"I don't understand... what do you mean..." Sikong Lingge retorted without confidence, his voice dry.
In fact, Sikong Lingge had already agreed with the housekeeper's words in his heart, but he couldn't save his face and held on.
The housekeeper smiled and did not poke her further, "Young Madam, let's make a hypothesis."[
"What hypothesis?"
"Suppose you made a friend today and sincerely wanted to communicate with the other person. However, time and time again, you found that the other person was wearing a mask and was never honest. What would you think and do?"
"..." Sikong Lingge pursed her lips and said nothing.
I knew very well that the steward was making assumptions on the surface, but in fact he was implying that he and Shangguan Rui had never really had a heart-to-heart relationship with each other.
He thought about it too.
From the beginning to now, she has never been completely honest with Guan Rui.
All the way here, I either lied or concealed...
"Young mistress is a smart person, you should understand what I mean." The housekeeper left these words and turned around to leave.
Sikong Lingge stood silent at the door.
For a long time, I didn't come back to my senses.
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The Shangguan family's garden is carefully taken care of by servants, and the flowers bloom very well.
Champagne roses, Diana roses, super red roses, pure white roses, and all kinds of flowers are in full bloom.
The air is full of floral fragrance.
Sikong Lingge stood aside, hesitating, unable to remove the scissors in his hand.
The butler's words just now echoed in his mind.
At first, Sikong Lingge was very resistant to the butler's words.
After all, people are weak.
Many times, we simply don’t dare to face our own shortcomings.[
Especially if this shortcoming is pointed out in person, you will have a rebellious mentality.
When people are accused of shortcomings, most people's first reaction is "Why do you accuse me?"
Then, you will first find a lot of excuses and constantly brainwash yourself, telling yourself that others are wrong and you are right.
Once the brainwashing is successful, you will try every means and find various reasons to excuse yourself. Even if the whole world knows that you are wrong, the person involved will never admit that he is wrong...
Only a very small number of people will accept the other party's accusations at the first opportunity and correct them humbly.
Sikong Lingge was not a saint. Like everyone else, she immediately felt that the housekeeper was involved in too many things.
The housekeeper has no position to speak out about himself.
Sikong Lingge even brainwashed himself repeatedly in his mind with "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you", and kept telling himself that if he wasn't honest with Shangguan Rui, he had done nothing wrong at all, and all the faults were Shangguan Rui's.
Who made him so domineering and giving no room for others at all?
It's a human being who, under that kind of pressure, would choose to lie and conceal...
However, after coming from the lobby and blowing in the cold wind, Sikong Lingge's mind suddenly became clearer.
I realized that things were indeed as the butler said, and that I did have to bear a large part of the responsibility for the whole process.
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The relationship between the two is so tense now, how can she resolve it?