Worldly vanity (78) two in one (Worldly vanity (78) Wei Zhitong is...)
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Wei Zhitong found the best psychologist for Xu Xu to provide her with counseling. When she came back from studying abroad, she would go to Sucheng once a week just to provide counseling for Xu Xu. Wei Zhitong once thought about sending her back to the capital if that didn't work, over there.
It is convenient to see a doctor, and he can go back once a week or half a month.
But as soon as she started talking about this, she gradually became very nervous. She felt that this was a prelude to separation and divorce. Then she couldn't bring it up again. She had no choice but to contact this kind of doctor and ask her to come for a consultation and see what happened.
Get it done.
Because he has to launch a new project, Wei Zhitong is really busy. Sister Zhang is taking care of Xu Xu, and experts on mental health have been invited. He thinks he can go and be busy. But as long as he gets off work, he never stays outside and goes home quickly.
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But what the experts mean is: She has not established the most basic trust in you!
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The expert said, "I can't tell now whether she just doesn't trust your structure, or whether she lacks trust in anyone. If she lacks trust in anyone, then her psychological problems will not last for a day or two."
Wei Zhitong could only call Lin Yutong again and ask if it was convenient for her to help him see an expert. He wanted to consult on something.
Lin Yutong put down Lulin's financial statements and nodded, "It's not convenient for you there, and it's even more inappropriate to go outside. Then come over and talk."
Wu Yun was very unhappy, "Is there anything I need to ask you about?"
Lin Yutong waved his hand, "Xuxu has two children, and the child cannot live without a mother! The Wei family has temporarily taken over the child, but in general, they still hope that the child will have a relatively healthy mother to take care of it..." The feeling of having a mother at home is what the child feels.
It's different. She didn't say this, it would hurt Wu Yun if she said it!
Before he said that, Wu Yun didn't think so. He just said, "The Wei family is still reasonable on this matter."
Yes! It was not for the purpose of separating mother and son. This meant that Lin Yutong did not say any words of rejection.
Her child had just learned to walk and wanted to use the living room. When guests came, she took them to the study.
Wei Zhitong was very embarrassed and asked first, "The metal worker is not here?"
"There was a malfunction during the experiment, and he took people down to the factory." As he spoke, he asked the two of them to sit down, took two more bottles of water and handed them over, and then looked at the expert, "What do you want to ask?
?”
The other party smiled politely and got straight to the point, "I want to know who Xu Xu trusts based on your knowledge."
Lin Yutong glanced at Wei Zhitong, who spread his hands and said, "I think she should be able to trust me, but experts say that she...isn't right for me! I don't know now whether it's because I did something bad or because she has lost the most basic ability to build relationships with others.
The ability to trust relationships.”
Lin Yutong sighed, "Then she must lack the ability to build trusting relationships with others."
The expert was stunned for a moment. To be honest, Wu Tong didn't look like a psychologically traumatized person at all. She gave Wei Zhitong this answer so firmly, which was helpful to the relationship between Xu Xu and Wei Zhitong.
If Xu Xu only distrusts Wei Zhitong, it proves that there is a big problem in the relationship between husband and wife.
If Xu Xu cannot trust anyone, such a wife will need her husband's help.
Xu Xu hurt her. In fact, she could push Xu Xu into the abyss with just one word, but she didn't.
Lin Yutong looked at Wei Zhitong, "I seek truth from facts! That's the same thing! I don't know many details clearly. You are looking for Sister Zhang, or even the nanny and driver at home before. You spend more time with these people than with me."
We spend a lot of time together. So, it is difficult for me to tell you the details. I can only infer from the major events that happened that they should not have any "mutual trust" relationship with each other. If this is the case for a long time, she
You will indeed lose the ability to trust others. Don’t care who this person is! Of course, now that you have a child, maybe the child will be an exception? It’s hard to say!”
If she can step out and raise her child well, the child can be her salvation. It is such a relationship. Other people connected to her by blood are no longer reliable. She is the only one who gave birth to her child. As long as she spends her efforts, then they
It's just reliable.
The expert looked at Lin Yutong with very gentle eyes, "I think you are the best psychologist. Love and tolerance are the best medicines for treating mental illness! I also think that after the situation is under control, she should be asked to have contact with the child.
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Wei Zhitong nodded. He didn't want to separate mother and child. It would be unfair to the child. But the premise must be that Xu Xu's situation is controllable and she will not transmit some of her negative things to the child.
Lin Yutong said, "I know that it is difficult for her to completely recover from this disease. Moreover, it is extremely easy to relapse! As you know, I have been exposed to traditional Chinese medicine and have some understanding of traditional Chinese medicine. From the perspective of Western medicine, they treat this disease
This disease is attributed to a mental illness. Traditional Chinese Medicine recognizes this conclusion, but Traditional Chinese Medicine also believes that people's emotions are closely related to the body. So, have you ever considered, on the one hand, asking experts for psychological counseling; on the other hand, please
A traditional Chinese medicine doctor can give her some treatment. From the family's point of view, we can attach great importance to her mental illness, but for the patient, can we analyze it from a physical perspective? We have to make her feel that she is physically ill! That's right.
Because postpartum hormones and other aspects cause imbalances in the internal organs, which lead to emotional changes. You can even ask some experts in traditional Chinese medicine to explain the truth to her! Psychological diseases are very difficult for people with strong self-esteem.
It is difficult for her to face this matter head-on, and she is ashamed of it. But if she is ill, just because she has given birth to a child... The physical illness causes emotional changes... Is it easier for her to accept it? It is also easier to go.
Cooperate with treatment. This is not difficult to understand, right? Patients with hyperthyroidism are more likely to be hyper, agitated, and anxious. Patients with hypothyroidism are more grumpy and seem to have a worse temper. This is very common! Ask her to guide her in this regard.
Come to think of it, it might be easier for her to face herself."
After saying that, he smiled and said, "Of course, I'm just a suggestion! It's up to you to make the decision. Anyway, it's a two-pronged approach. Otherwise, her disease will not only be painful for her, but it will be even more painful for others. And the closer they are, the more painful it will be.
The more painful it is! Director Wei, you and the two children have to deal with her all the time. So, as long as people can get better and improve, you might as well try any method."
Does this make sense? It makes sense! In fact, postpartum does require more systematic and long-term conditioning by Chinese medicine.
When Wei Zhitong went back, he discussed this matter with Xu Xu, "...No matter how good the conditions here are, it's all relative! In terms of mental illness, their small department only has two doctors, one is the director and the other is the deputy director. Think about it
, how many patients can they usually have? What bonus do they get if they don’t have patients? You are a big fish that they have caught. As long as you go to see a doctor, ten out of ten will have problems. The director of the department is the chief of the drilling team.
Exploration engineer Lao Yu is the third wife. If not for Lao Yu, which hospital would she have been admitted to? There is a twenty-year age difference between the two! The deputy director is the niece of the logistics director, and she is an undergraduate..."
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"It's not that I'm not sick. The disease is on my body, mainly caused by postpartum... I invited traditional Chinese medicine experts, and they will come to my home for consultation. You can listen to what they say. Anyway, in terms of Western medicine, the experts I invited are still concerned about your situation.
optimistic."
He nodded slowly, "I also think he can get out of it! Lin Yutong must have suffered severe mental trauma, but look, isn't he better? You can't tell at all, right?"
Yes! That’s because the emotions affect the body, and then the physical discomfort is fed back to the emotions. Let’s try using traditional Chinese medicine. Western medicine should be used as well. Psychologist... Just treat it as making a friend. Anyway, in Sucheng
, there is really no one you can talk to. It is good to have such a friend to spend time with, chat, eat and drink, and pass the time. When you take care of your body and recover,
Is it okay for us to take the baby back and take care of it? There is a confinement nanny over there. If you add her contact information, she can watch the baby at any time. There is surveillance over there. You can check it anytime you want. Is that okay?
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Arrangements were made, and the Chinese medicine doctor was also examined. Sister Zhang gave her Chinese medicine at home every day. Is it effective? It definitely is! The insomnia caused by depression has obviously improved. The sound of snoring while sleeping was loud, Wei Zhitong
Said Sister Zhang, "Don't tell her, she started snoring."
Snoring will lead to poor sleep quality, but this is better than insomnia and being unable to sleep.
As long as you can rest and relax your body and mind, it will definitely help your condition.
Slowly she couldn't lift her spirits and felt that she was not interested in anything. She was very sad! Sister Zhang said, "Have you ever seen a patient who was so alive and kicking? Isn't it just the word "nurturing" to "recuperate"? Look at the ancient empress, the empress.
, people don’t always rest and recuperate when they are recuperating. Even reading a book feels like a waste of energy! Doesn’t Chinese medicine also say that “spirit” is very important, but it needs to be maintained over a long period of time. Western medicine often talks about mental illness and mental illness.
, Nonsense! That means physical wear and tear and loss of divine energy!"
"If I knew that giving birth to a child would be so damaging, I would rather go abroad..."
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Sister Zhang has quit. I can’t say this anymore. Let’s just keep it like this. Xu Xu sometimes doesn’t mean what she says! Normally, you can tell her that this matter is not going to work. Don’t correct her now, just leave it like this.
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It had only been two days since we agreed, but the next day it seemed like it had happened again, and everyone felt very depressed. Sister Zhang said, "You have to cheer up, if there is any eventuality... you said you were lying on the account
What to do with that money? Don’t think about anything else. Think about yourself. Without a mother, the child will be pitiful!"
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But this disease is really annoying, so I don’t ask her to look after the child, because I’m afraid she won’t be able to bear it. But when I ask her to look after the child, she becomes anxious. When she saw the child crying on the surveillance camera, she walked around the house anxiously, her tears uncontrollable.
Falling, my whole body was trembling.
This matter was already very anxious, but now there is news about the Olympic Games everywhere. This has nothing to do with Wu Tong, but Wu Tong's sparring partners all came back with track and field championships. The boxers coached by Wu Tong won the
Two championship medals. When interviewing them, it is inevitable to mention Wu Tong.
Wei Zhitong shook his head, "It's not involved! Don't say that I don't have such a big contribution, I shouldn't be there in the first place. Even if I am qualified, what will happen if it is a few years later? I am working on melons and plums, aren't I afraid of criticism? It's okay, I will do it.
Tell her, it has nothing to do with her."
That's all! The key is that when she thinks of something, she has to call Wei Zhitong. For example, the nature of Wei Zhitong's current job means that he is absolutely not allowed to answer the phone during a meeting. For many high-level meetings, mobile phones are not allowed before entering the conference room.
Bring it in. Then you said, in this case, no one answers the phone, isn't this normal? No matter how much attention is paid to safety production in the oil field, there are actually many accidents every year. If an accident occurs, from top to bottom
Everyone has to be busy. This is especially true if there is a major accident. When going to the oil field, it is normal for the signal to be lost and the contact to be lost.
Xu Xu looked at him while crying, and then smiled, "Then ask Sister Zhang to stay at home and take care of your life."
As he spoke, he looked into the Populus euphratica forest, "Come and look at these trees. Do you know how old they are? They were planted here by the original entrepreneurs for decades. Look at the traces on them... Look at them.
Is it difficult to live with these things?" Then he pointed to the soles of his feet, "It's not until June. The local mushrooms that Sister Zhang likes to buy are what you like to eat. Do you know where they come from? They are drilled from the sand.
from……"
Sister Zhang felt that if she hadn't looked at Xu Xu pitifully, she would have really wanted to resign! With her own abilities, she could find a job that cost hundreds of thousands a year. Rich families are also very picky when it comes to finding nannies! She is like this
There is no shortage of employers! Really! It’s so painful! Even with a relationship like my own, living with such a patient is so painful. Tell me how tired Director Wei is, I’m afraid he will collapse from the torture.
The car drove out of the city, and Xu Xu didn't ask where he was going! Lin Yutong stopped at a poplar forest and looked at Xu Xu, "What do you want to say to me?" "I'm sorry... I also want to say thank you." Lin Yutong looked at her.
She said, "I really feel sorry. Do you really think you should thank me?"
Of course! You are the biological mother of your child, and you always have this right.
The nanny came out of the toilet and shook the water on her hands. She must have washed her hands! But she couldn't do it. She was about to call, "Why don't you disinfect...why don't you disinfect...can't you be more careful with the child?"
Sister Zhang boldly approached Wei Zhitong and asked, "Director Wei, have you ever thought about changing your job? Not only are there oil fields in Sucheng, but there are also offshore oil fields along the coast? I think it won't be troublesome for you to move! Maybe stay away.
Here, maybe going to some coastal cities with better climates will help Xu Xu’s condition?”
Sister Zhang has always been very protective of Xu Xu and tried to keep her emotionally stable. But at the end of the year, banners were hung everywhere in the community to congratulate Fourth Master and Lin Yutong on being selected as outstanding youths.
"Well! If you can't get through, it means I'm in a meeting and it's not convenient to answer. As long as you answer, I will definitely answer. Don't worry if you can't get through, I'm here."
"I...I miss you and want to call you."
And this journey has really lasted three years...
Lin Yutong said nothing else and drove out of the city. In the car, he said to Wu Yun, "I'll be back in about an hour or two."
She slowly got into the car and sat in the passenger seat. Lin Yutong helped her fasten her seat belt. She did not hide or shrink. Lin Yutong glanced at her unexpectedly and whispered slowly: "I know you didn't mean to do any harm.
I!"
Um!
OK! Ask Sister Zhang to stay at home.
She didn't get out of the car, she just rolled down the window and looked at Xu Xu, "Looking for me?"
But this was torture for Xu Xu! Even if Wei Zhitong revealed his whereabouts, she could not completely let go.
The children of the family living across the street brought their classmates to play. Several children were chattering loudly, saying that Wu Tong was in the community and how powerful he was.
The wind blew, and the tumbleweeds rolled in circles, sliding past the two people's footsteps. Lin Yutong stopped and pointed at the grass, "You have lived in Sucheng for several years. How many times have you been to this Gobi desert?"
.You have seen tumbleweeds, but do you know what tumbleweeds look like all year round? This kind of grass is like what you see when it is dry, blown by the wind, like a homeless man.
It's floating. But no matter how dry it is, it won't die. As long as the environment is suitable, it will take root and sprout, and it can bloom rose red or lavender flowers, which are very beautiful!"
Lin Yutong got out of the car, pulled Xu Xu out of the car, and headed towards the desert on the side.
But the nanny was not in the room where the child was staying. She just washed her hands and came out, then mopped the floor, and then took a basin to hand-wash the child's clothes.
Sister Zhang felt that Xu Xu might not be in a good mood after hearing these words. So, she did not dare to let Xu Xu know. The TV was not allowed to be watched, and the Internet was temporarily disconnected. But you have to give her a mobile phone to use! Fortunately, she
She never posts that kind of news. She has withdrawn from all her groups. If she doesn’t take the initiative to contact anyone, the gossip outside and the news about Wu Tong will not reach her ears.
Wu Yun would watch from the balcony every day when Tongtong got off work. He watched her car come back, watched her get out of the car, watched her enter the unit door, and then hurried to open the door. It was the same today.
Watching Xu Xu downstairs, watching Tongtong take Xu Xu away.
But before leaving, she still endured the discomfort and walked out of the door. Then she kept lingering at the door of Tongtong's unit. When Tongtong came back from get off work, she met Xu Xu.
"Get in the car." After Lin Yutong said that, he rolled up the window. It was so cold in the winter.
Wei Zhitong asked Sister Zhang, "I can take her far, but can you prevent others from making greater achievements? Once you have made achievements, don't you allow others to become famous? Once you become famous, how can you not ensure that their names are not included in her list?"
What about your ears? This is a matter of mentality! Nowadays, information is so developed and the world is a village, where can you go?"
Xu was sitting on the balcony basking in the sun. The banner was hanging on the tree outside. It was very eye-catching. She felt very panicked at the time, "Why was the comrade not chosen! Who in the Wei family...isn't in charge of this aspect?"
What's wrong? Why don't I have any like-minded people? Is it because I delayed him? Will he be angry? Will he divorce me? Then what do you think I'm going to do with my life? Sister Zhang, what do you think I'm going to do with my life?"
, and quickly closed the curtains, "They are more famous, right? A lot of people are scolding me again! I know it's wrong! I know it's wrong! Stop scolding me! Stop scolding me!"
"I have a manor abroad, and someone is always taking care of it. I want to live in the manor. I want a free environment... to adjust myself! I just want to know, if I leave, will you find someone else?
?" If we are not divorced, who should I look for? Who do you think I can look for for my job?
But you don’t know anyone abroad, okay?
Yes! Tears slowly came down, "Sometimes I really feel... I shouldn't be alive! Maybe if I die, it will be better."
What?
When he told Xu Xu, Xu Xu lowered his head and kept rubbing his knees with his hands, "Well...if I want to stay abroad for a few years, will you find someone else?"
Slowly she cried out, "Wow", "I want to hear you say that you can't do anything but me. You love me and only me, so you can't live without me, so you won't find anyone else..."
"I want to go abroad for treatment...I want to change my environment...I will come back in one year...two years...three years at most! If I can be cured and I think I can do it, I will come back! I still want to be with you
Live life...I want to be with you...If I feel that I am not cured, or my mind has changed, and I don't want to live with you...then we have been separated for three years. It would be easy to file for divorce.
Judgment. I feel like I’m in too much pain here!”
Lin Yutong pointed at the Gobi desert and said, "Look more and your mind will open up! It's so difficult to live with so many lives, what qualifications do you have to say death so easily? If you die, can you let go of your money?"
If you are really gone, the old lady will take back half of your money. The rest must be taken care of by your husband, and will belong to your children in the future! At Wei Zhitong's age and his character, do you think he should find it?
Less than one is better? Do you think people can’t have children? So, why die? If you really feel that you are guilty, then go and atone for your sins! Charity cannot be a show, you must know that you will not be rewarded for doing good even if you do good. You
You have to really think about atonement! How to atone for your sins? Is there a day in this world where there are no people who have been exposed on the Internet? Not everyone who has been exposed on the Internet has the ability to deal with it. Although you don’t have the ability to deal with it now, you
You should let yourself have it! If you have money, you can organize a powerful team of lawyers and psychological intervention teams! You have to adjust yourself first, and then sincerely help these people who are calling the sky and the earth.
! You can even raise a public relations team to speak out for these people who have no voice... You become a philanthropist and someone who can help more people. You are atonement, you are saving yourself, and you are helping.
Your husband, your husband's family, and your children... will gain a respected mother. As long as you really do it, God will give you justice! When you can speak on behalf of many people, then go and unite the society.
Isn't the meaning of force promoting the improvement of the law more real than false praise and praise? Money, lying on the account, actually has no meaning at all! Only when it moves, you can really grasp the wealth."
Wei Zhitong patted her, "What you want to hear may be coaxing sweet words. But what I tell you is the truth! If you think about it carefully, will you really feel at ease if I tell you what you want to hear?"
?I said what you don’t want to hear, don’t you feel at ease?”
This kid looks tough, but actually he has the softest heart.
He nodded slowly and said no more.
"I still want to take care of the children..."
But isn’t it normal for children to cry? Whose child doesn’t cry?
Sister Zhang said hurriedly, "Don't misunderstand Xu Xu, she is not jealous because Wu Tong is famous, she is afraid that she will influence you."
Is it useful to say this? I don’t know yet, but Xu Xu was calm when boarding the plane abroad. The plane took off, passed through the clouds, and just left like that!
Xu Xu sat down on the ground and cried loudly. There was everything in her cry. Lin Yutong didn't try to persuade her. It wasn't until she finished crying and was tired that the two of them returned to the car and took her home.
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