After leaving Meng's home, I went to my senior brother's house. The two senior brothers were not there, so I left it for my senior sister-in-law and didn't sit there for long. Then I hurried to Wu Shu's house. I left two boxes for Wu Shu's house. The other senior brothers were in other places, so the mail must be
It's impossible, it will break down before reaching the place. Then we can only forget it.
Then I went to the mountain to give it to the elderly at home. After all, it was the Jin family’s wish, and the Lin family had to know.
The fourth master has moved most of them down. There are many old people living in the mountains, so let the old people give them away. In the past, people often gave Lin Xiyuan things when he came here. Their children and grandchildren would touch them for the old man, and they would bring them to him.
.There aren’t many people living there, so there are always people coming and going like this. So just stay and take advantage of the favor. This is a fresh product, and you can’t keep it.
As a result, when we arrived at the mountain, not only Lin Fanran was there, but also Liu Hua.
This girl... why did she come to the mountains to play?
Lin Xiyuan came out of the study and beckoned to Fourth Master: "Don't worry about those girls, come Siye, I'm playing with the computer. But when I asked Fang Ran, she couldn't get it that deep." A guy with a bachelor's degree in computer science came over.
Liu Hua, this girl's professional ability is just like that, I can't explain it.
The fourth master washed his face, said something to Gao Gong Lu, and went directly to the study.
Liu Hua stood in the entrance hall and talked to Tongtong, "I just heard that you went to the county below to hold a wedding. I just said, why are you in such a hurry? It will be better to wait until the weather gets cooler."
"It's done in Beijing. It's not appropriate to delay it until we go back." As Tongtong spoke, he directed Fang Ran, "Go and wash a few first, and ask Liu Hua to try them too." Then he said to Liu Hua: "I just said tonight.
I was sending it to my aunt, but I ran into you, so I took a box back with me."
OK!
Liu Hua helped the nanny move it into the kitchen, but Tongtong stopped him in a hurry, "It's not much. I have to give it to others when it's done, so just leave it here."
Just then, Fang Ran came out gnawing on a peach, "The skin is easy to peel, and the core and flesh are ripe and separated. The peaches sold outside are not as delicious as this."
"Then you take Liu Hua to eat first. I'll discuss with grandma how to give it away. I'll be here soon."
Senior engineer Lu was cleaning up the refrigerator with the nanny, wanting to make room for more. When he saw Tongtong sending Fang Ran away, he asked in a low voice, "What's wrong?"
Only then did Tongtong ask, "Why did you ask Liu Hua to come here?"
Senior Engineer Lu was stunned for a moment, "This kid plays very well with Fang Ran. He is not an outsider, so he invited him to come over to play. What's wrong?"
Tongtong glanced outside and then said: "Liu Hua moved to the upstairs opposite us... He contacted my brother twice in private. My brother... felt very uncomfortable."
Very uncomfortable? Why are you uncomfortable?
Tongtong put her hand under the faucet and rinsed it repeatedly.
Lu Gaogong was stunned again, and looked at Tongtong in astonishment. Then he stood upright holding on to the refrigerator door. After a long while, his voice trembled slightly and he said, "I know! I'll take care of it." That's fine.
! In a situation like that of the Liu family, the girl cannot find any kind of partner. If there is no intention here, the family there will restrain the girl and will never entangle her.
After packing up, Senior Engineer Lu arranged for nannies to deliver things to each house. Generally, few people came to someone's door. Most of those who came came because they had something to do. As for things, just ask someone to deliver them. It's good to know who sent them.
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They were all sorted and put away again, and Tongtong wrote the labels again, so there is no mistake.
After the arrangements were made, the mother-in-law and grandson went to the living room, where Fang Ran and Liu Hua were chatting hotly on the sofa.
Liu Hua held up the peach core and said to Tongtong: "It's really delicious. Where can I buy it? I want to make a reservation next year."
"You can't buy it anywhere. I asked people to keep it until it's ripe." Tongtong sat over and asked, "You can eat another if you like it. It's okay to eat one more ripe peach."
"I've eaten two." Liu Hua wiped his hands with a tissue, then sat on Fang Ran's side, closer to Tongtong, "Hey! What do you think about me studying for graduate school while working?"
Before Tongtong could speak, Lu Gaogong said: "How can that be done? You, Tongtong and Si Ye are different. Tongtong's major is very different from her self-study major. She mainly studied in graduate school.
Human-to-animal infections... tend to be virology. This subject focuses on practice. She practices medicine and sees a lot, which means she learns a lot. Therefore, going to graduate school is the icing on the cake for her. She can study on the job. Like
This is Si's profession. He studied aircraft design, but aircraft is a complex and comprehensive thing. He is better at mechanics, computers, and even management... Therefore, his place of use may be more
Broad. It was his stepping stone. After entering the door, he had more room to play. Just like your mother, your mother also studied road and bridge, but in the end there was no big progress in her profession. But she herself
She has an outgoing personality, is kind and generous to others, and she has good relations with cadres and masses. In the end, she gradually became a female cadre of the unit, and her work focus shifted."
Liu Hua unconsciously touched another peach and slowly started to nibble on it.
Lu Gaogong laughed and said, "Besides, at your mother's time, there was a shortage of talents. What about now? There are talents everywhere. Who doesn't have the ability to do anything, even if they can't handle the job in hand! You
What do you mean? Going to graduate school is not absolute. This varies from person to person. However, the academic requirements for future work are absolute. Even if you are promoted within the system, I am afraid that there will be such considerations. Take advantage of your youth.
, If you don’t lay a solid foundation, I’m afraid you will regret it in a few years.”
Liu Hua smiled sheepishly: "Maybe it's because I'm not interested in this major and I always feel like I can't get into it." "You can try to study for graduate school across majors!" Fang Ran said, "I think it's good to study for graduate school across majors.
I have now considered whether to make adjustments in the direction of applied physics. In terms of physics, I am always one step behind the top, but this is not a shortcoming that can be made up through hard work. Then I
Of course you have to think about applied physics.”
Liu Hua asked: "Is there a big difference between the two?"
Damn! "Physics is mainly theoretical research, while physics application focuses on the transformation of technology into practical applications. These are two completely different directions."
Oh oh oh! Liu Hua smiled sheepishly, "What about computers? What majors can computers be divided into?"
"Study what you are interested in! You don't have the pressure of employment or work, so of course you can study whatever you are interested in. I have made the wrong choice once. If I study something you don't like, then choose something you are interested in."
Fang Ran really felt this way, and felt that Liu Hua was very stubborn. She wanted to cross majors, but on the one hand, she was really far away from the top. On the other hand, considering the impact on her after her mother was sentenced, it might be difficult for her to enter.
I have done some core projects. My father’s face is not good either. Then I have to consider converting to an application-oriented one. Working in an enterprise in the future is also a good choice.
Liu Hua laughed, "Should I study management or economics?"
"Economics definitely requires you to study mathematics." Fang Ran looked like why don't you think about it carefully? "Management..." she said, looking at Tongtong uncertainly, "Second sister, most of the study of management also requires you to study mathematics."
Mathematics, right? It doesn’t seem to be needed for administration?”
Tongtong nodded, "Yes! The literature and history majors do not require mathematics, but other majors still require mathematics. This should be considered."
"Then it's administrative management!" Liu Hua decided directly, "My dad will definitely consider the future work."
After saying this, Senior Engineer Lu was speechless.
How should I put it? Both Lin Xiyuan and Lu Gaogong have good abilities, but Lin Youqu walked his own path. When it comes to the following three grandchildren, they all go their own way, and none of them follows the path of their elders.
. This also means that it is difficult for elders to give some substantial help to younger generations in aspects that they are familiar with.
Generally speaking, they still feel that their children are relying on their own abilities to survive. Even the new uncle is not taking the path Lin Youqu imagined.
Although there is some disappointment, it is more of a sense of pride. It is the most gratifying thing that future generations can survive on their own and gain a foothold in society.
Therefore, it feels strange psychologically for people who are so confident about relying on their elders.
Moreover, isn't it too arrogant? Speaking like this is very hateful.
Senior Engineer Lu changed the subject, "What do you want to eat tonight? There is also fresh hairtail. Let's braise the hairtail today."
OK! Braised hairtail.
Lu Gaogong stood up and patted Tongtong, "Tell them to talk. Let's go to the restaurant. I haven't asked you about the banquet in Shunyi yet."
Tongtong and Liu Hua nodded, "You two talk!"
Liu Hua laughed and said, "You are an adult now, you are different from us."
That’s right! Now that you have a family, you are an adult and I won’t play with your children anymore.
Talking and laughing, the people walked away.
Tongtong saw some shrimps and they were quite big, so she grabbed some leeks and went to the restaurant. She told the nanny, "I'll choose the leeks and fry the shrimps later."
good!
The mother-in-law and grandson talked while choosing dishes. Of course, they also asked a few questions about the banquet, but these were all mentioned casually. Engineer Lu mainly talked about Lin Shuhan's situation, "Do you... think you need psychological intervention?
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"I think it's best for us to pretend we don't know." Tongtong said, "Don't mention it to anyone anymore. It's over here. The matter of marriage is up to him! Don't rush or rush. The right person can do it.
He saved my brother; the wrong person can completely destroy my brother."
The few leeks that Senior Engineer Lu grabbed in his hand took him a long time to decide.
Tongtong stood up silently and rubbed the acupuncture points, "Stew the Chinese medicine for lowering blood pressure for three more days and take it for three days in a row. Don't be anxious, don't be impatient..."
Don't be impatient or impatient.
Pretending that nothing happened, we ate on the mountain. Went home just in time for Lin Shuhan to get off work. Before leaving, he made a phone call and said, "Brother, braised hairtail, we'll be home in a while, don't be in a hurry to eat."
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On the pretext of bringing food to Lin Shuhan, he left after eating.
Liu Hua also wanted to leave. She drove alone and went her own way. Since she was bringing the peach to her, she had to go back to her home first, so she couldn't always go along the way.
As soon as Taozi arrived, Dong Ming called Tongtong to thank him! Thank you for thinking about her so much.
In fact, if I hadn't happened to run into Liu Hua today, there would be no need to give it to her family. I caught up with her, so I'm sorry if I don't give it.
When she made the call, Tongtong was giving Xiao Ruo acupuncture. She had been idle for a few days, so she came over with a box of peaches and changed the needles: "It hurts a little, just bear with it."
This kind of acupuncture does not need to be performed too frequently. But because I didn't want to talk too much to Dong Ming, I used acupuncture as an excuse to interrupt the call, "...I'll get back to you if I can't wait any longer."
"Is your sister feeling better now? Is she getting better?"
"Yes! I can stand up in front of the railing by myself."
Xiao Ruo is indeed able to stand up. In fact, he was able to stand up in the first half of the month, but he was still timid. Before leaving this time, Tongtong said, "Stand up. Unless you stand up, you cannot proceed to the next stage."
I heard from Xiao Ou that he howled in pain for several days, but in the end he was able to stand up thanks to his own support.
While performing the acupuncture, Tongtong said to Xiao Ruo: "It's not as painful as you think. A lot of the pain is caused by your psychological suggestion. You have to be calm, grow well, and regain a certain function, and you can stand up naturally. You yourself
If you didn’t pay attention, look at your toes and move them..."
She moved her toes and her thumbs could move.
Her eyes widened in astonishment, and Xiao Ou was also stunned. He went over to pull Xiao Ruo's toes and cried, "It really moved."
Right! So, don’t put pressure on yourself.
After walking for a while, I broke out in a sweat and said, "Okay, first stand for ten minutes every day. After a month, stand for ten minutes each in the morning, noon and evening. Let's see the effect!"
It was such a hot summer day, even in the air-conditioned room, I was sweating all over. Xiao Ruo urged: "Sister, please go back quickly, take a shower and rest."
Well! I'm back.
On the way back, while waiting for the elevator, I called Gao Gong Lu and wanted to ask about him and some of the old man’s subordinates. They had received gifts. The old man and his wife were in the current position. If there was something going on at home, it was impossible to notify them.
.It's all over. Just mention it when you visit them. This kind of communication belongs to the kind of communication between people. They looked at the face of the two old people and gave them a big courtesy. It's not like the old people have no descendants, so they can't pretend not to.
You know! Lin Youqu paid little attention to this matter, and Lin Shuhan probably didn't expect it. Someone would have to pick up this thread.
I was in a hurry at first, saying that I would talk about this after going up the mountain, but Liu Hua was there and I forgot about it.
Now that I think about it, when I called, the line over there was busy. Who could I be talking to?
Tongtong called Lin Xiyuan again and told him about this.
The old man was relieved, "You have to think about the front, so you have to do this. Later, either you, Si Ye, or your brother, whoever comes over, will get the contact book."
Okay! After chatting for a while, she asked again: "My grandma is busy."
Yeah! I'm on the phone with Xiaodong.
Dong Ming called the old lady again, and Lu Gaogong said: "...Si Ye, like his family, has a solid eye. We also like this solid-eyed child."
That's right! Everyone likes solid eyes. Dong Ming said about her daughter: "Hua Hua, this child, is a straight person. One intestine goes all the way to the end, he has no heart."
Yes! There is nothing wrong with the child. But if your grandson really hates being near him, then you have to make it clear to him. You can’t drag his child with you, right? What does his child mean when he says he doesn’t want to go to graduate school? Isn’t that true?
That is to say, there is no situation where one has to wait for the other because of the age difference of several years. The implication is that you can consider getting married at will.
This is inappropriate! Regardless of whether you are getting married or not, you cannot delay your studies. Even if your own child is interested, so what if you wait three years? What if you wait another six years? It is not a big problem.
But isn't this... my own child is not only unwilling, but also strongly rejects it?
What could Lu Gaogong say? She could only say it tactfully: "Now this young man has an idea. My little granddaughter is only a sophomore in school, and she is already thinking about changing her major. I don't think she is.
Considering the inter-major postgraduate entrance examination, she has already thought about changing her major. But fortunately, from physics to applied physics, all the courses she took in her freshman year were basic courses, so it would not be a big problem to change her major." Then she said to Tongtong, "I have learned it.
The veterinarian may have regretted it, and went to Chinese medicine again. He didn't say anything and thought about it by himself. It's okay for the two sisters to worry about it. You see, Shu Han has learned a lot of roads and bridges. After completing his internship, he can join the job. He went to take the public examination.
.Every idea is bigger than the other. I can’t say anything anymore! During the Chinese New Year, I introduced many people to them, but in the end, I didn’t go to meet any of them. I said, don’t let go of a good girl when you meet one. Do you want a good girl?
They were all picked out, but in the end, people said they didn’t find the right one, so don’t worry! Do you think it’s irritating or not?”
After the phone call, Dong Ming put down the phone and understood that this was a polite rejection.
It's about the marriage of my children. It's not fate. I can't say I'm angry. I can't even say I've offended someone. There's no such thing. If you really do this, you'd be too petty.
I just think it's a pity, Shuhan's child is very stable. Speaking of it, this can be regarded as a family friend, who knows everything about it, and it couldn't be a more appropriate marriage.
But since it doesn't work, we can't ask the child to go again.
She handed the grapes to her daughter and said, "How about going to the mountains today?"
Liu Hua didn't want to eat the grapes. They were not ripe and sour. She didn't like eating them! She touched a peach and changed the TV channel with the remote control while saying, "It's pretty good! The Lin family
My grandparents like me very much, and I play well with Fang Ran."
"You can't always go there! It's not an ordinary place, you know?"
Got it! I won’t go there often in the future.
Dong Ming looked at his daughter who was eating deliciously and watching TV with enthusiasm. He got up and went to the study room to tell Liu Anping about this.
Liu Anping thought it didn't matter, "There are many young talents, Lin Shuhan... I'm not very optimistic about him either."
What's wrong? Why didn't you tell me earlier?
Liu Anping took off his glasses, "I'm not very satisfied."
How can you not be satisfied? You are a real person!
Liu Anping asked, "What do you like about that child?"
"Steady, self-possessed, and meticulous in everything he does, just right."
Liu Anping opened his eyes and looked at her: "The problem lies in 'just right'! Such people either have been tutored like this for a long time; or they have extremely high requirements for themselves. We know the teacher's family
Hasn't it been a year or two that the teacher is such a strict person? No! They are all rough people. But such a family has children who are just right. This is the case with Shuhan, and the same is true with Tongtong.
.Such a person not only has high demands on himself, but must also be more sensitive than ordinary people. It is very tiring to get along with this person. Our children are so careless that they will not get along!"
Then you didn't tell me earlier!
"What do I say when you like a child? She is so young, just like her once you see her. If you don't like her later, just look for her again!" What should I say?
As long as I am here, my daughter has the right and freedom to choose, so why should I say that?