"Wheat, I have something I don't know whether to say or not."
"Between you and me, what else can't be said?"
Zhu Zhu sighed, "Mai, actually I envy Xiaobai. If I had a father who loved me so much, I would be reluctant to leave him no matter what."
"!!!"
"Wheat, you are different from me. You have been extremely favored by your father since you were a child, so you think it is normal for Yi Xiangxi to love Xiaobai, right?"
Qiao Xiaomai raised his eyebrows.
"But if you knew the situation in my family, you wouldn't say that. My family is in the countryside of northern Jiangsu, a place that favors boys over girls. I was lucky enough to go to college and find a good job, but, you know
How did I get here all these years? When I was a sophomore in college, my father only gave me five hundred yuan and left it alone, so I worked on my own to earn tuition and living expenses..."
"I always thought you were capable and diligent..."
Zhu Zhu laughed at himself: "Being capable is forced! If you can be lazy, who would be willing to be capable?"
"..."
"In the first five years when I started working, I took almost all the extra money I earned home. First I paid for my younger brother to study, then I married my older brother, and I also built a small bungalow for my family. Maybe it was because of the large amount of money given to me that my parents were living in my hometown.
She is very face-saving. She often talks about how wonderful my daughter is in front of the neighbors. After hearing this many times, I
I am also very happy, feeling that my hard work over the years has not been in vain. However, last year, our hometown was relocated and we lost six houses. I thought, even if my elder brother and younger brother each have two houses, and my parents live in one house, I should always live in one house.
There is a set of rules, right? But my parents said that according to the rules in my hometown, all the family property belongs to the elder brother and younger brother.
, I have nothing to do with it. My father has already made a will. From now on, each brother and younger brother will have three houses. Of course, I don’t have to have that house. The problem is that every time they fulfill their obligations, they think of me, but enjoy
rights, but never my share. Two months ago, my father moved again
I had a minor operation, and spent more than 23,000 on medical expenses, nutrition, hiring a nurse, etc. I thought to myself, my brother and brother got the house, it’s their turn to contribute this time, right? But, my mother called me every day, and she was always on the phone.
If you want me to pay 20,000 yuan, you won’t bother me if you tell me the last part of 3,000 yuan. My brother and brother will share it equally..."
Qiao Xiaomai was stunned: "Then do you have 20,000 yuan?"
"I have to pay! My mother said that if I don't pay, she will sever ties with me. My mother also said that since I'm not married yet, all the money I earn should belong to my parents' family according to custom."
Qiao Xiaomai stared at this female lawyer who was already well-known in the circle with wide eyes. After a long while, she slowly let out a breath: "You are still unmarried, do they never think about it for you?"
"In their eyes, I am a superwoman and a tool for making money. Who will think about me? They think that I am extremely powerful and omnipotent. All they have to do is ask for it from me. As for whether I am happy or not, and whether I have a future.
, these are all out of their scope of consideration
Within the circle. Every time I go home, the most talked about thing they say is how much dowry the man gave to so-and-so’s daughter when she got married, how much money so-and-so’s daughter gave to her parents’ family... As for my house, car, etc.,
They think they can just ask the man for it in the future..."
“!!!!”
"How sad, isn't it? The new marriage law stipulates that the man's pre-marital property will always belong to the man, and the woman's father and brother are not willing to give the woman any gifts. Therefore, the woman has nothing in her mother's family and nothing in her husband's family!!"