Sifujin didn’t consider the niece’s marriage, but when her sister-in-law asked her to marry Gege, she didn’t refuse.
She had her own considerations. When she told her father, she also said bluntly: "Our family is just a bastard, so we have to tie the children together! Otherwise, when they grow up, they will all become a family in the future.
Hongshi is finally a little lonely. If Mo Yaqi is married to the Ulanala family, it will be tied up with a rope..."
Not wanting to say anything, Honghui stopped him directly, "My mother is afraid that there will be rifts between our brothers, and she is right to think so. But the marriage is not appropriate for the second sister. Those aunts in the Ulanala family,
No one is easy to get along with!"
No matter how difficult it is to get along with her, she is a noble daughter in our family.
"But if the name and title are placed in the open, this is a constraint." Honghui helped E Niang sit down, "E Niang, just feel at ease. A son is the eldest brother, and a son is a binding rope. If you have a son,
, you will definitely not have anything to worry about. For the marriage of the eldest sister and the second sister, it is better to choose among some boys who have made great achievements in general studies and have a good family background. As long as the person is willing to make progress, the family population is simple, and the elders are sensible,
This way the marriage will be successful." He said, looking at his mother, "What do you think?"
Si Fujin noticed that his father, who had lowered his eyelids when he spoke before, now had a smile on his face, "Those who are good at miscellaneous studies...your father knows better. I'll discuss it with your father later."
The servant can just ask for the imperial edict to grant marriage."
This is the most appropriate way!
Si Fujin was speechless, but she really felt in her heart that she couldn't keep up with her father and son, not at all.
After the father and son left, she sat in the room in a daze. She asked herself that she had not neglected her duties in these years, but now, how could she be like this?
When Hongyun came in, he saw E Niang in a daze, and he laughed, "What are you doing? I thought you were busy..."
Sifu Jin finally came to his senses and asked, "Why are you here? Didn't you say you were going out?"
"Ama has something to do. My son, come here and tell E Niang." After saying that, he sat next to E Niang and said, "What's wrong? You see E Niang looking worried. Is it because the eldest brother hasn't recovered yet?"
Si Fujin shook his head, sighed softly, and said: "When it comes to the marriage of your two sisters, I mentioned a few boys from your uncle's family. Seeing what your Ama and your eldest brother want, they are not very happy! Why?
?Aren’t your uncle’s cousins all bad?”
It's not that it's not good, it's just too mediocre.
Hong Yun suddenly understood what his mother-in-law was for, and he sighed, "Mother-in-law, people are different. Your strengths lie within and outside. As long as you take care of the inner house, you can just follow the rest.
Ama is like this. It's like the marriage of two sisters. Yes, they are both concubines. It stands to reason that you have the right to interfere with how they get married. But now, our family is different from other families. If we don't compare with others, we just compare.
Did the Queen Mother ask about any of the marriages between the Queen Mother and the princess-like aunts in the palace that were not decided by the Emperor? Is it Aunt Wen Xian, or was it raised by the Queen Mother? What is the result? Is it okay to grant marriage to the Tong family?
Everyone can see it. But did the Queen Mother speak? No! This is connected to things outside.
So, why do you want to take care of such a thing? When you are of marriageable age, you can tell Amma, doesn’t Amma already know what she is doing? It is Amma’s business to discuss this with whom she does not discuss it with! But people
Once it’s settled, Amma will definitely tell you to take a look. This is your right as a direct descendant of Fujin. If you think it’s good, then say yes to Amma. If you really think there’s something seriously wrong, as long as it’s for the sake of your two sisters
Okay, you tell Amma frankly, and Amma will miss you. Why did you take the initiative to do this, and why do you have to be so involved with the Ulanala family? People are arguing with each other.
Pulling, it's to get along with each other and help you walk more steadily and faster. If the person pulling you can only hold you back, why did you let him pull you?" Sifujin looked at his son in astonishment.
It's her mother's family! She doesn't like it, but how can she make the relationship with her mother's family so tense?
Marrying a daughter-in-law is different from marrying a girl! To marry a daughter-in-law, as long as the girl is good, it will be fine. If you marry a daughter-in-law, the husband’s family will not be able to choose a daughter-in-law, so it will be easy to marry into the girl’s family.
She actually wants to have both!
The result is that it means both are incomplete. Don’t the sons intend to recognize the Uranala family?
Hong Yun followed up with this sentence. He said, "There are no talented people in the Ulanala family. Instead of dragging him away, I would rather give a few alms from time to time..."
The relationship of pulling is that of family members, and the relationship of giving is that of master and slave.
Si Fujin looked at his second son seriously for the first time. What he said was so cruel!
She always thought that this child was soft and always smiled with everyone, but who knew that he could be so cold and hard.
Si Fujin felt that she couldn't understand, especially couldn't understand, so she didn't come out much for the whole first month. Of course, Tongtong would know immediately if she didn't come out, because Hong Dan was still raising her here, and her mother-in-law was so good.
It's not right to not visit for a long time! She sent Aunt Zhang away, but when she came back she said that Si Fujin was probably ill. She said she couldn't leave the house for some days. Could it be that she was afraid that the illness would be passed on to the child? So since
Knowing that he was ill, he naturally had to go and have a look. Tongtong didn't delay at all and went right away.
I was shocked when I saw it. Why did you lose so much weight?
She hurriedly stretched out her hand and pulled the other person's wrist, "Why don't you feel comfortable? You can't see the imperial doctor in the first month of the year, so can't you hire a doctor outside? Even if you can't hire a doctor, please ask someone to tell me, and I'll come and take a look..." There were no words.
After finishing the pulse diagnosis, she frowned, which was because she was depressed.
What's wrong?
"Are you quarreling with the fourth brother?" Tongtong looked at Si Fujin, but the fourth brother has been busy since the fourth day of the first lunar month and was transferred to work with Prince Li on the board of directors. Before, it was Prince Li who was in charge, but now he is the boss.
Si and his father, led by Prince Li, are slowly and systematically managing the government affairs. Although both of them have focused jurisdictions, they still have to follow Prince Li. It is said that Prince Li has been in poor health recently.
, asked the two of them to help. In fact, everyone knew that this was a further signal from the emperor.
So, not only is the fourth child busy, but my father is also really busy. He often leaves early and comes home late. Sometimes he doesn’t come back until midnight after discussing with his staff. With such a busy schedule, how can the couple bother to quarrel?
Sifujin pulled Tongtong to sit down, "Where is the quarrel? He was busy half the time in the squad room, and half the time working with the staff in the outer courtyard all night long. Honghui was pulled away when he came back. This child has not been there for a long time.
Let’s take a rest. There are also Hongyun and Hongshi. It’s a matter of taxation. These kids are involved in a lot and are very busy.”
The sensible people are all busy, while the ignorant ones still have to worry about it.
Tongtong smiled and said, "Being busy is a good thing! You should be anxious if you are not busy. If you feel lonely, just bring Hongdan back and ask the children to make noise around you, and everything will be fine..."
Si Fujin smiled bitterly, "I just can't figure it out lately..." She didn't hide it from Tongtong and told Tongtong everything, "I can still understand what Honghui told me about miscellaneous studies. My child.
Even if there is no explanation, I know that they are promoting miscellaneous studies. We can marry off our daughters, and they also say that more people want to see the imperial court. I can understand this. But what I can’t figure out is Hong Yun...why
How can he say so confidently about giving alms to his uncle's family?"
Tongtong thought it was strange that Si Fujin was entangled, so she said matter-of-factly, "Then according to your ideas, Sister-in-law Tong, Master Tong Guowei will be able to face you without kneeling?"
Tong Guowei is still the emperor's uncle, but so what? What in the Tong family cannot be rewarded by the royal family? When these princes and elder brothers don't want to be polite, are they polite to Tong Guowei? This time Thirteen was on guard against Longkodo, and finally punished Long
Kodo, do you care about the Tong family’s face? No!
Si Fujin was stunned for a long time: "This is different!"
"Why is it different?" Tongtong smiled and said, "Tell me what's different?"
We are really very close to that position. The emperor is already asking his grandfather and fourth son to change their minds and think more about government affairs from an overall perspective. Then, the children's perspective of thinking about the problem has changed accordingly.
Strange. Now that we have reached that point, it is no longer time to talk about relatives.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with this.
But Sifujin didn't think so. What she was worried about was that if it were Lao Liu's family, wouldn't her own children be embarrassed?
Tongtong didn't wait for her to say what she couldn't say, and smiled: "Hongyun is the third elder brother of our family. I think what the child said is right!"
After saying that, he stood up and said, "You are in good health, there is nothing wrong with you. Choose a good time to pick up Xiaojiu. When you are fine, you can walk around in the garden. When you are tired, eat something good. Live as you please...
If you think less and think less, your health will naturally get better." After saying that, he smiled and said: "You have four sons, this is your confidence. As for the others, they are all empty! Everyone has selfishness, but they are mixed.
Privately, in fact, the kinship relationship is no longer simple."
After saying that, she said goodbye directly. As soon as she came out, she saw Hong Yun waiting outside. As soon as the boy saw that she came out, he ran over with a smile and said, "Mom, I will take you out."
Tongtong nodded at him, "You, please speak more slowly to your mother-in-law."
Hongyun sighed, "Mom, sometimes, the ideas of ordinary housewives are not enough to handle certain positions with ease. When status changes, if the way of doing things remains the same, it is right and wrong. Sons cannot
I won’t give this heavy hammer to E Niang! My E Niang...is different from mother!"
The people in Xilinjueluo's family are now my mother's direct relatives, and they are not the ones who can't be lifted up. But has my mother mentioned further binding her natal family to her? No!
However, the uncle of Uranala's family is not a compatriot of E Niang's mother. His maternal grandmother is Xu Xian, who only gave birth to one E Niang. In this kind of relationship, there is no need to tie him up!
Hong Yun smiled bitterly, "Mom, my son really doesn't think he is cold and hard..."