Qing Huan in the Dream (166) The daughters-in-law are talking, and the mother-in-law is not deaf, so she can hear everything.
Concubine Hui felt that her son was wronged, really! The one who got angry was indeed very angry in those days. But it was not her son who beat her daughter-in-law, but her daughter-in-law who slapped her son several times in front of her mother-in-law.
It's coming! The reason is that the boss didn't know that he was angry. He said he wanted to drink something, and his son was filial, so he said that he would drink with you. Then he drank, and when he was angry, didn't he have to be lighter? It took three glasses of wine to finish it.
, The boss came over, and angrily hit the boss on the back several times. At that time, both mother and son were frightened! The daughter-in-law stared at her eyes, "Mother, too, your son doesn't know the severity, and you don't know the importance either.
I don’t know how serious it is, but you’re still drinking when you’re swollen like this? Let alone drinking, there won’t be any serious meals tomorrow, so you’re not allowed to eat anything else.”
So I only had lotus leaf porridge, mixed with cold bitter melon. I ate it for three days, and then went to Lao Liu's to get two injections of anti-fire needles, and then I was cured.
So, now I know that my son was wronged, but can I say it? Just admit it! It’s embarrassing for my son to be beaten by his wife, so it’s better for his son to beat his wife. At least it’s a way to strengthen the husband’s relationship! That’s it!
Concubine Rong lowered her lips. She didn't really believe what her daughter-in-law said anyway. As soon as the thought passed by, she heard her daughter-in-law say, "It's better to be able to do it! You've never seen that kind of foaming at the mouth."
Those who scold others wish I could jump into a well if they cursed me!"
San Fujin was accusing the third master of not taking action but keeping his mouth shut. The scolding almost drove her to death.
Concubine Rong: "..." Forget it! As long as you are happy! If the third child can curse people eloquently when he is in a hurry, I think he is promising! He, when he is in a hurry, he can only be tongue-tied and eloquent? Aren't you the eloquent one?
You were so arrogant that you made the third child dumbfounded, couldn't explain the reason, and jumped into the well out of anger? I could hear this clearly outside your yard, but if you say the opposite, it's also the third child's fault.
Go ahead! At least you are taking care of his face? Are you maintaining his authority outside?
She could only smile awkwardly to Concubine Yi next to her, "It's normal for young couples to have trouble."
Yi Fei laughed, yes! How normal! Just like Lao Wu's family, my son had to pay for entering her door. If he didn't have any money, he wouldn't let him in! Breaking down the door and the like was not too much. But that's not the case.
The promising one has never been smashed open! It’s okay not to mention it!
After they didn't say anything, Lao Jiu's family complained again, "...he was very short-tempered and started yelling when he said something wrong. It snowed in front of me, and it snowed well all night. I got up early and talked a lot about business matters.
In other words, he made such a big snowball and hit me, it hit my back, I even thought it was swollen."
Swelled by a snowball?
That's not the case! If the snowball is compacted, it will turn into ice pimples. Wouldn't it hurt if it hits someone?
Bafu Jinxin said, it hurts, but Laojiu is free enough, and he even made snowballs in the yard. But Laojiu's brain has always been twitchy, who knows if it was twitching at that time.
Shi Fujin dismissed this and said, "Sister-in-law Eight, go take a look at the marks on the wall in my yard. They were all poked by my father with a spear..."
Dare to touch this guy?
"Didn't I use the whip too?"
Are you two performing a martial arts show at home? "This is nothing?" Eleven Fujin sighed, "If you are willing to take action, the fire will spread out, but there is a way to deal with people, which is more terrifying than swords, guns, swords and halberds!"
What about this kind of thing? Even Concubine Yi couldn't help but pricked up her ears.
Eleven Fujin sighed, "Have you ever seen the kind of person who doesn't pay attention to others? If something happens, you can talk and make noise, but if you don't pay attention to people, he will turn a blind eye to you, no matter how old you are. Isn't this the case?
It’s worse than killing someone.”
Bafujin was silent. She seemed to understand a little bit. These sisters-in-law were just here to put on a show! No matter how powerful they were at home, they would push the man forward as soon as they went out.
Yes! Men need face, don’t women need face?
In fact, what Eleven Fujin said is something I have in my own family. Yinsu is a very cold person when things go wrong. That kind of coldness can make people heart-wrenching and extremely uncomfortable!
When her mother-in-law was staying at home, in front of her, he was no different from usual, as if the unpleasant incident he had with her that day was over! He didn't talk about her, and he probably didn't talk about her mother-in-law either. He took Liangfei out for a walk,
When he ate with his mother, he didn't call himself Minggu, but she didn't call him Minggu either. Occasionally he would call his two children together, but she didn't take it seriously.
But when he was carrying someone on his back, he was very cold! He would still go back to the main courtyard to stay at night, and they wouldn't even share the same bed. They would lie with their heads side by side, with their backs to you, and their words would either be cold or indifferent, with no emotional ups and downs.
Whatever you tell him, he will either hum or hum, without a clear word.
She thought that it was normal for him to be angry. He would slowly get better in a few days. As long as he comes back, he should be fine!
Yes! Since the empress returned to the palace, she seems to be much better, and she has answered questions and answers, but she is just a little bit less enthusiastic!
He didn't beat her, scold her, or force her to apologize to his mother, but he just wasn't enthusiastic. Now these sisters-in-law are talking about all the misfortunes they have at home. Before, she brought her
They were hesitant and thought it was true. But then they listened and realized something was wrong. They were not saying this for themselves, they were saying it for their mother-in-law and for everyone else. It meant that she
The man in the family is the head of the family, so that's what he says.
But do women have to be like this? Although the world's situation is that a man has to build a family, he must listen to the man. When a couple lives together, he is my husband, I am his wife, and he and I are the same.
Wrong?
I can also say what Yinsu can do to me at home, but why should I say it? Isn't it Yinsu who relegates me to the dust and is embarrassed?
Bafujin feels that these sisters-in-law are becoming more and more difficult to get along with. Although they are riding horses and whipping whips, they are not the women they want to be. She is different from what they think!
This is probably because different ways do not lead to the same goal!
So, they got up and went to the clan Fujin's group.
The remaining sisters-in-law looked at each other, what happened?
Tongtong was really grateful to these sisters-in-law. The original intention of these words was just to ease his own embarrassment. This kind of thing is really embarrassing. The purpose of Bafujin's asking is unknown, but it is indeed
It's a bit embarrassing.
Before the banquet, she went out to change clothes and met Ba Fujin waiting outside.
"I didn't mean to embarrass you at that time." She explained.
Tongtong believed this, "No matter what your purpose is, don't forget that today is the Queen Mother's seventieth birthday. The clan ministers are gathered together, and it is inappropriate to say anything on this occasion."
Bafujin said: "Before, when you mentioned raising pigs, the analogy you made was indeed inappropriate in such a situation, but it still didn't do anything to you. You don't know what I'm going to say, how come you don't know that?
suitable?"
Tongtong: "..." Feelings are waiting here. She didn't speak for a long time, and after walking dozens of steps, she asked, "What do you want to say when you mention that?"
"It's wrong to beat your wife!" Bafujin said, "This matter must be dealt with from the root! If beating your wife can be criminalized, it should be criminalized."
Tongtong glanced at Bafujin in surprise, "You are right! But this matter will never happen overnight! You have to know that if you mention this, then the saying 'the husband is the guide for his wife' cannot be repeated.
Mention! If the saying that a husband should guide his wife is denied, then should we still say that a king should guide his ministers?" She walked slowly forward with Bafujin, "I agree with what you are thinking, but the time is not right to bring it up.
.This is not only a matter of the Queen Mother’s birthday, but also that your idea is not feasible for the time being. Because what you want to touch is actually the foundation! If it takes another fifty years, when we grow old, there will be more
It’s good that more people can realize that hitting a woman is wrong. No matter how many more people do, it’s not something we can see or do. This is something that only takes time!”
Ba Fujin was speechless, and after a long time he said: "Then do you think it is right to take a concubine?"
Isn't this a truth? Women take men as their guide, so men have the right to take concubines. You have to really make men and women the same, and this problem will naturally be solved. But human nature is something difficult to talk about.
If you don’t call it concubinage, you won’t find other women? It’s just the difference between the face and the back! But you have to think about it, can women be made self-reliant before that? If so, this is basic. And public opinion,
To understand, you have to break that concept of chastity. You have to know that before the Qing Dynasty entered the country, there was no such thing as chaste or unchaste. But what happened later? Every year, the emperor would reward chaste and martyrs. Why? When people are humble, they want to do it.
The things that are done are often contrary to the above, and the correct things can only be regarded as heresy.
Tongtongte told her seriously, "Actually, sometimes I dislike your character very much, but I solemnly tell you today that these things you think about are all great things! I admire you very much in my heart.
at this point."
Ba Fujin was stunned, and then looked at the sixth sister-in-law, only to find that what she said was true!
I heard her mockingly say: "Maybe I'm not as brave as you. I'm always going with the wind, riding on the wind and doing what I think I can do. But I also take my life very seriously, and I'm afraid that because of me
His carelessness will implicate more people."
Ba Fujin was silent. Sixth Sister-in-law had many ties, so of course she had to take a small step on the basis of self-protection. But since she had fewer ties, she had less to think about, so she would have less worries when thinking about things.
She stopped and asked, "If I really bring it up like this, it will affect my father, right?"
right!
"Is it a bad influence?"
affim!
Bafujin looked complicated, "I thought I was helping him."
No! If you really dare to do this, you will do great harm to your father.
Bafujin patted Tongtong on the shoulder, "I still have to thank you! You... are quite kind!"
Tongtong: "..." After all, you actually dare to think about it or not do it! As long as it hinders your grandfather, regardless of whether it is a good thing or a bad thing, you still won't do it!
