The Queen Mother was very angry about this incident!
As for Liang Concubine, she felt that Liang Concubine was not abiding by her duties and did not respect the rights that the direct descendant of Fujin had.
As for Ba Fujin, the Queen Mother felt that she had lost her filial piety and lost her obedience.
Having been the Queen Mother for decades, there are so many female relatives in the clan and harem, but she has never seen any of them like Lao Bajia. She is so bold and unreasonable!
For this matter, the Queen Mother not only called the main concubines in the harem, but also the prince Fujin, one by one. Look, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Liangfei and Bafujin are a negative example!
The concubines must know that even if they are mothers-in-law, they are not legitimate mothers-in-law. Some things can be taken care of, and some things should be left alone. You should enjoy the filial piety that you should enjoy, and be less right and wrong!
Concubine Yi felt very aggrieved by being hanged up. Which of the three daughters-in-law was she not coaxing? For example, when Lao Jiu asked for a lot of money, she even used the money to subsidize her younger son. What about Lao Jiu's Fujin?
We must not be polite! Not to mention that the daughter-in-law of Lao Jiu's family is very good, but she is not good. She beats Lao Jiu three times a day, just because she allows Lao Jiu to subsidize his brothers. This is very valuable! Beat him, it's not just a beating.
Is this a big deal? It costs other people’s money, so we have to be aware of it.
As for Lao Shi's family, she must be coaxed well. As long as the daughter-in-law of the Eleven family complains about poverty and comes to the palace to tell Lao Shi that she is not feeling well, she will secretly give it to her daughter-in-law, as much money as she can to subsidize Lao Shi.
I don’t even dare to count it out. Tell me, if a mother-in-law like you is not good again, find a better one to compare with! As for the one from Lao Wu’s family, that is Lao Wu bastard. As a mother-in-law, you have to take the place of Lao Wu.
Five coaxing daughters-in-law. Now the coaxed daughter-in-law is close to her mother-in-law, and we can talk about anything together in private. We wives get along quite harmoniously, and the daughters-in-law are happy to go home, but as long as they adjust to being a mother-in-law
The mentality will be better!
Nowadays, no one else in the palace has done this stupid thing that Liangfei has done.
Looking sideways, she saw that there were three daughters-in-law sitting in front of Concubine De. The fourth family was serving her, serving tea. The fourteenth family members were looking left and right. They were still curious and loved to watch the excitement and did not take it too seriously!
Even if her mother-in-law is by her side, she does whatever she wants without caring. There is also the one in Lao Liu's house. She is sitting next to Concubine De, boredly pulling on Concubine De's sleeves and picking out the patterns on it. I feel like going back to De Concubine today.
The concubine can't wear this dress, so can you still see the things embroidered on the sleeves? But what happened to the concubine? She didn't just sit there and let her daughter-in-law pick at it.
Hey! I can’t say it!
Today, the Queen Mother sent someone to let the Emperor know about it, but the solution to the matter had to come later.
Before her daughter-in-law entered the palace, in front of so many concubines, the Queen Mother did not save face for Liangfei. She asked Bafujin to kneel outside, but said harshly to Liangfei inside: "...I have
There is no heir. The Ai family is watching this, and the emperor is watching. The palace has given Fu Jin, which is very thoughtful and thoughtful! In the past, the eighth family did not carry out the filial piety, but after the filial piety period,
Didn't Lao Ba's family also carry two people to the family? If you do the math, there is one person from the direct descendant Fujin, one from Xiang Fujin, and one person from Gege who originally taught human affairs. Now that they have brought in two more people, there are five women in Lao Ba's house!
Why are you still calling the eighth daughter-in-law? How many days have it been since we brought the newlywed into the house? Is it the fault of the eighth daughter-in-law that she didn’t get pregnant?"
Liangfei's face turned pale, she didn't mean that! She mentioned Minggu today. She felt that since the direct Fujin couldn't have children, Minggu, as the side Fujin, what did it mean not to let others give birth? What is the eighth Fujin now?
No matter whether he is just busy with his errands, matters in the house, or taking care of the eighth child, Minggu is taking care of it. Even if the house sends it to the palace for his mother-in-law, naturally Minggu is taking care of everything!
They are all doing it according to the previous example. It can be seen that Minggu is really giving in to protect her as a blessing. Such a person is from the Queen Mother's palace and was personally given by the emperor. What do you mean by always doing this? You are
Asking her to give birth, how could someone like her become so arrogant? Besides, Lao Ba didn’t want the child’s background to be too low! I originally thought that Ming Gu would be fine, just like Brother Jiu,
I wanted to give a girl with a Manchu surname, but her family may not be prominent. However, I mentioned it to Lao Ba's family earlier, but she ignored her and didn't take the initiative to ask for someone. I wanted to ask Empress Hui to give her one, but she didn't move.
As for Bafujin, he didn't take her words to heart at all. He would rather find two people to carry him back than call him Aunt Ming. He's not such a bully! If you say you are like this, how can you ask others to follow you two wholeheartedly?
Live life.
He really just said a few nice words to Minggu, and Bafujin said the next sentence: "Then just divorce me and help Minggu."
To her, the mother-in-law, her daughter-in-law didn't dare to speak out even if she said something like this forcefully, and she had to tell the waiter to shut up and don't spread the word, let alone tell the old man too talkatively, and then cause the couple to make trouble.
stand up.
The result was so good, I wished I could silence those who knew about it, but they went straight to the Queen Mother and asked her to come down.
Counting up, has anything like this ever happened to the royal family?
Being scolded by the Queen Mother, she really didn't dare to defend herself. It's my fault! It's my fault! The root of all the inappropriateness lies with me and has nothing to do with my daughter-in-law.
Behind the backs of these juniors, the Queen Mother scolded the good concubine. It was really shameless to say that she didn't understand what her duty was.
But when the junior came, the Queen Mother showed a calm expression and gave the good concubine a seat, without treating her differently from the other four concubines.
Then he called Bafujin in and asked Bafujin, "This matter concerns the heir, does your mother-in-law care about it?"
Bafujin lowered his head and remained stubbornly silent.
The Queen Mother asked again: "You keep saying that you can't have children, so you don't dare to delay me. But since you were diagnosed as infertile, has anyone in the palace ever scolded you or treated you coldly? Not only that, but whenever big things happen, your
The sisters-in-law all humbly gave in to you, and the emperor never stopped you. Why? From top to bottom, they were afraid that you would think too much. I thought that I was busy with something, and no one would take advantage of it. I felt happy, maybe God has a good idea.
, it is not known whether the fate of the children will be delayed. But what will be the result? Your mother-in-law only asked, and you felt wronged and came to complain! Don't say that you have not given birth to children, just those who have given birth to children, go and ask in the market outside.
Come on, how many people are as easy to talk to as these mother-in-laws in the palace? You are just being pampered, and you are becoming more and more arrogant."
Bafujin was still kneeling like that, biting his lips and saying nothing.
Why is your temper so stubborn? This is in your husband's family, not your natal family. Besides, no one in your natal family can let you be so stubborn! But you live in the palace, and not long after the old prince was gone, you were accused
You are married to the eighth child. The palace treats you as a guest and accommodates you in every way. How come you are so stubborn and you are not done yet?
Da Fujin stood up and went to help Ba Fujin, "Get up, kowtow to Liang E Niang, admit your mistake, and tell E Niang not to be angry... There are so many E Niangs, how can you really get angry with us juniors?"
Unexpectedly, Ba Fujin withdrew his hand and kowtowed again, "Emperor Grandma, it's not the grandson's daughter-in-law who is stubborn, it's the grandson's daughter-in-law who is really wronged. Now that these things are happening, everyone thinks that the daughter-in-law is jealous. But to be fair, the women in the palace
Is it missing?"
The Queen Mother can be so angry that she is old, but she is not confused! Princess, who taught human affairs in the early years, has long been sent to the corner. Minggu is still a girl now, and these two who were carried into the door have just entered the door.
God? Before this, weren't you the only one?
She understood that Bafujin must be kneeling here because he wanted some protection from the palace.
So, the Queen Mother waved her hand, "It's up to you to live your life, and the palace doesn't care how you live it. You can live however you like..." The emperor didn't say that Lao Ba was the prince, so whether Lao Ba had a son or not, it didn't matter.
Then it’s important. He is the prince, he is the emperor. If he has no son and he is adopted by the clan, it is not a big deal! If people are not willing to call for help? Then it will not be offensive!
Bafujin glanced at Liangfei and then at the Queen Mother, "Eniang Minggu was a gift from the Queen Mother..."
"The person given to you is your family. How she lives and what kind of life she lives is between you and Lao Ba." The Queen Mother stood up directly. She originally called so many granddaughter-in-laws into the palace because she wanted to treat them as Lao Ba.
Taking the example of the Eighth Family, the results are good now. The stubbornness of the Eighth Family should not set an example for these granddaughter-in-laws.
It seems that the Ai family is really old and cannot be said or controlled!
As soon as she said this, Tongtong's heart skipped a beat. She felt that the Queen Mother was really angry.
In fact, the old queen mother is very easy to get along with, and she will never cause trouble when nothing happens. The queen mother doesn't like Liangfei very much, but if she doesn't reprimand Bafujin, isn't this condoning unfilial piety? The queen mother takes care of it, but Bafujin is not very obedient.
Every one of these ladies is in a panic right now.
Precisely because the Queen Mother was not the Emperor's biological mother, and the Qing Dynasty governed the world with filial piety, the Emperor became more filial to the Queen Mother. Let alone the harem, who would dare to talk to the Queen Mother like this.
Liang Fei was so frightened that she could hardly stand up. The Queen Mother was about to leave, so she knelt down and said, "Huang'e Niang, Lao Ba's family is ignorant, please go back and tell Lao Ba to be nice..."
Before she finished speaking, the Queen Mother turned to the back and was no longer seen.
Liang Fei looked at Ba Fujin with complicated eyes, and closed her eyes hard. If Lao Ba continued to ignore his wife, he would definitely be dragged down. She didn't say anything at the time, but when she got back, she sent the waiter away, "You
Wait for Lao Ba at the gate of the palace. When you see him, tell him that if you don't care about your good wife, I, the mother-in-law, will not eat."
"Empress..."
The good concubine waved her hand, "Go!" If this matter is suppressed by an unfilial piety, nothing will really be lost.
In fact, Concubine Liang was right. The emperor called his son to reprimand him. As a result, the news about Cining Palace was passed on, which made the emperor very angry. However, the emperor still said nothing. He only said to Laoba: If you can't handle your family affairs.
I understand, so what else can you do?
Lao Ba's face turned pale for a moment: Only after cultivating one's self and bringing order to one's family can we govern the country and bring peace to the world!
The emperor waved his hand, "Okay! Go ahead! We'll talk about it after we figure it out."
The emperor sent him out of the palace here, and the mother-in-law sent a message at the palace gate over there.
But this Fujin was also proposed by Huang Ama back then, but who knew he would have such a temperament now. He did not go back directly to his hometown, but came directly to Lao Liu's house.
Si Ye handed Xiao Ba to the nanny, and then he heard Fujin finish talking about what happened in Cining Palace, and then Lao Ba came. What was he doing here?
As a result, Lao Ba met his sixth brother and asked directly: "How does sixth brother control sixth sister-in-law?"
Discipline? Why are you still using discipline?
Do you think I can control Fujin like this? Do you have any misunderstanding about me, your sixth brother?
But if you can misunderstand like this, it's still more respectable! He said with a deep look on his face, "Control it, it's a long story!"
Don't be in a hurry! I'm just here to learn from you, and I have plenty of time to listen to you slowly.
Si Ye scratched his head, then frowned and said: "Means can be diverse, as long as the goal is clear, right?"
right!
"So, my method is to give her what she likes! What I mean by giving her what she likes is to give her whatever she likes. When you talk, you only tell her what she wants to hear. When you eat, you only choose what she likes. It's all the little things in the house that don't matter.
, it’s all up to her! When she’s busy with those little things, she won’t remember that there are big things! If she doesn’t remember that there are big things, she won’t come out to make trouble and affect the big things. In this way, everyone can perform their duties and not disturb each other. Wouldn’t it be good?
?”
Lao Ba was stunned for a moment, then looked at Lao Liu seriously: Brother Liu, are you serious?
Is it possible that I have nothing to do and am just here to talk and coax you?
Lao Ba was silent, and after a long time he said: "Brother Six, you... don't seem to be controlling, either?"
You don’t understand this. There are many kinds of tubes, some are hard tubes, and some are soft tubes. It just depends on whether your Fujin eats soft food or hard food! After all, the means are not important, as long as the goal is achieved! My Fujin is eating
It's soft, so of course I can only deal with it softly.
The old man said in his heart, you can't do it if you don't have to be soft! You really want to be tough, but I guess you can't be tough! What can you do if you don't have to be soft?
After thinking about it, I sighed. This method probably won't work for my Fujin! He's a person who you dare to touch even if you're tough or not. If you're soft, it won't work either. As for her, she's someone who's getting softer if you're soft.
He has a tough temper. How do you manage this kind of person? How do you deal with him?
He is really numb.
Si Ye said: "This is something that varies from person to person! Just like that country man, he doesn't have much respect for his wife. He just believes in fists. What do you say?" As he said this, he looked at Zhao Qishan.
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Zhao Qishan whispered: "Returning to the master's words, it is called 'the wife who was beaten is the one who rubs the dough'..."
Si Ye nodded, "Yes! That's what it means, there is no wife who can't be beaten!" After saying this, Lao Ba rolled up his sleeves and left.
Siye snorted, got up and went back to the backyard. When he got back, he learned from Tongtong. "I came here and asked me, my wife is good everywhere, does she need to be taken care of or taught? If she is good, she doesn't need to be taught, and if she is not good, she won't be taught.
use……"
Tongtong filtered out the words that complimented her. What did the rest mean? No matter how you heard it, it sounded like you were encouraging the old man to beat his wife?