By the sixth day of the holiday, the parents had stopped making trouble at school. They calmly came to the school and the public security bureau every day to learn more about the case. Unfortunately, they still went there full of expectations and came back full of disappointment.
What made them calm was that they put down all their work and focused all their energy on their children. In Class 9, the parents gathered together again. The principal was still sitting on the podium and was unsmiling, while the parents were in a state of confusion.
A state of absent-mindedness.
In the past few days, they have scolded them, hated them, and done anything to get their children back, but they cannot get their children back. The news they got from the Public Security Bureau is that their children will come back in seven or eight days.
That's why they are so calm now. Today is the sixth day.
Counting the seven days of National Day and the time when their children are in school, they have not seen their children for nearly a month. You can imagine their disappointment.
Sometimes they wish they could walk into the Public Security Bureau and cut Teacher Cang into pieces, but sometimes they suddenly no longer hate Teacher Cang. It is conceivable that if it were not for the National Day holiday, they would put their children in school for two days a month.
Months without any worries.
Because they were relieved, and now that they learned that they had skipped class, they couldn't help but worry, but they didn't reflect much.
"Poor parents in the world, your children are your darlings. I know you are anxious, but I am also anxious. In fact, Teacher Cang told me about his plan at the beginning, but what I didn't expect was that he didn't
Come back at the scheduled time." The principal suddenly said.
This sentence did not cause an uproar among the parents. Some parents had already guessed something these days, but when they actually learned about the situation, they still started talking about it.
"The principal also has a daughter. How would you feel if your daughter was taken by the teacher to skip classes during the college entrance examination?" Su Xiuxiu's mother said.
Hearing this, the principal looked at Sun Liping who was standing aside. The father and daughter looked at each other. The principal's eyes showed remorse and guilt, while Sun Liping thought of her rebellious days. At that time, she hated herself in her heart.
My father is almost a troubled girl. She has done such things as skipping school more than once.
In fact, she skipped class not for fun, but to attract her father's attention and hope that his father would care about her. This was her original purpose.
Thinking of Canglong taking the students to skip classes, and it was still a pilot class for the third grade of high school, this would naturally cause anxiety among parents. She seemed to understand Canglong's intentions. It seemed that she had been wrongly blaming Canglong these days, but she
Although I understand Canglong's intention, I don't understand what his purpose is. Can attracting parents' attention change the traditional ideas that have been deeply ingrained in their minds?
"If it were me in the past, I would be worried, but it's useless to worry. You all hate Teacher Cang. He took away your children in front of this result and delayed their classes. It is very likely that
It will affect your future studies, but have you ever thought about yourselves?" the principal suddenly said.
This class is for parents. It is also part of Canglong's burning youth plan. Only the principal's words can be listened to by these parents.
"We?" the parents looked at each other, "What did we do wrong? We put our children in school just to study, so that they can succeed in the future and suffer less. Are we wrong? What you said, principal, is a bit inappropriate.
We’re on the right track.”
A group of parents were noisy and disagreed with the principal's point of view.
The principal raised his hand to signal them to be quiet, and then said: "Are you really not wrong? I remember when Teacher Cang held a parent-teacher meeting for you, she told you that parents are the best teachers for their children. You gave birth to them
, you have the responsibility to educate them. You are the closest people to them and the people who can inspire them the most, but have you fulfilled this responsibility?"
After he finished speaking, he looked at the parents. After hearing this, the parents all looked at each other. After a while, one parent said: "We are busy, and there is nothing we can do. Otherwise, how can we put our children in school?"
What about studying? Principal, you are shirking your responsibility."
"Yes, you are shirking responsibility!" some parents said stubbornly.
"Shirking responsibility?" The principal smiled bitterly and shook his head, "If you think so, then I don't want to convince you. I just want to ask you a question. I keep saying it's for the children, but have you ever respected their choices? Keep saying it.
Some people say that studying is harder now so that children can suffer less in the future, but are you still giving them less hardship now?"
"This..." Parents looked at each other. They didn't understand what the principal meant. They felt that these words should not come from the principal's mouth.
"You place your trust in your children to change your family's destiny and things that you have not been able to do before. Little do you know that this kind of trust is the greatest suffering for them. You still call it pressure to be motivated," the principal said.
The expression is solemn.
"Principal Sun, we don't agree with what you say. We want our children to have a good future. What's wrong? We hope that he can go to a good university and get a good job in the future so that he won't be laughed at indifferently.
, why is this wrong? Why are you putting all the blame on us?" Ye Qiu's mother stood up and said.
"That's right, what the principal said is indeed a bit excessive. The people who caused today's situation are that teacher Cang and the principal for your blind indulgence." The resentment in the hearts of the parents also came out.
"Pa" the principal picked up the ruler and knocked on the table. He suddenly stood up. The solemn look on his face frightened everyone. His piercing eyes swept across all the parents coldly, and finally guessed: "You think the school
Is it your nursery? Everyone keeps saying that they are busy and saying that they are busy for the sake of the children, but are you really busy? Do you really have no time? Or are you tired of it and don’t want to take on this responsibility at all? "
The parents were all silenced by the principal's angry words.
"Think about it each of you. Which of your parents doesn't treat the school as an adult nursery?" the principal looked at them and asked.
The parents all stopped talking. Sometimes they were too busy with work and were really worried about their children. They wished they were away from home all day, but they were also worried that they would go out to study badly, so school is the best place to go. I would use an adult nursery to describe it.
It seems most appropriate.
"Let me tell you what's good about you?" The principal sat down again and calmed down his anger for a while before saying, "The importance of family education is not just to establish a correct value for the children, but you should also give them the warmth they need.
, Some of today’s children have been boarding since junior high school, and their time at home is not as long as that in school. From high school to college, the time at home is even shorter. When one day they enter the society, they will be far away from you.
It will only get further and further away. Many parents say that today's children are not filial, but I think the reason why they are not filial is caused by you parents, because when they were growing up, you alienated them and they should have had a family.
When it's warm, you leave them in school and use them as a nursery. Will they be able to be filial to you in the future?"
After saying that, the principal looked at the parents, and some parents even whispered: "Our children would never be like this."
"Your children won't be like this?" The principal suddenly laughed, "Haha, people often hold on to such luck and expectations, but when it really happens to you, you regret it. China is a country that has valued family ties since ancient times.
It is a country of filial piety, but in today’s society, there are still few incidents of patricide between sons and mothers? Isn’t this enough to alert you? Children can ride on their parents’ heads and slap their parents before they grow up, which is not enough to make us
Are these reflections on being a parent?”
"Now you are giving them cold things. What they will give you back in the future may be piles of cold things. They will not be with you because they did not feel the warmth of family when they were growing up. How can they give back to you?"
Are you warm?" The principal looked at the parents and fell silent.
Almost all the parents lowered their heads. For a moment, they thought of the lesson Teacher Cang taught them at the parent-teacher conference. Although they listened to it at the time, they forgot it later because Teacher Cang was too young and said
The words that came out were not enough to convince them, but the principal's words were enough to convince them.
Especially some of the things happening in today's society have made them feel the horror of their children's future. Parents are being ridiculed by their children. If parents don't buy certain things for their children, they will be slapped by their children. There are even parents who persuade their children to
After just a few words, he was stabbed to death by a child with a knife. This kind of tragic ethics happened in reality, not in fantasy.
This kind of thing seldom happened in the past, but why does it happen now? Because parents give their children too little love and too many material things.
Even if some children are not so vicious, when they grow up in the future, most of them will not want to live with their parents. When the children grow up, they think that giving money to their parents is the best reward for them, because this is what their parents expect.
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In fact, as parents get older, what they want is for their children to stay with them more and experience the warmth of family.
However, this kind of hope often turns into extravagant hope, and it turns into despair until death, because when children grow up.
"Many successful people in today's society have said something with emotion: They want to raise their children but their parents are no longer around. The moment their parents leave, they realize what they should have experienced in their youth, and then they think of how good their parents were to them when they were young.
But it's too late, but that's only limited to the kindness you treated them when they were young. In their youth memories, there is almost no warmth from their parents, so how can they remember it?" The principal's last words were gentle.
He looked guiltily at Sun Liping who was standing aside, but Sun Liping lowered her head and shed tears alone.
She never thought that her stubborn father would actually say such words...