Chapter 697 Meeting Xu Qingqing’s grandparents [asking for monthly votes]
Zhao Mingyang went to see Daniel and gave him ten invitations and gave Ye Chuan ten more. These twenty invitations asked them to bring all the rich second generations around them to the Youth Chamber of Commerce. Ye Chuan understood Zhao Mingyang’s
I mean, Zhao Mingyang told Ye Chuan about the Qing Chamber of Commerce.
Ye Chuan studied these things every day and understood them in an instant. He directly asked Zhao Mingyang for fifty invitations and sent them to all the powerful people he had contacted before, but Ye Chuan wanted to be famous.
Zhao Mingyang took a look, good guy, this is a professional counterpart. Ye Chuan became the vice president of the Qingdao Chamber of Commerce, the first person with a position. Ye Chuan also asked Zhao Mingyang, would foreigners come in? He also knew that Shencheng
The successors of several foreign companies are also here.
Zhao Mingyang refused. Foreigners are not needed for the time being. They may be available later, but they are not needed for the time being.
Ye Chuan's business ability is beyond question. There may be question marks about letting him do business. Ask him to contact these people. He studies every day. He is deeply afraid that others will not know that he is from the Ye family. He often organizes gatherings and attends various gatherings.
, but almost no one dislikes him, but at least he has social contact with these people.
As long as they can attract 20 people in the early stage, if they serve these 20 people, they may attract 100 people.
Years later, Zhao Mingyang plans to ask Wang Sibo to come over. Once he comes, he will definitely be more effective than Zhao Mingyang's ten thousand words. After all, he not only has a father, but also a mother who is richer than his father. Wang Sibo's mother's wealth is much higher than that of his father.
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Zhao Mingyang also asked Ye Chuan to give suggestions on how to design and what elements to add. He often hangs out in this kind of circle.
First of all, Ye Chuan asked Zhao Mingyang to give up one thing, which was hot springs. They didn't have the time to soak in them, and they didn't need pedicures, because there were fixed places and fixed technicians. It was better to change the idea and turn the fourth floor into an open company.
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This group of people have nothing to do every day, but they want to start a business. They have messy thoughts, so I give them a company. Each of them takes out, for example, one million, and everyone comes up with an idea. The one with the most votes will be activated first.
With a sum of funds, everyone should work together. Each person is responsible for a section, so that they have a sense of participation, because they basically have no say at home, so they can just use some money to eat, drink and have fun.
Let them have something to do and brag to the outside world about what they are doing. Even if they can't do anything, they will come and take a look every day. After all, this is their industry and they will only continue to invest because this is the only place that recognizes them.
These rich second generation parents are afraid that these people will start a business. If the rich second generation works hard, they will most likely go bankrupt. There is a saying in the circle that they are afraid that the rich second generation will start a business because they will think they are the best.
It can bring down the whole family.
Generally, we wait until they are thirty years old before giving them some property to play with. After all, after the age of thirty, these people will be used up when they are done with it. If they are not used up, they can continue to use it.
If there are many children, like the Ye Chuan family, several children may be allowed to start their own business early, and each child will be given a small section for them to get involved in. Each child will be very cautious in doing things, and are deeply afraid of failure and being kicked out, but
There are very few people in this circle with as many children as the Ye Chuan family, and there are more in Europe and the United States.
Especially half-mothers, there are actually fewer.
However, it is not difficult for these second-generation rich people to come up with 1.8 million yuan per person, and it is not difficult to provide 4 to 5 million yuan. Their families give them a lot of reserve funds, and most of them give them more than 100,000 or 200,000 yuan a month.
The so-called reserve fund is the errand money for them to buy something, run errands for their parents, and it is also the living expenses.
After everything was settled, Zhao Mingyang was going to Pengcheng to meet Xu Qingqing's family.
Zhao Mingyang bought a gray suit, a white shirt, and a pair of dark brown leather shoes in the mall. The total price was about 5,000. He didn't buy a big brand, but any style of suit at this price that fits well and doesn't wrinkle will be fine.
I put on the 30,000 yuan watch I bought and went to trim my hair to make it look as smart as possible.
Make your eyebrows thicker on purpose. When meeting the girl's parents for the first time, you must highlight one point, that is, masculinity and masculinity. Don't dress too casually, because the girl's family wants a mature and stable one.
A son-in-law is a son-in-law who can take care of his daughter and give her a sense of security, rather than a frivolous or childish son-in-law.
Try not to wear a white suit. In the eyes of the older generation, if you are not a big shot, you are considered frivolous and dissolute if you cannot control it.
When you meet your parents, you must pay attention. Don’t spray gel water specially, it will make people feel greasy. You can use a hair dryer to blow it into a shape, or use a small amount of gel water. It doesn’t need to be much, just a small amount. Put some
The place is shaped.
Don't wear perfume. You can use shower gel to take a shower before going out. Your clothes must look clean. Most parents look at people from head to toe. Don't give people the feeling of being sloppy and dirty.
When meeting your parents for the first time, try to wear a suit. The first is to look formal, and the second is that the restraint of the suit lets you know that this is not an occasion where you can relax. It is best to treat the woman’s family as your most important customers.
Just treat it.
After you get married, you won’t see each other more than once a year, and the impression will be fixed. If the woman’s family members have a good impression of you, they will say good things about you in front of the woman, making her think that you are really good.
Everyone in your family praises you so much. Even if there are some conflicts in the future, the woman's family will first ask her if she is making trouble out of nothing, and then analyze you.
Zhao Mingyang's suit is mainly not prone to wrinkles. Some fabrics are prone to wrinkles. Before meeting your parents, you must iron the suit and shirt first. You can go to a tailor shop or laundromat to pay for ironing.
Take it home and hang it up until you go to see your parents. Try to put your cell phone in silent mode. Don't call in frequently, which will affect the conversation between the two parties. The woman's family can answer the phone frequently, but you can't.
Because you are not only a guest, you are also their future relative. They will try their best to find satisfactory points in you and accept you, but they will definitely magnify some of your shortcomings at the beginning. Try not to show them to the other party at this time.
Nothing wrong with you.
Especially in families with many brothers and sisters, the demands on you must be very high if you speak to each other. At this time, when facing this kind of family, find out who is in the other family, and prepare gifts for everyone in advance to block the group.
A person's mouth belongs to the hush money.
Three days later.
Zhao Mingyang came to the place designated by Xu Qingqing with fruits, tobacco, wine and tea in his hands.
Xu Qingqing walked out of the community and took Zhao Mingyang into the community.
Zhao Mingyang looked at Xu Qingqing and said, "Are your grandparents the only ones who want to see me?"
"Yes, my parents are busy at work, and my grandparents want to see you, but my cousin is here today, so she can cook for us. She is very good at cooking." Xu Qingqing took Zhao Mingyang into the community and came to a place.
The eleven-story unit building has a layout of two households per staircase.
Entering the elevator, Xu Qingqing pressed the button for the 11th floor. After reaching the 11th floor, she walked out of the elevator and walked to room 1101. Xu Qingqing knocked on the door and the door was opened. It was a woman in her sixties, surrounded by
apron.
"This is my cousin." Xu Qingqing introduced.
"Hello, cousin." Zhao Mingyang nodded and said hello with a smile. This was the cousin Xu Qingqing was talking about, but Zhao Mingyang could tell that she was not like a cousin, but more like a nanny, a nanny who had been taking care of the elderly.
Because this person's attitude towards Xu Qingqing was too polite, and he didn't look like a family member.
"Come on, come in quickly. You don't need to change your shoes. I'll mop the floor in a while and prepare some tea for you." The middle-aged woman quickly went to the kitchen and worked very quickly, but there was one detail. When she walked into the kitchen, she was
She paused and took a look. She wasn't very familiar with this place. It was probably a temporary place.
There are a bunch of old couples sitting in the living room, dressed simply and looking very kind. The old lady is watching TV and the old man is reading the newspaper.
"Grandpa, grandma, he is Zhao Mingyang." Xu Qingqing said.
"Sit down, sit down! We are not in good health, so we won't get up. Please be patient." Grandma Xu Qingqing looked at Zhao Mingyang and said with a smile.
Zhao Mingyang could see that the two old men were indeed very old, but they still had that kind of temperament in them. They were very clean. It could be seen that there was a clear difference between their speech and behavior and that of ordinary old people. The main reason was that their aura could
Let me feel that they are extraordinary. Although they are obviously suppressing it, you can still feel it and see it.
There was a zigzag sofa, with grandparents sitting in the middle. Zhao Mingyang chose to sit next to grandma, and Xu Qingqing sat next to grandpa. Mainly because Zhao Mingyang felt that grandma was more kind and easy to coax. The old man was unsmiling and kept reading the newspaper, occasionally glancing at it.
He glanced at Zhao Mingyang, as if Zhao Mingyang was unhappy.
This is inevitable. Xu Qingqing was raised by her grandparents when she was a child. Xu Qingqing's grandfather was completely obedient to Xu Qingqing, but Xu Qingqing's father rarely spent time with Xu Qingqing.
"Grandpa and grandma, here are some gifts for you two." Zhao Mingyang said after putting down the gifts.
"You're welcome, come and sit." Grandma just finished her words.
My cousin prepared a fruit plate and tea for Zhao Mingyang and the others. Each person filled a glass with tea. She acted skillfully and professionally. She also prepared a small garbage box in front of everyone. This is professionalism.
Zhao Mingyang also saw through it and said that they were showing off their acting skills. He was very energetic. The old couple was going to test Zhao Mingyang.
"What does Xiao Zhao's family do?" Grandma asked first, with a kind face.
Zhao Mingyang answered truthfully. His parents had recently started working for others. He had opened a small pastry shop before. Zhao Mingyang also said that he took advantage of the convenience of work to set up a brand and wanted to find a local administrator, so he introduced his parents to do it.
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These are what the old lady can investigate, and Zhao Mingyang said it directly without hiding anything.
The old lady nodded and said, "Are your grandparents in good health?"
"Well, my grandma often goes for walks on the street and can't rest for a lifetime. When spring comes, let Qingqing take you and grandpa to our place. Although our place is a small place, the air is good and the scenery is good." Zhao Mingyang
said.
Grandma Xu Qingqing looked at Zhao Mingyang. This boy spoke crisply and neatly. His mannerisms were not stage-frightened. He was okay, he looked okay, he was not greasy, he looked talented, and the most important thing was that he looked comfortable, not sloppy, and not procrastinating.