How to make one person fall in love with another person?
On the other side of the Internet, Gao Ya was sitting in front of the computer in her boudoir, looking at the chat records between herself and Zhou Yuchen on the computer screen, and the above thought flashed through her mind.
Yes!
Since she has fallen in love with Universe Chen (Hu Huhu), she wants him to fall in love with her.
Because only if he falls in love with her, he will be more likely to marry her in the future and let her live the life she wants.
As for whether she likes Universe Chen (Hu Huhu)?
She didn't think much about it.
In her opinion, this issue is not important.
First, she had seen photos of him attending the Qidian annual meeting on the Internet. He looked quite handsome. He must be talented to have written the two popular novels "Holy Ruins" and "Martial Saints of Ten Directions".
Coupled with the popularity of those two novels, no need to ask, everyone knows that his income will not be low.
She thinks being handsome, talented and rich is enough.
Compared with those women in society who work as mistresses for older men than their fathers or even their grandfathers, if she can really win the role of Universe Chen (Hu Huhu), she feels that she will be completely satisfied.
Secondly...
She feels that love is not important. When she watched TV series and novels, she found that many literary and artistic works placed love in a very high position.
For example, a hero paired with a beautiful woman, such as a foolish man paired with a beautiful woman, such as a handsome guy paired with a beautiful woman, such as a scheming man paired with a beautiful woman...etc.
In many literary and artistic works, no matter what kind of protagonist, there will be a love affair that is soul-stirring or extremely sweet.
When Gao Ya first watched these love stories, she thought they were nonsense.
Is love really a necessity?
Must everyone have one?
In war years, military generals protect their homes and countries, and their brains may be beaten out at any time. How can they still think about falling in love?
In times of famine, when everyone is hungry and gnawing on tree bark, do you still think about falling in love?
In the age of mythology, a cultivator who practiced hard and could live as long as heaven would also be interested in falling in love?
Anyway, she always felt that love was promoted too much by literary and artistic works.
She even saw some side effects.
For example: In recent years, the divorce rate has been getting higher and higher. She feels that it must have a lot to do with the brainwashing of those literary and artistic works.
Just think about it: From childhood to adulthood, everyone, whether reading novels, watching movies, or TV series, will see beautiful love plots. This is equivalent to brainwashing everyone from childhood to adulthood. After such brainwashing for a long time, both men and women yearn for a perfect love in their hearts.
, a close lover sets too high a goal for his partner in his heart, but the partner in reality is far from reaching the goal set in everyone's heart.
This will inevitably create a huge psychological gap.
I always feel dissatisfied with my love life.
Under this kind of mentality, those with a slightly impulsive personality will easily have the idea of divorce, thinking that as long as they leave the person in front of them, they will have a chance to find a better one.
But in reality?
How many people get better after divorce?
She couldn't remember where she had read this sentence before. After reading it once, she firmly remembered it and regarded it as her motto.
——A wise man does not fall in love, a fool is trapped by love.
After setting this motto for herself, she would become very calm when she watched the love plots in movies and TV series. Watching the male and female protagonists in the movie and TV series, who were dying or going crazy because of the so-called "love", she became very calm.
The more I feel that not falling in love is a wise choice.
Sometimes, she feels that love is anti-human.
Because people are human not only because they can think and use tools, but also because they have reason.
Reason is probably the most obvious difference between humans and beasts.
Generally speaking, wild animals act based on instinct and animal nature.
Human beings, because of their rationality and ability to think, know how to be patient and seek advantages and avoid disadvantages in the face of many things.
But what about love?
In the definition of love in many movies and TV dramas she came into contact with, love is about listening to one's inner voice, liking another person, and pursuing it at all costs and regardless of one's own safety.
From Gao Ya's point of view, what is the difference between following someone's inner voice and pursuing someone, and acting on instinct and bestiality as a beast?
When a person acts only by instinct and animality, but completely throws aside reason, isn't such a person degenerating in the direction of a beast?
In contrast, she feels that no matter what she does, it is best to choose and do it based on reason.
However, she has always hidden this concept very well.
Haven't told anyone.
In daily life, she is just observing the people around her.
Observe your parents, teachers, relatives, classmates, etc. around you.
She noticed that because her mother liked her father, she lived a very humble life. Not only did she do all the housework, but she also had to go to work to earn money. Even though she heard many rumors about her father spending time outside, drinking and hooking up with other women, she still pretended to be
did not hear it.
And what about dad?
Because she has no feelings for her mother, she lives a very carefree life. She is almost fifty years old, but she still looks like she is forty.
teacher……
She remembered that in high school, her geography teacher was very handsome and very family-oriented. She dressed normally, but his wife dressed beautifully. What happened?
In her senior year of high school, her geography teacher drank so much that he had stomach bleeding and was sent to the hospital in the middle of the night. Then she heard that the geography teacher was cheating on his wife.
There are several similar examples among relatives.
The classmates around me? There are even more examples.
For example, in high school, a top student who originally had good grades fell in love with an outgoing and pretty girl in her class. As a result, the top student's grades continued to decline. In the end, she didn't even get a bachelor's degree in the college entrance examination.
Later she heard that the top student went to a junior college.
Another example is the girls in her dormitory in college. One of them fell in love last semester, and after falling out of love, she slit her wrists... If they hadn't discovered it early and sent her to the hospital in time, she would have died.
Another girl fell in love, and the boy gave her a bouquet of roses, and she agreed.
At that time, Gao Ya thought it was so cheap. The ladies outside sold it for more than a bouquet of flowers, right?
She also heard that the girl and the boy had their first time in an hourly room that cost 20 yuan an hour.
…
Gao Ya has seen a lot of things like this over the years, and she only thinks that many people and many things are ridiculous.
In the name of love, can we sleep for free?
Are you willing to die in the name of love?
In the name of love, can you ignore everything?
If love really requires paying such a high price, she doesn't think it's okay to not want it.
But now, although she still doesn't want love, she frowns and thinks deeply about how to make Zhou Yuchen (Hu Huhu) fall in love with her Gao Ya.
She may not believe in love herself, but she hopes that the other person will believe it and that she will fall deeply in love with her.
She cannot accept that she falls in love with someone else.
But reason told her that love... if used properly, is a very effective tool.
It can help you achieve many goals.
Just like the few spare tires she had in school.
Actually, saying spare tire is not quite accurate.
Because she didn't have a boyfriend, she gave a few boys the illusion that she was interested in them.
Actually?
She just felt that she was a girl living in a strange city and occasionally needed a few people to help her.
It’s good to have a spare tire.
Isn’t there a saying: The more you don’t get something, the more you miss it?
As long as she keeps denying those spare tires, it will be harder for those spare tires to let go of her.
And this is one of the reasons why she thinks love is poisonous.
Sometimes she felt a little unbearable, especially when she saw the two spare tires being so aroused by her that they wanted to die.
but……
She overcame it.
Every time, she used her reason to suppress the unbearable feeling in her heart.
She felt that she should not be soft-hearted.
Anyway, those boys who are obsessed with falling in love will be tortured by other girls even if they are not elegantly tortured by her.
If that's the case, why can't I continue to torture them?
Moreover, if one day they can wake up from me and give up the pursuit of love, they will definitely make progress and live a better life in the future.
Do not believe?
Look at how cool those scumbags out there are living, don’t you believe it?
Time passes quietly.
In front of the computer, Gao Ya raised her hand to hold her forehead, thinking for a long time, and finally thought of a way to make Universe Chen (Hu Huhu) fall in love with her.
Two words flashed through her mind - brainwashing!
This is an experience she gained from observing love for many years.
She believes that if you want one person to fall in love with another person, you must continue to "brainwash" that person in various ways.
For example: appear in front of the other person every day, hang out in front of the other person all day long.
After a long time, your appearance will naturally be deeply engraved in the mind and heart of the other person. Even if the other person doesn't fall in love with you at one, two, three, or even a thousand eyes, what about ten thousand eyes or one hundred thousand eyes?
There will always be a time when he looks at me and suddenly sees the beautiful side of me. As long as his heart is moved for that moment, doesn't he fall in love with me?
Gao Ya feels that this is the basic principle of long-lasting love.
In addition, of course, there is the legendary love at first sight.
But this has very high requirements on the woman’s personal conditions.
First of all, the woman must be very beautiful, so beautiful that most people will be stunned.
Secondly, you also need to be able to dress up and control your temperament.
In this regard, she was deeply impressed by the saintly concubine Xuan in "The Legend of Two Dragons of the Tang Dynasty".
In Gao Ya's view, the so-called saint is a woman trained to be the dream lover in most men's minds.
From appearance, temperament, character, martial arts and other aspects, cultivate her in the direction of the dream lover in the minds of most men.
In this way, when most men see Shi Fei Xuan, their hearts will beat with excitement at the first sight, and they will fall in love with her. However, because she is too perfect, they feel ashamed of themselves, and they only dare to look at her from a distance and dare not blaspheme her.
She feels that love at first sight is also a kind of brainwashing.
However, what is different from the previous type of brainwashing is that love at first sight... is a very precise method of brainwashing.
Directly give men a woman they dream of, who will be unforgettable at first sight and think about day and night. The moment they meet, the appearance of this woman will be deeply engraved in the hearts of these men.
but……
She is elegant and confident in her appearance, figure and body.
But she is not sure that she will become the image of Universe Chen (Hu Huhu)'s dream lover.
She is self-aware and knows that although she is beautiful, she is not so beautiful that people will fall in love with her just by looking at her.
Fortunately, she had just thought of a way to take down Universe Chen (Tiger Tiger Tiger).
The method is very simple - constantly review her face, personality, talent, and all her advantages in front of him.
She believed that as long as she kept showing these advantages in front of him, sooner or later he would fall in love with her one day.
As for how to take advantage of these advantages?
She knew very well that she could not contact him in reality for the time being, and could not appear in front of him in person, so she often did this.
Therefore, she had to use the Internet.
She had already sent him a beautiful selfie.
At this moment, her heart moved and she decided to brush her face and voice for him again.
How to do it?
She smiled and sent a private message to Chen Yuchen on QQ.
--"Are you asleep?"
After a while, Universe Chen: "Not yet"
——"Code?"
After a while, Universe Chen said: "No, too many people have sent me private messages in the past two days. I am replying to them one by one. However, it is almost finished and I will take a rest after finishing it."
——"Well, I just thought about it carefully. The role I asked you to arrange for me, can you help me arrange the identity of a singer? The kind that sings well."
Universe Chen: "???"
Universe Chen: "Your dream is to be a singer?"
——"That's not true. I don't have such unrealistic dreams. I just like singing. I think my singing is pretty good. How about I sing a few lines for you?"
Universe Chen: "Oh? Really, how can you sing to me?"
——"We can make a video together and I'll sing a few lines for you in the video."
On the other side of the Internet, Chen Yu looked at the words sent by the female book lover and became a little interested. As we all know, he has been single for a long time.
This night, a female book fan offered to video chat with him and sing to him in the video. What man wouldn't be tempted by such a good perk?
What's more, with the video, he can also verify whether this female book lover is really as beautiful as in the photos she sent before.
Men are always curious about beautiful women.
So, with only a slight hesitation, Chen Yu replied: "Okay! I'm all ears."
After sending this sentence, he took the initiative to click on the video in the chat box to send a request.
Soon, their video call went through.
In the video, Gao Ya is seen wearing a white loose nightgown.
Because it was late at night, her image looked very homely, with her hair hanging loosely behind her shoulders, and her fair and delicate face, as beautiful as in her previous selfie.
The loose white nightgown could not completely cover up her good figure, and her breasts were not small.
As soon as the video was finished, she glanced at Chen Yu, seemed a little shy and raised her hand to smooth the hair around her ears, and then smiled and said: "Wait a moment, I will find an accompaniment."
Is she still looking for an accompaniment?
Chen Yu was a little surprised, but very patient, because watching her in the video was very eye-catching, and it was enjoyable to watch her for a while.