The victory was so easy this time. Yu Wenhao wanted the prince to take command in front of the battle, but he couldn't learn any practical experience. After he returned, he said to Lao Yuan: "I don't want there to be a war in the country, but in fact war is always unavoidable.
Yes, if there is any chaos in the future, I plan to let the prince go to the battlefield to experience it. After going to the battlefield, he will become much more mature."
Of course, the prince has matured now, but after experiencing war, he will be more aware of the value of peace, especially as an emperor.
As he said in the court, if you forget to fight, you will be in danger. Once you get used to living a happy life, and the monarchs, ministers and people of the country feel that the war has nothing to do with them, then hard times will come.
Yuan Qingling agreed very much, "He has been in the army for a while, but he has always lacked actual combat experience. Although he has become a prince or emperor, he does not need to take command and go on an expedition unless necessary, but we have a sword and do not use it, and we do not have a sword are two different things.
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"I was afraid that you felt sorry for your son and wouldn't agree." Yu Wenhao breathed a sigh of relief.
Yuan Qingling said with a smile: "I feel sorry for my son, but they always have to walk their own path, especially in the future when he will be the emperor and shoulder the responsibility of the entire Northern Tang Dynasty. If you feel sorry for me, just keep it in your heart."
"Well, any one of our children can be independent." Yu Wenhao was talking about the children, and suddenly thought of the three in modern times, "I miss Nuomi and the others a little. I wonder how they are doing in school.
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"I'm going to take grandma back for a checkup in a few days, and I'll take a look at them by the way."
"Do you want me to go with you?"
"That's not necessary. You can save some time off and take two days off when they come back."
Yu Wenhao thought that he was indeed a little busy now, so he said: "Well, please pay attention to your safety."
"I know." Yuan Qingling leaned next to him and talked about the girls' school. She was very satisfied because the ministers who objected have now shut up.
She knew that Lao Wu had contributed a lot to this matter and suppressed the older men who opposed it. Lao Wu once said that he hoped to do his best to open up a living space for women, not just survival.
This made Yuan Qingling very happy and once again determined that she had not married the wrong person.
I couldn't help but praise him a few times. Yu Wenhao laughed and said, "Are you saying now that you didn't marry the wrong person? This child has been born half a dozen times. If you make a mistake, you can't go back."
"If you make a mistake, then let it go to the end." Yuan Qingling said with a smile.
Yu Wenhao hugged her and smiled like a happy fool.
In a few days, Yuan Qingling is preparing to go home.
In fact, it wasn't the day for the check-up yet, but she really missed her parents and sons, so she went back to see them while she had some free time now.
It is really difficult for a daughter who is married far away. Every time she goes back, it feels like moving. She wants to move back all the things she likes.
Lao Wu watched her packing her things, and listened to her nagging, and said reluctantly: "The best thing is me, isn't it? You might as well take me back."
"This joke is a bit outdated."
"As I get older, I'm not used to separation. I can't get used to being without you for a day." Yu Wenhao looked like an aggrieved child.
"Lying." Yuan Qingling immediately exposed him, "As soon as I left, you immediately went to the palace to drink."
Of course it is not possible to be separated for a long time, but it is necessary to step away for a few days and give each other some space.
No matter how loving a couple is, there will be times when they are tired of aesthetics and need to separate occasionally, which can actually promote their relationship.
Yu Wenhao said politely: "I didn't drink. Don't let grandma hear this. She is more serious."
"She doesn't care about you, she only cares about the old people." Yuan Qingling packed up her things, took his hand and sat down, and said seriously: "Maybe in the future, I will leave you and go back there from time to time. My parents are older.
I want to spend more time with them. It’s not enough for them to have my brother and grandson by their side. They will miss me."
Yu Wenhao immediately expressed his understanding. He had actually thought about this matter. His father-in-law and mother-in-law were old. Although they didn't usually talk about it, every time they went back they were so happy that they couldn't sleep all night, so they knew how much they cared about her.
He put away his joking attitude and said: "Then you can stay a little longer when you go back, drink tea with them, and go to the park. You can rest assured from my side."
"Thank you for your understanding." Yuan Qingling threw herself into his arms, her nose a little sore. She had lived a good life these years. Her only regret was that she could not be with her parents.
Yu Wenhao hugged her. She felt uncomfortable, and he felt uncomfortable in his heart, "Don't be like this. It was me who stole the apple of their eye. I am ashamed of them. I will support you in whatever you do."
"Yes!" Yuan Qingling said in his arms with a heavy nasal voice, "Thank you!"