The girl we are talking about is called Qin Yindi. She has six girls in her family before she has one boy.
She is the second eldest child in the family, and her marriage was postponed until the 24th or 24th, not because she is really picky, but because her parents do not agree. Because the youngest child in the family is only ten years old, all the work depends on these girls.
The eldest daughter was twenty-six when she got married, and she got married just last year.
Since the second daughter was seventeen or eighteen, there have been matchmakers. If one of them doesn't work out, then the next one won't work. When things get tough and they can't wait any longer, they'll make a condition and ask for a gift of one hundred yuan. Generally speaking, it costs forty or fifty yuan to marry a daughter-in-law.
Open your mouth and ask for a hundred. This is either to introduce an older bachelor, or to find a young man with good conditions, but with a weaker body or temperament.
That's what I did when I married the eldest daughter of the family. I married an old bachelor who was almost forty.
When it comes to the second child, the second child is a girl with a strong temper. If she wants to marry her like that, that won't work! The girl directly went to the women's director of the village and asked if this was persecuting women.
Of course Murakami has to take care of it! The women's director thought that the second daughter had a good temper, so she took the initiative to arrange the marriage. It just so happened that the women's director was married to a girl from this village, and she was in her parents' village.
I was looking for him, so I chose Damin. The conditions of the Jin family are good, and the two members of the Jin family are smart and kind. This kind of girl who is willing to endure hardships will not suffer a loss when she becomes a daughter-in-law in someone else's family. Moreover, Damin is better than Sanling.
Yes, he can be weaker in terms of physical strength. Sanling works like an ox, he has energy and skills, and seems to have skill in everything he does. But Damin is not that agile, but he has a really good temper and is not in a hurry.
Not dry.
I told Yang Shuhui years ago, "...it takes a stupid person and a clever person, a crying person and a laughing person. Such a couple will never make any big mistakes in their lives."
Yang Shuhui thought it was good, but secretly, she also felt that having a delicate daughter-in-law at home was enough. If she had another cute and charming daughter-in-law, her life as a mother-in-law would be unbearable.
On the first day of the Lunar New Year, we arranged a blind date. It was just a matter of seeing the person's appearance and listening to their conversation. It was enough to see if there were any obvious flaws. Personality, family, etc., these were all mentioned by a matchmaker who knew everything about them.
It was arranged only after everyone found it acceptable.
The girl looked a little dark, so the matchmaker said, "I am not idle in the winter. I am pulling firewood and removing manure, so I am a strong laborer. With the wind blowing like that, no one can be white."
This is also true.
Lin Yutong said, "He is tall, has good facial features, thick eyebrows and big eyes."
The matchmaker immediately said, "The girls in this family are actually good-looking. If they are raised well, they will look like flowers! The baby is really a good baby, but the parents are a little confused. They only want to have a son, and their thoughts are a little selfish, so they give up the baby."
It’s been delayed.”
The family is not ugly and has a good figure. After the two talked, Damin said it was okay, and Qin Yindi whispered to the matchmaker that it was okay.
The marriage was settled quickly. After the second day of the second lunar month, Yang Shuqin and Jin Yin took Damin there on the third day of the lunar month, and the marriage was settled. A hundred yuan was given as a bride price.
But when Qin Yindi took the one hundred yuan in her hand, she asked her parents, "Just like other families, you can just take thirty. I will take the remaining seventy, and don't need the man to pay for things like fabrics and cotton."
I'll take it with you as a dowry... If you do this, I will still care about you in the future. If you take this hundred now and ask the man to give you other things and not give you a dowry, that's fine! I'm not afraid of embarrassment.
Just marry me with nothing! But even if I leave this door, I will not come back! In the future, even if you are old and unable to move, I will not take care of you. The affairs of this family have nothing to do with
I don't have a penny to do with it. I've done all the suffering that I should have done to this family, and I've done everything I can, no matter how much more it is, I won't do it."
But Qin’s father thinks that one girl costs one hundred, and six girls is six hundred! In addition, he saves all the materials and other things given by the man. With this money, he can build a house and give his son money and things to marry him.
That's enough. So he said, "The water thrown away by the married daughter is not the same as the daughter who relies on her when she is old. What's the use of what you said? Can I rely on you? I will give birth to you and support you."
Shouldn't you give me this little money for a game? One condition per family, right? That's the condition for our family. When you go out, just live your life. You don't need to take care of the family."
I asked for four quilts, twenty kilograms of stretch cotton, four clothes, and many other odds and ends. Then I said very neatly that the wedding would be on the twelfth day of the first lunar month.
It is true that the New Year is a good time, but this is too hasty.
The female director came over again and said, "Let's just make the reservation! I'm afraid you'll regret it. If you think about it for a long time, what if you think the price is too high and you want the money back? Just hurry up."
Yang Shuhui thought, what's this? If he didn't really like this girl, who would be willing to marry such a family?
Because of this incident, Lin Yutong was unable to go to Sanyun County. Only the Fourth Master called Lin Shuangchao at the police station and told him the situation.
There is a happy event here, and the Lin family has to come back. After that, we can even go to the county town there to celebrate the fifteenth day of the first lunar month. Lin Shuangchao said, "That day was a meeting that had been scheduled long ago. I am in the provincial capital and I will definitely not be able to go back. With you
My parents are sorry!"
This is all understandable, and it doesn’t matter.
So the family was busy preparing for the wedding.
The bedding is ready-made, four beds, it has been ready for several years, and it has been kept in the urn. Yes! In the urn, because I was afraid of being bitten by mice! Now take it out to dry, and the new house is ready.
Even if I wanted to clean up other things, I couldn't. Firstly, I was short of time, and secondly, it was still very cold in the first month of the year, and the ground was frozen hard, so I couldn't clean up the new house anymore.
Paste the couplets and the bright red word "happy" on it, and it means you are getting married.
As soon as Lin Yutong heard what the matchmaker said, he took the time to make two clothes that could be worn in this season, and bought Damin a pair of leather shoes as a wedding gift.
Sure enough, on the wedding day, the girl's clothes were very ill-fitting. She borrowed the clothes. Her family didn't give her any dowry at all, she just came with her, and then her relatives came to have a banquet, and that was it. To be honest, it was really...
I have never seen someone marry a daughter like this, without even bringing a pair of dishes and chopsticks.
Shuangquan felt incredible, "It's really called like this."
Lin Yutong asked her in a low voice, "Do you still have any of your old cotton shoes? My feet are small, so I guess she can't wear them, but yours should be about the same." Cloth shoes can usually be worn with a slight difference in size.
Shuangquan saw that a pair of old cotton shoes on his new daughter-in-law's feet were a little wet. They got the water on them for some reason and they haven't replaced them yet. What was she busy with? "Mom made a lot for me, and they are all new. I
Get it for her."
"Her feet should be bigger than yours. You can take the old ones. The old ones are loose!"
Shuangquan said, "Mom's feet are fatter, I think she can wear them. I'll go find mom's new shoes."
Then he rummaged through the boxes and found a bag of new shoes, both cotton and single. He carried them all over and put them in the new house over there, "Sister-in-law, your shoes are wet, please change them to a new pair."
Qin Yindi blushed, took off her shoes and replaced them with new ones.
Shuangquan saw various patches on the other's socks, so he could only pretend not to see them for a moment, and went out to whisper to Yang Shuhui.
But I can’t mention this matter anymore today. Especially in front of so many people, just pretend not to know.
After all the guests were sent away, Yang Shuhui wrapped up the bra, underwear, socks, autumn clothes and autumn pants that Xiaotong bought for herself, and secretly sent them to her eldest daughter-in-law's room, "
These personal gifts are usually given by sisters in the family when you get married. Xiaotong said that they are very different from the customs. I am afraid that you are not so particular about it, so I prepared them for you. They are available from the inside to the outside, from head to toe.
So I won’t prepare any other gifts for you. She’s afraid that you’ll be too embarrassed to give them to her, so I’ll give them to you. We’re very particular about this here, so why don’t you put them on for good luck?
"Don't worry, you can change. I'll guard you at the door. The man is having a drunken moment and won't be able to leave for more than two hours."
Qin Yindi had just changed it. She had never worn anything new since she was a child. Even the ones she wore on her wedding day were all old ones. She was not aggrieved at first, but once she put on these new clothes, she didn't know how to deal with them.
, I feel so aggrieved.
In addition to the close-fitting ones, there were two red cotton jackets and two pairs of black cotton trousers in the cabinet. She put them on over her autumn clothes and autumn trousers, which felt festive and warm. She turned to look in the mirror, and found the cabinet under the mirror.
On it, there is a handful of red-headed flowers and hairpins.
She combed her hair again and checked that everything was fine, then opened the door.
Yang Shuhui looked at it and said, "It looks good! It fits." Then she pulled Qin Yindi out to recognize him.
While helping wash the dishes, Bai Cai'er whispered to Sister-in-law Tao, "Look at Aunt Shuhui, she is so willing to spend any money on her daughter-in-law. Look at my mother-in-law, it seems she married into her family.
I seem to have taken a huge advantage. You don’t know how thoughtful my mother-in-law is! When we were talking about getting married, do you know how people looked at each other? "How did they look at each other?"
Bai Cai'er didn't have to work, so she learned from the wives who helped in the kitchen. "She led the matchmaker and me to look at her son across the street. The woman stood on this side of the street, and the man stood on that side of the street, looking at each other eight feet away.
!I was brought along by the matchmaker, and I knew it was me who was looking at her at first glance! As a result, she sent Wang Shusheng to accompany her son Zhao Dayong to look at each other. I asked which one was her son. She said, it was the one,
That! Look, the good-looking one is my son!"
Lin Yutong was stuffing firewood in front of the stove and couldn't help laughing.
Zhao Dayong has nothing to do with his good looks, but Wang Shusheng is not a good guy, but he has a handsome appearance and a talented person.
Sister-in-law Tao couldn't stop laughing, "We haven't seen you since?"
"No! The wedding is just like this. I was booked in a hurry, saying it was for my father-in-law!" Bai Caier said, "When I get married, I will see that the person is not right! It will make me mad, and my father-in-law is not here either.
Sigh, the groom is not the right person! She was a new daughter-in-law at the time and she didn’t dare to shout. She asked my mother-in-law, “Didn’t you say that the good-looking one is your son? What you are doing is not cheating on the marriage! You know what my mother-in-law said”
My mother-in-law said, I didn’t lie to you! I just felt that there is no one better than my son in the world, so how could this be a lie?”
Lin Yutong was puzzled, "You just obeyed?"
"No!" Bai Cai'er said, "Zhao Dayong is a coward without courage. I couldn't touch him unless I told him to. For half a year, I ignored him and didn't allow him to go back to his room to sleep! Later, it took a long time.
, knowing that Wang Shusheng is not a good person, and that Zhao Dayong has no ability, but he is not a bad person! Forget it, I’m already married, what else can I do? It’s just a feud with my mother-in-law."
Lin Yutong felt that when writing more, we should put more effort into the perspective of women's marriage. I am afraid that only women can understand the suffering of women in this matter of marriage!
