Hao Ren took Zhao Mingyang and sat in a deserted corner and ordered two glasses of iced Americano. Zhao Mingyang knew that this kid must have made some new progress, so he did this. He was also afraid of being discovered that he was taking a road of no return. He was afraid
When people say that an honest person has rebelled, he is still morally afraid and scared. He is afraid that people will know what he is doing again, and he is afraid that others will know that he is no longer the honest person and good boy he seems to be.
"What's wrong?" Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren and asked.
"Um~ I'm in a deadlock now. According to what you said, I added a lot of girls selling clothes on WeChat, and some selling cosmetics. I bought more than 30 boxes of masks at home, and I also signed up for one.
In a dating agency, when people introduce me to girlfriends, I won’t refuse them.
But I feel so busy now. There are several more online. I checked and there are already more than 40 women. How should I proceed to the next step?" Hao Ren said without paying attention.
Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren with a shocked look on his face. This guy wanted to die in one go. Instead of following what he said, he wanted to cast a wider net.
"There are so many women, is there anyone you like but haven't asked out?" Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren and asked.
"Yes, there is a fellow countryman introduced by my aunt. We met a few days ago, but the other person has not contacted me. What should I do? I made an appointment with the other person to come out again, but he did not come out," Hao Ren said.
"Then what do you mean now? What do you think?" Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren and asked, what does this kid want?
"I want to be with the person my aunt introduced me. After all, she has a good education, looks good, and has a good family background. But she doesn't pay attention to me. It's not that she doesn't pay attention. She just likes to answer and ignore me.
, do you understand?" Hao Ren looked at Zhao Mingyang and asked.
"I understand, I completely understand what you mean. Let me think about it." Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren. He moved back and looked at Hao Ren carefully.
Hao Ren was a little creeped out by Zhao Mingyang's look. This look was a bit unnatural.
"The first impression you gave to your blind date was not good. Whether it was your dress or the topic of your chat, it was all wrong. That's why people refused you to come out for the second time. In fact, you can agree to a matchmaker to go out on a blind date.
Part of it is that you really want to find a partner, but have you ever thought about why she didn’t continue dating you after she came out?
To put it simply and bluntly, she doesn’t like you and has a bad impression of you. If the other party continues to chat with you without blocking you, or waits until you stop chatting with her, she can tell her family that it’s not me.
What I’m talking about is that the other party won’t talk to me. If you give up first, you’ll also give the matchmaker some face.
There is another possibility that the other party is hanging on to you and continues to look for you. This is more common and is commonly known as riding a donkey to look for a horse. And what should you do? Instead of rushing to meet her, you should clean yourself up first and get a haircut.
Go shopping for a nice outfit. When shopping for clothes, it’s best to find someone to go shopping with you.
Otherwise, you will be tricked by the salesperson into buying clothes that are not suitable for you. Clothes, pants, and shoes must all match and not be flashy. Don’t be reluctant to spend money to buy clothes for yourself.
If you don’t know how to dress, the most conservative way is a suit, shirt, and leather shoes. If you know how to match, just choose according to your body, skin color, and hair style. You have to figure this out first, and then we will move on to the next step. Remember, try to find someone to accompany you.
Are you going to buy clothes, and the other person should have some clothes? Don’t buy them yourself, because you won’t have any clothes at first sight.”
Hao Ren nodded and found that his clothes were indeed relatively simple, and he didn't pay attention to this detail.
Zhao Mingyang continued: "Topic, this is the most difficult topic for otakus to overcome, but sometimes you can try to avoid the topic when meeting, that is, don't look for places like movie theaters or coffee shops, and directly change the scene, such as going to a ski resort or an amusement park.
Go bungee jumping to places that most people may not go to, but would like to go to. These places can increase interactivity, but are also very time-consuming. Most of them are far away from the city.
You can buy a second-hand car, and if you really want to fall in love, you'd better buy a second-hand car."
Hao Ren looked at Zhao Mingyang and asked, "Is this necessary?"
"It's quite necessary. If you don't buy a second-hand car, you can rent a car or take a taxi for the whole journey. Try not to take a bus with a girl and squeeze into the bus. It will be a bad experience. Buying a second-hand car is because most boys are economical.
Generally speaking, if you spend RMB 60,000 to RMB 70,000 on a new car, you won’t be able to buy any decent model.
You can choose some models that are less than ten years old. This choice is much greater. If you can, don’t get a credit loan for second-hand car purchases. You would rather add a few thousand more. The interest rate on a credit loan is too high. Of course, you can use this when you have no money.
It is best to ask about the interest rate before buying a car.
Find a good-looking one. You can modify the interior by yourself. It's just a matter of changing the seat covers and changing the central control LCD screen to upgrade it to a higher level. For a second-hand car, find some popular models to buy. The maintenance cost will be low in the future and you can drive it for two or three years.
In other words, the compensation is 20,000 to 30,000 yuan. The 20,000 to 30,000 yuan is also used for your love investment, and it is your own car, so you are not afraid of losing money. This is the cost of love.
After buying a second-hand car, you can conveniently choose more dating routes, rather than just installing it for you to drive. After all, it is actually a family car that costs less than 500,000 yuan. When you drive a car, you will feel like you are superior to others, and it is basically the same.
It's the younger brother.
Now that you have chosen your outfit and date venue, continue the date and prepare a gift for her this time, and this gift is thoughtful."
"What technique?" Hao Ren asked seriously.
"Online shopping, you buy something online to give to a girl, and the price should be within 500 yuan. If the girl refuses, you can return it, or give another one as a gift. People will always like the gift. Don't give what you like, but give it.
Things that girls like, such as lipstick, perfume, bags, etc. Of course, if you accidentally meet a fish farmer, you can also proceed to the next step.
Of course, there are very few people who are introduced by matchmakers that you know. After all, they all know the basics. At this time, you don’t need to talk too much about your family, and there is no need to brag, because other matchmakers have already said it. If it is introduced by a matchmaking company,
You can add oil and vinegar appropriately and blow it."
Hao Ren took out his mobile phone and asked: "Let me remember, if I meet a fish farmer, what should I give him?"
"Send jewelry, such as rings, necklaces, jewelry, etc. Generally, there are two types of gifts in love. One is when you give the other person bags, shoes, mobile phones, etc. Most of them are difficult to recover. Of course, lipstick and other gifts
Yes, even if the amount is small, you don’t need to recover it.
But if it is a gift like a ring, it is a gift for the purpose of marriage. Simply put, it is in the form of an engagement gift. If the other party does not have a relationship with this purpose, or does not fulfill this aspect, it means that the other party is not hanging on you for the purpose of marriage, and then
If you suddenly break up with you, you can get it back, so if you give a gift, you can give lipstick, perfume, or a bag worth 1,800 yuan in the early stage.
In the later stage, you can directly give some expensive jewelry, so that even if they are divided, you can ask for it back. It depends on how you define the limit. In our concept, three-gold jewelry is for marriage, and lipstick is a gift between lovers.
Another point is that you can ask the woman for the courier address and courier it directly to her. The payment information is from your own account, and the other party signs for it. Each sign for receipt is a transaction, which can be transferred out and used as a voucher when the time comes. Bank transfer
It is more reliable than cash. As long as you do not transfer numbers like 1314,520,999,9999, such as 1000,500, strictly speaking, it is not considered a gift and can be recovered in the name of a loan.
Of course, when buying gifts online, it’s best not to buy expensive ones. One gift can be used for multiple purposes. For example, some gifts can be bought one and get one free. If you buy one gift, you can give it to two people.”
Hao Ren took a breath and looked at Zhao Mingyang and said, "Whoever falls in love with you is really losing his blood!"
Zhao Mingyang→_→
"Hold the grass! I'm here to educate you. What do you mean? Am I that kind of person? I have always been sincere in love without asking for anything in return, without any tricks."
"The weather forecast says there may be thunderstorms today. This is the thunderstorm season, so be careful what you say." Hao Ren took out the weather forecast and showed it to Zhao Mingyang with a serious look on his face.
"Get out of here! I'm never afraid of thunderstorms. Say it quickly. After that, I have to go back to work.
Your current problem is, how to get along with this blind date? It's very simple. You raise her as a fish in your pond and feed her regularly. You can understand this feeding by sending messages regularly to let her know your love.
Yes, you need to enrich your circle of friends, such as sending photos and videos of you going skiing or going to the library, letting her know what you are up to, chatting, and saying you are dating. If it doesn't work once, then twice.
During this period, you should continue to go on blind dates and date other girls. As long as she agrees to come out, you should be well prepared. If she has a good impression of you the second time, it will not be difficult to ask her out the third time. During this period
, you must play the role of a dog licker and make her happy. What is your ultimate goal?
You have to make it clear whether you are challenging yourself for fun, or whether you are marrying her for the purpose of marrying her. You have to grasp this boundary. The criterion for grasping it is to meet the parents. If the purpose is not to get married, try not to take her home to meet the parents.
, people talk too much.
As for your more than 40 friends, send group messages directly. Are you free to go out for dinner recently? Reply to you. If you can go out, chat directly. If you want to chat about going out to eat, if you can't, edit it into a group first.
If you can get an appointment, dress yourself up carefully and go on a date. If you fail, try the next date. If you succeed, try again on the failed date. Don't worry about how long it takes. Pay attention to time management. There are so many girls. Don't.
Hanging from a tree.
Okay, now you can send a message to the girl who rejected your second date. What is the starting point? In a way of asking for advice, ask her what cosmetics should be given to older women. You don’t know.
, you want to give your seventh aunt, eighth aunt, or your mother a birthday gift. Make up one yourself. If you don’t understand, she can give you some advice.
Wait until you receive the goods in a few days, take a photo and send it to her to make sure you listened to her decision to buy it. Send her a thank you message saying that she is very happy to receive the gift and that you have discovered her strengths, such as career-related ones.
If you work in a medical-related field, ask for medical-related questions.
Use the excuse of thanking the other person for helping you, invite the other person out to treat her to a meal as a thank you, or give her a gift as a thank you. Then it won't seem so awkward. If you want to ask me about anything in the future, let's go back first.
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Hao Ren lowered his head and played with his cell phone. Zhao Mingyang got up and bought a few cups of iced coffee to take back. Suddenly he heard several women whispering at the counter.
Zhao Mingyang didn't want to hear it at first, but when he suddenly heard the words Xia Xiaomeng, he paid more attention.
"There was quite a big fuss today. How on earth did Xia Xiaomeng provoke that female devil?"
"What a pitiful little girl. She was scolded in front of everyone. If I were her, I would be embarrassed to stay in the company and be called trash."
"Who says it's not the case? This requires a public review. I wonder if she will write a review..."
"I heard that he hired a female devil to do something disgraceful and was exposed by Xia Xiaomeng, so Lei Ting became furious."
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