At this time, Kong Dejing no longer had the strong temperament of the past, and looked like she was willing to bow her head and accept her fate. Although Kong Dejing had the aura of being the eldest lady of the Confucian family, the sage of Confucianism and Taoism, and the most outstanding young disciple of the Confucian generation.
But that was all in vain. Under the family interests, these haloes became bullshit. She had to make sacrifices for the family interests.
Throughout the ages, women have always been unable to control their destiny. They must obey their husbands when they get married and their fathers at home. Even the queen who rose to the top hundreds of years ago had to lower her high head and struggled for decades before she was forty years old.
Only one year ago, she stood above ten thousand people, but for thousands of years, there was only one such queen in China's history.
The vast majority of women have to give in due to fate.
Kong Dejing looked back at Kong Deru, who was standing lonely in the corner behind the crowd, and remembered a saying for no reason, every gain must have a loss, a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. Maybe Kong Deru lost his status in the Kong family, but he gained accordingly.
With a free identity, at least Kong Deru can have the right to dominate his own emotional ownership. The Kong family will not interfere in the marriage of a useless person, but she cannot.
Marriage is a problem that all big families must face. From emperors and princes to high-ranking officials and wealthy people, in the eyes of these people, marriage is an indispensable means to maintain the development and growth of the family. At that time, Li Shimin, the powerful emperor of the Tang Dynasty, wanted to maintain the
A brief peace on the frontier
, Princess Wencheng had to be sent to Songtsen Gampo. It was said to be for important national affairs, but it was not for the sake of the Li family dynasty. The Kong family is low-key now, but for the family's big plan for the next hundred or even thousand years, it must be
She, the eldest lady of the Kong family, was used to maintain it.
The marriage with the Shen family had been on the agenda many years ago. However, Shen Linfeng had been studying abroad at that time, and he and Kong Dejing were still relatively young, so the marriage had been shelved. Now Shen Linfeng has returned to China.
, the two of them have reached their thirties again, and this important matter for Shen and Kong's family has finally been put on the agenda.
Seeing her daughter's sorrow and grievance, Kong Dejing's mother said in a comforting tone: "Jing'er, aside from your status as the eldest daughter of the Kong family, relationships have always been difficult to achieve, even for ordinary people.
When a situation arises where you and I are willing, we can get together if we are suitable, and we will have a family that comes first.
To put it bluntly, you and Shen Linfeng don’t have any feelings now, but you can’t cultivate them, right? Before your father and I got married, the two of us had never even met, but you see, your father and I are different now.
Respect each other as guests, who dares to say that we are not in love? My child, look at it, your marriage is
It is impossible to choose freely, but we can carefully check for you and find a young talent that matches you. We still know Shen Linfeng's reputation. Apart from his identity as the eldest son of the Shen family, he is alone.
He studied abroad and obtained a degree from Massachusetts, and alone contributed to the expansion of the Shen family's overseas business.
Jawa, but in terms of talent and knowledge, he is outstanding, and his character does not seem to have any bad comments. I heard that there seem to be quite a few ladies chasing after Mr. Shen, but he has always been
You are very clean and self-possessed. Who can say no to a person like this? Not to mention..."
Kong Dejing's mother whispered in her ear: "What's more, you don't have a man you love now. We didn't do anything to beat the couple by letting you marry the Shen family, right?"
"Don't you have a heart?" Kong Dejing's body suddenly trembled at her mother's words. Her emotional world has been a blank slate for more than 20 years. No man has ever entered her inner world.
But at this moment, a figure suddenly appeared in Kong Dejing's head, and there was a ripple in her heart.
In a cave that was about to collapse, when her life was in danger, a man suddenly appeared and sent her out of the cave, but he himself was left alone at the last moment, not knowing whether he was alive or dead.
This figure has been haunting Kong Dejing's mind ever since she escaped from trouble, and she cannot get rid of it.
Women's emotions have always been complex, weird and changeable, and are classified as a worldwide problem, because you can't predict under what circumstances a woman will develop feelings for a man, maybe just inadvertently.
Looking back, or passing by, or perhaps having your heartstrings touched by sharing weal and woe.
Love is like a gust of wind, it comes when you say it will come.
Over there, Mr. Kong Da had finished greeting the father and son of the Shen family, and the two parties began to enter the living room of the Kong family. Perhaps seeing Kong Dejing lagging behind, Kong Deru also took a few steps slowly, and then walked to her side.
"Now you are surrounded by stars," Kong Deru sighed, with a sad, complicated and helpless tone.
Kong Dejing patted his shoulder gently and said softly: "Brother, for a moment just now, I actually envied you. Although I was praised, I also lost a lot. If I had to choose, I would
I would rather be in your position now. I am just a woman. The most important life I should live is to support my husband, raise my children and focus on the family. But once the marriage is completed, I can only be reduced to a tool of exchange for family interests for the rest of my life.
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Kong Deru sighed and shook his head silently. At this time, Shen Linfeng also slowed down, walked between them and said hello very respectfully, and then said to Kong Dejing: "Let them handle the affairs of the Kong family and the Shen family.
We’ve discussed it, let’s go there for a walk?”
It can be seen from the first time Shen Linfeng spoke that he was a very independent man with a distinctive personality. Logically speaking, at this time, both he and Kong Dejing should have followed Kong and Shen's family into the reception room and sat aside to listen.
However, Shen Linfeng didn't seem to be interested in anything discussed inside.
Kong Deru smiled faintly and then left. Kong Dejing hesitated and nodded, saying: "Okay."
Kong Dejing and Shen Linfeng were originally two parallel lines that could not intersect. Each had its own life trajectory and different circles, but they were merged together because of the marriage of Kong and Shen's family. If everything goes well, after a while,
In time, they will become a couple who respect each other as guests.
The two people who were supposed to be married walked together as strangers. On the mountain road, they walked side by side not far apart. There was silence for a long time and no one spoke.
At this time, Xiang Que was walking towards the Kongfu mansion on the top of the mountain, only a few hundred meters away from Kong Dejing and Shen Linfeng.
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