We are the most powerless over our own feelings. Instead of controlling them, we have to obey them. - Erochis
Happiness is temporary, but sadness is eternal. I can’t remember which master said something similar. It is precisely because happiness is fleeting and hard to stay that our sadness seems so lasting and profound.
The id pursues happiness, the self is rationally restrained, and the superego goes against our character. Perhaps Freud was helpless when he proposed these concepts. Well, even if sociality is the fundamental attribute of human beings, at certain special moments
, even if the superego and the ego are united, they cannot suppress the tendency of the id to break out. There can only be one reason for this: this person is in love.
It is said that people in love are the most blind. That’s because we still have the original impulse to pursue happiness. This impulse instinctively wants to break away from all external constraints. For short-term happiness, we indulge like moths to a flame. Maybe it’s difficult in the end.
Escape from the fate of being suppressed by the superego and the ego, but for this most human and original request, what reason do we have to criticize it harshly?
When Zheng Fang walked in, she found Qin Bei lost in front of the computer. She opened the folder in her hand and gave it to Qin Bei to sign. Zheng Fang hesitated to speak. After Qin Bei signed, he looked at her and asked, "What's the matter?
"Well, Mr. Qin, I am here today all because of your help. I want to treat you to a meal, but I don't know..." A blush appeared on Zheng Fang's face.
"Actually, I haven't done anything. It's the result of your own efforts. If you want to thank me, I think the person you should thank is not me, but your sister." Qin Bei interrupted her. "Oh, of course, I also want to thank you.
She." Zheng Fang echoed, with disappointment in her voice. "In this case, I'll treat you two to dinner when I get the chance. Is there anything else?" Qin Bei said as he raised the folder in his hand and handed it to Zheng Fang.
Fang left knowingly.
Qin Bei looked at Zheng Fang's back and naturally thought of Qin Nan.
The two people have exactly the same face, but their feelings to him are completely different. The first impression Qin Nan gave people was that of a small stream. Only its shallowness makes it clear and pure. You can see to the end at a glance, but once you talk,
You will find that her conversation is very good, not superficial, she looks very weak at first glance, but deep down she has something that she must insist on desperately, and she will not follow the vulgar easily, and even has a little bit of otherworldly taste.
Even at a young age, she had a calmness and calmness that transcended the worldly world. This was what attracted Qin Bei to her the most.
As for Zheng Fang, Qin Bei always feels a little confused about her. She is smart, hard-working, and is undoubtedly an excellent person. She can keep everything organized and people can't find any faults, but she always makes people feel alienated, which is not easy.
Close; she spares no effort to pursue perfection in everything, although there are some things that Qin Bei thinks there is no need to be so serious about. She is always cautious in front of Qin Bei, which makes Qin Bei feel depressed and worried that she will be tired. Qin Bei has
Sometimes I really want to talk to her, but I can't find an entry point, because no matter what, Zheng Fang is perfect in both her work and her life.
Qin Bei used to disagree with Locke's environmental determinism, believing that at least half of a person's personality is determined innately, but since meeting Zheng Fang, this view has been completely overturned.
Two identical people, with the same blood and similar genes, have completely opposite personalities due to different growth environments. This difference in personality actually makes their appearance even different.
The difference is concentrated in the eyes. One can see everything at a glance, while the other is unpredictable. Therefore, even if two people stand in front of Qin Bei with the same dress, Qin Bei can still tell who is who at a glance.
Qin Bei finished handling his official duties and was lost in thought when the phone rang. It was Xiaoqing. Qin Bei frowned and realized that today was Friday. He reluctantly answered the call, thinking about how to escape from the routine weekend date.
"My dear, can you call Nannan? My brother will invite us to dinner tonight and ask her to come by name." Xiaoqing said straight to the point. She was an impatient person.
Qin Bei was thinking about how to reply to the matter Xiaochuan asked Qin Bei before, but he didn't expect Xiao Qing to intervene. "It's better for you to fight. It's the same for you." Qin Bei wanted to let Xiao Qing go by herself.
hit a snag.
"But you are her brother, so you should have face. My brother said that he must call her out." Xiaoqing said.
"You are her sister-in-law. What's the difference between sister-in-law and brother? My dear." Qin Bei knows what Xiaoqing likes to hear. If he says this, he will definitely do whatever he wants her to do.
"I hate it, okay, let me try calling, that's it for now." Xiaoqing smiled and hung up. Within a minute, Xiaoqing's call came in again, and Qin Bei had already thought of his words.
"My dear, if she doesn't come out, you should come." Xiaoqing called Qin Nan, but was rejected as expected by Qin Bei. "Then forget it tonight, I have a lot of things to deal with, how about another day?
, I'll come and invite you another day." After Qin Bei's repeated pushback, Xiaoqing had no choice but to give up angrily.