This incident was a big blow to Lin Shuangchao! How does it feel when someone leaves just as soon as he wants? Wu Xiuzhen said, "Go to bed an hour earlier at night and don't stay up late again."
But things are there for you, and you have a thousand pounds on your shoulders, so how can you cherish yourself? There are too many things you want to do, and the time you are given is limited.
Does this matter have an impact on Fourth Master? It also has some impact on work. After all, many tasks need to be presided over by Ma Juntian, and he is a full participant. But now, Ma Juntian has family matters to deal with. First, he has to ask him to rest and take it easy.
Whenever something happened, he would call him. He would run away and not sleep much for a few days. Then... what to do with the ex-mother-in-law and ex-wife.
Ma Juntian invited Xie Rong outside and asked Xie Rong about his plans, "What do you think of photography? It's okay to treat it as a hobby. Cultural institutions...many will be launched into the market. Don't say it's a magazine, it's a publishing house
, even for newspapers...it also depends on whether each employee can complete the task every year and how much they sell. I don’t think you can do such a thing with your personality. In the past, you spent three days fishing and two days at work.
Tiansha.com, people also see you as being able to find ways to get in and out of many difficult situations, so they indulge you like this. But you have to know in your heart that favors are worth every penny, right? You can no longer do whatever you want.
.So, your value in the company is gradually decreasing. Then it is better to change your job. The organization will consider this. You see, you can either go to work as a senior cadre, and if you can't do it, you can live in
For the sake of Uncle Xie, the old man inside won't make things difficult for you. Your job is easy to do. Otherwise, you can go to... my wife and do some work within your ability. Which of these two directions do you consider?
"
Xie Rong looked up at Ma Juntian and twirled the tea cup, "Which one do you think is suitable?"
"Lao Ganju's job." Ma Juntian said, "Later, you and your aunt will move here first."
Xie Rong was stunned: "You mean moving?"
Ma Juntian sighed, "I just told you, you can't squander this favor. If your aunt is here for a day and you stay for a day, of course no one will kick you out. But why bother others? There is no time here.
If you get the position, someone will take over soon. Do you think it is difficult to do this logistics support work? If you don’t dare to come and mention it, then they will have to find a way to make arrangements. Why bother? In such a big house, only you can
It’s empty, there’s no warmth at all, what are you doing living there?”
He explained the matter patiently, "After retirement, many people live in dry rest homes with the best facilities and conditions. Auntie was not lonely when she lived there, and the environment is not worse than here! If you take the initiative to retire,
They arrange a house for the aunt, and it will not be less than 100 square meters. You live with her, and then you go back to work. There are units building their own houses there, and the provincial logistics department will communicate with the relevant leaders. Regarding housing, they will also
I will give you some care individually. If you have a house of 120 square meters, even if you don’t have an aunt in the future, you will still have your own house. You need to pay for this house out of your own pocket. You don’t need to take care of the money. I will take care of it. Calculate it like this
It's more than 200 square meters. It's so safe to live here, and every aspect is taken care of. You make it convenient for everyone, and you also get benefits. What's wrong with it? Living in a compound, the house there will not belong to
Personal. They are just passers-by, why bother to be persistent?"
As he spoke, he added tea to Xie Rong, "What you have to consider now is the real life problems after Uncle Xie is gone. Auntie has a pension and this part of the money every month, so her life is worry-free. That's because she is older.
If you need someone to take care of you, this organization will consider it. I am mainly talking about you! After we got married, we lived with my father and mother for a few years. At that time, because of my father’s relationship, there were people at home doing housework, and you hardly interfered.
. Later, I went to work in a local area. I was a leader in a small place, and there were people who took care of all aspects of my life, and they were taken care of very well. After the divorce, you came back, and there were people at home to take care of your life... And after that, you had to
Living without anyone to take care of you, you still have to take care of your aunt... You have to think more about these issues. You can no longer dwell on false things, it has no meaning to your life."
Seeing that Xie Rong still didn't speak, he sighed and said again: "Don't dislike me for being long-winded. I always have to explain clearly what I need to explain. Your character... It's not that you can't say it's bad. Each person has his own character, and only his character
You don't always get along, right? But as a human being, no one can do whatever they want, right? In front of me, it doesn't matter if you are a little willful. But when you get along with friends, you can't be the same as before. I have told you several times before
, you never listen. This time, I hope you can listen. Both Shen Nan and Xiaotong are good friends. From now on, we will still interact with them as equals... Friends can tolerate your willfulness, but if you always
If you have to ask others to tolerate you, you won't be able to become friends. Don't bother others with everything, do you understand?"
Xie Rong held the cup in both hands and said after a long time: "...that's you, you are still willing to worry about me now. I wish you had thought of everything for me, down to the smallest detail."
Ma Juntian looked at her, "Why are you saying these things?"
Xie Rong smiled bitterly and fell silent again, "I know what you mean! My mother is not easy to persuade. If you try to tell her, she will definitely object and even cry and make it look ugly. I can only talk about this matter.
!”
Yes! That’s what it means. Xie Rong also knows in his heart that making clear arrangements for his future is also his attitude. That is, his mother has always mentioned the matter of remarriage, but he has refused.
In fact, he has always refused, not because he lost his father. They have been married for more than ten years, and this is his character. Once he makes a decision, he will never regret it.
Before the divorce, the two had been arguing for a long time. It was him who had been avoiding talking about the divorce! He said at the time, "You have to calm down and control your emotions. Divorce is not a trivial matter. Wait until you think about it."
Well, if you really make up your mind, I'll let you. If you regret it, we'll have a good time. You know my character, I don't like repetition."
Xie Rong said, "Then I have a request."
Well! You say.
"When we got divorced, it was decided that the child would spend half the time with you and half the time with me, raising the child together..."
Ma Juntian frowned, "Do you want custody of the child?" This matter cannot be compromised easily. It is not that it is not given to the biological mother. The key is that he is worried about the upbringing of the child. Especially Xie Rong has never lived alone, and has always been taken care of by others. Now,
She still has a mother to take care of, and she still has to go to work, so her mother must take care of the children more. As for her mother-in-law, I can't trust her upbringing.
He was just thinking about how to say this, when he heard Xie Rong say, "No! I want to give you complete custody of the child."
What?
Xie Rong lowered his head again, "The child has grandparents. What kind of life he had before, what kind of life he can have in the future. Even if your father retires, your rank will not be lower. The child will not be because of
The difference in life has brought about too many changes. Besides, I... I don’t know how to live, and my mother is in such a state. If the child follows me, he will not get better care. Call the child
Is it okay to follow his grandparents to live in the capital and come back with me during the holidays? Even if you remarry and your children only live with the elderly, it won't hinder anything."
Ma Juntian did not expect to bring this up. He nodded, "Okay! Leave the matter of transferring the child to another school to me."
Xie Rong stood up and said, "Then... let's live like this! Go ahead and go ahead. If my mother calls you again, you don't have to listen to her. Just give me a call and I'll know how to deal with it. If you really want to meet me,
When something happens, I will ask you for help! If you don't ask for help, it means... my mother is moaning for no reason again."
Ma Juntian was silent, but he still nodded and stood up, "I'll take you back."
No! I'll go by myself.
Ma Juntian stood still, watching her go out. He stood on the roadside and stopped the taxi with his hand, but quickly waved to others and ran to the bus stop sign. Then he awkwardly raised his head to look at the bus stop sign.
After waiting for more than ten minutes, a car came and I couldn't get in. Another car came and I couldn't squeeze in. It wasn't until the fourth car that I got on smoothly and left.
How does it feel? She felt very uneasy. But he still didn't move. She had to live her life like an ordinary person.
As soon as he got off the bus, Xie Rong vomited. He vomited in a tree pit on the roadside!
The guard came out in a hurry, and Tongtong came out on a tricycle. He quickly stopped at the edge and patted her, "Is this... motion sickness?"
"The bus is too crowded and stops for a while... It's uncomfortable for people wandering around..."
Lin Yutong took the water brought by the guard, asked her to rinse her mouth, then thanked them, then patted the tricycle and said, "Take the car and I'll take you in? How about I hold you and we go?"
I went to the vegetable market to buy groceries and went for a drive, and the motion sickness was gone."
Xie Rongzhen sat on it and said, "Let's go!"
Hey! I went shopping for groceries.
The doorman laughed at the door. It was just such a small tricycle. The two eldest ladies did not mind the embarrassment and rode it through the streets.
Along the way, Tongtong talked to Xie Rong, "Did you see that? That store's tofu is the best. I observed it. It's very hygienic. Many people come from far away to buy it... And that store, if you buy it for your children
I went to his store to buy my clothes, and they were willing to return or exchange them if they were too big or too small. Their attitude was very good..."
Xie Rong and Tongtong were back to back. At this moment, he could only rest his head on Tongtong's back and couldn't help but laugh, "Do you know what I admire most about you?"
What?
"Face is never something you consider! I can't even imagine how you lived in the countryside in those years!" Xie Rong smiled bitterly, "I think that if I change places, I will follow my parents. I will never
You will be so willing to stay in the country. You don’t care about your so-called status or not, as if this gap is not in your heart at all... I admire you most."
Lin Yutong laughed, "What's the gap? The gap is just our own psychological benchmark. It's like I'm riding a tricycle, what's wrong? Look at the bustling people on the street, who cares who we are and what we do?
, no one cares about our family background. In the eyes of others, we are not that important. It’s just that sometimes, we think we are important."
Yes! Do we have any important value in ourselves? No!
She laughed out loud and urged: "Ride faster, why are you riding so slowly?"