Chapter 199 A sense of security is more important than anything else
Chapter 199 A sense of security is more important than anything else
Ji Jinxian, who had sobered up, looked confused. He looked blankly at the shower gel in his hand, and then blankly glanced at Shen Wanwan who was using the shower head to flush himself.
"Wife, what are you doing?"
Ji Jinxian was a little confused. He looked at Shen Wanwan blankly, wondering what Shen Wanwan was doing.
"It's okay, I just want to give my husband a bath."
Shen Wanwan raised the corners of her mouth, but her beautiful big eyes were full of cunning. It was good that Ji Jinxian was sober. In this case, she wanted to settle things with him.
Why did this guy actually hold a bottle of shower gel and call his wife? Forget it, she went up to grab the shower gel, but Ji Jinxian was still unwilling to give it to her.
This was simply too infuriating. Ji Jinxian, who was standing there, didn't even know that his wife was already mad to death.
He put down the shower gel in his hand, and after three years of not moving forward, he wanted to hug Shen Wanwan, but the latter directly avoided him.
Ji Jinxian felt a little aggrieved when he hugged him empty-handed. He just stood there and stared at Shen Wanwan, the villain in his heart perfectly revealing his grievances.
[Woo woo woo, does my wife dislike me? 】
[Woo woo woo, why won’t my wife let me hug you? Could it be that the relationship is weakening? 】
【Does my wife not love me anymore? 】
[Could it be that the relationship has really faded away, that’s why my wife doesn’t let me hug her? 】
The more Ji Jinxian thought about it, the more aggrieved he became. He just stood there, motionless, like a child who had been ruthlessly abandoned by an adult.
"Take a shower first."
Hearing what Ji Jinxian was saying, Shen Wanwan shook his head helplessly. Ji Jinxian liked to think wildly.
There is no such thing as abandonment, okay?
"Wife~"
Ji Jinxian didn't move. He just felt very wronged now. Why wouldn't his good wife not let him hug her?
Why is this different from what you imagined?
"Be good and take a shower first. After you finish the shower, I have something to tell you."
Seeing Ji Jinxian's aggrieved look, Shen Wanwan's heart suddenly softened. She put down the shower in her hand and walked over to hug Ji Jinxian gently.
Forget it, Ji Jinxian acted like that because she was drunk, there was no need for her to worry too much.
"Honey, if I have done something wrong, can you tell me? As long as you tell me, I will definitely change it. As long as you don't leave me, everything will be easy."
Ji Jinxian hugged Shen Wanwan tightly. Due to the physical contact between the two, Shen Wanwan's clean clothes were stained.
Seeing Ji Jinxian looking so insecure, Shen Wanwan sighed helplessly in her heart, but the movement of her hands was to hug him back tightly, giving him warmth and security.
"You didn't do anything wrong, be good, let's take a shower quickly, otherwise we'll catch a cold later."
Shen Wanwan hugged Ji Jinxian tightly. It was because she did not give Ji Jinxian a sense of security that she made him think so wildly.
The two of them are in a sweet relationship, while Ji Jinxin, who is about to have a two-month relationship with her online dating partner, is also suffering from the lack of security brought about by long-distance relationships.
Girls are very strange creatures, especially girls who are in love. They will have random thoughts in their free time and boredom.
I will miss the two of them in the future, they may be separated, and I will also wonder if my boyfriend has another dog outside!
In the final analysis, this is due to the lack of sense of security provided by the subject. Ji Jinxin herself does not like to check posts, and she believes that post checks are of little use.
The two of them were separated by mobile phones, separated by a long distance, and couldn't be around each other. This kind of inspection was meaningless.
As long as the other party wants to hide it, he can hide everything. Therefore, Ji Jinxin never goes to check the post, but she will have random thoughts.
She is an ordinary girl now. It is easy for a girl who is immersed in love to wonder if she is worthy of the other person?
Even good people will start to deny themselves again and again. Ji Jinxin is now in this situation.
She thinks that she is not good enough for the other person, and thinks that the other person should be able to find someone better and deserve someone better, so she will use temptation to express it in her words.
Only by testing again and again and pushing away again and again can Ji Jinxin feel some sense of security.
Only then can she feel that this person really loves her, even if the two people have not met and are just chatting on the mobile phone.
Some people may think that chatting on mobile phones is a novelty. Once the novelty of chatting wears off, the two of them will have nothing to say.
But in fact, whether it is online dating or long-distance love, the most important thing is the desire to share, as long as you are willing to talk.
Then the two people will have a lot to talk about, but if one person doesn't talk and the other person doesn't talk, then the two people will easily lose the desire to talk to each other.
"Axin, why do you stay in your room all day? You don't even want to go out for a walk. If you stay in your room all the time, you will suffocate yourself."
When Ji Jinxin was lying on the bed, holding her cell phone and waiting for the person on the other end of the phone to reply, Ji's mother's voice came from outside the door.
"I know, Mom."
Hearing her mother's words, Ji Jinxin lay down on the bed. She didn't know what had happened recently. She began to dislike going out.
Maybe it was the sequelae of her hospitalization, or maybe she lost herself because of falling in love.
"Girl, it's not what mom wants to say about you. You are such a big person. You have to go out for a walk. Why do you stay in your room all day? When will you bring a partner back for mom?"
Mother Ji walked into the room as she spoke, stretched out her hand and opened the curtains directly, letting the sunlight shine into the room.
"Look at how loving your brother and sister-in-law are. If you could find someone to come back to you, Mom would really be relieved."
As Ji's mother was nagging, she walked to the bed and sat down. She looked at her daughter lying on the bed, her eyes full of helplessness.
This girl is not young anymore. When can she find a partner?
"Mom, I told you that I already have a partner, why else are I looking for someone?"
Ji Jinxin looked at her mother helplessly. She had accidentally mentioned it to her mother before. It seemed like her mother didn't take her words to heart!
"Daughter, how many times have I told you that people on the Internet are unreliable. There are a lot of people who fail in online dating and are exposed to death. Why can't you find a young man nearby?"
Ji's mother couldn't understand it very much. She was stunned by her daughter's operation. She had asked her daughter to find a partner before, but she was unwilling to do so.
No matter what she said, she wanted to be single for the rest of her life and not get married in this life. She opposed everything she said before and believed that people should find a partner in this life.
Otherwise, when other people are enjoying the fireworks with their families, you will find that among the thousands of lights, none of them are lit for you.
That kind of life is lonely, and Ji's mother naturally doesn't want her daughter to live that kind of life.
