Yan Lizhou's words not only made the two girls of the Yun family lose the idea of marrying their cousin, but other people in the Yun family also knew about his remarks.
Yun Yi and Liu Qingya remembered that Concubine Yun had lost contact with her cousin from the Liu family. Even though more than twenty years had passed, Liu Qingya still knew very well what her nephew had said to her, and it seemed that she had vaguely said it.
Cousins cannot get married.
The cousin of the Liu family did not dare to challenge the rules of this era of in-laws. He could only guarantee that he would not marry his cousin. Even though they were both sad and sad when they separated, in order not to become resentful towards each other in the future.
My cousin, Liu's cousin, ended this relationship on his own.
"Cousins can't get married?" Mrs. Wang didn't believe it when she heard the news. She suspected that Yan Lizhou was deceiving others in order not to marry her daughter.
"Why can't cousins get married? Since ancient times, there have been very few cousins getting married? Why can't we get married with the prince?"
Mr. Wang is really aggrieved. What does Yan Lizhou mean? He said that he has never thought of marrying her daughter. Does he dislike her daughter?
What's wrong with her daughter? She delayed her eldest daughter before, now she wants to delay her younger daughter?
"Really? Are children born between cousins really unhealthy?" Feng was also very doubtful. She was just trying to show her daughter her nephew. If it was really bad for her cousins to get married and have children, she would
How can I marry my daughter back to her parents’ family?
Most people at that time thought that their natal family would definitely treat their daughters well, so many people were willing to marry their daughters back to their natal family.
The same goes for Ms. Feng. She had a pretty good life in her natal family. In addition, she has been married for a long time, so her filter on her natal family has become deeper and deeper. All the memories of her bad life in her natal family have disappeared.
After it dissipated, she fell in love with her natal family even more.
In her opinion, her natal family is so good that it is better to marry her daughter back to her natal family than to marry into a family she is not familiar with. She always believes that her natal family will not treat her daughter badly.
"What's wrong with what the prince said?" Liu Qingya glanced sideways at her daughters-in-law. She remembered Yan Lizhou's remarks. What's the difference between cousins and cousins? The difference is just because the surnames of cousins are different, but does blood mean
Is it very far?
"Ms. Feng, do you really plan to marry Nineteenth Mother into your natal family?" Liu Qingya frowned, "Have you forgotten how you complained about your sister-in-law before?"
You must know that Feng's relationship with her natal sister-in-law was not good when she was a girl. Later, after she got married, she did not get along better with her sister-in-law.
In this way, Mrs. Feng still thinks that her daughter will not be bullied when she marries back to her parents' family? Isn't she worried that her sister-in-law will vent her dissatisfaction with her on her daughter?
Feng's face froze after hearing Liu Qingya's words. She had indeed forgotten that her sister-in-law was not easy to get along with. Whether she was her biological sister-in-law or her cousin-in-law, the relationship with her was not that good.
Mrs. Wang also remembered that her relationship with her sister-in-law, Concubine Yun, was not very good. When she got married, Concubine Yun was still a girl at home. She had many conflicts with this favored sister-in-law.
"Have you forgotten? The third cousin of the Geng family got married, and as a result, the legitimate sons and daughters of the Geng family didn't fare well?"
The third wife of the Geng family, the concubine and concubine, are quite good and healthy, but the legitimate son and daughter-in-law are very unhealthy and have always been sick.
Even Liu Qingya and the others remembered that several children in the third room of the Geng family seemed to have died in infancy. Who knows whether they were "died" because of poor health or because they were stupid?
"There is also the second wife of the Liao family. Their wife is not the master's cousin, but she has a cousin who is a good concubine. That good concubine is very popular, and the second wife of the Liao family has a reputation of doting on concubines and destroying his wife.
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"That good concubine's cousin was so favored, but she only had one child. The rest of the children were either miscarried or died young. Do you think there is something fishy about this?"
Liu Qingya frowned when she mentioned the second concubine of the Liao family. The reason why she knew about the concubine's cousin was because the second master of the Liao family really had the tendency to spoil his concubine and destroy his wife. He pampered his concubine even more than his wife.
It's just that the second master of the Liao family can't see clearly how arrogant his doting cousin is, so he feels that she is very pitiful and has suffered a lot of grievances.
"You should also think about it. It was rumored that the second wife of the Liao family killed many children of her doting cousin. Why did the second wife of the Liao family not take action against other concubines and just killed that cousin's child?
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When Liu Qingya talked about this matter with her daughters-in-law, she couldn't help but suspect that maybe not all the children of her doting concubine and cousin were the fault of the royal wife. It was also possible that she deliberately killed them by the hands of others and then framed the blame.
To the royal wife.
The concubine and cousin relied on her husband's favor to show off her power and surpass the royal wife. If the child she gave birth to was unhealthy, stupid, or disabled, then she would lose favor.
Therefore, she has to erase such "stains" before the child shows anything wrong and before her husband finds out. Only then can she maintain her beautiful image in her husband's heart.
Of course, she still had to create a pitiful image of herself. Of course, she could not have killed the child. It could only have been done by the wife of the wife, who had always disliked her.
Ms. Feng and Ms. Wang, who are already grandmothers, are more aware of the gossip about the back house. They suspect that it is really all kinds of things, which is an eye-opener for young women like Ms. Lin.
Mrs. Feng couldn't help but look at her eldest daughter-in-law, Mrs. Lin. She was already the mother of a twelve-year-old child. Why did she still understand nothing as when she first got married?
Didn't she mention these things about the back house to her daughter-in-law before? Why is it like hearing it for the first time now?
Ms. Lin didn't know what her mother-in-law was thinking. If she knew, she would definitely refute it. Of course this was her first time hearing it. She didn't expect that the second cousin of the Liao family's second wife was such a person. It turned out that the second wife of the Liao family was such a person.
Is the lady so pitiful? It is really shocking that the concubine and cousin killed her own child and framed the blame on the wife.
"These are all our speculations, so don't spread them randomly." Liu Qingya warned.
In fact, these speculations are not without evidence. Although they have not interfered in other people's family affairs, the second wife of the Liao family does not have no friends. The network of relationships between friends is also quite large, so the Yun family also knows some things.
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It is indeed pitiful that the main wife was framed, but she did take the initiative to harm the children of her concubines. This happens to every family.
None of them thought that the second wife of the Liao family was so vicious. None of them, the first wives, liked concubines and concubines.
"Just remember the dangers of cousins getting married and don't talk nonsense outside." Liu Qingya said, looking at her daughter-in-law and grandson-in-law.
You must know that the current mainstream concept of marriage in the world is marriage plus marriage, especially marriages between aristocratic families, where there are various kinship relationships. If the dangers of cousin marriage are spread, aristocratic families will be the first to suppress such news.
After all, if they really wanted to prevent cousins from getting married, most people in the family would do it. They didn't want to spread such a reputation, and it was even more impossible for people to know how unhealthy their cousins' children would be after they got married.
"And you, the prince is already married, so don't think about marrying your daughter to him." Liu Qingya said.
It is of course possible for a daughter of the Yun family to be a concubine of the royal family, but it must be the concubine of the emperor or a prince.
When her grandson ascends the throne as emperor, she will consider letting her granddaughter or great-granddaughter enter the palace, but let it go now.