Chapter 939 Why do young people stay up late? 【Ask monthly ticket】
Chapter 939 Why do young people stay up late? [Asking for monthly votes]
Zhao Mingyang was really speechless. This was the first time he encountered being asked to attend extra classes. It was like a group of workers forcing the boss to hold a meeting. It turns out that PUA can be reversed. If the employees take the initiative to ask the boss to hold a meeting, it will not happen three or five times.
The boss is going crazy. This is to make the boss crazy. Why not take the initiative and ask the boss to hold a meeting?
"I will attend the next class. I will definitely attend. I will go to the bathroom first." After finishing speaking, Zhao Mingyang left.
But if a classmate did share the bathroom with him, I was worried that he would run away.
Zhao Mingyang is so angry, damn! You want to burn my CPU, right? Is it interesting to torture me like this?
In fact, these things Zhao Mingyang said really helped these students find useful things. It was like a lesson plan tailor-made for them.
The main reason is that I understood and enlightened in an instant. It seemed that some previous confusions were suddenly revealed. This may be due to the thirst for knowledge. In the past, many scholars could answer their questions instantly when they met a good teacher or read a good book.
Puzzled.
When Zhao Mingyang came to the office, he found an extra potted plant on his desk.
Xia Zhiqiu, who was at the opposite table, sent a text message to Zhao Mingyang: Seeing that you don’t have a potted plant on your table, I bought one for you. Don’t tell anyone else, otherwise they will say that I only bought it for you.
Zhao Mingyang read the text message and replied thank you. She actually dared to play multi-line control in a school. She was really seeking death.
No, soon a male teacher came over with a takeout paper bag and put it on Xia Zhiqiu's table and said: "I'm going to Bingbantang for cappuccino and a tiramisu. Did you forget to have breakfast again?"
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"Thank you, Teacher Gu. I'll transfer the money to you." Xia Zhiqiu said to the man with a smile.
"Zhiqiu, you're out of touch now, you do this every time," the man said.
"That won't work. One code equals one code. You must accept the money, otherwise I won't take it." Xia Zhiqiu said.
"Okay." The man said helplessly. Xia Zhiqiu is so cute and independent. Unlike other women who like to have sex for free, I will definitely give her an expensive gift for her birthday this year. Last year I gave her a bucket of fruit. What should I give her this year?
?After all, she asked me to help her move yesterday. She didn’t treat herself as an outsider. We were part of the family.
Teacher Gu felt that Xia Zhiqiu would be hers sooner or later and was already her "girlfriend".
Zhao Mingyang looked at Xia Zhiqiu, hoping that she would take care of herself. If she provoked a Wolf Slayer who couldn't accept that she was the King of the Sea, he might die with her.
He got up and got ready to go to class. He didn't want to get involved in this muddy water, but he was afraid that the muddy water would come by itself. He should stay away. Sooner or later, something would happen to this woman.
When the class bell rang, Zhao Mingyang walked to the podium. The students in the audience took out pens and papers, trying to remember the key points that Zhao Mingyang said.
Zhao Mingyang understood for the first time why some university teachers’ lectures were packed with seats and required reservations in advance. Their lectures were really good and students would take the initiative to come to class.
In fact, if primary and secondary schools also do this, allowing students to choose their own teachers, and giving higher bonuses to students who listen to lectures, I guess many teachers will not assign homework to parents every day, and they will not take advantage of it, because
Many people may not have a single student in a class.
Zhao Mingyang stood on the podium. This time he did not read the lesson plan he had prepared in advance, but directly gave a speech without a script.
"Students, what I am going to show you below is the importance of writing and reading. Nowadays, many software can listen to books. This is actually a change in the form of reading, but it remains the same, that is, someone must write it, and someone must write it.
Manuscript, you'd better practice some writing regularly in the future, which can facilitate your language organization and expression. If you can't answer questions without writing, you will be played by the media with applause, because you have lost your adaptability and language expression ability.
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There is also what reading can bring to you. Let’s talk about a topic. The topic that appears most frequently on the Internet now is staying up late. Experts recommend that young people should not stay up late because there are too many people staying up late now.
Let’s analyze it and see if it’s because of entertainment products that keep you up late. You here rarely stay up late, right? Do you know why?”
The students in the audience seemed to have noticed it too, they really didn’t seem to stay up late.
"Let me tell you, you can live a comfortable life. I used to think that some entrepreneurs said they only slept a few hours a day. I thought it might be to catch up on sleep. Now I think they don't have much mental pressure.
You have enough personal space. For example, you, your worry is just how to become famous, but you don’t have most people’s worries.
Let’s watch a video below. I asked someone to make it. Maybe you will know the importance of reading and writing. The content in the video is all written by me." After Zhao Mingyang finished speaking, he pressed the play button on the notebook and the blackboard
A picture appeared on the projection screen.
All the students were watching, watching very seriously what Zhao Mingyang was showing them.
Pictures and dubbing appeared in the video. The picture was shown in the form of animation. A young man with a flat head and glasses and a white sweatshirt was lying on a bed playing with his mobile phone. The narration voice sounded:
Late at night in mid-June, in a shared house in Shanghai, Ma Xiaoqiang was wearing headphones and watching short videos.
The more I felt, the more unhappy I became. I wanted to yell a few words, but I was afraid that it would be too loud and disturb the residents next door.
The house that Ma Xiaoqiang rented was divided into cubic rooms by wooden boards. Each room was only four or five square meters, only big enough for a bed. There was no air conditioning, so it was cold in winter and hot in summer.
This is pretty good, but some cubicles are even more terrifying. A house is divided into upper and lower floors after passing through floors. You have to hunch down when entering the house. This type of house is called a group rental house, not a shared house. A group and a shared house
, a world of difference.
This type of rental house has great safety hazards. High-power electrical appliances cannot be used. There is a shared bathroom that is often blocked. Most of the residents live here with low incomes.
The rent is cheap and the transportation is convenient. It takes about ten minutes to walk to the subway station. The monthly rent is only 1,800. What else do you need? Just have a place to live in Shanghai, where land is at a premium.
The people who live here are basically very conscious. They try not to make any noise when they return to the house at night, otherwise they will be sprayed by a group of people. The people who can live here have bad tempers and want to be released, but they are extremely restrained.
To survive in this world.
The house where Ma Xiaoqiang lives is less than 100 square meters, but has ten rooms.
The reason why Ma Xiaoqiang rents here is not only because the rent is cheap, but also because it is close to the company. He can go home early from get off work and get up late at work. The nearby single apartments are very good, but they cost 6,000 to 7,000 yuan a month to start. Ma Xiaoqiang pays He couldn't afford it. Although he could spend hundreds more to live in a single room in a farther place, he had to get up dozens of minutes earlier every day. He didn't want to get up early, and he was even more afraid that there would be no bus or subway to take when he returned home after working overtime.
The monthly salary is more than 10,000 yuan, but this is not a high salary in Shanghai. It can only be said to be average. It is barely enough to survive. From this reluctance, I still have to save some money to buy a house and marry a wife. It seems that it is wrong not to do this.
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When I was a child, I would always see a relative in his twenties who had accomplished nothing and was single during the holidays. He would be the talk of friends and family when he went back during the holidays. Unexpectedly, one day, Ma Xiaoqiang would become the talk of the town, and he would not even dare to go home during the New Year.
Originally, Ma Xiaoqiang was uncomfortable enough after working all day, but after watching the short video on his phone, he felt even more uncomfortable. What the hell was this pushed to him?
This video ignited Ma Xiaoqiang's suppressed anger. A seemingly funny video stung him. He felt it was not funny at all!
The first short video content is about the five characteristics of contemporary waste:
1: Like to play games
Two: I like the second dimension
Three: I like to order takeout
Four: often stay up late
Five: Less than 1,000 steps per day
Ma Xiaoqiang is very lively. He got all the hits. I posted a short video and I didn’t get scolded. How can I be such a waste?
Do you want to order takeout? I don’t have a choice. I also want a place where I can cook. My only cheap hobbies are playing games and 2D. They are all wrong. And the number of steps is less than a thousand, then
It's because I'm a coder, and what's even more annoying is that I like to stay up late.
What's wrong with staying up late? I like staying up late because I am buffering my fear and anxiety about tomorrow. At this moment, I seem to have a time and space gap to escape reality. Most of my energy and time during the day are occupied by work and study, and I have to hold on every day.
Deal with all kinds of endless bad things and things you don’t like in one go.
So even if you work overtime until midnight, you still have to stay up for a while when you get home. Various experts are telling young people to stay up less late, go to bed early and get up early, don't be lazy, don't lie down, don't waste time, etc.
But young people know better than anyone else that when tomorrow comes, they will have to face a lot of troubles and troubles. As soon as they close their eyes and go to bed, tomorrow will be here and there is no way to escape. They will face the things they fear, over and over again.
But if you are still awake, this long night belongs to you, just like a stolen buffer zone. Here, you don’t have to worry about the bad things that are coming tomorrow, and you don’t have to stay up late worrying about the mess that you haven’t dealt with today.
It’s just a gap in time and space that young people nowadays want to keep out all the hurt and anxiety. What’s wrong with staying up late?
I don’t want to stay up late either. Give me some hope and let me look forward to tomorrow instead of fearing it.
Ma Xiaoqiang's emotions were not caused by this short video, but were caused bit by bit in the two years since graduating from college. The bitterness and grievances here want to be released at this moment, but he dare not release them for fear of disturbing others.
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He is even more afraid of being comforted by a group of people holding mobile phones at him, and then these people will add a BGM and post it online. Ma Xiaoqiang’s miserable appearance will be seen by the whole world, and his suffering will be repeatedly consumed.
Get traffic.
As a human being, he is always restrained. He really wants to say sorry to his younger self. He did not live the life you imagined when he grew up. In the end, he failed to become Goku and Vegeta in Dragon Ball. He was not even Krillin, he was just a
A passerby passing by in a flash.
Ma Xiaoqiang felt that he was a completely different person after work than before. He was obviously very energetic and full of longing for the future during the internship. However, after work, he became emo and internally consumed. He became more and more silent and negative, and he was listless all day long.
And tired, afraid of socializing, and too lazy to dress up.
In the past, I would dress up carefully and go out in order to attract the attention of the opposite sex. Now when I get home, I just want to lie down and not want to do anything. Even if the girl invites me to dinner, I don’t want to go. I am afraid that I will spend my money after eating there.
Monthly installments again.
Nowadays, Ma Xiaoqiang's sense of identity with his work and self-worth has gradually disappeared, and he feels that there is no hope. He has worked hard, but nothing has changed? Why is this?
What made me become a young man who is about to be a three-year-old? He has nothing to do with love, money, and luck.
Some people say that the more likely people are to be PUAd in the workplace, the more highly educated they are, because from childhood to adulthood, there are always people telling you to break through your comfort zone. Double breaks a week will make you comfortable, working from 9 to 5
It makes you comfortable, so you have to break through, 996 or 007 to break through yourself. This is simply doing evil.
Who the hell thought of such a bad and stupid way of saying something? Turning suffering into a blessing? Damn it!
The boss always says why you are not active at work? What the heck, before joining the company, the ribs were 11 pounds per pound, and now they are more than 20 pounds per pound. The salary has not increased at all, and now it is equivalent to half a full meal. The money given can only make
You gave half of your efforts, but the boss still asked why?
If you double the salary, I will immediately turn the Alto into an Audi rs7. If you increase the salary, you don't let the horse eat grass and let the horse run fast. This is a hooligan.
Ma Xiaoqiang really doesn’t want to work anymore. He just wants to be alone quietly, but he can’t live without working, so he has to work, but he is not satisfied with the job. He is unhappy and wants to resign, but he is afraid that he will not be able to make any more money after resigning.
He can't survive without money, so he still has to work.
It turns out that the world is full of lies. The ordinary life, simple life, and carefree life mentioned in movies, TV series and novels are not for ordinary people.
I took a deep breath, adjusted my mood, and calmed down. The tears were struggling in my eyes, whether they were going to flow out, but finally they came and I couldn't control them. This was like Ma Xiaoqiang's life, and I wanted to work hard to change it.
In the end, he couldn't change it.
He was once a young man who wanted to travel the world with his sword. He was also a man with great ambitions. What made him become what experts say is a waste who likes to stay up late...
There is no hope, and we have to face a hopeless future and an unchangeable status quo.
The video ends with the last song, which is simply the finishing touch.
You and I are both mortals living in this world
Running around all day long with no time to spare
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I thought it would be more appropriate to play "Someone Like Me", but this song hasn't been released yet.
"Students, do you seem to suddenly feel Ma Xiaoqiang's life? Do you also know why so many people like to stay up late? This is what you don't need to experience personally, but you can get it from the content. Have you read the book "Living"?
?After reading it, you seem to have seen the life of the protagonist.
You can even realize that life is not easy, so you must read. What improves is not just knowledge, but also perception and experience. This is so important for an actor.
You can try to write your own content and improve your language organization skills. You will not be afraid to face reporters’ questions in the future. You should also read more. Reading can improve your thinking and expand some of your alternative life experiences. Okay, next.
In the first class, we will review the content of the past two days."
The bell rang, and Zhao Mingyang walked out of the classroom. Most of the classmates were still sitting there. For the first time, they understood why some people like to stay up late. Sometimes staying up late is also a kind of release, and they also feel a kind of helplessness from the bottom. Their family background has made
They don't have to live a hard life. This time, many people have a different understanding and understanding of the bottom class. There won't be a scene like filming a deliveryman living in a bedroom of tens of square meters in the city center.
This shows the importance of reading in disguise. Many people may have good family backgrounds and don’t like reading at all, so why not eat meat? Because many people regard books such as novels as leisure books, so they basically don’t read them. But one
Ordinary people, if they do not have enough literary base and are not professional enough, and cannot read professional books or literary books, they will inevitably fall into a pattern of self-righteousness.
Zhao Mingyang walked out of the classroom and turned on the airplane mode of his mobile phone. There was a missed call from Wu Zhonghua.
Zhao Mingyang hurried back and answered the call after a few rings: "Are you in class?"
"I just finished class, Dad, what can I do for you?" Zhao Mingyang asked.
"Come back early in the afternoon and cook some food. In the evening, guests will come to our house for dinner. Call your senior brother Cai Qimin and tell him that guests are coming from the Nan family."
The phone hung up, and Zhao Mingyang looked confused. What do you mean?
