It can be seen that what men value most is naturally the appearance and figure of a woman. Confucius said, "food, sex and nature" - as for women's talents and morality, people don't even look at it.
Therefore, talented women should not be self-indulgent and try to keep men's hearts with "chastity, morality and widowhood for life".
That's impossible!
Between a talented woman and a beautiful woman, 100 men, at least 99 of them will choose beauty. Otherwise, we would not have been today, and we will still see those female doctors with ordinary looks on the stage of If You Are the One, embarrassingly awkwardly.
Standing on the stage, no one cares about it.
...
Ban Showa and Ban Jieyu, these two old widows would have done this. Unexpectedly, after thousands of years, they became the example of women in the world called by the rulers - especially in the Ming and Qing Dynasties, widows remarried became a great humiliation, and if men
Dare to marry a widow will not only be ridiculed by outsiders, but even the law may punish you, or ask you to pay extra taxes, or spit on you - whoever dares to marry a widow will become a public enemy.
Even if the widows don’t want to keep “chastity”, they can’t do it anymore—the men make a collective appointment and will not marry you.
During the Ming and Qing dynasties, the chastity archways commended were as high as tens of millions.
...
Of course Fangfei didn't know that there were so many women tragedies later. Moreover, the people in the Northern Dynasties were fierce and open, and men and women were much more equal than those in the Southern Dynasties. Moreover, the Xianbei population was small earlier, and the woman lost her husband and immediately remarried.
, With more people, supplementing people is the king. There is absolutely no reason to ask a widow not to remarry.
She was just very upset about Ban Zhao's first words, Damn, why did this old widow's words turn into a "tiles" as soon as her daughter was born?
Therefore, she has been unhappy with the Southern Dynasty for a long time.
The only thing I am happy about is that during my reign, I attacked these sour scholars many times, but I never failed anyway. Now it is better, my son moved the capital to Luoyang and drove them to the southernmost point.
Mr. Luo is not as profound as hers, but he doesn’t know who Ban Zhao is and doesn’t care.
It’s just a big fanfare that we should hold a grand celebration for our “beautiful jade”.