Zhao Mingyang knew that he had used too much force and used it in the wrong place. He had committed this special professional habit again and was generating electricity again.
Xu Qingqing's mother took the lead in breaking the atmosphere and quickly mediated. Zhao Mingyang also mediated and quickly switched identities. If this continues, Xu Qingqing will lose her home, Xu Jianye and Wan Heng will no longer want it. Zhao Mingyang will only live for the rest of his life.
Already.
"Xiao Zhao, what are you planning to do in the future?" This sentence of Xu Qingqing's mother has multiple meanings and is a deep pit. If Zhao Mingyang said the wrong thing, it would be easy to offend and disgust her mother-in-law.
Knock on the blackboard: Why do everyone like to say that when looking for a wife, you should first look at the mother-in-law, and why do they say you should first find the mother-in-law?
First, the education of children in Oriental families is basically the mother's. The male is the outsider and the female is the domestic division of labor. If you find that your mother-in-law is a person of low quality, then you can be sure that your girlfriend and
You may have hidden a lot when you were together, and the answer to her behavior and habits can basically be found in her mother.
If your mother-in-law is very good, then you have to please your mother-in-law. Are there any skills to please your mother-in-law? There are indeed some.
As long as you think your father-in-law is the opposite, for example, your father-in-law likes to laugh and talk, and you just need to act mature, steady, careful in your words and deeds, because your father-in-law thinks he is
The familiarity and humor may make your mother-in-law upset in the eyes of your mother-in-law. She may think that he talks nonsense and likes to brag and is not serious. Because after getting along for a long time, the original advantages have turned into disadvantages. The mother-in-law hates such a son-in-law.
I don’t want my daughter to find a husband with the same style as her.
After the first impression is passed, the next step is to adapt to your preferences. This is very simple. Your girlfriend usually eats and uses what she likes, and most of her mother's preferences will be reflected to you. Remember not to talk too much with your father-in-law.
You can do it after you get married, but try not to do it before you get married.
Because men understand men very well, he may see clearly what your virtues are after getting along with him. He is already hostile to you, and you are here to steal his little cotton-padded jacket. If the father-in-law likes your son-in-law,
Daughters and mother-in-laws basically don't like it, because the father-in-law must want to find a truly honest man for his daughter, and such people are basically shortcomings in the eyes of women.
He is dull and dull, does not know how to be romantic and has no independent opinion.
This is why Zhao Mingyang doesn't want to please Grandpa Xu Qingqing, and he doesn't want to talk too much to Xu Qingming. He might as well pretend to be drunk, fearing that the other party will see something. As for Xu Qingqing's father, Xu Jianye, Zhao Mingyang will never talk nonsense with him.
, and will try not to interact with him.
This method can not only be used for this, but can also be used at work. For example, if your boss is a female boss, and you see which type of men in the company she hates the most, you just need to do the opposite.
It means becoming the other person's ideal type. You can even hear your female boss complaining about what kind of person her husband is in her conversation, and you can do the opposite.
The question asked by Xu Qingqing's mother seems to be nothing, but it actually contains a hidden secret. If Zhao Mingyang falsely says that he likes an ordinary life, then people may really let Zhao Mingyang live an ordinary life. You can marry Xu Qingqing with peace of mind.
Be in the Lord.
If Zhao Mingyang talks eloquently, it will make people think that he is a person who wants to achieve something in his career and wants to use the Xu family to rise to power.
Zhao Mingyang must give this measure a second sublimation. Do you remember what I said before? Everything is related to philosophy. Philosophy is omnipotent and can break everything. What is philosophy? It is thinking, deep thought, and a deep interpretation.
The explanation cannot be explained clearly in a few words, it is the high latitude of the spiritual world.
Zhao Mingyang looked out the window and said: "My left brain and right brain are fighting every day. They want to convince each other, but in the end no one is convinced. They want to leave the physical body so that they don't have to argue.
We are lucky to be born in this era, but we are also very pitiful and sad. With money, we can buy everything we want, including love, but the sad thing is that no one cares about us anymore. What do we really want and what do we want to get?
No one cares about talent now, only your financial resources.
Sometimes I am forced to have social phobia. I am afraid of the sound of thunder, lightning, wind and rain outside. Those voices are all discussing how to make money, what car to buy, what watch to buy, who to make friends with will be more beneficial...
Auntie, I really don’t know how to answer this question you asked me. I miss my childhood very much and my past life. At that time, I remember that the neighbors were discussing what to eat today and what they plan to do tomorrow. In people’s eyes, it seemed
There is light.
I miss my teacher. In the classroom in the afternoon, a beam of light shines on her face. She tells us ancient poems and doesn't ask us to make up lessons. If anyone doesn't study well, she takes the initiative to put those who don't study well under the podium.
Then after school, I have to make up for the one who doesn't study well.
When I went home this year, a relative's child wanted to move forward. The child's parents gave the teacher a supermarket card.
I'm thinking, why can anyone be a teacher now? Wouldn't it be possible for us? Nowadays, teachers are labeled by others, and most of them are a group of people who are unworthy of being teachers.
They are in it for money, and everything is based on money, rather than sincerely wanting to teach and educate people. The children may have been influenced by their values by this group of people. I think it is the atmosphere that creates all this.
What kind of life do I want? In fact, I have an immature and naive idea. I want to have a lot of money, but it’s not because I love money. I’m not very interested in money. I want to build some art museums and cultivate some
For those who truly love music, those who love writing, and those who love painting, give them more opportunities to show their talents.
Let them lead everyone to pursue art again, recognize the importance of knowledge, value talent, and not look at financial resources or pay too much attention to the outside.
All people should love talents instead of all people loving money. I think this is the invasion of foreign cultures. They have brought in all the bad things and made everyone become realistic and impetuous.
I want to use my limited ability to lead more people to change their values and culture, but I know this is like a wishful thinking. If it can't be changed, then I will prepare to become a teacher. At least in that way, I can change my
Students, within a limited scope, help a group of people establish correct values.
Perhaps, this is also my final life. I am taking the teacher qualification certificate exam. In the future, maybe I will stand on a three-foot podium and tell the people in the audience that you must always believe that knowledge can change your destiny. Never look to money and add more.
Spiritual food, don’t be a follower.”
You see, the situation has opened up and finally returned to education. Especially Xu Qingqing's mother comes from a scholarly family. The content discussed in their family is likely to be value-oriented and people nowadays do not love talent but love wealth.
In their view, all making money is vulgar, and the richness of the spiritual world is the real richness.
Especially Xu Qingqing's mother, she didn't have to worry about food and drink, so she spent most of her time cultivating hobbies and pursuing art.
This is the reason why her relationship with Xu Qingqing's father has gradually become cold. Xu Qingqing's father only wants to continue to make the company bigger and stronger, and his outlook on life is to focus on money. However, Xu Qingqing's mother is not worried about having no money at all, she just wants to
To supplement spiritual food, the two of them are actually not on the same ideological latitude at this time.
Zhao Mingyang grasped this point and said this. Xu Qingqing's mother had also considered the idea Zhao Mingyang mentioned, but it was fleeting. However, Zhao Mingyang actually looked like he really wanted to do it, with a firm look in his eyes.
, Zhao Mingyang is not doing it for money, but for changing the atmosphere.
Especially Zhao Mingyang's last sentence, if nothing can be changed, he will become a teacher and help the children he educates to establish correct values. This is very recognized and praised by Xu Qingqing's mother, because Zhao Mingyang is at least thoughtful.
Highly.
Zhao Mingyang's rhetoric was 100% able to deceive Xu Qingqing's mother. This was the ultimate form of rhetoric summarized by Jack Ma at his peak in the next three to five years. However, Zhao Mingyang used it first, and the pattern was going to be improved.
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My thoughts must be sublimated. Don’t think about the ego. Think about what I can do for society. Don’t always think about what others can do for me.
Is two billion a lot? Do I, Zhao Mingyang, want money? Am I someone who needs these two billion? Am I coveting the financial resources of your Xu family?
No! I want to have greater ability to help more people. I want to change the atmosphere and incorrect values. I won’t talk to you about what I want. I will talk to you about values. You have to deny it.
I, you are what I call a person with unhealthy outlook and a love of money, a superficial person who puts everything first.
Xu Qingqing's mother must not recognize this. This thing is lowering her status and taste.
If it's an old lady, just start criticizing Zhao Mingyang. Don't talk about these nonsense. It's all nonsense. If you don't care about money, then just give me your money.
"Xiao Zhao, I didn't expect you to have this idea, so where do you think we should start to change?" Xu Qingqing's mother asked Zhao Mingyang.
The two chatted for more than half an hour, but they still had something to say. Xu Qingqing's mother was just as Zhao Mingyang expected. She looked polite, but in fact she was just an old literary youth who had no worries about food and clothing, moaning about no illness, and an old troll.
She complained about a lot of social chaos and criticized a lot of it.
To put it bluntly, she has never been severely beaten by society and was born to be a young lady with no worries about food and clothing.
She is engaged in education now, but she is doing Chinese studies. To put it bluntly, it is actually for profit, but she refuses to admit that she is the same as the person she hates and despises the most.
Zhao Mingyang could only agree with her and praise her for doing something very meaningful, but she needed to spread the Chinese culture so that more people would pay attention and so on.
One talked and the other praised, so there was no unpleasant chat. When Xu Qingqing came back, she saw the two of them chatting so happily.
I don’t know but thought that Boya had met Ziqi. Xu Qingqing brought food to Zhao Mingyang. After eating, Zhao Mingyang and Xu Qingqing’s mother started chatting again. Xu Qingqing seemed to be redundant, and Xu Qingqing could only give them two.
People peeled the fruit and poured water to drink, letting them continue to blow.
