Yu Wenhao asked: "What about you? Do you want a son or a daughter?"
Yuan Qingling said without thinking, "I hope it's my son."
"Oh? Didn't you say you liked your daughter before?"
Yuan Qing Ling said: "As long as they are born to me, I will definitely love my son or daughter. As a parent, I will not love you less or more because of the gender of your child."
"Then why do you say you hope to be a son?" Yu Wenhao thought it was probably the same reason as him, and couldn't help but sigh softly.
Yuan Qingling said softly: "Because, this era is not so friendly to women. A woman's life is in the hands of men. Few women can resist, unless you are strong enough. But in this era, women are not allowed to be strong.
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Yu Wenhao was stunned and looked at the sadness on her face.
She continued: "A woman's happiness is mostly measured by the person she marries. If she marries well and her husband's family is powerful, she will be envied by many people, and they won't care whether she has to face difficulties from her parents-in-law or competition from concubines.
, they give birth to children, take care of the housework, serve the parents-in-law, properly arrange for the husband to marry a concubine or a concubine, if the concubine is pregnant, they have to worry about all the important things as a mistress, and they also happily hold the children born to their husbands by other women.
He said, this is also my child, it is my responsibility, and I must be proud of it, so even though I like my daughter very much, I don’t want to give birth to a daughter."
At the end, she quietly touched his face and said softly: "Because, I'm not sure if she is as lucky as her mother to meet a man like her father."
Yu Wenhao was shocked by these remarks.
What she said is true.
However, he and many men will not think about whether this is unfair to women and whether women will be aggrieved and sad by it.
They think this is a matter of course.
If you can do the above, you are a qualified woman. If you cannot do it, or if there are occasional deficiencies, then you are definitely not a good wife.
Yuan Qing Ling said: "If I hadn't met you, then based on my education, my thoughts, and my temperament, I can predict that my fate will be a hundred times more miserable than it is now."
He asked blankly: "What education have you received?"
"I..." Yuan Qingling smiled secretly, "I know everything from astronomy to geography. I know everything."
Yu Wenhao laughed, "You still know astronomy and geography? Okay, what is the name of the brightest star in the sky?"
"Venus!"
Yu Wenhao looked at her and said, "Chang Geng Star, also called Taibai Venus. You are not completely wrong when you say Venus, but it is a well-known thing. Do you know what Chang Geng Star means?"
Yuan Qing Ling smiled, "What else does Venus mean? Venus is a hell planet tens of millions of kilometers away from us."
Yu Wenhao's eyes widened, "You are so brave, how dare you say that? Venus is the morning star, and it is where I look up to in the Northern Tang Dynasty. How can you say it is a ball of hell? You bastard."
Yuan Qingling laughed, "I'm just telling the truth. I didn't know that Venus is your belief. Well, I was wrong."
"You apologize!"
"sorry!"
"You have to be sincere." He glared.
Yuan Qing raised her lips, "How to be sincere?"
Yu Wenhao pulled her hand to a certain position, "You have to show sincerity to it."
Yuan Qingling's eyes widened, "Does Venus have anything to do with it?"
"Of course, that is Zixi's inheritance." He said righteously.
"Crack, crack, crack, slap," a few slaps.
He turned sideways and said in a low voice: "Sleep, I am sleepy and have no sincerity at all."