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This is a big deal!
The queen even said, “We can have a good New Year this year! Is this how she wants to have a good New Year? This is obviously because she doesn’t want everyone to have a good New Year!”
Cui Shangyi didn't dare to report. After getting the things in her hands, she urgently asked Zhang Gongling.
Zhang Gongling and Zhou Baozheng were busy asking how many romantic girls had come to the capital, but they were invited.
What's wrong? So anxious!
Cui Shangyi asked her to read the memorials that had been approved one by one, "What should I do? I want them to be sent to the Senate."
Zhang Gongling hurriedly closed the fold, put it back into the box, locked it, and then said: "Wait a minute... people have three urgent needs. You have a bad stomach today, do you understand?"
Got it! I definitely won’t send it first.
Zhang Gongling hurried to the queen's side.
Lin Yutong knew what was going on as soon as he heard the report, and still asked Zhang Gongling to come in.
After entering, Zhang Gongling's face was gentle, and he didn't look anxious at all. He said with a smile, "Your Majesty, I'm here to ask about the New Year sacrifices."
Lin Yutong put down the book in his hand and looked at her, "What we did in previous years, what should we do this year! There is no need to add or subtract too much! But I still need to add two more clothes for the princesses. Even if the emperor's sister-in-law has to wear plain clothes, she can't be plain.
It's over. Send that box of white fox skins to the emperor's sister-in-law. "Yes! When it comes to virtuousness, the queen is really virtuous. She handles the affairs in the palace properly, from the master to the servants, there is no
She never scolded anyone harshly. She was well-clothed and well-fed, and even if she did something wrong, she would always treat her with kindness. Compared with other queens of the Ming Dynasty, this kind of queen is enough to compare.
The only thing that many people criticize about her is that not only does she do well in her duties, but she also does extremely well in extra tasks.
The queen arranged this, so she agreed. Instead of abruptly changing the topic to that matter, she used sacrifice as an entry point and started talking about Emperor Taizu. This matter is really not that easy! This
If you really want to do things the way you do, you will break the truth!
Therefore, she tried her best to keep her voice steady and said: "In the first year of Hongwu, Emperor Tai|zu issued an edict, saying that for all 'filial sons and obedient grandchildren, righteous husbands and chaste wives', as long as the local officials recommend them to the court, then
The whole family can be commended by the court."
You know! This is the so-called "family relationship".
Zhang Gongling went on to say, "Let's just talk about chastity. There were regulations at that time. As long as a widow started to live in chastity for her deceased husband before the age of thirty, and she remained chaste until the age of fifty, this honor was an honor among the family members.
aspect. More importantly, I can be exempted from the service of my family."
Lin Yutong nodded, she also knew this! Being exempted from service is particularly important! If glory only represents vanity, service is profit. As long as the family is temperate, it will be exempted from service just like the official family.
Therefore, the husband's family will try their best to prevent the woman from remarrying.
And if a chaste wife is born, her family will be honored. There will be more suitors from other girls in the family, and it will be easier to get a good son-in-law. Isn’t this a benefit?!
Therefore, a woman is willing to remarry, but who will support it? Her husband's family or her husband's family? Under various pressures, she has no choice but to keep her integrity.
These are the laws introduced by Zhu Yuanzhang to restrict widows from remarrying.
Zhang Gongling's hand grasped the hem of his clothes and continued: "In the 16th year of Hongwu, the court had other regulations. The regulations said that when an official's wife was granted a title, there were also some conditions. For example, if the wife was not married according to etiquette, she was not a legitimate person.
If the wife is a remarried widow, she cannot be granted a title. If the wife is an actress, a maid, or a concubine, she cannot be granted a title."
This means that a remarried widow has the same status as an actress, maid, or concubine.
Whoever marries such a woman as his wife cannot receive the royal decree.
Restricting widows from remarrying also restricted men from marrying widows.
Zhang Gongling added, "If a woman is granted a royal decree because of her husband, a woman is not allowed to remarry! If a woman is granted a royal decree because of her son, a woman is not allowed to remarry."
So, Madam, this is not what the adults in the court think, but Emperor Taizu has set so many things since the founding of the country. You say you want to overthrow them all now, is that feasible?
Isn’t this a big deal? Just one word of filial piety and you can’t argue.
Moreover, what you want to change is the thoughts and perceptions of so many people, which is almost impossible!
If you think the founding of the People's Republic of China is still far away, there is another thing that is not far away now. "Do you know "Gui Fan"?"
Lin Yutong nodded, "I know." This book was written by Lu Kun, who must have been there just a few years ago! When it comes to being an official and doing knowledge, this person is a good official. He is upright and honest, and he is an honest official during the Wanli period.
, one of the three famous sages.
As for the book "Gui Fan", there are many examples in the book, which believe that women who observe the law and sacrifice their husbands are virtuous and should be imitated by women all over the world.
The text is written in white and accompanied by illustrations. Women and children in the backyard can understand it just by looking at the illustrations. Use this to educate women.
Of course Lin Yutong knew this, but when her husband died, should he ask a woman to accompany him to death?
"Your Majesty, this book led to a 'demon book case' twenty years ago. The Emperor himself said that this was a good book. She gave it to Concubine Zheng and asked her to read it every day." Emperor Lian said.
I have already praised you so much, but now you insist that chaste women and martyrs should not be commended, but you are giving the excuse to others!
What's more, many adults who are good officials think this is right! For example, Yang Jisheng during the reign of King Sejong, who was considered a famous official! He was killed by Yan Song and left a suicide note to his wife, telling her: As a legitimate wife
If a woman has no children, she should follow her husband's death. If she has children, her children should be her first priority.
Zhang Gongling looked eager, "My dear, everything is easy to change, but knowledge is hard to change. Hai Rui Da Qingtian, whom you praised, scolded her young daughter for eating the cakes handed to her by the male servant. I once received
In the past, someone mentioned what happened before she became successful. There was a lady who was so angry because a neighbor's widow came to her house that she had remarried. Not only did she clean the house, but in the end she even sold the house.
, we cannot let the remarried widow defile the family. Madam, if you look at the list of chaste women commended in previous years, you will know that there is another woman named Huang. The reason why this woman was commended was because she wanted to stop
Her mother remarried. She was under one year old and lost her father. Her mother never remarried for her sake. She raised her up through all kinds of hardships, arranged a good marriage for her, and married her off. That year, when she was fifteen, her mother also
She was only thirty-one years old! Her mother was childless and refused to live with her nephew, so he gave her the family property as a dowry. In the end, there was only a shabby yard left, and her mother lived a life of no security and no peace of mind.
She no longer had any worries, so she just said she would get married! But she refused and threatened to die! In the end, her mother did not get married, but died on a hunger strike. She was awarded by the court because she helped her mother keep her integrity and avoid being raped.
Defile the lintel."
Therefore, if you do this, those with impure minds will oppose you, good officials will oppose you, men will oppose you, and women will oppose you.
"You think they are suffering, but they don't feel the suffering themselves, so why should you suffer?"
Lin Yutong didn't speak for a long time. She knew that what Zhang Gongling said was true and from the bottom of his heart. He said things that others didn't dare to say! But this also meant that some things had to be changed and it was time to change them! There was nothing else in her mind.
There are many, but there is just a lot of data! I used to think that there were many honest women and martyrs in the Qing Dynasty, and it seemed that there were many to be commended every year. But compared with the Ming Dynasty, was there too much liquidation?
It really doesn’t count!
Only in the Ming Dynasty, the proportion of chaste and martyr women accounted for as much as 70% of all the chaste and martyr women from the Qin and Han dynasties to the Qing Dynasty.
What does this mean? It shows that the pursuit of this by the entire society tends to be pathological!
Lin Yutong patted Zhang Gongling, "Don't be afraid! Don't be afraid yet!"
Are you not afraid? If this happens, it will really break the sky.
Lin Yutong laughed and said, "You have broken the sky. There is someone tall enough to support you. What are you afraid of?"
"Your Majesty, you are a good queen! I am afraid that something will happen to you." Zhang Gongling slowly knelt down, "I beg your Majesty to think twice before you act."
Lin Yutong helped her up, "Today I also want to say a few words to the palace order that cannot be said outside."
Yes! I listen.
Lin Yutong sat opposite her, "It is not easy to be a queen in the Ming Dynasty, but did the Ming Dynasty produce a good queen? Yes! How about Queen Ma? Putting aside those words about being virtuous and virtuous, it is not difficult to see that Queen Ma is smart and perseverant.
If you are not smart, you will not be able to become the queen supported by everyone in a situation like the founding of the country. If you are not determined, you will not be able to accompany Taizu all the way to the founding of the country in such a difficult situation."
Yes! Queen Ma is such a person.
"And Empress Xu, needless to say she is smart, but what is her character like? She is also someone who carries things on her shoulders! Speaking of which, the only regret is that life is not forever! If she could live longer, she would not
The prince of Gaoyang County rebelled many times. Emperor Renzong was the eldest son and the son who received the most instruction from Queen Xu. He was generous, benevolent and righteous, and was a wise king.
What do you want to say when I say this? What kind of influence does a sensible and determined mother have on her children? If these two queens had listened to what the scholars preached, Queen Ma would still be Queen Ma.
What does it look like? Will Queen Xu still be the Queen Xu we know?
Listen to what is right! Learn to distinguish what is wrong. You must have the most basic sense of right and wrong. Only in this way can you influence your children. Whether a widow should remarry or not should not be brought up in front of others. What we want is that regardless of whether she remarries,
Women must have this freedom whether they want to remarry or not. Even if they choose not to remarry, that is their voluntary choice. Whether they can be given a relaxed environment is a matter for the court.
If an imprisoned mother raises an imprisoned daughter, and this is passed down from generation to generation, what will the men of the Ming Dynasty look like? I also admire those women who do not remarry for the sake of their children. As women, they
Carrying up a family. Many mothers of adults in the imperial court are like this. The sons raised by mothers like this are all strong and strong.
I believe that their decision not to marry was based on rational considerations, rather than being restricted and not marrying! This cannot be equated! As a queen, is it wrong to require women to understand Dali?"
That's right! "I don't approve of the chaste martyr woman's memorial. I have my own reasons! If I dare to let it out like this, I have my own way of dealing with it! If anyone wants to ask, just ask him to ask. What are you afraid of?
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"I'm afraid you don't have the confidence!" After she finished her words, the fourth master opened the curtain from the outside and came in. When he came in, he looked at Zhang Gongling and said, "Go! I will support the queen. If the sky breaks through, I will bear it, I'm afraid of someone.
What’s more? None of their heads are as strong as the knife in your hand! With a knife in your hand, who have you ever been afraid of?!"
Lin Yutong: "..." Please stop making trouble! What are you doing, messing around!
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