When Lao Yu was about to vomit blood and die (it was obvious that Lao Yu did not vomit blood, it was just an exaggeration. Although Yu Yin was disobedient, he was not so angry that his father wanted to vomit blood), Yu Yin was wearing a powerful uniform and turned around and pulled her back.
He looked at his father with a smile on his face, and then said with a strange face: "If you are so angry by me, who will care about me when I get married?"
Yu's father immediately recovered. He felt that the only reason for living in the world was this child. Although Yu Yin was disobedient, she was very lively and cheerful every day. She always had a bright smile on her face. It was really good to have a little bit of it.
Whenever Lao Yu was about to die of anger, as long as he saw his daughter's smile, his heart would be much more relaxed, and then he would have a reason to continue to live well.
"I have to look at this child, see that she gets married and has a happy life in the future, and it's not too late for me to leave the world." Lao Yu thought to himself.
Lao Yu has only such a daughter. Maybe he has too high expectations for her, so he is always not satisfied and always feels that she is disobedient. In fact, Yu Yin is really avant-garde. He stopped studying after junior high school.
How could Lao Yu stand it? Later, he didn't study hard when he went to the music school. He hangs out with ordinary yellow-haired ghosts all day long. He didn't even mention his money, but he didn't learn anything.
Lao Yu's wife heard that she was a very beautiful woman, but later she went to follow the richer people. In fact, Lao Yu was still very good at working as a small official in the town, at least she had no worries about food and clothing, and she would go from time to time.
There are also some farmers in the village who send some cigarettes, wine, fish, rice, etc. As for money? Lao Yu is a young official; the other is that he dare not accept it. He cannot be considered a good official, but at least he has not done any harm.
The affairs of the people.
The reason why Lao Yu's wife ran away was that she was not because of money. It seemed that Lao Yu was an accountant every day, sat on the bench every day, and did not move all day long. I heard that she would treat men when she sat like this.
A certain function of the body has caused serious impact. Although Lao Yu is only in his 40s, his hair is almost white and his body is not very good. As for the function of a man, he probably can't do it anymore. Then his beautiful wife always
You can't keep it in your work every day, but later, I ran away with a powerful and rich man Kong Wu.
Lao Yu later thought of a wife, but she either had children or wanted to conceive. Lao Yu couldn't stand these things. He just wanted to take care of each other with a woman and live a quiet life, but it was such a simple requirement.
In fact, it was difficult to do it. In the end, he searched around, but he still couldn't find a suitable one.
When Lao Yu was so angry that he died of his daughter, he thought of his whole life that he felt that the happy thing was to give birth to such a daughter, but the sad thing was a big mess. He even had the idea of becoming a monk, his daughter's
She was too lazy to care about the matter.
At that time, he left the county town and returned to Hucun Town. He heard that there was a temple in Hucun Town, and the incense was extremely popular. Those who went to burn incense and worship Buddha said that it was very effective. Lao Yu was also a half-intellectual.
These ghosts and gods don’t believe much, but recently they feel that life is boring, so they think that they may go over and take a look, and maybe they can gain something.
Lao Yu took a bus for a while, and then arrived at a dirt road in the countryside, where the bus could not be left. When he saw many people walking towards the temple with devout reverent, he thought to himself: Maybe it is really that magical,
Otherwise, how could so many people burn incense and worship Buddha in such a remote place?
Lao Yu walked towards the temple with anticipation. The smell of incense, yellow paper and sulfur in the temple reached his nose from afar. A look of incense in the temple was already reflected in his mind. Everyone worshiped Buddha devoutly.
I will definitely be carefree and have a happy life.
He walked into the temple and found a chubby monk.
"Would the donor have any worries?" Seeing Lao Yu's face full of sorrow, the monk guessed that he must have some knots in his heart, so he immediately asked straight to the point.
"Yes, there are many, it's hard to finish it all at once? I just want to become a monk." Lao Yu was not a mother-in-law. When he saw the monk ask straight to the point, he expressed his intentions very readily.
"You should make your heart clear to us. Being a monk is not a casual matter. Many people became monks with a temporary aura and regretted it later. This is a pure place in Buddhism, so you can't be too chaotic." The monk immediately started to do so.
Kindly comforted Lao Yu.
Lao Yu thought about it, what is the knot in his heart?
No money? No rights? No children? Or are there people in the family dead?... These are obviously not.
Is that money less? Is there little power? Not right? Lao Yu is still a person who is more content with the status quo. Now he has no worries about food and clothing, has a house, a car, and some spare money. From time to time, farmers come to give him some.
Things are good enough.
That is because he has no wife to warm up the bed at night, no children at night, and his daughter is disobedient. He feels that this is the knot in his heart. In fact, the biggest problem is that he has no wife to sleep with him at night, and he is only in his 40s.
Although his functions are a bit poor, he is not completely gone, and it is still unbearable to have no women. As for having no children, he feels that it is acceptable to be able to pass by. He is also a person who has read books and is not so backward in his mind. He prefers boys over girls.
There may be a little bit of thought, but it is not too serious.
In the end, Lao Yu had no courage to tell the monk about his daughter. He had no wife and no son, so he didn't tell the monk about his affairs. After all, when he met for the first time, he couldn't tell anyone everything.
After hearing Lao Yu's words, the monk said, "Everyone in the world knows that beauty is beautiful, and that evil is gone; everyone knows that goodness is good, and that badness is not good. Therefore, existence and non-existence are born, difficulty and ease are formed, length and shortness are in line, and high and low are in line,
The sound and sound are harmonious, and the front and back follow each other. Therefore, the sages do things inaction and do not speak; all things are created without saying anything, born without having, doing without relying on them, and succeed without having to live. Only by not being able to live, this is
Don't go."
Lao Yu didn't quite understand what this sentence meant, but he had read a lot of books when he was young and knew that this was a chapter in the "Tao Te Ching". He thought: How can the monk say Taoist words? Could it be that he
If you want to fool me, is he going to be mysterious?
"Donor, this is a chapter in the Tao Te Ching, but the functions of Buddha and Tao are also to help the world, so it can be said that they are the same. The general meaning of the words is that beauty and ugliness, good and evil are produced at the same time.
Everything is an opposite but interdependent whole. The saints let things develop with an attitude of not acting recklessly or speaking nonsense.”
"So what?" Lao Yu still couldn't understand completely. Does it have anything to do with him not being able to marry a wife? Does it have something to do with him without a son? Does it have something to do with his daughter not studying hard?
"You said your daughter doesn't study hard and doesn't obey, but if she really studies hard, she may not be so happy, or he may jump off the building and commit suicide because of poor academic performance. Although she doesn't
Obedient, but at least she lives a happy life every day. As a parent, doesn't you just want your children to live happily?" Seeing that Lao Yu still didn't understand, the monk made a few metaphors with him very bluntly to make it easier for him
Understand the truth.
Lao Yu finally got enlightened. He nodded at that time, thinking: That's right, if my daughter really wants to be obedient, there must be other troubles; if I really have a son, I might have no daughter; if I really want to find another one
My wife, maybe she will quarrel with her every day, but now she is very free to be alone. She can even find a woman to play with when she is really lonely.
The monk continued, "Now there are many girls who are not only disobedient, but also quarrel with their parents every day, and most of them cry and shout with stern faces. Your daughter laughs and deliberately pisses you off every day.
You can completely treat this as a joke. There are many girls who, after being angry with their parents, went home with a big belly, and finally had to give birth to a child who didn't know whose father was. These things are your daughter
I didn't do it either, isn't it good enough?"
Lao Yu finally realized his enlightenment. At this moment, he felt that he was the happiest person in the world. At that time, he knelt down to thank the monk and then invited the monk to have a meal, drink and chat.
The monk actually agreed to Lao Yu's invitation to eat and drink. Even if he went to the fireworks and willow alley, Lao Yu sometimes brought the monk with him. Finally, since the days in the world were still very happy, the monk was still vulgar.
After all, Lao Yu also found a good job for him. The two of them have been bachelors all their lives and have been good friends for life.
If you want to know what happens next, please listen to the next breakdown.