There is no need to work overtime tonight to listen to the same period, and there is no manuscript that needs to be rushed out, so I feel relaxed.
Lu Beicen took a shower and watched a documentary. It was still early and he could still read a book. He remembered the books he bought at the bookstore last time and had not had time to read them. Instead, he bought those copybooks for Jiang Zhongze. When he was at home, he would
He often came to her house to occupy her desk and write there, saying that he could ask her for advice at any time.
Less than half of the idiom copybook was written. Lu Beicen thought of the way he looked when he was writing, focused and serious. It was obviously a boring thing, but it was enjoyable to do.
Opening it casually, one day, three autumns came into view. There was only a simple explanation on the copybook, which was used to describe a good relationship. After only being apart for one day, it felt like they had not seen each other for a long time.
After Jiang Zhongze finished writing this part, he asked Lu Beicen to tell him the origin of this idiom. He already knew that the so-called idiom must have an origin or source, and he would definitely ask for an explanation if he met anyone who was interested.
Not all idioms by Lu Beicen can clearly explain the origin or origin, but I still know this word. It comes from "The Book of Songs. Wang Feng. Picking Ge": "He is picking Ge Ge. If you don't see him for a day, it is like March; He is picking Ge Ge.
Picking Xiaoxi, if you don't see it for a day, it will be like three autumns; if you pick mugwort, if you don't see it for a day, it will be like three years old."
Lu Beicen recited this paragraph, and then smiled and said: "Ge, Xiao, and Ai are all kind of weeds. The rest should not be difficult to understand. They just use a progressive method to show strong longing.
Love, this article should express a man's longing for a woman, but now the usage of this word is no longer limited to relationship, but to whether the relationship is deep or not. It can be used between lovers, friends, and relatives...
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"Then why did it end up being three years in one day, instead of three years in one day or three months in one day?"
"The word "Autumn" itself contains a certain emotional color. When used in longing, it always means parting and parting. If used in other places, it also means some other emotional colors, such as spring flowers and autumn fruits, which can be felt.
A golden sense of harvest, and if you put these three words together and think about it, is it better, more beautiful, and more suitable for this context to use the word autumn? So, Chinese characters are very beautiful, and sometimes a simple word can be
Contains a lot of emotion..."
At that time, Jiang Zhongze just looked at her and talked, his eyes were focused and serious, and seemed to have a different color. Lu Beicen had never been a teacher, so he didn't know if that was what students would burst out when they looked at their teachers.
The expression was so bright that I felt like I was getting a little hot all over. I was lucky at that time. Fortunately, the word was very simple and the poem was easy to memorize. I could probably remember it just by looking at it.
Of course, Lu Beicen also remembered what Jiang Zhongze said with a faint look in his eyes at that time: "I really want to experience such an inseparable feeling."
Lu Beicen also remembered that he laughed at that time. He remembered a sentence he had read in an unknown book, so he asked him: "I read this in a book, saying that people may be in adolescence.
Only then can such a primitive, pure and passionate love arise, but if you are a little more mature, for example, after the age of thirteen or fourteen, you will become socialized, and it will be difficult to produce such a deep and lingering love..."
Jiang Zhongze looked at her and said nothing, then smiled and said nothing, as if he meant something, and immediately asked in an unhurried manner: "You mean, I am already old, or we are all old, it is impossible
Have you ever experienced such pure emotion again?"
"Uh..." Lu Beicen was like a teacher or parent who was asked a hundred thousand times why he was at a loss for words. He could only choose to change the subject: "You should continue writing. Today's homework is not finished yet."
In fact, Lu Beicen really didn't know how to answer this question, but she definitely knew that she would never have the courage to fly into a flame again. The last time she faced her own heartbeat, she was not at peace in her heart.
Where is the big environment, Lu Beicen is actually under a lot of pressure and has been very entangled, but he would rather choose to turn a blind eye to all external situations and pretend to be an ignorant novice. That is probably why she has lived until now.
He did the most reckless thing, but it ended in such a mess.
Lu Beicen has never been a purely confident person. She has always been struggling between inferiority and self-confidence in her heart. Using excellent results and 100% hard work to overcome her deepest inferiority complex is actually what she has been doing.
Lu Beicen really doesn't believe in love for no reason. In other words, for people like her who grew up cautiously and often look at themselves, it's hard to believe that anything in this world can happen for no reason. Those so-called love affairs
She doesn’t know where they started, but goes deeper and deeper. In her opinion, they are just beautiful literary works, and they are almost impossible to exist in real life.
Lu Beicen remembered that a professor once told some love stories of masters. The students in the Chinese Department were somewhat romantic in their hearts. At that time, everyone looked longingly and full of envy.
But before long, the love stories of every master told by the professor turned into the scene of a large-scale car accident. The students solved the puzzles one by one, just like solving crimes. There are many biographies of the life stories of the masters. If you take a look,
They are all assembled or disassembled. What's more, they are in two parallel combinations, each of them looked at each other correctly, separated and then reassembled. Some of them are not even in line with normal people's three views.
Later in class, some students asked the professor about this, and the professor said that we must not lose our yearning for love, life, and beautiful things. Even if the beginning, process, or ending is not beautiful, we cannot deny that at some point,
At this moment, they truly love each other.
As one of the most silent students, although Lu Beicen did not say a word, what he was thinking in his heart was whether they really had that moment, or what kind of moment that moment was, let alone today's people dozens or hundreds of years later.
, even they themselves at the time might not have been able to figure it out.
Thinking back to the time when I was studying in the past, it seemed that it was only two or three years ago, but it seemed like many years had passed, and I already felt as if I was separated from the world.
Lu Beicen shook his head somewhat self-deprecatingly. Life is probably like a roller coaster now, especially in recent times. Every incident and every interviewee has a life story of ups and downs, and most of them are tragedies.
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From the perspective of a bystander, one would think that if he (she) had not been like this or not like that, he or she might not have ended up like this. But everyone who has experienced it is ignorant and slow in their own lives.
It has slowly gotten to where it is now, so all the thoughts it had originally turned into a joke. Isn’t it because of their own unique thinking structure that everyone leads their life the way they want?
Sighing, Lu Beicen decided to put away his messy thoughts, picked up the phone and dialed Ah Hao.
"Beep... beep... beep"
The phone was answered over there, but another mellow male voice came out: "You are not busy today? Do you want to make a call?"
Lu Beicen blinked, and why did she hear a trace of sadness in it? That person was Jiang Zhongze, and the words sounded ambiguous, reminding her of those poems about women.
After shaking his head, Lu Beicen smiled and said: "It seems that you are even busier. Ah Hao hasn't even called me. Where are the others? Are they drunk too much?"
Jiang Zhongze glanced at A Hao, who was sleeping with a baby-like smile, shook his shoulders, as if he wanted to get rid of the sweat all over his body, and helped a drunk young man back to the room alone. In such weather, sweating is a serious problem
It was inevitable. Drinking at dinners was actually quite a headache, but there were some dinners that he had to go to, and he could attend them the whole time, so Ah Hao naturally became the focus of the fire.
"Well, I've fallen asleep." Jiang Zhongze couldn't find any better excuse for a while, so he could only answer truthfully.
Lu Beicen was very puzzled: "Doesn't your current situation logically mean that Party A is not in the same state? It should be you who decide how to eat and how to drink wine. How can you still drink like this?
"
"You're right. I'll teach him tomorrow. He won't drink from now on. He was careless today." Jiang Zhongze's attitude was very good, but after finally waiting for the phone call, he definitely didn't want to just discuss this matter, so he quickly found a topic: "
You haven’t been on a business trip these days?”
Although Lu Beicen felt that something was wrong, but considering that the person opposite was not his brother, he couldn't say much, so he could only reply casually: "No, I'm just filming a show in the city."
"What program was filmed? Is there anything special?"
"Anything that can be made into a program must be quite special, but are you sure you will be interested in these things?"
"Of course I'm interested in anything you find special."
Lu Beicen thought for a while, and asked Jiang Zhongze the question he originally wanted to ask a psychology expert who often records programs in Taiwan: "I met a girl today who was very self-conscious because she witnessed her mother's unexpected death.
She is responsible for making a mess of her originally good life, and I feel that she is a little bit neurotic and very stubborn. I really want her to see a psychiatrist, but I don’t know how to say it.
, do you think she may have post-traumatic stress disorder?”
"PTSD? Can you explain the situation in a little more detail?" Jiang Zhongze took out a clean towel from the bathroom and wiped off the sweat that he had not caught.
Lu Beicen gave an overview of Zhu Wenya's situation. After listening to this, Jiang Zhongze thought about it and said: "Although I have read several books on this subject, they are not necessarily very professional. Personally, I feel that her current condition should be fine.
"
"At least two things have diverted her attention. One is the transfer of self-blame. She will blame herself instead of blaming her ex-husband, which is also a disguised emotional outlet. The other is the pursuit of responsibility for that woman. Although
She is a little stubborn, but without this obsession to support her, the situation might be even worse."
"But my personal suggestion is that no matter whether this woman is found or not, she should be allowed to see a psychiatrist. If she is not found for a longer time, her mentality will easily collapse. If she is found and this matter is over, it may also be a psychological problem for her.
A turbulent period of life, that is, once a person suddenly completes something that he has been obsessed with for a long time, he will feel a sense of emptiness after being excited. Can you understand what I said? I said it very unprofessionally, but I think there is still a sense of emptiness.
necessary."
Zhu Wenya's psychological problems, in Lu Beicen's view, were a hidden concern, but she also thought about it a lot at the time. After all, it was the first time the two of them came into contact. Although it was a private matter for Zhu Wenya, it was a private matter for Lu Beicen.
Say, this is work, and it is obviously unwise to pay too much attention to the personal affairs of the interviewee.
Originally, when making a program, psychologists might be brought in to make comments, mostly because it involves the motive of committing a crime and the psychological changes of the parties involved. However, in this case, it seems a bit inappropriate to bring in psychologists to make comments, because her
The marriage issue has become a side topic of this case, more like a private matter, and it may have a certain impact on her life, so Lu Beicen is very hesitant.
Now listening to what Jiang Zhongze said, Lu Beicen's heart still sank. After being silent for a while, he said: "I don't seem to know what to do. After all, she doesn't feel that she has made her life very bad."
Yes, if I don’t say it, it will look very cold-blooded. If I say it, I don’t know if it will be suspected of over-intervention..."
Jiang Zhongze was a little confused: "You, the interviewee, should be young and well-educated, right?"
"Well, he is about the same age as me, and he also graduated from W University." Lu Beicen replied.
"Then it shouldn't be difficult to understand that everyone has psychological problems to some extent, and since her life has undergone major changes, seeing a psychiatrist will be very helpful to her."
"But our social environment is still relatively backward. When I heard that seeing a psychiatrist, it seemed like I had some mental problem. I haven't talked to her about this problem, so I don't know what she would think."
Jiang Zhongze's mind was spinning rapidly and he started to give advice again: "If you feel it's hard to talk, you can take some roundabout ways. I remember watching your program before. You should have a cooperating psychological expert. We chatted together during the interview.
Isn’t it also a way to talk about it?”
Lu Beicen's eyes lit up: "This seems to be a solution, but I have to find a psychologist who is enthusiastic about public welfare."
Jiang Zhongze imagined Lu Beicen's eyes sparkling, laughed involuntarily, and casually changed the topic to other places: "Have you been eating at home these days? Have you finished eating everything in the refrigerator? In the freezer
There is a chicken inside that has been cleaned, do you see it?"
Lu Beicen laughed a little: "Why do you know my refrigerator better than me?"
"This is the self-consciousness that a fandom should have. You, the teacher, taught so well. I remember it deeply and practice it personally."