"If you don't accept it, then tell me, why are you a man? What does a man in your mind look like? Just a leader?" Cang Long looked directly at Tang Long unceremoniously.
So Tang Long stopped talking. He originally had many words to define in his heart, but in the end he found that he couldn't use any of them. It seemed that Cang Long's last "take the handle" was reasonable, but he was unwilling to admit this definition in public.
, if you admit it, it would be equivalent to agreeing with Cang Long's previous statement, that he is just an animal with lower body.
At this moment, he suddenly felt that it was a mistake for him to stand up, and he felt very uncomfortable in his heart. He even hated Canglong for forcing him to such an embarrassing situation. Wasn't it just that he had a few arguments with Wang Jiao?
"Sit down." Cang Long said suddenly. He knew that his words would hurt Tang Long a lot, but he had to say these words. Also, this was not because he was protecting Wang Jiao.
Hearing this, Tang Long sat down unhappily, but the glances around him made him feel like needles were pricking him. At this moment, Cang Long picked up the chalk and wrote eight words on the blackboard. These eight words were divided into
There are four characters in a group, one is that men are superior to women, and the other is chivalry.
He let the students look at it for a long time before he said: "I think you have all heard of these two phrases. The first one can represent the relationship between men and women in Chinese history, and the second one can represent the relationship between men and women in British history.
, even now, these two words can still describe the relationship between men and women in China and the relationship between men and women in the UK."
"Teacher, what you are talking about is ancient times, modern China is not like this." Suddenly a boy heard what Cang Long wanted to say and said unconvinced.
"Then please tell me, why no one among the girls in the class defines virginity, but the boys must define virginity?" Canglong asked, staring at the student.
So the boy in the whole class was immediately speechless, and then lowered his head.
"Human history is constantly moving towards civilization and etiquette. We often claim that we are a country of etiquette, we often claim that we are a great country, and we often claim that we have five thousand years of civilization, but we have never thought that in these five thousand years of civilization,
, Chinese men have always ignored their women, and even in modern times they still pass most of their responsibilities onto women, while they proudly say that they are men, that they are real men, that they are men." Canglong said, looking at
To every boy, "I like Chinese culture very much, but I don't agree with that bullshit saying that men are superior to women, and I believe you don't agree either, right?"
This time, no one among the boys nodded or shook their heads. The atmosphere in the class was not as hip-hop as before, but more serious. The girls were all excited. It was obvious that Teacher Cang was going to give them this time.
Come forward and severely criticize these self-righteous "macho men".
But soon they discovered that this was not the case. Canglong did not criticize them harshly, but his tone became softer: "We call ourselves a great country, and we also know that there is an island country in Europe called the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland. It used to be
The most powerful country in the world is known as the Empire on which the Sun Never Sets. It still implements a feudal constitutional monarchy, but the men in this country rarely bully their women and behave in front of women.
They are more humble and elegant, and there is no concept of the so-called male superiority and female inferiority. Men in this country believe in chivalry, and the most important thing in chivalry is respect for women."
Cang Long said and looked at the boys, but there were still many who were unconvinced. Tang Long stood up immediately and said, "Teacher Cang, do you want to teach us to worship foreigners?"
"That is, the British have British traditions, and we Chinese have Chinese traditions. Why should we learn from a small Western country? After all, Britain is no longer an empire on which the sun never sets. It has become history."
One of the boys muttered.
"Worship foreigners? Tradition? No need to learn from small countries?" Cang Long looked at Tang Long and some unconvinced boys with a sympathetic face and said, "I remember that the emperors of the Qing Dynasty in the past had almost the same ideas as you, but they just expressed
It’s different. The emperor of the Qing Dynasty believed that China at that time was a great country and must be surrendered by all countries. But who would have thought that in the Opium War, a small country in the eyes of the emperor of the Qing Dynasty would beat the great country to the point where it could survive. But now you tell me,
Don’t you have to learn from others? Do you want to follow your own traditions?”
Hearing this, the boys suddenly stopped talking. They even felt that what they had just said was really stupid. They sitting here were like the emperors who were sitting in the capital. Yelang was arrogant and looked down on a small country on the map, but in the end he
He was beaten to the last breath by this small country.
"If Chinese traditions are all about men being superior to women, I think it's okay not to follow them." Cang Long looked at them and said coldly.
The whole classroom was thinking about the lingering sound of Cang Long's words just now, and then everyone's breathing could be heard in silence. The boys finally stopped refuting, and even the anger on Tang Long's face disappeared a lot.
"Obviously, China's traditional culture is not just about the ugliness of men being superior to women, but also virtues worthy of our admiration. It's just that you are not willing to learn these virtues, because in this modern Chinese society, we
Men, just like in ancient times, put more responsibilities on women. It seems that men and women are equal, but when you call yourself "men", have you really given equality to women?" Canglong asked.
"But does this have anything to do with the quarrel between Wang Jiao and I?" Tang Long suddenly asked.
"It has a big relationship." Cang Long looked at him and his expression suddenly softened, "Because Chinese women rarely require that their significant other must be a virgin, while most Chinese men do extravagantly require that their women be virgins. You
Don’t you think it’s a big deal? Do you think it’s equal?”
"That's because of themselves..." Tang Long blurted out, but suddenly found that the girls around him were looking at him fiercely, so he swallowed his words again.
"They are the ones who want to give their bodies to men, right?" Cang Long looked directly at Tang Long without hesitation, and suddenly laughed, "It's so funny and childish, don't you think there is a kind of saying grapes when you can't eat grapes?
Do you mean sour? You can call a girl who is not a virgin "sexy", but let me tell you, men desire "sex" more than women. According to your statement, men are actually "sexier" than women, at least ten times."
As he said this, Canglong gestured with his fingers.
"Pfft..." Suddenly, all the girls in Class 9 laughed with red cheeks. Although Canglong's words were so naked, the girls felt very comfortable hearing them.
"Or is it just that you are narrow-minded and can't accept this at all?" Canglong saw that his tone was no longer so heavy.
"But there is still the word loyalty in traditional culture. Can you say that this is not a virtue?" Tang Long retorted.
"Loyalty?" Canglong shook his head, "Real loyalty is not the so-called loyalty between virgins and non-virgins, but the loyalty to love and chastity in marriage between men and women. It is a pity that in China, women are still more likely to cheat than men
Much smaller, but the probability of men cheating is ten times that of women, and many men even keep mistresses as a matter of course. Is it because men are unfaithful or women are unfaithful?"
Tang Long was speechless.
"In traditional Chinese culture, there is a modest gentleman's style, and a more simple man's theory. These two views coincide with the Western chivalry. A real man is tolerant and open-minded, brave and upright, and knows how to respect those around him.
Women, this is the real bloody man, and Tang Long, although you have a manly physique, you can't be called a man. At most, you are just a little boy, because your heart is full of childish thoughts; you have a virginity plot, and you are not a man.
It's not your fault, but you can't ask the women around you or your future wife to be virgins. Even if you are a virgin yourself, tell me, are you?" Canglong asked.
Tang Long immediately blushed, a little embarrassed and didn't know how to answer.
"In Western countries, there is no word virgin at all, because they think the word virgin is disrespectful to women, because their men rarely ask their women to be virgins, and their women will have many men in their lives.
Their men will also have many women in their lives. This concept is particularly prominent in the United States. American men generally do not like conservative women. The so-called conservative women are actually virgins in your eyes, because conservative women do not have "sexuality".
"Experience cannot make both parties happy." Canglong looked at them, but found that most of them were blushing.
But Canglong did not stop, but continued: "American women will not even advertise that they are virgins, because for American women, this is a very shameful thing. Of course, I am not telling you this.
I’m not asking girls to learn from them, because traditional Chinese women have the special beauty of traditional women. I just want to tell you that the relationship between men and women is equal. Neither men nor women can ask each other to be something, let alone say it.
What happens to this woman, so does that woman, because this is a very immature performance. For a boy who wants to pursue a girl, such immature performance will only lower your score in her mind."
Tang Long moved his buttocks, as if he wanted to stand up, but under the gaze of everyone, he was worried about something, and finally gritted his teeth, stood up and said to Wang Jiao: "I'm sorry."
At this moment, not only Wang Jiao couldn't believe it, but the entire ninth class couldn't believe it, but Wang Jiao still answered openly: "I shouldn't have scolded your mother. I apologize to you."
Seeing the two of them making peace, Canglong breathed a sigh of relief. He had said so much, but if it didn't have any effect, it would really be a failure.
"The reason why I am telling you this and comparing Chinese culture with Western culture is not to instill anything into you. I just want to tell you that you are already eighteen years old and there are some things you want to say." After a pause.
After a pause, Canglong continued, "There is a big difference between Chinese culture and Western culture. If Tang Long's words were placed in a Western country, no one would say anything about him, and even girls would ogle him. But in China, it would be completely different.
Different, the traditional conservative culture will immediately turn a good girl into a bad girl in your eyes, because the traditional culture has too high requirements for women, and they must maintain the so-called chastity to be considered a good girl.
"
"And the word "Sao" in ancient times represented high integrity. For example, literati poets, Qu Yuan's Li Sao, and tender and affectionate women in Western countries can only be described with this word, so girls don't have to worry about it in the future." Canglong
He smiled and said, "Okay, now everyone open the textbook..."