"Master Yi, please listen to me first..." She interrupted him, raised her hand, and her tone was still very gentle. He stopped silently, not knowing how to continue, and just listened to her carefully.
"I have thought about it carefully these days. It is definitely better for Xiaobai to follow me than to follow you. By your side, she can get the best education, the best life, and the best growing conditions. When she grows up, she will be completely
It would be much better to be able to truly live the life she wants without restraint, whether it is development, career, or family... In the past, I thought I had enough ability to raise her, but now it seems that it is better to let her grow up after all.
She stays with you..."
She ignored the anxiety in his eyes and smiled faintly: "Maybe I overestimated myself. To be honest, I used to work hard, work overtime, and take care of the children... In order to prevent myself from falling, I always thought
I am very strong and capable, and can handle anything. In fact, this kind of life is really exhausting, and there is almost no free time for me..."
Would you rather marry a thirty-year-old woman with children, or a twenty-three-year-old divorced woman with no children?
Because I have a child, I don’t have much choice in the workplace or marriage.
In other words, would you rather have a child grow up alone and without support next to a divorced woman, or would you rather grow up like a princess in a good family?
"If Xiaobai doesn't want to follow you, then I have nothing to say, but after these days, she already likes you very much and is familiar with life with you. Leaving me will not be a big problem. Moreover, as she goes by day by day
When she grows up, her parents’ requirements are not that high. Plus Aunt Li, Sister Zhang and others take care of her. I believe she will be able to grow up healthily..."
He opened his mouth several times, but she raised her hand to stop him several times.
"I used to compete for Xiaobai, but actually I just wanted to fight for a while, for fear that you would snatch her away. When I think about it carefully, I am actually so selfish!!! I don't have time to pick her up and drop her off every day, she suffered a lot in school
I can't say anything about bullying. The life she wants cannot be satisfied by my conditions..."
She laughed at herself: "What can I bring to her? Because her surname is Qiao and she is the only flesh and blood of our Qiao family? Because she is the only relative around me? Because she is the only motivation for my survival these years... Could it be that because of this,
Do I have to stand in the way of her better life?”
Following himself, Xiaobai will be nothing more than a child from a small bourgeois family throughout his life. Maybe he will never know what luxury goods are or what famous brands are...
Maybe in the future, in order to have a wedding home, she will be burdened with heavy mortgage pressure, house loan, car loan, children...all the burdens that adults have now and again will also weigh on her.
Of course, these are not important! What is important is the fate of a woman - if there is a slight disaster or a slight storm, you will have no support. This is why many young and beautiful women have embarked on a dead end and fallen into prostitution.
, there will never be a day of recovery.
The most important thing is that in this age of fighting for your father, you and others obviously started at the same place, but once you get out of society, you lag behind others in everything.