Marriage does not necessarily follow the principle of reciprocity, but most marriages with huge disparities in background are unlikely to have a happy outcome. Although there may be short-term sweetness in the early stages, in the end, they are generally destined to end.
A dismal ending.
A long time ago, there was a saying that poor and humble couples were miserable. Even in folk slang, there was a saying of "poor energy". When people are poor, they are only angry all day long, so the existence of miserable couples.
On the surface, marriage seems to be a matter between two people, but in fact it is not:
If the family backgrounds of the two parties are too different, even if the marriage is successful, the subsequent events will be very stressful and troublesome. There seem to be many such examples:
Chu Jingxuan is a very smart girl, so she will not immediately refute Ye Kai's statement, but will fall into deep thinking.
What Ye Kai said may not be very pleasant to listen to, but he definitely had no ill intentions.
He just stated some facts in the aristocratic family circle very frankly. With family conditions like Chu Jingxuan's, it is not easy to find someone who can be worthy of her. It is an unequal family.
In between, it is inevitable that there will be a one-sided situation.
Especially in a large family like the Chu family, one of the few in the Republic, a son-in-law without a certain background would probably end up being discriminated against and suppressed, which Chu Jingxuan could not tolerate.
And Chu Jingxuan couldn't bear that her future husband would depend on the Chu family to get by.
After such calculations, Chu Jingxuan found with some sadness that it was really difficult to select a prospective husband who could enter the Chu family's door.
Even if you meet someone you like, you won't care about his origins, but if the other person doesn't care about his family, then he may be an extremely selfish person. If the other person cares, then he will live in Chu forever.
Under the huge shadow of home, no matter what, this will be an emotional drama destined to end in tragedy."
Or, what you said makes some sense..." Chu Jingxuan sighed. She observed Ye Kai carefully and found that Ye Kai's expression at this time did not show any frivolity or impetuousness, but a rare expression in Yihe.
The solemnity and calmness made her feel a little distracted.
Or maybe the reason why she walked downstairs so duplicitously today was because deep down in her heart, the subconscious mind as mentioned to Ye Kai was at work? Chu Jingxuan thought about it, but after all, she still couldn't figure out her true intentions.
How exactly?"
Think about it carefully, I am very serious." Ye Kai said softly when he saw that Chu Jingxuan was deep in thought.
For Chu Jingxuan, the eldest lady of the old Chu family, one of the most proud girls in the capital, after Ye Kai first met her, apart from a hint of admiration for her beauty and grace, the rest was pity. If she
Such a girl, unfortunately, falls into the trap of family marriage and is tied up with a person she doesn't want to have sex with. She is afraid that she will never have any happy time in her life.
Relatively speaking, Ye Kai felt that his appearance was an opportunity for Chu Jingxuan's fortune. At least Ye Kai believed that he was Chu Jingxuan's only good match.
Of course, if she were a little older than Chu Jingxuan, she probably wouldn't be as confused as she is now.
In the final analysis, this is just a mental obstacle for young girls in love with spring. In fact, as long as they accept it, it is not difficult to overcome it.
Ye Kai quietly walked out of the house. Chu Jingxuan was deep in thought and didn't even notice.
Comrade Chu Feng and Chu Yunsong were on the top floor, and through the floor-to-ceiling glass, they saw Ye Kai walking out and driving away."
What do you think will be the outcome of their discussion today?" Comrade Chu Feng asked."
It's hard to say." Chu Yunsong thought for a while and said... "But since Xiao Jing is willing to go downstairs to see Ye Kai and is dressed up nicely, I guess the conversation won't break down. As for Ye Kai's performance
How, that is unknown:..."
"Ye Kai's performance is probably not bad." Comrade Chu Feng said... "Just watch him turn his hands into clouds and rain, and crowd out the old Chen family with no way out, you can know how good he is.
Awesome…”
In this way..." Chu Yunsong hesitated a little after hearing this... "But is such a person really a good match for Xiaojing?"
As Chu Jingxuan's father, Chu Yunsong is more concerned about his daughter's lifelong happiness than anything else:
From a political point of view, Ye Kai's wisdom is naturally impeccable and far above ordinary people. He is a future star who cannot conceal his brilliance. However, from the perspective of marriage life, it is difficult for Chu Yunsong to believe that he can
To do things well, even if his daughter has a prestigious status like the eldest lady of the old Chu family, she may not be able to suppress him.
If there are problems in their marriage life in the future, Chu Yunsong will obviously not be able to let it go."
If you want to know the result, why don't you just go downstairs and ask?" Comrade Chu Feng saw his son sitting there struggling, so he waved his hand and said."
That's true." Chu Yunsong nodded and went downstairs."
Xiaojing, how was the conversation?,... When Chu Yunsong went downstairs, he saw his daughter leaning on the sofa
Face, with two big eyes open, thinking about something intently." Dad: ...Chu Jingxuan answered, but she looked a little lazy. It was obvious that the conversation with Ye Kai just now made Chu Jingxuan
Jingxuan felt a little confused in her heart. She needed some time to talk about these issues and think them over clearly. "The boy didn't say anything too much, did he?" Chu Yunsong asked with some concern: "
Of course not. With just a few words, your daughter's inherent thoughts were shattered into pieces." Chu Jingxuan rolled her eyelids and replied helplessly..." But if you think about it carefully, what he said does make some sense.
…”
Then do you think his external conditions are acceptable?" Chu Yunsong asked."
External conditions?" Chu Jingxuan thought for a while and said... "It should be considered outstanding. At least among the aristocratic families in the capital, no one can match him. It's just that I feel that he is a bit sharp now, which may not be a good thing.
Son, at least until he reaches a certain height, being too dazzling will do him no good."
Chu Yunsong nodded and agreed:
It is true that Ye Kai is excellent, but at his current age, if he shows his unusual side in front of everyone and makes everyone lose their luster, leaving only him to shine, I guess everyone will not feel very comfortable in their hearts.
, especially young people of the same class.
From this aspect, Chu Jingxuan’s vision is also very precise."
Even if the external conditions are passed, what are the internal conditions like? Do you feel at ease?" Chu Yunsong asked again."
How can it be so easy to see a person's nature?" Chu Jingxuan gently stroked her head, thinking of Ye Kai's performance today, and the way he looked at herself with his eyes in fear today, and suddenly said something
..." At least he's not a hypocrite. I can't see anything more profound: ... After hearing this, Chu Yunsong felt that his daughter's evaluation of Ye Kai was still very high. There has never been a young man of the same level.
People have received such comments from Chu Jingxuan, which at least shows that Ye Kai has indeed entered his daughter's heart. Although it is still unclear whether it will come to the future, but for the old Chu family and the old Ye family, Chu Jing
Xuan's slight affection for Ye Kai is likely to be an important fulcrum in changing the relationship between the two families.
The cooperation between the Ye and Chu families is inevitable and this cannot be denied.
Since Comrade Chu Feng gave up on the old Chen family, the Chu clique's influence in the center has indeed become much weaker. It is unable to face Comrade Fang He and his group head-on. Even its influence over Comrade Jiang Cheng has become much weaker.
In today's center, almost all the forces of all parties are being weakened. Only Comrade Jiang Cheng holds the orthodox name of justice. His power will become stronger and stronger. For Comrade Chu Feng, this is also a matter that needs to be cautious.
issues to consider.
In order to unify the voice within the party, centralization of power is necessary, but this kind of thing needs to be controlled within a certain range, otherwise, absolute power will easily lead to absoluteness, which Comrade Chu Feng cannot tolerate.
Therefore, the attitude and support of the old Ye family are very crucial.
On the surface, the marriage between Ye Kai and Chu Jingxuan is just a matter between the two families. In fact, if you think about it in depth, you can see the good intentions of Comrade Chu Feng. Through the elder Ye in the family,
use the power of the country to change the composition of central power and strive to maintain the balance of forces at a more appropriate node.
With such a political purpose, the marriage of Chu Jingxuan and Ye Kai certainly cannot be hindered by other obstacles.
But relatively speaking, Chu Yunsong hopes that his daughter can live happily. This is the most important thing.
Therefore, Chu Yunsong quickly told his father about his daughter's views on Ye Kai."
Not enough precipitation?" Comrade Chu Feng laughed after hearing this.
Comrade Chu Feng felt a little relieved about his granddaughter Chu Jingxuan's vision. She was very accurate!
Ye Kai's current problem is indeed that he is not settled enough. Just floating on the top, of course, has the momentum to guide the country, but in terms of future development, it may not be a good thing, so this point pointed out by Chu Jingxuan,
It is very important for Ye Kai's future growth.
It is a pity that Chu Jingxuan is a girl. Otherwise, the old Chu family would not give up the key training of the third generation. After all, if a girl wants to pursue an official career, she is inherently deficient. Even if she can succeed, the price she has to pay is too high.
There is no happiness at all, so the old Chu family would rather put their future in Chu Jingxuan's future husband.
In fact, this difference is not big, because aside from the political bargaining chip, not many people can match the economic influence of the old Chu family."
Then let him settle for three years!" After thinking about it for a while, Comrade Chu Feng finally made a decision.