Cheng Baoyun is 30 years old today, 31 years old. He has been married to his wife Qian Yunyu for seven years, but they still have no children.
The reasons are mainly from two aspects. One aspect is the physical reasons of the couple. He has weak sperm and she has a cold uterus. Both of them have problems.
The second reason is that they don't really want children in their hearts. This is the main reason why they have been married for many years and now he is in his early thirties and still has no children.
Otherwise, according to current medical technology, it would not be difficult for them to have a child in this situation.
The underlying reason is that both Cheng Baoyun and Qian Yunyu suffered childhood trauma, and both of them belonged to single-parent families when they were young.
Cheng Baoyun's parents divorced when he was ten years old, and he chose to live with his mother. However, in fact, his mother did not raise him well. Instead, she gave him to his grandparents to raise him. From the age of ten, he was mainly raised by his grandmother.
. His mother did not live with him after the divorce.
When he was a child, when there were parent-teacher meetings, his parents basically didn't attend, only his grandmother or his uncle attended.
This is equivalent to saying that he has lost his father's love and mother's love since he was ten years old, so he has always had a relatively repellent attitude towards marriage, family and even children.
Qian Yunyu was even worse than him. When she was three or four years old, her father abandoned her mother and daughter and ran away with their mistress.
Therefore, she has been wary and disgusted with men since she was a child. Until she met Cheng Baoyun, she was actually the same.
She actually doesn't have much feelings for Cheng Baoyun, but they have been classmates since junior high school, and later in high school. They are also classmates in college. It is difficult for them to know each other or interact with each other. Gradually, they become friends and have some feelings for each other.
learn.
Then, they all reached the age where they were routinely urged to get married.
At that time, Cheng Baoyun was frequently urged to get married and forced into blind dates by his family elders, including his parents. Especially as he grew older, the number and frequency of such events became more and more frequent.
At that time, Qian Yunyu's mother was in poor health and needed to be hospitalized, so she was forced to go on a blind date to urge marriage, otherwise her mother would die in peace.
So, by chance, the two of them thought of each other and thought of one thing.
Both of them knew that each other grew up in single-parent families, and they both resented being urged to get married by their elders, and they didn't want to be bound by marriage.
Then, as soon as the two contacted and communicated, it was natural for them to get married.
Their marriage cannot be said to be fake, nor can it be considered a real deal. Because they are indeed conscientiously fulfilling their obligations and responsibilities as husband and wife.
Including sexual life, filial piety to each other's elders, etc.
Moreover, the two of them had agreed in advance that they would not be able to divorce unless both of them wanted to divorce in the future. Otherwise, even if only one person wanted to divorce, they could not divorce.
Then there is the issue of children. Two people can have children if they agree with each other.
So, almost a year after they got married, seeing that neither of them had made any move, the elders, relatives and friends on both sides started to have a baby.
After discussing with each other, the couple decided that it didn't matter if they gave birth to another child. After all, they didn't need to raise her. They could give it to Qian Yunyu's mother, or simply give it to Cheng Baoyun's grandmother. They were worried that it would be hard for them, so they could just spend money to hire a nanny.
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Based on their financial strength, it is completely affordable.
As a result, their efforts for a while had no effect. After going to the hospital for a checkup, they found out that both of them had some physical problems.
This immediately dampened their enthusiasm for having a baby, and both of them were a little afraid of trouble, so even with the repeated urging of their parents, they did not try it, including in vitro fertilization.
The two of them had a very peaceful attitude, and if they could get pregnant naturally, they would give birth, and if they didn't, they would stop giving birth for the time being.
It's just that after so many years, the two of them still haven't made any babies.
In the final analysis, neither of them are very anxious about their children.
In addition to their own physical reasons, the main reason is that the number of times the two have sex in the past few years is obviously not up to standard for a normal couple.
Sometimes once a month or even once every two months.
The reason is that Qian Yunyu has a cold temperament, and there is no passion when she does what she does. Most of the time, it seems like a routine matter.
Qian Yunyu told Cheng Baoyun about this at the beginning of their marriage, and expressed generously that she had no objection to him looking for women outside, as long as he didn't bring illness or trouble home.
Over the past few years, Cheng Baoyun has done a good job in the two things she asked for, and he has not contracted any disease and has not brought any trouble home.
The reason why he does these two things is that one is that he is very cautious every time, and the other is that he basically stays with good families, and most of them are married women, which is safe enough.
Unfortunately, this time he had an accident and was caught on the spot, and the matter became a bit big.
Later, if his uncle and grandfather had not actively helped to cover the lid, this matter would have been really bad.
The other party also had some background and strength, and later hired a retired leader who was at the same level as his grandfather to be the peacemaker, forcing him to give the other party a reasonable explanation.
He bowed his head to the other party and admitted his mistake, and then paid another 300,000 yuan in compensation to the other party, including medical expenses and mental comfort.
Cheng Baoyun was relatively satisfied with this result. He slept with his wife for so long and finally gave him a concussion. Speaking of which, he felt a little sorry.
If the opponent hadn't hit him with a bottle first, he wouldn't have impulsively struck back and knocked the opponent unconscious.
But no matter what, he must be the party who is at fault. He bows his head and apologizes to admit his mistake, plus a compensation of 300,000 yuan, which is really nothing.
As for the other party's father-in-law later paying another 200,000 yuan out of his own pocket, he had no objection. After all, the money was also counted on him, which made him more sincere.
The lesson he learned this time told him that in the future it is better not to find a married woman who is too close to him. It is better to stay farther away, and it is best not to do things at each other's homes.
It obviously makes sense for rabbits not to eat grass around their nests.
Cheng Baoyun learned this lesson deeply, but his wife Qian Yunyu found out about his incident this time, so she called him directly to inquire. Cheng Baoyun was very puzzled and asked her how she knew.
After all, it only took two or three hours from the time it happened to when she knew about it, and it was impossible for anyone in his family to tell Qian Yunyu. Otherwise, under normal circumstances, the couple would definitely have a big fight, and they might even have a fight.
divorce.
Therefore, his grandparents and uncle would definitely help him hide Qian Yunyu.
But now she knows, someone must have told her on purpose.
Sure enough, Qian Yunyu said that someone called her and told her about it, and it was a man.
Cheng Baoyun made a quick guess and knew that it was You Jiale, the master of suffering. This was also understandable. He slept with his wife, causing disagreements between them and destroying their family. Of course, he wanted to take revenge on him, so he told his husband what happened this time.
, and also caused discord in their family.
In a normal family and wife, if she knew her husband was cheating on her, it goes without saying that she would definitely have a big fight with her husband, or even get divorced directly.
But the marriage relationship between Qian Yunyu and Cheng Baoyun was abnormal from the beginning, including her.
Therefore, You Jiale's whistle-blower revenge will only have limited damage to his and Qian Yunyu's marriage.
But in any case, Cheng Baoyun had violated the two prerequisites Qian Yunyu had set for him, which made her somewhat dissatisfied with him.
"Why do you have a soft spot for married women? Can't you find someone who is single? Or someone who is not married?"
Facing Qian Yunyu's question, Cheng Baoyun was silent for a while and then said: "This was an accident. I promise it won't happen again in the future."
Qian Yunyu said forcefully: "You have violated the two conditions set for you. Therefore, you can no longer look for women outside."
Of course Cheng Baoyun was not happy when he heard this. He frowned and said, "If I don't look for it outside, can you satisfy me?"
"I will introduce you to a colleague from my work unit. She is single with a child. She is a single mother. She is also a good-looking person."
When Qian Yunyu said this, Cheng Baoyun couldn't help but be stunned for a moment, but soon he said: "I want to see the photo first. It's too ugly."
"I'll show it to you after I get home from get off work in the afternoon."
"Ok, I will wait for you."
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After the two hung up the phone, Cheng Baoyun continued to focus on the business plan in front of him. This plan was given to him by a college classmate who was also his partner in starting his first business.
He started his own business after graduating from college. He worked hard on several projects for three or four years, but all ended up at a loss, with a total loss of more than two million.
Fortunately, he had family members to help him, and he didn't have any injuries.
Later, it was his mother who begged him not to start a business again in the future and to just grow old at home, so he gave up his dream of starting a business and completely settled down at home.
But what happened this time gave him a stimulus, and he suddenly felt that he still didn't have enough money, so he wanted to start a business again.
This time, his classmate and partner when he started his first business proposed joining a well-known milk tea shop in an entrepreneurial project, and he felt that it would be a great success.
Just when he was holding the plan book and reading it with gusto, his cell phone rang. He took it over and saw that it was an unfamiliar number. He didn't want to answer it at first, but when he looked carefully at the last four digits of the other party's number, it was 5678.
Still answered.
"Hello, who are you looking for?" Cheng Baoyun asked in a polite tone.
"Are you Cheng Baoyun?"
Chen Feng on the other end of the phone asked naturally.
"It's me, do you have a problem with me?" Cheng Baoyun asked slightly warily.
"That's right, I'm You Jiale's friend. You should know You Jiale, right? He's the one you beat to a concussion today." Chen Feng said in a relaxed tone.
Cheng Baoyun frowned and said: "Haven't we already agreed? I apologized to him and compensated him... 500,000. This is the end of the matter. Tomorrow we will arrange a place to meet, and then I will bow to him.
Admit your mistake and apologize in person. This is enough to give him face."
"He is not satisfied with the result." Chen Feng said bluntly, "You have been sleeping with her wife since last year, right? In the past year, it has been not fifty but sixty times. Just press 10,000 times a time.
, it also costs five to six hundred thousand, right? Not to mention, you hit him on the head and gave him a concussion. Maybe there will be any sequelae in the future. You can’t say for sure what happened to the head, so you should pay compensation.
Three or four hundred thousand, no problem, right? Besides, he has been cuckolded by you for so long, and his soul and reputation have been greatly damaged. You can pay another one or two hundred thousand, isn't it too much?"
Cheng Baoyun became a little angry when he heard these words, frowned and said: "What do you mean? Isn't half a million enough? Do you want one million? This is impossible."
"Why is it impossible? You just want to send him away with 500,000 yuan, which is called impossible. You slept with his wife and injured him. The most appropriate thing is to send you to jail for one or two years. And now he just wants to
It would be generous and righteous enough for you to pay him more money."
"Are you really You Jiale's friend?" Cheng Baoyun expressed doubt.
"Of course." Chen Feng nodded and said in a kind tone, "My name is Chen Feng, the boss of Fengmang Film and Television Company. If you don't believe me, you can contact You Jiale for verification."
Cheng Baoyun didn't know the reputation of Fengmang Film and Television and Chen. After hearing what he said, his frown deepened and he asked angrily: "How much does he want?"
Chen Feng said simply: "One million."
"One million? Why didn't he grab it? His wife is 40 years old. I slept with her, but she took advantage of me. I was willing to give out... 500,000 before, which was already a shame for him. Please help me
Tell him to tell him not to be shameless."
As soon as Chen Feng saw his reaction, he knew that he didn't know his identity and had never even heard of it.
"I think you should ask your grandpa or your uncle for their opinion first. Tell them, my name is Chen Feng, Erdong Chen, Sharp Feng, the owner of Sharp Edge Film and Television Company, the same company that produced and distributed "Green Jade Eucalyptus"
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"What? Your company filmed "Eucalyptus"?"
Still because of the high popularity of "Green Jade Eucalyptus", Cheng Baoyun's eyes widened with an expression of disbelief.
"Of course, you can check the corporate information of Fengmang Film and Television online and you will know everything."
"Okay, then I will treat you as the boss of this film and television company, so what?"
"Haha, not so good. I just want to give you a heads up. There are some things that people do and God sees. If you didn't do something wrong, just say sorry and pay some money and everything will be fine."
"What do you mean? Are you threatening me?" Cheng Baoyun asked angrily.
Chen Feng was very calm and said with a smile: "You can interpret it as a threat."
"What the hell!" Cheng Baoyun became even more angry, "Who are you? You actually threatened me. Chen Feng, right? I remember you, don't let me bump into you, otherwise you will be able to enjoy your good harvest."
"Cheng Baoyun, I still said what I just said. You'd better go to your grandpa and uncle to find out more about me first, and then choose whether to give me good fruit to eat."
"Okay, I'll go ask and see which side you are from?"
After saying that, Cheng Baoyun hung up the phone directly.
When Chen Feng saw this, he was not angry, but smiled. Because he believed that the other party would eventually pay 1 million in compensation, and Jin Xinyan would receive 2 million in settlement money.
This business is really not a loss, and it is very profitable.
Cheng Baoyun on the other side did not immediately go to his grandfather and uncle to ask for information about Chen Feng, because he still wanted to continue reading the business plan book.