitely take care of them for me, right?
Let me tell you something more direct. Some people even disappear us for no cost. The most they can do is think about their mistakes behind closed doors. You must think clearly about how to reduce the risk."
Gu Man was told by Zhao Mingyang, and he really felt that what he said was right. The risks were something that Gu Man had not considered at the moment.
Fortunately, Zhao Mingyang reminded her that she did notice a change. She did attend many activities recently, and some people recognized her on the street. But she really didn't think about it that much, thinking that she would just name her at most.
"Then let's not get married, I'll tell my parents." Gu Man said.
"What are you talking about? You can't make sense, and they won't listen. They will also think that I don't want to get married, so I can get married. Look at those big guys, only a few people hold weddings and weddings, especially if you look at it
Have any happy events in a real boss's family ever been reported?
What do we want to learn? It is the way of doing things of those people sitting at the table talking on TV. Keeping everything simple is the best. They have given us methods to imitate. It is best to sit down and eat with the elders in the family.
Eating or something.
To be honest, we can do big things, but it depends on our future achievements and whether we want to take another step forward. If we take another step forward, we must minimize the exposure of information about our family on the Internet.
Otherwise, we bring them risks to gain, which does not mean that after we give them material improvement, it is all good. In the same way, we bring them potential risks.
You should also understand that there is no excuse to accuse us, because the mistakes we made may affect them, so you need to take precautions, and it is best to arrange for your parents to go abroad first to adapt."
Zhao Mingyang's words gave Gu Man a sense of crisis. In this sense of crisis, Zhao Mingyang repeatedly mentioned weaknesses and the safety of his family. This is a sales technique that is effective. For example, some live broadcasts will repeat a sentence over and over to make people remember.
"Let's see, I'll make arrangements when the time comes and give an explanation to the elders, but I won't make a big deal about it. It's really too high-profile. It's not urgent. I'll talk to my parents about it. You're right, after all.
They cannot understand our current situation. They have lived in a small town all their lives.
The people I have the most contact with are probably the principals. You ask them to think about so many things and they won’t be able to think about it. I didn’t think about that much, but you are right. Nip it in the bud and we will bring prosperity to our family.
At the same time, life also brings potential risks."
"As long as you understand, I like your reasonable attitude. Let me answer your question seriously. Am I willing to marry you? Yes, but I don't want it to be in form or name, but between us.
Love that can trust each other without any shackles.
Do you know what I like about you? I like your consideration of the overall situation, your sensibleness, and even more your understanding and reasonableness. To me, you are no longer just a lover, but a confidante and a soul mate.
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How many people can have a confidante and a close friend in their life?
There is an old saying: A man will die for a confidant, and a woman will look good for a man who pleases her. Because no one in this world understands me better than you. When I need help, you can stand up without hesitation. When I am sad, you are always there.
You can stay with me.
I have always felt that love is the simplest level, because it is just about two people being happy with each other, but it is hard to find a close friend. It means truly understanding each other, I understand you, and you understand me. How many people have you seen after being together?
Within a year or two, we started to get tired of each other and dislike each other, because each felt that the other did not understand each other.
What about us? We have been together for almost four years. Do you find me annoying? Do I find you annoying? You don’t think so. Moreover, we appreciate each other more and more. How many people can do this?
As for worldly perspectives, do you care? Do I care? We don’t have to care at all now. What we care about now is which level we can eventually reach in this world, and how many people from the past will you still be in contact with?
How many people want to contact you? Those who can't contact you will comment on you. What will they do after contacting you? It's nothing more than flattery and wanting to get more benefits from you.
Just like getting married, when you are poor and you invite others, others will think that you are doing it to make some money. Some people even don’t want to go to your wedding if they have time. They feel embarrassed and are afraid of being seen.
Get to know you.
But when you are rich and you invite them again, they will feel proud that they can get your invitation, and they will take care of themselves to attend your wedding, for fear of losing you.
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Are we still pursuing a secular perspective? We should not only pursue the value of life, but also the value of existence.
Let’s put it this way, if we hadn’t changed at the beginning, we would most likely have had more experience in life than our parents’ generation, but not much more. After all, they were young too. When we have children, our parents will grow old, and our children will
When we grow up, our children get married, and we become grandparents.
When we are old and our grandchildren have grown up, do you think they will still remember our grandparents? Can’t remember, have they met or have they met, do they remember their names? Can’t remember, do they care what they do? Don’t care, we
They will not remember or care about the names of your parents. It will be the same when we grow old. Do you still remember the names of your grandparents' parents and what they did? Do you care about the names of your grandparents' parents?
The most our descendants will do in the future is to pay us a grave as usual and know that we are ancestors. This is when no accidents happen, but if accidents happen, it will be natural or man-made disasters.
We need to move away, and we will no longer exist in the future. Our only value is to reproduce future generations.
But what if we have value? For example, in modern times, people would say that we are descendants of Lu Xun. No matter where we are, our descendants will remember us. Why? Because the value of Mr. Lu Xun is not only the reproduction of future generations.
For example, you, Gu Man, your relatives and friends will say in the future that my classmate is Gu Man, Gu Man and I have sat at the same table, my relative is Gu Man, my cousin is Gu Man, my niece is Gu Man, and my daughter is Gu Man.
, why should I mention you? Because you are the pride of your relatives and friends, and you are a valuable existence.
Your name will be in your city records, your name will be in your alma mater, and you will be specifically noted in your family tree. This is valuable.
Compared with these, how much do you think the value of marriage is?"
Gu Man felt a little powerful. Just when she had not fully digested the existence of a kind of self-love, Zhao Mingyang suddenly got out of bed, walked to Gu Man's bed, knelt down on one knee, took out a ring and said: "Ms. Gu Man,
Will you marry me? Go into the future with me and stay by my side all the time?"
Gu Man took off her mask and said with a surprised look on her face: "Brother, what are you sitting at? I'm lying on the bed disheveled and I haven't even put on makeup, and you're here all of a sudden."
"When two people grow old together, they have to accept all sides of each other. You will always be the most beautiful in my eyes."
When Gu Man was told this, she felt instantly filled with happiness. She got out of bed and stood next to Zhao Mingyang and said: "As long as you live up to me, I will only have you in this life. Do you understand Zhao Mingyang? I have no other way to go in my life."
It’s really just you.”
Zhao Mingyang opened the box, took out a diamond ring and said, "I personally customized this ring for you. It contains my tears and blood. My tears and blood will be handed over to you from now on."
In fact, Zhao Mingyang has many more of this ring, and they are all placed in the house with a sandbox. Each box has a standard name, and the size cannot be mistaken.
But as long as you add a story to the ring, it will be very valuable.
Gu Man looked at the ring lovingly, hugged Zhao Mingyang and said, "Kiss me!"
