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Wei Zhitong found the best psychologist for Xu Xu to provide her with counseling. When she came back from studying abroad, she would go to Sucheng once a week just to provide counseling for Xu Xu. Wei Zhitong once thought about sending her back to the capital if that didn't work, over there.

It is convenient to see a doctor, and he can go back once a week or half a month.

But as soon as she started talking about this, she gradually became very nervous. She felt that this was a prelude to separation and divorce. Then she couldn't bring it up again. She had no choice but to contact this kind of doctor and ask her to come for a consultation and see what happened.

Get it done.

Because he has to launch a new project, Wei Zhitong is really busy. Sister Zhang is taking care of Xu Xu, and experts on mental health have been invited. He thinks he can go and be busy. But as long as he gets off work, he never stays outside and goes home quickly.

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But what the experts mean is: She has not established the most basic trust in you!

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The expert said, "I can't tell now whether she just doesn't trust your structure, or whether she lacks trust in anyone. If she lacks trust in anyone, then her psychological problems will not last for a day or two."

Wei Zhitong could only call Lin Yutong again and ask if it was convenient for her to help him see an expert. He wanted to consult on something.

Lin Yutong put down Lulin's financial statements and nodded, "It's not convenient for you there, and it's even more inappropriate to go outside. Then come over and talk."

Wu Yun was very unhappy, "Is there anything I need to ask you about?"

Lin Yutong waved his hand, "Xuxu has two children, and the child cannot live without a mother! The Wei family has temporarily taken over the child, but in general, they still hope that the child will have a relatively healthy mother to take care of it..." The feeling of having a mother at home is what the child feels.

It's different. She didn't say this, it would hurt Wu Yun if she said it!

Before he said that, Wu Yun didn't think so. He just said, "The Wei family is still reasonable on this matter."

Yes! It was not for the purpose of separating mother and son. This meant that Lin Yutong did not say any words of rejection.

Her child had just learned to walk and wanted to use the living room. When guests came, she took them to the study.

Wei Zhitong was very embarrassed and asked first, "The metal worker is not here?"

"There was a malfunction during the experiment, and he took people down to the factory." As he spoke, he asked the two of them to sit down, took two more bottles of water and handed them over, and then looked at the expert, "What do you want to ask?

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The other party smiled politely and got straight to the point, "I want to know who Xu Xu trusts based on your knowledge."

Lin Yutong glanced at Wei Zhitong, who spread his hands and said, "I think she should be able to trust me, but experts say that she...isn't right for me! I don't know now whether it's because I did something bad or because she has lost the most basic ability to build relationships with others.

The ability to trust relationships.”

Lin Yutong sighed, "Then she must lack the ability to build trusting relationships with others."

The expert was stunned for a moment. To be honest, Wu Tong didn't look like a psychologically traumatized person at all. She gave Wei Zhitong this answer so firmly, which was helpful to the relationship between Xu Xu and Wei Zhitong.

If Xu Xu only distrusts Wei Zhitong, it proves that there is a big problem in the relationship between husband and wife.

If Xu Xu cannot trust anyone, such a wife will need her husband's help.

Xu Xu hurt her. In fact, she could push Xu Xu into the abyss with just one word, but she didn't.

Lin Yutong looked at Wei Zhitong, "I seek truth from facts! That's the same thing! I don't know many details clearly. You are looking for Sister Zhang, or even the nanny and driver at home before. You spend more time with these people than with me."

We spend a lot of time together. So, it is difficult for me to tell you the details. I can only infer from the major events that happened that they should not have any "mutual trust" relationship with each other. If this is the case for a long time, she

You will indeed lose the ability to trust others. Don’t care who this person is! Of course, now that you have a child, maybe the child will be an exception? It’s hard to say!”

If she can step out and raise her child well, the child can be her salvation. It is such a relationship. Other people connected to her by blood are no longer reliable. She is the only one who gave birth to her child. As long as she spends her efforts, then they

It's just reliable.

The expert looked at Lin Yutong with very gentle eyes, "I think you are the best psychologist. Love and tolerance are the best medicines for treating mental illness! I also think that after the situation is under control, she should be asked to have contact with the child.

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Wei Zhitong nodded. He didn't want to separate mother and child. It would be unfair to the child. But the premise must be that Xu Xu's situation is controllable and she will not transmit some of her negative things to the child.

Lin Yutong said, "I know that it is difficult for her to completely recover from this disease. Moreover, it is extremely easy to relapse! As you know, I have been exposed to traditional Chinese medicine and have some understanding of traditional Chinese medicine. From the perspective of Western medicine, they treat this disease

This disease is attributed to a mental illness. Traditional Chinese Medicine recognizes this conclusion, but Traditional Chinese Medicine also believes that people's emotions are closely related to the body. So, have you ever considered, on the one hand, asking experts for psychological counseling; on the other hand, please

A traditional Chinese medicine doctor can give her some treatment. From the family's point of view, we can attach great importance to her mental illness, but for the patient, can we analyze it from a physical perspective? We have to make her feel that she is physically ill! That's right.

Because postpartum hormones and other aspects cause imbalances in the internal organs, which lead to emotional changes. You can even ask some experts in traditional Chinese medicine to explain the truth to her! Psychological diseases are very difficult for people with strong self-esteem.

It is difficult for her to face this matter head-on, and she is ashamed of it. But if she is ill, just because she has given birth to a child... The physical illness causes emotional changes... Is it easier for her to accept it? It is also easier to go.

Cooperate with treatment. This is not difficult to understand, right? Patients with hyperthyroidism are more likely to be hyper, agitated, and anxious. Patients with hypothyroidism are more grumpy and seem to have a worse temper. This is very common! Ask her to guide her in this regard.

Come to think of it, it might be easier for her to face herself."

After saying that, he smiled and said, "Of course, I'm just a suggestion! It's up to you to make the decision. Anyway, it's a two-pronged approach. Otherwise, her disease will not only be painful for her, but it will be even more painful for others. And the closer they are, the more painful it will be.

The more painful it is! Director Wei, you and the two children have to deal with her all the time. So, as long as people can get better and improve, you might as well try any method."

Does this make sense? It makes sense! In fact, postpartum does require more systematic and long-term conditioning by Chinese medicine.

When Wei Zhitong went back, he discussed this matter with Xu Xu, "...No matter how good the conditions here are, it's all relative! In terms of mental illness, their small department only has two doctors, one is the director and the other is the deputy director. Think about it

, how many patients can they usually have? What bonus do they get if they don’t have patients? You are a big fish that they have caught. As long as you go to see a doctor, ten out of ten will have problems. The director of the department is the chief of the drilling team.

Exploration engineer Lao Yu is the third wife. If not for Lao Yu, which hospital would she have been admitted to? There is a twenty-year age difference between the two! The deputy director is the niece of the logistics director, and she is an undergraduate..."

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"It's not that I'm not sick. The disease is on my body, mainly caused by postpartum... I invited traditional Chinese medicine experts, and they will come to my home for consultation. You can listen to what they say. Anyway, in terms of Western medicine, the experts I invited are still concerned about your situation.

optimistic."

He nodded slowly, "I also think he can get out of it! Lin Yutong must have suffered severe mental trauma, but look, isn't he better? You can't tell at all, right?"

Yes! That’s because the emotions affect the body, and then the physical discomfort is fed back to the emotions. Let’s try using traditional Chinese medicine. Western medicine should be used as well. Psychologist... Just treat it as making a friend. Anyway, in Sucheng

, there is really no one you can talk to. It is good to have such a friend to spend time with, chat, eat and drink, and pass the time. When you take care of your body and recover,

Is it okay for us to take the baby back and take care of it? There is a confinement nanny over there. If you add her contact information, she can watch the baby at any time. There is surveillance over there. You can check it anytime you want. Is that okay?

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Arrangements were made, and the Chinese medicine doctor was also examined. Sister Zhang gave her Chinese medicine at home every day. Is it effective? It definitely is! The insomnia caused by depression has obviously improved. The sound of snoring while sleeping was loud, Wei Zhitong

Said Sister Zhang, "Don't tell her, she started snoring."

Snoring will lead to poor sleep quality, but this is better than insomnia and being unable to sleep.

As long as you can rest and relax your body and mind, it will definitely help your condition.

Slowly she couldn't lift her spirits and felt that she was not interested in anything. She was very sad! Sister Zhang said, "Have you ever seen a patient who was so alive and kicking? Isn't it just the word "nurturing" to "recuperate"? Look at the ancient empress, the empress.

, people don’t always rest and recuperate when they are recuperating. Even reading a book feels like a waste of energy! Doesn’t Chinese medicine also say that “spirit” is very important, but it needs to be maintained over a long period of time. Western medicine often talks about mental illness and mental illness.

, Nonsense! That means physical wear and tear and loss of divine energy!"

"If I knew that giving birth to a child would be so damaging, I would rather go abroad..."

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Sister Zhang has quit. I can’t say this anymore. Let’s just keep it like this. Xu Xu sometimes doesn’t mean what she says! Normally, you can tell her that this matter is not going to work. Don’t correct her now, just leave it like this.

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It had only been two days since we agreed, but the next day it seemed like it had happened again, and everyone felt very depressed. Sister Zhang said, "You have to cheer up, if there is any eventuality... you said you were lying on the account

What to do with that money? Don’t think about anything else. Think about yourself. Without a mother, the child will be pitiful!"

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But this disease is really annoying, so I don’t ask her to look after the child, because I’m afraid she won’t be able to bear it. But when I ask her to look after the child, she becomes anxious. When she saw the child crying on the surveillance camera, she walked around the house anxiously, her tears uncontrollable.

Falling, my whole body was trembling.

This matter was already very anxious, but now there is news about the Olympic Games everywhere. This has nothing to do with Wu Tong, but Wu Tong's sparring partners all came back with track and field championships. The boxers coached by Wu Tong won the

Two championship medals. When interviewing them, it is inevitable to mention Wu Tong.

Wei Zhitong shook his head, "It's not involved! Don't say that I don't have such a big contribution, I shouldn't be there in the first place. Even if I am qualified, what will happen if it is a few years later? I am working on melons and plums, aren't I afraid of criticism? It's okay, I will do it.

Tell her, it has nothing to do with her."

That's all! The key is that when she thinks of something, she has to call Wei Zhitong. For example, the nature of Wei Zhitong's current job means that he is absolutely not allowed to answer the phone during a meeting. For many high-level meetings, mobile phones are not allowed before entering the conference room.

Bring it in. Then you said, in this case, no one answers the phone, isn't this normal? No matter how much attention is paid to safety production in the oil field, there are actually many accidents every year. If an accident occurs, from top to bottom

Everyone has to be busy. This is especially true if there is a major accident. When going to the oil field, it is normal for the signal to be lost and the contact to be lost.

Xu Xu looked at him while crying, and then smiled, "Then ask Sister Zhang to stay at home and take care of your life."

As he spoke, he looked into the Populus euphratica forest, "Come and look at these trees. Do you know how old they are? They were planted here by the original entrepreneurs for decades. Look at the traces on them... Look at them.

Is it difficult to live with these things?" Then he pointed to the soles of his feet, "It's not until June. The local mushrooms that Sister Zhang likes to buy are what you like to eat. Do you know where they come from? They are drilled from the sand.

from……"

Sister Zhang felt that if she hadn't looked at Xu Xu pitifully, she would have really wanted to resign! With her own abilities, she could find a job that cost hundreds of thousands a year. Rich families are also very picky when it comes to finding nannies! She is like this

There is no shortage of employers! Really! It’s so painful! Even with a relationship like my own, living with such a patient is so painful. Tell me how tired Director Wei is, I’m afraid he will collapse from the torture.

The car drove out of the city, and Xu Xu didn't ask where he was going! Lin Yutong stopped at a poplar forest and looked at Xu Xu, "What do you want to say to me?" "I'm sorry... I also want to say thank you." Lin Yutong looked at her.
To be continued...