Western food etiquette is the most important. For example, when sitting down, your body should be upright, your elbows should not be placed on the table, and your feet should not be crossed. It is better to be at a distance from the table so that it is easy to use tableware. Do not mess with the tableware that has been placed on the table. Put the napkin on the table.
Fold it in half and place it gently on your lap. When using a knife and fork to eat, take it from the outside to the inside. Hold the fork in your left hand and the knife in your right hand. When cutting things, hold the fork in your left hand to hold down the food. Don't hold it in your right hand when drinking soup. Western etiquette
Sip, close your mouth when eating, chew, etc.
In the most formal occasions, there are even rules for people's dress. The woman must wear an evening dress, and the man must be neatly dressed. When entering a restaurant, women have priority. Whether ordering food or wine, the woman should taste it first.
But Canglong doesn't seem to be so particular about it. Although he also knows these etiquettes, he is here to eat, not to follow the rules. Although he is used to Western life, he still has a deep feeling for Chinese traditions.
When ordering food, Wen Wen seemed to be deliberately trying to kill Cang Long and ordered the more expensive ones. Even when the waiter reminded her, she didn't even care. Cang Long and Xiao Wanwan were watching from the side, but they were not interested in her behavior.
Don't care.
After ordering, Wen Wen felt so happy in her heart. It seemed that she had recovered all the losses she had suffered from Cang Long recently. Seeing Wen Wen giggling alone, Cang Long and Wanwan looked at each other, and their expressions were very consistent.
Showing contempt for him, Wen Wen seemed to realize something, but she couldn't get angry in the restaurant.
Seeing the napkin on the table, Wen Wen seemed to want to show off to win Wanwan's favor, so she was about to teach Wanwan how to tie it, but unexpectedly, Wanwan naturally picked up the napkin on the table and tied it on her collar.
Behave freely and show your temperament.
After a while, the dishes were all served, and the table was filled to the brim. People around were surprised by Canglong's dish. When the waiter served the dishes, he gave Wen Wen a special look. Lang is not recommended in Western restaurants.
Instead, what I care about is the scene and atmosphere, the elegant environment and the romantic music. This is the main theme of the Western restaurant. As for the food, it seems to be the foil.
Wen Wen wanted to continue to show off and teach Wanwan how to use a knife and fork, but she didn't expect that Wanwan didn't need her teaching at all. In some places, she was even more proficient than Wen Wen herself. Even Canglong beside her was a little surprised, but he
I am even more certain of my thoughts during the day: Wanwan is definitely not a child from an ordinary family.
She must have received a good education since she was a child, and her habits are completely different from ordinary people. Among the three, Wen Wen is the one who is least accustomed to the style of Western restaurants.
Canglong and Wanwan were eating by themselves without saying anything, but they looked very similar in their manners. They were both familiar with Western-style dining and enjoyed the meal. On the other hand, Wen Wen was the one who cut her teeth.
The steak was a waste of energy. It was obvious that she rarely came to Western restaurants.
"What's Wanwan's full name?" Canglong said abruptly. Wen Wen, who was opposite, finally cut the steak and almost put it in her mouth. The steak was frightened by this sentence and fell on the plate again.
However, this is what she wants to know, because among the hundreds of surnames, the surname Wan does not seem to exist. Even if it does exist, it is ranked outside the hundred, and it is not a popular surname.
"Long Wanwan!" Wanwan wiped her mouth and said calmly.
"Long Wanwan? Do you remember where you live? Where have you been?" Wen Wen asked anxiously, but Wanwan glanced at her and finally stopped talking and started eating by herself, feeling warm.
Wen stomped her feet, causing a strange feeling around her.
However, Wen Wen glanced around with a pair of eyes and showed a bit of ruthlessness, so no one around her dared to look over. She called the waiter again, looked at the drinks column, ordered a bottle of xo, and then
He looked at Canglong angrily, with a look on his face that said, "I'm not angry, I'm not angry."
After a while, the waiter brought red wine and poured it for both of them. Standing aside, Wen Wen picked up the wine glass and drank it in one gulp. She glanced at the waiter and looked as if she was filling it up.
The waiter was extremely dissatisfied with Wen Wen's attitude, but he couldn't do anything. However, he was muttering in his heart, how could such a beautiful girl be so rough, which was in complete contrast to the two opposite her.
Wanwan saw the red wine in their glasses and seemed to want it too. She stared at Canglong and seemed to be saying, I will only drink a little.
Seeing this, Canglong smiled and said to the waiter: "Pour her some."
However, as soon as he finished speaking, Wen Wen said with a slightly drunken face: "What do you mean? She is still so young, how can you give her alcohol? Do you think I don't exist?"
The waiter was also a little embarrassed. Seeing that Wen Wen was wearing a police uniform, if she really poured wine, they would probably be caught. Western restaurants have regulations and cannot sell alcohol to minors, even if their parents are present.
"Red wine is warm in nature and can soothe the nerves!" Canglong just said lightly, and then motioned to the waiter to pour it.
The waiter was hesitant at first, but after seeing Canglong's firm gaze, he didn't dare to shirk. He didn't even care about the restaurant's rules and poured a small cup directly.
Wanwan picked up the wine glass with three fingers, put it down to her mouth and took a sip. However, she did not show any strange expression because of the smell of the wine. Instead, she looked like she was enjoying it. That gesture made Wen Wen want to find someone.
When she got into the cracks in the ground, Wanwan acted too calm and ordinary.
It was in stark contrast to the cow drink she had just had. Even the waiter looked at Wanwan with admiration, feeling that this beautiful little girl had an extraordinary temperament.
Although Canglong said a reason that could calm her nerves, Wen Wen decided to settle the score with Canglong later. It was wrong to give alcohol to minors, especially such young children.
"Wanwan, do you still remember where home is?" Canglong asked naturally without squinting, without any intention of intimidation.
"I don't remember!" Wanwan said calmly. It could be seen that Wanwan was very hungry, but she didn't gobble it up. She just chewed it slowly and slowly.
The main reason why Canglong let Wanwan drink alcohol was to let Wanwan relax, remove the layer of guard in her heart, and obtain some useful information from it, so as to help Wanwan find her parents. Moreover, red wine does have a soothing effect.
The effect is not as strong as that of liquor, as long as you don’t drink too much.
Generally, drinking a small sip before going to bed will help you sleep. The stimulation of a little alcohol will also make people feel less alert and say some things they don't want to say in their hearts.
However, Canglong didn't expect that Wanwan actually said she didn't remember. There were two possibilities, one was that Wanwan had lost her memory, and the other was that Wanwan was lying.
Canglong was more willing to believe the first one than the second one, but his intuition told him that Wanwan was lying. If Wanwan lost her memory, she would not clearly remember that her name was Long Wanwan, and her expression was still unclear.
So for sure, Canglong didn't want to go into details. Although he saved Wanwan, it didn't mean that Wanwan would completely believe her. This was also a sense of self-protection.
However, Canglong studies psychology, and he knows very well that most people will drop all their mental defenses and reveal their feelings in such situations. When he is not performing tasks in France, he is usually a psychiatrist, and he is also a very famous one. Even if the patient
Not everyone will reveal their feelings when meeting a psychiatrist.
In the deepest part of their hearts, there is always a layer of alert, which is called "human self-defense" in professional terms. It comes from instinct and subconsciousness, rather than active defense. When someone touches this layer, the human self
Defense will automatically turn on.
Behind human nature's self-defense is the most unspeakable thing for people.
However, this kind of human self-defense can also be broken. Psychiatrists are mainly responsible for treatment, and what they pry into is people's privacy. However, smart psychiatrists are also the most strict-mouthed, and human nature's self-defense is also the strongest, so it will not
Disclosure of patient privacy.
A skilled psychiatrist can even control his subconscious mind and carry out a double-layered defense. To become a psychiatrist, one must have tenacious willpower. Just because of the trust of the patient, he will perform self-suggestion and adjustment even when sleeping to maintain a healthy state of mind.
Best condition.
Human nature's self-defense usually only appears after the accumulation of time and changes in human relationships and accidents. Children have almost no self-defense because their hearts are innocent. In their eyes, there is nothing that cannot be said.
, there is an old saying in China that is very good, and Canglong likes it the most, that is "Children's words are unbridled"
What made Canglong think deeply was why Wanwan had human self-defense at such a young age. This usually only takes shape at the age of fourteen or fifteen or seventeen or eighteen, which is adolescence.
He thought of his own experience, that is, his teacher and client helped him establish human self-defense from the external environment since he was a child. Moreover, Canglong established this kind of defense at a very young age, and his self-awareness was very open.
morning.
However, Wanwan has this kind of human self-defense, because as far as he knows, only certain important people will build up such human psychological defense for their children since childhood, and open up their self-awareness, just for the sake of their children.
For the sake of safety, once the child is kidnapped or otherwise, this layer of psychological defense will turn on itself, forming a state of distrust of everything outside.
Moreover, the child is not sensible. Once she identifies something, this psychological defense will never be activated unless she meets someone she is truly familiar with and feels she can trust.
Thinking of all this, Canglong couldn't help but feel that this matter was difficult. Whether it was Wanwan's behavior or her temperament, it told Canglong that she was not an ordinary child, but that's it. At best, it was reminiscent of
Wanwan's family is probably very rich.
But that's all. However, human self-defense is completely different. This must be established from an early age, and it also requires extremely skilled psychologists. Such psychologists have generally experienced many great hardships and understand the changes in people's hearts very well. Like ordinary psychology,
Doctors read most things from books and have never experienced it themselves. It is impossible to open this kind of self-awareness to children. It is even difficult for them to come into contact with this kind of advanced psychology throughout their lives.
For a moment, Canglong had mixed feelings in his heart. Why did Wanwan appear here? If her parents were some important figures in China, then who would dare to risk the disdain of the world to offend such a figure?
"Who is she? What is involved behind this child?" Canglong became wary, but he knew that no matter what conspiracy behind it, it had nothing to do with Wanwan herself...