"You're here less. The one in your family has become a department manager, and his income must have increased a lot. You must want to change to a lighter job, or you don't want to work and stay at home to be a full-time housewife. With your family's attitude towards
With your level of treasure, you will definitely be happy to agree!"
"Having said that, I am young now and don't want to stay at home every day. There is almost nothing to do except waiting for him to get off work. This will make me feel like a gold caged in a birdcage.
Canary, it will be very empty. I still prefer to work hard outside and have my own motivation and direction to work hard, so that I can feel that I have a sense of worth and existence!"
Yunwei's smile suddenly dimmed when she heard what Xiaolu said. She had the same idea as Xiaolu. She remembered that when they were in college, they were all full of confidence and high-spirited and wanted to succeed in the university. In the future, they will have a career to reflect their own life value. But now, they all have their own careers. They go to and from get off work every day. Although the work is inevitably tiring, it is very fulfilling, but they stay at home every day and live a happy life. I work well, but my heart feels more and more empty, as if a corner is missing.
Sensing Yunwei's lonely expression, Xiaolu pretended to be relaxed and said to her: "Yunwei, come on, don't be so sad. I don't want the money for your shoes!"
"Xiaolu..." Yunwei pursed her lips and frowned slightly, wanting to tell her the troubles in her heart, but she didn't know how to speak.
"Yunwei, what's wrong with you? If you have any troubles, just tell me and see if I can help you solve your troubles!" Xiaolu said, sitting next to Yunwei.
"Xiaolu, I also want to have a stable job like you, with the motivation to move forward every day, and a direction to strive for. I don't want to stay at home every day, only eating and sleeping, which makes me feel that I have no sense of existence, and even feel that I am
It’s useless. I have been out of touch with society for too long. I am worried that I will lose the ability to interact with others. I am even more worried that if I live in a comfortable and comfortable environment for a long time, one day I lose everything and come to society.
I have to rely on myself. I can’t survive alone, Xiaolu, do you know? My heart is very empty and empty, and I even feel insecure. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. He is obviously by my side.
He loves me and stays with me, but I always feel that I lack a sense of security and solidity. I wonder if my life is too idle, so that I always have random thoughts?"
"Yunwei, if you want to work, you can tell Jing Chen. I think as long as you tell him what you are thinking, he will definitely allow you to go to work!" Seeing Yunwei in such a low mood, Xiaolu couldn't help but sigh.
The cheerful and gentle man just now said to Yun Wei.
"I told him a while ago that I wanted to go to work and didn't want to stay at home every day, but he didn't agree. He said that he was working so hard in the mall just to give me a comfortable and happy life. , told me to just stay at home and wait for him to come back. The most gratifying thing for him after a tiring day was to see me when he opened the door. He said he loved me so much, how could he bear to watch me work hard every day? , I get up early and come back late at get off work, and I have to be criticized by my boss. If I am really bored, I will play mahjong with those rich ladies, go shopping, do beauty treatments, and pass the time. He will take care of all the troubles. Bear it, I just need to be a little woman who belongs to him..."
Yun Wei sighed and continued: "All he thinks about is me, loves me, loves me and is reluctant to let me suffer. In addition, he is usually so busy with affairs in the company. I really don't want to give him any trouble because of me."
To add to the worries, after he rejected my proposal to go out to work several times, he couldn't bear to mention it again. I wanted to be the obedient and submissive wife he wanted so that he could work hard outside with peace of mind. However, this
But the feeling of emptiness still exists and is getting bigger day by day..."
Seeing that she was in such a low mood, Xiaolu interrupted what she was about to say and smiled gently and said to her: "Yunwei, after listening to what you said to me, I think you will be so empty and want to go outside.
Work is probably because you are always doing nothing all day long. I saw a sentence in a magazine that said that if a person is idle for too long, he will doubt the value of his existence and his own ability.
Ability, produce a lot of negative thoughts about oneself, and over a long period of time, the mood will become very lost, very low, just like you said, there will be a feeling of emptiness, unreliability, and even feel that I am useless and useless.
The value of any existence, this is the so-called 'comfort life disorder'."
"Easy life troubles!" Yunwei frowned and murmured these words in a low voice, and a wry smile appeared on her lips. People were worried about work, but she was worried about too much life.
If she becomes troubled when she is at ease, does this mean that she is a bitch? If she thinks her life is too good, she will be upset. This is not a bitch.
Seeing Yunwei lowering his head in deep thought, Xiaolu continued, "Yeah, listening to what you said, I think it's similar to the 'Easy Life Troubles' syndrome that I saw in magazines. Yunwei, I think as long as you
If you find something you want to do and are interested in, you won't feel so empty."
"I know this, but apart from going to work in the company, I don't know what else I can do to get interested."
Xiaolu tilted her head and thought for a while, then suddenly a light flashed through her head, and she said excitedly to Yunwei: "Yunwei, I know you can solve this emptiness by not thinking about going to work all day long.
.”
"What?" Seeing Xiaolu's excitement, Yunwei's depressed mood turned into anticipation.
"It's just... you're pregnant with a baby. Think about it, if there is such a cute baby that you need to take care of and care about, how can you have time to think about this and that? You would have been focused on the baby!"
Xiaolu was very excited that she could think of such a good and precise way. All she could think about was that Yunwei and Jingchen had good genes, so the baby they would give birth to would definitely be cute and cute. However, after that,
For a long time, the person next to her didn't answer, so Xiaolu looked at her in confusion, only to see that there was no happy expression on Yunwei's face. Instead, she was even more depressed than she had just been.
"Yunwei, what's wrong with you?"
"Xiaolu, you don't know..." Yunwei pursed her lips tightly, hesitating whether to tell Xiaolu what she had been holding in her heart for so long that she almost couldn't breathe.
"Huh?" Xiaolu didn't urge her, she just looked at her sincerely.
"Xiao, Xiaolu, some words are difficult to say. I don't know how to tell you!"
"Yunwei, if you think it will make you feel happier if you tell me, just tell me. I think if you keep some things in your heart for a long time, you will get bored!" Although Xiaolu usually looks carefree, she comforts her.
She is very gentle when she gets up, and people will always tell her their inner troubles inadvertently.
"Xiaolu, I...actually want a child, but Jingchen thinks that we have only been married for less than two years, and we are both still young, so it is too early to have a child. Moreover, once we have a child, our world will be different.
It will be affected, and I feel that after a woman has a child, she will often focus on the child and ignore her husband."
"Yunwei, Jing Chen really cares about you. He must be afraid that if you have a child, you will share your love for him with your son. Being loved so deeply by a man, I really don't know if it is a bad thing or a good thing.
"
Yunwei was immersed in her own thoughts and did not listen to Xiaolu's words at all. She continued: "But, I really want to have a baby. Every time I stay at home with nothing to do and feel bored, I just think about it.
How wonderful it would be to have a baby. Looking at the baby's appearance and listening to the baby's laughter, I think my world will be very fulfilling and happy."
Seeing Yunwei's longing and expectant smile when she talked about the baby, Xiaolu suddenly felt that Jingchen's love for her was very selfish. He only thought about himself and didn't even think about Yunwei.
It doesn't matter if you are satisfied materially. If you are spiritually and spiritually empty, the trauma caused to people can be very fatal.
In that case, what he gave Yunwei was not happiness, but pain.
So, after thinking about it, she said to Yun Wei: "Since you want a child so much, then work hard to have one."
"How to fight for it? I have told Jingchen openly and secretly several times that I want a child, but as soon as I mention the child, his mood becomes very depressed, and he is not even interested in talking to me anymore... Instead, he ignores me.
He stood aside, turned his back to me, and ignored me. This made me uncomfortable. I was wondering if I was too eager and made him feel upset. He felt that I was a woman who only thought about myself and didn't care about his feelings.
Got it!"
Seeing Yunwei's expression of sadness and self-reproach, Xiaolu couldn't help but sigh and said to her: "Yunwei, I think it's not that you don't care about Jingchen's feelings, but that Jingchen is selfish and only thinks about himself.
, without considering your feelings. I feel that your current life is not happy at all, or even very bad. You love Jing Chen so much that you unknowingly center on him and live according to his ideas.
, and gradually lost myself.”
"Xiaolu..." Yunwei wanted to retort, but her throat was too dry to say a word.
"Yunwei, I think you should stop being so obedient to Jing Chen. Living according to his ideas will be very tiring!"
"But, I love him so much and don't want to do anything to make him unhappy."