Since Zhao Meiyu is willing to speak, she must listen.
Zhao Meiyu sighed heavily again, lowered her head and said with a choked voice: "My mother, after my eldest brother divorced that Liu Meizhu, she had to go back to her hometown to take care of the child. I told someone to send the child away
Come here and ask her to take care of you, but she said this is not the Zhao family after all..."
It turns out that within a few days of Su Yun and the others going to Xiangjiang, Zhao Cheng and Liu Meizhu were about to get divorced. After this divorce, the child would definitely no longer be able to be raised in the Liu family.
Wan Zhaodi had someone take the child back to Zhaojiacun.
Everyone in the family was busy with work and no one took care of the children, so she naturally wanted to go back and take care of her grandson.
It was because of this matter that she had a disagreement with Zhao Meiyu.
Zhao Meiyu thought that by bringing the child to the capital, she could take care of the child as well. However, Wan Zhaodi believed that multiple children would be a burden. It would be difficult for Gu Jinnian to make money. As a mother-in-law, she could not be shameless.
He brought his grandson to eat at his uncle’s meal...
Su Yun:......
that's all?
"So that's why you're feeling down and crying?"
"Sister Meiyu, you are a bit too fragile!"
Zhao Meiyu was stunned by Su Yun's words. She raised her head and stared at her. Her eyes were red and she was crying because of her grievance. Su Yun made an ouch, took the handkerchief and handed it to Zhao Meiyu.
"Are you crying? Auntie loves you and cares about you, so she rejects you because she is afraid of affecting your life as a couple. This is good for you. Why can't you figure it out?"
"The water was thrown by the married daughter? How sad will the aunt be when she hears that?"
"real?"
Zhao Meiyu looked at Su Yun suspiciously: "My mother really does it for my own good? Instead of thinking that her daughter will always be married off?"
Su Yun:......
Maybe Wan Zhaodi had a little bit of Zhao Meiyu's thoughts in her heart, but it didn't matter. She believed that Wan Zhaodi was more out of love for Zhao Meiyu.
I really don’t want to affect the relationship between Zhao Meiyu and Gu Jinnian.
Therefore, Su Yun answered resolutely: "That's for sure. Look, you asked her to come to the capital to take care of you before, and she came without saying a word, right? If she feels that the married daughter has thrown away water, then it is still necessary.
Come?"
"You tell me, you like to think about things all day long. This is a bad habit. You have to change it."
She had heard Song Yinyin talk about postpartum depression before. Although she felt that Zhao Meiyu's character would not cause postpartum depression, she had to be cautious.
After all, people's emotions are indeed easily affected after giving birth.
Zhao Meiyu was relatively easy to persuade. After Su Yun said this, she thought about it and figured it out. She no longer had red eyes and felt energetic when doing things.
It looks completely different from just now.
"Tell me how fun it is to go to Xiangjiang this time. It's a pity that I have to take care of the children, otherwise I would go with you."
Su Yun exclaimed: "School is about to start, why don't you ask an aunt to help take care of the children at home?"
"We searched but couldn't find the right one."
Zhao Meiyu and Gu Jinnian searched several times, but found that their requirements were not suitable. Either the other party was too careless or the hygienic conditions of the other party were not very good. They had to leave the child to such a person to take care of them, not to mention Gu Jinnian.
Even Zhao Meiyu couldn't rest assured.
"It would be great if we could find someone like Ma Zhang."
Zhao Meiyu sighed, she was very fond of Zhang Ma. Look at how well Zhang Ma took care of the triplets (Xiao Lin and the old lady must have contributed to this.), she just wanted such a person who could take care of the triplets.
A person who makes people feel at ease.
But it's hard to find.
"Well, has she found Yinyin? She has to go to work too, right?"
"Maybe."
Zhao Meiyu wasn't sure either. Song Yinyin's little Mingzhe was so old that he could walk and talk. It was much easier to find someone to take care of such a child than it was in their family.
Even with such a small baby in their family, it is difficult to find someone.
"I'll go back and ask Ma Zhang and Aunt Lin to see if they know anyone suitable and reliable." As a good sister, Su Yun must find a way to help Zhao Meiyu solve her problems.
Zhao Meiyu hummed: "Then let's ask now?"
She was really exhausted from raising the child by herself, and she was going crazy after only two or three days. And Gu Jinnian was very busy every day, so Zhao Meiyu couldn't bear to let him help, and she couldn't take care of it by herself.
The best way is to hire someone.
Su Yun felt helpless after hearing what Zhao Meiyu said: "I said that no matter how busy Gu Jinnian is, he is still the father of the child, right? You should let him participate in raising the child instead of doing it all by yourself."
She has always felt that raising a child is a matter for two people. No matter how busy the other person is at work, it is never an excuse to ignore the child.
Especially if they just have a child, if they stop letting each other get involved from now on, will it become a habit over time? Of course, she thinks Gu Jinnian may not be such a person, but there is no need to gamble.
Yes or no?
Therefore, it is better for two people to take care of the child together.
Zhao Meiyu felt sorry for Gu Jinnian, and she wanted to defend him a few words. Su Yun said directly: "You plan to be tortured by the child like a crazy woman without any regrets, and you don't want him to know how to take care of the child."
The hard work?"
She couldn't do it anyway.
Like their brother Lin, he takes care of most of the three babies, but she will also be involved. She knows that Xiao Lin works hard, but he is also the father of the children after all, isn't he?
And it was very hard for her to be pregnant for ten months, right?
Zhao Meiyu seemed to understand Su Yun's explanation. She nodded blankly, and Su Yun did not ask her to drag Gu Jinnian back to take care of the child immediately. That is to say, do not let men develop a kind of leadership.
It would be fine if the children had no relationship with them.
The two of them walked out of their house together and came to Song Yinyin's side again.
Su Yun handed the gift to Song Yinyin, but Song Yinyin looked at her with burning eyes and said, "I want to eat the food you cooked more than the gift."
Su Yun stretched out her hand without hesitation.
"Then return the things to me, and I'll make you a bowl of noodles when I get home."
"Is this okay? Can I take back the things I gave away? Xiaoyun, why are you so stingy?" Song Yinyin protected the gift, for fear that Su Yun would snatch it away. Su Yun was a little funny: "It's not that you said you like me more.
Did you cook the food? I will fulfill your wish!"
"Hey, forget it, I'll be satisfied another day." Song Yinyin 'compromised', with an expression on her face that looked very considerate and made people laugh or cry. Just as Su Yun was thinking about talking, Li Wei walked out.
Come in.
"Sister? Are you back?"
Li Wei walked in with Li Mingzhe in his arms, his voice as loud as ever.
"Let's have dinner together tonight, I've made a reservation."