Zhao Mingyang's experience of going out for a week this time really made him know what he wanted. It was the same no matter where he went. He didn't want to get close to something, let alone know more about something.
The more he knows, the smaller his range of activities becomes, and the less he speaks.
Maybe some people like this, but Zhao Mingyang doesn't want this kind of life. He has been exposed to it, and as Qian Jun said, he still has a chance to withdraw. After all, he has reached this point and there is no shortage of money, so he can enjoy life.
Zhao Mingyang and Qian Jun drank a lot. They almost finished a box of beer. They hadn't drank like this for a long time.
Both of them no longer care about certain things and want to let them go.
Qian Jun and Zhao Mingyang chose to go for a walk after dinner. They lay down on the lawn of a park and watched the starry sky. It was dark all around. Two big men were lying in the woods in the park. This would have to be photographed by the media, and if they were celebrities,
, then the content will be rich.
"You are still young. You can get married and have children while you are young. You can go out to eat, drink and have fun. Don't think about getting more, or just investing in something. It's really good to be ordinary people. For example, you and I can do whatever we want.
Is it okay to talk and have a drink on the street now?
I am wary of the people around me every day. I am deeply afraid of saying the wrong thing and causing trouble. Sometimes I feel really tired when I think about it. The more powerful I am, the more tired I am. I have to be responsible for every word I say. Whatever I said in the past is nothing.
I came here with my mouth open, but now I have to look left and right to say anything, for fear that someone would hear that it was me who said it, which would cause trouble.
My family members are also careful. I am tense every day. To be honest, I am tired and don’t want to be like this anymore. I just want to go fishing, drink tea, travel, eat and drink.
The last time I went for a physical examination, they said that all my indicators were not up to standard. I was afraid that I would die suddenly and lose blood.
Don’t ever get close to that circle again, we are not that kind of people, and we cannot afford that kind of risk, because you and I are not that kind of material.”
Zhao Mingyang nodded and said: "Yes, we are not that kind of material. This week I feel like I am in a sealed area. I don't know how those people can feel nothing. This kind of life has only one thing every day.
What about the ability to cover the sky with your hands? Because you are not the only one who has it. So it is a limitation.
Anyway, I can't do it. All the core points are in one person. I must pay attention to the change of that point at all times. If I don't pay attention in time, I may be in danger.
You are really not as good as ordinary people. You can only complain a few words about the unsatisfactory life. How happy you are."
"Yes, if we now say that being ordinary is happiness, we will definitely be criticized by many people. Many people think that we are telling lies." Qian Jun said.
"Otherwise? I used to sneer at my current self because I didn't enjoy it before. I can't just say that mediocrity is happiness just because I've finished enjoying it.
Because I have enjoyed the choice, but now that I have the choice, I have to choose quickly. I have decided not to go near that circle anymore. It is not suitable for me. How old am I? My brain speeds up every day.
It's running, the intrigues are so tiring, I'm really tired, I just started, and I guess I will probably do this every day in the future." Zhao Mingyang said.
"Yes, we have some talents who say that being mediocre is a blessing. I have talked to many people recently and everyone feels very tired. We are not the only ones who are tired. Many people have retired early.
But it’s not considered retirement. Go and do something you like. You’re still young, so it’s best to make good choices. If you want to be close to that circle, then you can’t be in this state, and Xianyun Yehe’s state is not good.
It's not that easy to stay away from that circle. You have to let go completely, and you have to let people see that you don't want to be in that circle, instead of making people think that you are holding back something to attract people's scruples. It will be difficult to get out even more.
Difficult, go back!" Qian Jun stood up and left, while Zhao Mingyang lay there looking at the stars.
Zhao Mingyang was thinking carefully about what Qian Jun said. It is difficult to get in and even harder to get out. This is to let people know that he does not want to participate in any messy things.
Completely let go and let others do the work, and never interfere until life or death is at stake.
For example, in his previous life, Zhao Mingyang remembered that Lao Duan had many properties, but everyone thought he had no real power and was just a shareholder.
Moreover, he has not participated in any management at all for more than ten or twenty years. Most people do not pay attention to finance and even know nothing about him.
But it wasn't until a company made a major decision that he came out and stopped it directly. He stopped investing tens of billions of dollars at a time, and everyone realized that he still had the most say.
I don’t know if he was right to call for a halt, but he did prove that the companies that are apparently related to him are all his, and not just as simple as shareholders. He is the only person behind the scenes who can determine the fate of the company.
People can play online games every day, hang out every day, and go for a walk every day. Those people under their control can build a company with a market value of hundreds of billions or trillions. Why can't I do it myself?
If his wealth is announced, it is estimated that only Hong Kong Island Li can suppress him if he also announces all his wealth. The wealth of these two people is already a mystery, but Hong Kong Island Li has not retreated as fast as his old brother, nor has he.
He laid it out well.
The main thing is that Li has no capable people in Hong Kong, and it can be said that he doesn't know how to distribute things, so he has been on stage. Lao Duan completely knows how to use people to lay out the layout. This is closer to some centuries-old families, secretive, rich and
Have the right to speak.
Zhao Mingyang doesn't care anymore, let it go, don't miss it anymore, the handicap is so big, he can't keep following it, and at worst, he will lose it, so he won't give it up.
He made an important decision. From now on, he would not interfere with the company's operations and let them do it on their own. He would never take action until the company's survival was at stake. Then he could peacefully be a person who stayed away from right and wrong, go to school and give lectures, and live his life.
In my childhood, I went to the park to play chess and went fishing by the river.
If I don’t work hard, I want to work hard too! But my strength doesn’t allow it. I haven’t reached that otherworldly state.
I also want to work hard! But if the end point of hard work is not happiness, then just lie down.
Zhao Mingyang realized something overnight, and he could predict the future and know the endings of some people. He chose to stop his efforts early, but not working hard did not mean not doing things. He would still take action at the critical moment. He now needs to experience his state of mind.
, we must learn to keep a low profile and bide our time.
He was indeed a little too fast. At this point, he only had two choices, either join or leave.
He chose to leave temporarily. He had a hunch that if things continued like this, he would hold many meetings, contact higher-level people, and even participate in some discussions and discussions every day and accompany some people to fly around the world every day.
He may also be asked to do something, and Zhao Mingyang will become more and more passive. He will have to choose who to follow in the end. If he follows the wrong one, he will lose everything. So what if he follows the right one? It’s not about looking at people’s faces, so why not do it?
An ordinary person.
History has told everyone that the higher you go, the more tragic the ending may be. The rest of the people who can have a good ending are like Guo Ziyi, who has the door open and people entering and leaving their home every day. That is really for
Self-protection allows the whole family to live in a high-pressure environment every day, without any privacy at all.
Zhao Mingyang thought for a moment, what should he do? Indeed, as Qian Jun said, people have to see that Zhao Mingyang really doesn't want to get involved in anything, he just wants to wander around the world, and no one will care about him.
After thinking about it and unable to figure it out, Zhao Mingyang went to see Wu Zhonghua and wanted him to give him final advice. He was the most powerful person Zhao Mingyang could contact.
Half an hour later, Zhao Mingyang entered the password and opened the door of Wu Zhonghua's house. This was the password lock that Zhao Mingyang had just changed for him, so he didn't have to go out and bring the key.
Now Wu Zhonghua takes his grandson to and from school every day, and then sends his grandson to cram school every day. He plays with his grandson on Saturdays and Sundays. He is very busy every day.
At this time, Zhao Mingyang looked at the time and saw that it was 10:15 in the evening. It was really not good for him to come here drunk, but because they got along better, the two of them did have the same affection as father and son, so they didn't have too many restrictions.
"Dad, are you asleep?" Zhao Mingyang called outside Wu Zhonghua's door.
"No, wait until I get back. I'll be back soon." Wu Zhonghua responded, and after a while he walked out of the bedroom door and motioned to Zhao Mingyang to go to the study to talk while his grandson went to bed.
"Mingyang, you said that children now have so much homework to do in school, and their parents have to mark and sign it every day. It makes me exhausted. If you hadn't gotten me this smartphone, I really wouldn't know how to use it.
There are three groups: cram school group, interest class group, and three teachers of the three subjects of Chinese, Mathematics and English in school. I have to keep an eye on the group every day.
Videos are made and uploaded every day, and the children are asked to memorize Chinese texts and English. Parents also ask parents to give their children math questions. They send them to school at 8:20 in the morning and pick them up at noon. They also have homework, which is delivered at 1:40 in the afternoon.
Go to school, get out of school at 5:40, and then send you to a cram school. You will be picked up at 8:00. Your child still has to complete some school homework when he gets home.
Just like that, I went to bed at half past nine and fell asleep when I got to bed. I looked so tired. I will definitely get tired of studying like this over time." Wu Zhonghua complained, just like ordinary parents.
"Yes, the children are really tired now. In fact, a lot of it is useless learning, but there is no way, everyone is the same, otherwise I will arrange to go to an international school obviously." Zhao Mingyang said.
"No, we retired people complain in the group every day and decided to reflect it. From now on, homework will be done at school. We can no longer make parents so tired. They don't do anything else every day and just focus on their children's homework.
And how much better can an international school be? Let’s not talk about comparisons. What we study every day is no less than this. We have to learn various arts every day. In the end, the children have no sense of competition. Human beings are actually no different from animals. They are just predators of the jungle.
Just living things.
If you can't adapt to this, you haven't had this ability since you were a child, and you'll have to suffer later when you grow up, just do this for now, and you'll start talking about it in middle school, and you won't be able to escape it when you grow up. Let him have this awareness first when he was a child, and then he will have it when he grows up.
I think and make arrangements by myself. I only need to do one thing. I guarantee that I will let him play as much as he wants on Saturday and Sunday.
Normally, I have stopped taking cram schools that I don’t think are necessary. I just need to teach myself and keep up with my studies. It doesn’t matter if I am busy. I feel like I am busy with things every day. To be honest, I feel like I have a sense of life.
Take it with you, I can still move for one day and I can accompany him for one day. I am so scared now. If I have a headache and a fever, I will go to the hospital. The least I can do is watch this kid get married, right?
I had nothing to do and chatted with the parents, played chess and cards, and it was a fulfilling day. They were all picked up and dropped off by grandparents. They were basically from our generation. We also had common topics. We sent them to international schools and were picked up and dropped off by car. Most of them were nannies and drivers.
Take it, how boring it is.
The main reason is that international schools have a congenital flaw. I have researched them. They only teach people to be happy and do not tell children what kind of world this is. I asked some foreign education friends, and the answer they gave me was that these so-called
International schools are the evolution of foreign public schools.
The real aristocratic schools abroad, just like our domestic public schools, are the opposite, because many families there train their successors from an early age, just like the princes in the past, they have to learn to govern the country from an early age.
Only those families who are not successors will let their children grow up happily. To put it bluntly, they will give up their inheritance rights and lose the ability to compete. They will lose the consciousness and rules of survival from an early age.
The least I can do is make Mingming capable of protecting his mother. If I really want him to grow up happily, what do you think I should do if I leave?"
"Then he still has mine? Don't worry, I will ensure that he grows up happily." Zhao Mingyang said.
"What about you when you get old? At least you have better survival ability. If you get older, I want to play with him, but he probably won't like playing with me anymore." Wu Zhonghua said with a smile.
"Then if I have more children, you can help me take care of two of them. I like taking care of children so much." Zhao Mingyang said with a smile.
"That's right. Why are you having more children? Are you worried about coming to me so late?" Wu Zhonghua asked.
"Yes, I have some doubts and I would like your help to answer them. I can't find anyone smarter than you, and there is no one with a higher level than you, so I hope you can give me answers..."
Wu Zhonghua listened to Zhao Mingyang's troubles, picked up the kettle and made some tangerine peel water to drink. He was not in a hurry to answer Zhao Mingyang's words.
After thinking for a long time, he said: "Retreat now, but not with your whole body. You have to retreat with your body and soul, pay attention to the daily information at all times, and keep your early warning ability."
There is nothing to worry or worry about. At this age, I have seen clearly that people are alive. At most 180 people can leave their names in history in a hundred years, and only ten of them will be remembered for some of the things they did in their lives. On average, in ten years the world may
There is only one person who exists beyond ordinary people.
If you don't think about fighting for fame and wealth, and don't think about leaving a name in history, then you might as well enjoy life. What you will eventually return to is life. As long as you can guarantee yourself a free body, just let it go. Look at how comfortable I am.
If I hadn't quit early, I would probably have had more troubles. How comfortable I am now, but if I think about it, I can't go back once I quit, and I can't go back.
Now you are just one step away from entering that circle. But when you want to exit, the door will be closed. It is difficult to open it. After all, you are not thirty yet, but you are almost there. You will be thirty when you reach thirty.
You have done it in advance, but you still want to build a bigger career and industry.
My advice to you is to enjoy the moment. Can you guarantee that tomorrow or the accident will come first? Just find something that makes you happy and do it. Don’t look so far ahead. What you look at is nothing more than immediate benefits or for yourself.
Self-interest, so there is no big benefit in looking far away. What you are looking at is not looking far away, but is just strengthening your protection. If you have enough protection now, don't look too far away.
Leave long-term matters to those who are more capable and want to leave a name in history. Remember, there are only ten people in a hundred years, and you are definitely not one, so don’t take yourself too seriously, and don’t think too much.
If you have more, you’ll be happy.”
"I understand." Zhao Mingyang said.
That night he slept at Wu Zhonghua's house. He went back early the next morning, took a shower, changed clothes, and held an online meeting. He told some things and then took a long breath. It's good to be an ordinary person.
Now he is thinking about what he will do now that he is retired?
