That is something that is about to happen, but even if you know the result, you are powerless to reverse it - just like a cancer patient who doesn't even want to take medicine when he reaches the advanced stage.
She leaned back in her chair, feeling infinitely sad.
Because I don’t know how to seize it, how to protect it, how to take it as my own... This doesn’t even require Yi Xiangxi to use any tricks.
That's probably the child's own choice.
…………
"Dad, several classmates in our class are going to study for the Mathematical Olympiad. Should I go or not..."
"Xiaobai, do you want to study?"
"I don't think too much about it."
"Then don't go. I think children in elementary school and junior high school should have fun playing as much as they can. Children's nature is to play freely."
Qiao Xiaomai thought to himself, no way?
Aren’t people trying their best to learn math olympiads, English, painting, piano, etc.?
It's better for Yi Xiangxi, who tells his children to just play every day.
"But, dad, Zhou Tianci has already gone to study, and I'm afraid of falling behind him..."
"Xiaobai, you can't compete with others in everything, you have to see whether your heart really needs it. If a child is suppressed when he is a child, he will have no creativity."
"Zhou Tianci said that his father told him to study and hired the best Mathematical Olympiad teacher for him. Dad, if I don't study, I will fall behind him in the exams in the future. I can't do worse than him, Dad.
, I also want to learn, and I must always be better than him..."
"Xiaobai, dad doesn't ask you to do anything, and don't compare yourself with your classmates. You should act according to your own interests, rather than comparing yourself with others. Wouldn't it be better if you can learn whatever you want and be free?
?”
Xiaobai was very happy: "Actually, Dad, I don't want to learn the Mathematical Olympiad. I prefer to learn the violin."
"Okay, let's start learning the violin tomorrow..."
Many Chinese parents are "disasters" - they like to impose their will on their children - for example, you must listen to me, you must not play, you must study, if your grades are poor and you disobey, my parents will
No face, I gave birth to you and raised you, so I have the right to dictate everything about you - as everyone knows, when you gave birth to a child, did you ask the child if he would be willing to be reborn in your family?
Was its opinion consulted?
No!
Children have no right to decide how they will be reincarnated!
You can only accept the repressive theory of your parents for thousands of years - I let you learn the Mathematical Olympiad, I let you take tutoring every day, and even if you fall in love, you must have my permission - otherwise, you are unfilial!
There are no bad parents in the world!
Only unfilial children!
Qiao Xiaomai had never thought about these issues before.
Also because I am busy.
On the contrary, Yi Xiangxi is trying his best to train himself to be a qualified parent all day long.
She couldn't help but think darkly: Is this trick used to please the child?
To please the children, alienate the children, and fight without mercy...Yi Xiangxi, Yi Xiangxi, he used to use despicability to kill people, now, he kills people with "love"...
However, she was powerless to object. She just leaned on the chair, feeling very, very tired.
Just like an animal that is alert to the appearance of natural enemies anytime and anywhere, all its strength has been used up in waiting and vigilance. When the natural enemies actually appear, there is nothing they can do.