Duan Lusheng frowned and looked at her and said: "That day when you returned to the city from the garden, you told Ami that you also wanted someone like His Highness Prince Jing, but you couldn't find him in the world.
So you can only dream of such a person in your dreams. What do you mean by these words? Aren't you spying on His Highness Prince Jing in front of Ami? What was Ami thinking at the time? Wasn't Ami angry?
? Don’t you feel awkward and a knot in your heart? Shuangshuang, don’t forget, we are guests. If we get close to her, we will still be guests after all. "
"Why would Ami mind? My words were unintentional and just said casually. Ami knows my temperament and my personality, so she won't mind. So she is not angry or awkward at all. All of this is...
Sister, you are thinking too much about yourself. Sister, I beg you, don’t force some of the things you feel on me anymore. I am very tired, I am really tired, and I don’t want to be troubled by what you said anymore.
I couldn’t sleep all night long.”
The relationship between the two sisters became somewhat acrimonious.
Duan Lusheng raised his head and said, "These words I say are all for your own good. If you get married in the capital and continue to stay in the capital, it will be difficult for you to stay in your husband's family without the support of your mother's family. Let's
The Duan family is in Xingyang. The roots of our Duan family are in Xingyang. We have no foundation in the capital. If you are in the capital and you have any grievances or are bullied by your husband’s family, who can you ask for help? Or
It's about talking. If you offend Amidu, what will you do? Shuangshuang should take a long-term view of things, don't just look at the present."
Duan Shuangsheng shook his head, backed away and said: "I don't understand, I really don't understand, sister, why do you say such incomprehensible words? You may be in the capital in the future. I know this. After all, the young prince sent you to the capital two days ago.
I bought so many things, and they were all given to you, sister, but that’s not necessarily the case for me. So I don’t have to please Ami. I just treat her like an ordinary sister, and she treats me the same way. Why do you always pull me, sister?
Are you chasing after this point? I obviously didn't do anything wrong, but you have to be a teacher every time and point fingers at my words and deeds. This makes me dislike it very much and it makes me very tired. You want me to
If you can listen to what you say, can you listen to what I say? Can you? You can't. You still go your own way and turn a deaf ear to my words. You think you are the eldest sister and the eldest daughter, so
You are not afraid of me. You don’t care about what I say. You think that since I am your sister, I should obey your words. Because you are older than me, I must obey your words and regard your words as a golden rule.
.Sister, do you think this is right? I don’t think it’s right.”
Duan Lusheng tried to calm down, and also tried to calm her down: "Shuangshuang, the meaning of what I said is not that deep. I just hope that you can be careful in your words and deeds when you speak, and think about your words well.
Don't be so impulsive and say it, because sometimes what you say may make others feel uncomfortable, or create a problem with you, or even make a big fuss out of what you said, and if you say it out, it may make others uncomfortable.
If water is thrown out, it cannot be recovered. The loss and harm caused are immeasurable. The reason why I say so much is just to make you a better person. I also hope you can understand my painstaking efforts.
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"I don't understand, I really don't understand, are you really doing it for me? I think you just want to highlight your sensibleness, your sophistication, your intelligence, your calmness and restraint, and then make me look like a
A reckless, ignorant, and then stupid and bad domineering little girl. Really? Or maybe you just use your identity as the eldest sister as a shield, and then exercise the rights of the eldest sister to me without any scruples. That is preaching.
To be honest, when I was in Xingyang, my mother never criticized or blamed me for my words or deeds. She just looked at me with a smile every time. But you are different, you seem to just want to
If I say something, you will immediately come to correct the rightness or wrongness of what I said and the consequences of this matter. However, you have never thought that these things may be just your conjectures and guesses. To put it bluntly,
It’s just a figment of imagination. Do you understand that you are overthinking it?”
"I know, you can't listen to anything I say now." Duan Lusheng was very helpless. She obviously had a lot to say, but when the words came to her lips, she didn't know how to say them out.
She had always thought that she was a more responsible eldest sister and a responsible eldest daughter, but only now did she realize that all of this was her own self-righteousness. It turned out that her sister's resentment towards her was so deep.
It's something she couldn't know before.
"Yes, I can't listen. You don't even look at your attitude when you say these words. How can you expect me to listen when you have such an attitude?"
"You can't listen to what I said, and I can't listen to what you said, so let's make it even." After Duan Lusheng said this, he turned around and left.
However, she turned back to look at Duan Shuangsheng and said: "Ami seems to have gone out today, why didn't you take me with you? I should be able to have a rough guess in your mind. Do you want to guess why she didn't
Take you and me with you? Guess what made her do this?"
Duan Shuangsheng frowned, feeling extremely ridiculous: "What else could it be? Of course it's not convenient for Ami to take us, or there's something else, like she thinks we can roam around the capital freely, or
She was going to meet some people, so she felt there was no need to take us with her. What could be the reason? Sister, I have told you that you always think about things too complicated, and that you always think that everyone will do it because of our words.
And misunderstandings lead to the breakdown of the relationship, right? That’s what you think, but I have repeatedly emphasized that you are overthinking. No one will think too much. No one will be dissatisfied or lead to a relationship just because of a few words.
The relationship is broken, sister, all this is because you are a person who is prone to overthinking, so you think of everyone as a sensitive and suspicious person. Is that right? Is what I said right?
Do you admit that you are such a person?"
Duan Lusheng turned away and said calmly: "Now is not the time for you to judge me. I just want to tell you the fact that Ami had a date, but did not take us with him. This is an indisputable fact. I just want to ask you how
Is there some hidden secret or some other reasons, but you start to comment on my character and my personality, that's all, it's useless to say more. After saying so much, then we have nothing to say."