The feeling of meeting Principal Sun this time is a little different from the last time I saw him. This difference is not because Principal Sun has become old after his retirement. On the contrary, after his retirement, he has lived a happy life and feels radiant.
Maybe without the worries about school, people would become much younger.
This suddenly made Canglong think of a very realistic phenomenon. Why do women age quickly after getting married, especially women who have given birth to children? This is a very sad thing.
When Principal Sun saw Cang Long arriving, he quickly put down the book in his hand, took off his reading glasses, walked to the living room, and made tea. After a long silence, Principal Sun said: "You haven't been quiet lately."
"Teacher Sun, have you told him?" Canglong thought of Sun Liping. In fact, he felt that the reason why he felt different when meeting Principal Sun this time was because of the scene where he peeped at Sun Liping last night, and he always felt a little sorry for Principal Sun.
"What can she tell me?" Principal Sun shook his head, "But she always looks sad every time she comes here. I know things at the school are not going well. Why don't you just come with me to make family arrangements when you have nothing to do?
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"Director Yan told me something today. I'm conflicted right now, so I came here to find you to help me clarify my doubts." Canglong took a sip of tea and felt a little bitter. After swallowing it, he felt a little bitter.
It's sweet and refreshing, "Tea is really the taste of life."
"This is good old tea. I won't brew it for ordinary people." Principal Sun looked at Canglong with a smile, "I'm really surprised, what can make you conflicted?"
"I'm not a machine without feelings. Of course there are times when there are conflicts, and once a person falls into a knot, ten cows can't pull him back." Canglong smiled at himself, and then told what happened in the school recently and Director Yan's words.
Repeated it again.
After Principal Sun heard this, he did not speak immediately. Instead, he drank tea and became silent. Canglong could tell Principal Sun his inner thoughts, that is, he trusted him. Of course, he would not settle the matter with a few perfunctory words, and this time Canglong
Come here, the feeling given to Principal Sun is completely different.
"You have changed and become more humane." Principal Sun suddenly said, "This may be the reason for your contradictions."
"Well!" Cang Long's heart moved, and he said with a free and easy expression, "People always have to say goodbye to the past, no matter whether it was good or bad, because what matters is the future."
"Too many people pay attention to the future and care too much about the past, but they forget the present. There is an old saying in China, which is called "The master leads the door, and the practice depends on the individual." You are too concerned about the past and face the future too directly, so you ignore it.
Now, actually you should let it go." Principal Sun said with a smile.
"Let it go? How to let it go?" Canglong was even more conflicted.
"Just like parents, they have devoted their efforts to their children and may have placed their hopes on them, so they cannot let go from the beginning. They are closely related to each other. It is difficult for parents to make up their minds to make decisions and let go of them.
"You don't care about your children, but being a teacher is different. After all, teachers are not related by blood, so you have to know how to let go." Principal Sun said, took another sip of tea, and said slowly, "Just like this tea, you have to let it go."
Only in this way can you appreciate the taste of it. You can't let go of the students, so now you have become like the parents. You have actually placed a future on them, just like you used to and
I said, that is your future, not their future."
"Yes!" Canglong nodded. He somewhat understood what the principal wanted to say. As the saying goes, the master leads the door and cultivation depends on oneself. His previous indifferent character made him not care about how the students were. Everything was fine.
He was doing it according to a standard, but now he has poured his emotions into it, so he has become contradictory and emotional.
Principal Sun told him that he had done enough and done well enough. He should not lead the students to taste the remaining taste, but let them try to taste it themselves. This is letting go.
"My feelings are becoming more and more unnecessary." Canglong shook his head mockingly. Principal Sun's words made him wake up. In fact, according to his plan, now is the time to let the students taste their lives.
, what the teacher does for them is just to lay a foundation, and at critical moments, he can step in to guide them.
"This is human nature. People are perfect only if they have feelings. People are really terrible if they don't have feelings. What I felt in you before was a kind of indifference to the state of the world. This cannot be changed by anything you do.
, but comes from your inner temperament, but now I am very happy to feel that the emotion in you, although it is redundant to many people, now is also the time for you to taste this emotion yourself." Sun
The principal drank tea and looked at him without worrying at all.
"That rule?" Canglong thought of that rule again.
"The word "forbearance" has a knife on its head." Principal Sun suddenly spoke solemnly, "What Director Yan said is right. Sometimes people have to be diplomatic and flexible. If they want to live in this world, sometimes they have to abide by it.
Some values consider it to be "right" rules, such as law. Legal rules restrict people's extreme desires, but most people abide by them because people long for psychological stability, so these are right rules.
And some other rules hidden in the dark are more attractive than the real rules. Although our values tell us that we cannot abide by these rules, once there is a chance, nine out of ten will support such rules. Such rules
Rules that can be called evil are what we should fight against."
"Good and evil!" Canglong chewed on these two words. In his previous values, there was no so-called good and evil, because he looked at the world from a relatively high perspective, and now he is looking at it from a higher perspective.
He is just a teacher, so all the rules and regulations around him are nothing to him.
However, what Principal Sun wanted to tell him was that some rules do not necessarily require resistance, because no one will support the consequences of resistance. For example, breaking the law is not tolerated by the world's moral values, and it is also an infringement.
What is most beneficial to them is that precisely because such rules exist, this seemingly uneasy society is actually stable.
"So you don't need to take that standard seriously at all, and there is no need to fight against it. Even if you don't agree in your heart that you are following this rule, don't you think so?" Principal Sun asked with a serious face.
"Yes!" Canglong nodded. No one is really willing to abide by the correct rules, but everyone knows that without the correct rules, a stable order cannot last forever, so although they are not willing, they still remain silent.
Be supportive because it benefits everyone.
"It seems that I am too stubborn." Canglong shook his head.
"I want to ask you something very important." Principal Sun suddenly looked solemn.
"What?" Canglong was a little strange.
"How do you feel about Liping?" Principal Sun asked.
"Teacher Sun." Hearing this, Canglong thought of what happened last night and Sun Liping's figure, and subconsciously said, "Not bad, very good, very good."
"Really?" Principal Sun said seriously.
"Um..." Canglong suddenly came to his senses, because now Principal Sun's expression was exactly the same as Secretary Yu's at that time. He seemed to understand something, and quickly changed the subject, "What do you think about the upcoming Feng
What does the principal think?"
"Well!" Principal Sun sighed. He originally wanted to give his daughter a try. Principal Sun's impression of Canglong was completely different from Secretary Yu. At least in terms of character, Canglong was very suitable for entrustment. However, Principal Sun
I also know that there are really too many women around Canglong.
The reason why he brought his daughter to Yu Xue to share a house was actually to give his daughter a chance. But now it seems that Canglong seems to be very shy about this matter. Apparently he has made a clear choice in his heart.
Children's affairs take their own course. Principal Sun did not ask further questions. Instead, he talked about Principal Feng who was about to take office. After a while, he said: "He is a teacher who has a traditional style but does not lose the modern flavor. However,
That was when he was young, I don’t know what he is like now.”
"Oh." Canglong nodded, and then the two of them chatted a lot. There seemed to be no age barrier between the two. Sometimes Principal Sun acted like a young and energetic person, while sometimes Canglong acted like an old man with a very harsh tone.
Heavy, if Sun Liping were really here, she would definitely be surprised that her father could actually talk to Cang Long about many irrelevant topics.
After leaving Principal Sun's place, Canglong received a call from Yu Xue. With Wanwan around, it was hard for them to go on a date openly. After all, Wanwan was in the middle. Whenever he saw the two of them having intimate behaviors, he would get angry.
Staring at them hummingly would make a couple feel very embarrassed.
After Wen Wen knew that Cang Long and Yu Xue were close, every time she called her, it was because she was very busy, so busy that she even had no time for Wan Wan. According to Yu Xue, she was actually jealous and refused to give her a call.
They create opportunities.
Originally, Canglong was planning to go to Li Ruomo's new stronghold to explore her, but finally gave up the idea after thinking about it. He walked alone in Dongning City and unknowingly came to a wine door.
In the past, Canglong would only enter wine unless he had a mission, but this time Canglong didn't care.
The whole wine is in a not very prosperous road section, but the important thing is that this place is a traffic pass, and there are good imports and exports around it, so this wine is full of people.
"City Inn." In such a traffic intersection, such a name that exudes modern flavor without losing the traditional Chinese flavor perfectly fits the surrounding environment.
He looked at the wine, and then walked straight in, just like some guests coming and going, but he didn't go to drink, but because this wine was the money-making job he and Wang Jiao had discussed...