Chapter 281: Trying to figure out Ye Wenshu [Please subscribe]
Zhao Mingyang really wanted to cry when he looked at the information about Ye Wenshu. Apart from photos and the like, there was basically no useful information. Her domestic social accounts were not revealed, and there were basically no personal preferences. This person first of all paid great attention to privacy protection.
Secondly, I only work most of the time, so there is no other information to check. Otherwise, someone would have found out long ago, which would be difficult.
But one thing Lao Mu said is right, that is, the beauty trap is probably still useful.
Among the people who went to find Ye Wenshu before, the women were rejected, the young ones were older, the men were also rejected, the young ones were older.
This proves that she really treats everyone equally, but there is one thing that she has never experienced before. Most of the young and handsome ones are immature and cannot be calmed down. Those who can be calmed down are older, either bald or have a beer belly.
What about the combination of the two? Has it ever happened? Actually not.
This is also the current situation of many male actors in China. They were very handsome when they were young, but after 40, they have nothing to film. Because of problems with body management, many of them have suddenly become out of shape. Their figures are out of shape and their faces have become oily, so they can only appear in roles.
Dad, or a half-way couple or something like that.
On the other hand, those male stars in Hong Kong and Taiwan can still take good care of themselves in their fifties and can still act in idol dramas. It feels like they have not changed much in decades. In fact, they are just ruthless enough. Hong Kong and Taiwan male stars have a long acting life and they have put in a lot of effort.
The price is nothing more than giving up some other entertainment, exercising every day, controlling your diet, and taking care of your skin. Knowing that your face depends on your face, you have to take good care of your face.
Men who have a young mentality, good health, and pay attention to maintenance can actually benefit from their appearance for a long time. Especially after the age of forty, the gap between men and women widens. Generally, after the age of forty, men only need to pay attention to body management and skin care.
It can last another ten or twenty years.
After a woman reaches the age of forty, she begins to visibly age. Most female stars at this age will either choose to get married, retire or have no film and television resources, and start to work behind the scenes as directors or investors. However, domestic stars,
Female celebrities take better care of themselves than male celebrities, and most of them are afraid of playing the role of mother.
Simply put, as long as a man maintains good figure and appearance, his career will last longer.
Zhao Mingyang took out paper and pen and started to get clues from Ye Wenshu's glasses to his clothes.
You have to judge the personality of the other person from the clothes he wears. Sometimes you can judge a person's personality by his dressing style. Although Zhao Mingyang never believed in this statement before, as his experience increased, he found that it really is.
You can see your personality through your clothes, just like you can see your essence through phenomena.
Generally speaking, people who like to wear fashionable clothes, except for celebrities who endorse brands, most of them have immature personalities, or they don't know which style suits them, and they just follow the crowd without finding their own niche.
People who like to wear bright and colorful clothes are mostly expressive, outgoing, lively and humorous. Of course, many people will give people a clean impression by wearing white, which extends from cleanliness to purity.
They like to wear simple and plain clothes, especially those in dark colors. These people are actually more particular and good at hiding their thoughts. Of course, some people wear clothes just to wear them for a few more days, purely because black can resist stains.
There is also a type of people who usually wear jeans and T-shirts. This type of people do not pursue the appearance of perfection. They like to dress more comfortably, do things casually and do not like to be restricted. In their dictionary, there is nothing more comfortable and casual.
more important words about sex,
Save 10,000 words, the above points are just some psychological definitions, but this judgment cannot be completely relied on.
Zhao Mingyang looked at Ye Wenshu's clothes. They were basically black, white and gray, and they were all professional attire. From clothes to shoes, she liked the same color combination.
And they are all like work suits, shirts, suits, skirts, high heels, very fixed combinations, more than a dozen photos, all in this style.
One thing is certain, Ye Wenshu is a person who pays great attention to regularity and will not change easily. This is the key point.
To deal with this kind of person, you need to give her something new, such as "accidents" to break her rules and make her lose her rhythm.
Looking at the clothing brands, each brand's clothing positioning and crowd are different. For example, Dior focuses on girly style and petty bourgeoisie, Chanel is traditional and classic, Gucci advocates flamboyance and strength, Burberry...
As for her major, she studied hotel management abroad.
This kind of tuition is not cheap and cannot be afforded by ordinary families, but it is not one of those pheasant universities, and the tuition is not ridiculously expensive. It is nothing more than tuition + living expenses. Calculated at US$50,000 to US$100,000 per year, an average only child
A female family has no pressure on real estate and can basically afford it.
Temporarily, you may be from a well-off family, or you may be working and studying at the same time. There are many of these. In short, the minimum position will not be lower than that of a well-off family.
The standard for a well-off family is an annual income of 300,000 to 500,000 RMB. A wealthy family is 50 to 100 RMB. A petty bourgeoisie is 80 to 200 RMB. The middle class is 2 to 5 million RMB. Those above the middle class are rich people, rich families, huge families and super rich people.
, of course they are all in the class starting from 5 million to 50 million, so the gap is huge.
Of course, the standards of each period are different, but a well-off family is familiar to many people and they have heard it since childhood. What is a well-off family?
In front of a moderately prosperous society, there are extreme poverty, hardship, poverty, and poverty. When these four are crossed, a moderately prosperous society is achieved. The standard of a moderately prosperous society is actually very simple. A fixed income is saved every year, which is higher than the income of 90% of the people, and then the rest
They are the group of people who are richer than the well-off.
Like in many film and television dramas, the setting of a family with children is a well-off family.
Therefore, Zhao Mingyang thinks that Ye Wenshu should at least belong to a well-off family, and the standards of a well-off family can basically buy low-end luxury goods once a year, and they can also buy mid-range luxury goods once a year. It is difficult to buy high-end goods.
Determine her family background, study her upbringing environment, and infer more information.
When you reach the level of a well-off family, you have basically learned wealth management and life planning. Children from such families are basically precocious.
Premature maturity here is not what traditional people think of as early maturity. Just like children from poor families who become masters early, becoming a master early does not mean early maturity. It can only mean that they are obedient and sensible. They have mastered basic livelihood skills in a poor environment. They can survive but it is difficult to turn around.
Disaster.
The maturity mentioned here refers to the insight into human nature and the clarity of life planning.
When most of the children who have become parents grow up, most of their energy is devoted to hard work and neglecting the psychological understanding and insight of others, especially the weak control of human nature.
I tend to reject and despise things like building relationships and flattering. I am a bit aloof and not good at expressing myself, so I will miss some things.
It is also easy to get along with others, and it is easy to be taken advantage of. The use here is that you have done something without knowing it, and there are many people who are frustrated and frustrated. Most of them complain that they were born at the wrong time and their talents were not recognized. Most people
If you are stuck at this level, it will be difficult to break through.
Everyone who has entered society knows how important resources are and how important resource exchange is. However, children in most families have little resources. The most important thing is money. They are easy to pick and choose, even for some kind people.
If you are all searching and reluctant to invest, it will be difficult to get returns.
I am reluctant to spend money to invest in more things and people that can bring benefits to myself, but it is contradictory. I will be drunk now, eat and drink with my friends, and use limited money on ineffective socializing.
It is also easy to lend money to those unreliable people, and it is easy to get yourself into a quagmire, without considering whether you can get it back after lending it out, and how long it will take to get it back. If you don't get it back, will your capital chain be broken, causing very serious consequences?
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The last step is even more cruel, that is, many parents of ordinary families tell their children to work hard to get rich, but they do not tell their children how to get rich after hard work. They have no skills, and hard work can only be used to drive screws.
Being dedicated and hard-working are all correct, but they can only be reflected in the effective realization of skills. However, most people actually have no skills, and they don’t want to flatter others or engage in interpersonal relationships, so it is difficult to turn around.
If those at the bottom want to turn over, they must first understand life planning, such as clarifying what they should do tomorrow, and then improve their skills. Most people do not have any skills. If not, they can learn one by themselves to prevent them from being unable to survive in their fifties or sixties.
Skill.
Another thing is to know how to plan for parents’ retirement, children’s education, etc. Most well-off families will have certain clear plans for these things. Many families above well-off have already made wills early and have planned their entire life.
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For ordinary men, if they want to turn over, it becomes more difficult as they get older.
There is a summary on the Internet that says a man has eight chances to turn around.
One: Winning the lottery.
2: Meeting a rich woman
Three: Enter the college entrance examination into a prestigious school
Four: Choose the right professional skills
Five: Enter the industry and follow the right people
Six: Meeting a noble person for help
Seven: Marriage changes life
Eight: Demolition of the family house
Although it is a joke, in addition to winning the lottery, everything else is possible, especially some things that are human-controllable.
Zhao Mingyang has never believed that nine years of compulsory education, three years of college entrance examination, four years of college, years of workplace training, climbing the 7 a.m. rush hour, and seeing the streets in the early morning are definitely not to become one of the millions of ordinary people.
You must become the person you want to be and live the life you want.
Zhao Mingyang looked at Ye Wenshu's photo again and marked on the paper Ye Wenshu's possible growth environment, her parents' occupation, and her life plan.
First of all, Zhao Mingyang can be sure that hotel management is a profession that is not something that ordinary families can come into contact with and want to plan for.
It can be inferred that most people will not touch this field. It is probably related to family education and parents' work, which will make Ye Wenshu know more about this field, so he engages in this type of work.
There is a high probability that my parents are engaged in hotel management-related jobs, and their family life may be relatively closed and depressing. In fact, most people in the general service industry nod and bow with a smile on their faces at work, and do not like to talk too much when they get home.
If you are left alone, you will be more likely to have a bad temper in the family.
Because he knows that his family will not complain or criticize him. More importantly, he has the role of financial power in the family and is the head of the family. This is not a good thing for the child.
If both parents are engaged in hotel management-related jobs, their children will basically not receive any care, because most service industries do not have holidays, they are busiest during holidays, and rest is during non-holiday times.
If only one parent works and the other works full-time, the children may receive more care from the family, but for Ye Wenshu, there is a high probability that both parents are practitioners in this industry.
So what was her childhood like? Zhao Mingyang closed his eyes and began to think from someone else's perspective. He was probably the only one who was able to study a woman like this.
